Uncle of 2 here. Trying to redpill my niece effectively. This instance I'm looking at guns.
Background:
>Spawn of dumb single mom. 0 father involvement >Essentially raised them since we were all kids. Trial and error. >Been in and out of their adolescent lives due to work. I hang out and watch animu with the older one >Walk in older ones room one day and see "March for our lives" shit on her wall >Say "that's cute" and she gives me stink eye. >Meet her friends, hand picked from tumbler and leddit. >Comes to my house and finds mags on my bedside. Visible disgust. >Younger niece wants to go shooting, older one won't even consider it
17 y/o, low logic high emotion and has become bitchy. I can't just tell her she's an idiot and why or else they shut down. We have an 8 year age gap so I'm in this weird quasi authority-friend role which I know isn't ideal. Any fathers or big brothers with some perspective? How the fuck do people have daughters?
I moved to the US from Romania to get a decent job and support my family when they come here legally, so far my niece and her whore mother have begged me to let them come. Whenever I see their mother, my sister, I always want to kick her in the shin and raise her daughter on my own. She was lucky enough to get fucked by a really smart Romanian for her first time and ended up pregnant with her now daughter. I told her not to get an abortion and she followed through, now she sleeps around with disgusting while they constantly try and get my niece to fuck them too. What I am trying to do now is to get her to transfer custody to me so me and my current girlfriend can raise her here in America. So far it's going well, she's 8 and is a very bright girl. I'm not trying to redpill her yet as that's way too early, currently just telling her about Archangel Michael and how fun shooting is. So far she took a liking to both from what I can see. All I have to say about your own niece is that the first one is fucked, don't even try to fix her. Work with the younger one and raise her to be a decent woman. Hope this helps a lot. I plan on moving back home once those dirty PSD and PNL commies fuck off and die. Which will probably be never, but oh well.
Isaiah Anderson
Take the younger one shooting, then. Have a great time, good food afterward, maybe even hunting eventually. Pretty much just be chill and a father figure to her. The older one can join in anytime. Wait for her to have her heart broken or something and then act as a father to her too, but now she's trying to be rebellious.
t. Someone who knows nothing about parenting.
Jason Johnson
Your sis sounds like a piece of work, man. Sorry that she was with her mom as long as she was. And yeah I'm half on the back off for now approach. I DID manage to talk her out of taking loans to go to school in places like LA where the assimilation would be all but complete.
GL with your girl going forward though.
>knows nothing about parenting
Another perspective is still good though. My only qualm with waiting was taking the chance that it becomes irreversible. All she cares about are her friends which means that's her source of identity and info at this point. Like I said to the other dude, some of it gets through it's like threading a needle though. But yeah this is likely the contrarian.exe autorun that kids have with guardians.
Carson Jones
Just be honest with yourself and with them. Secretly, you know that you want to fuck the living shit out of them, so cut the fascist-means-I’m-special bullshit because everyone knows that is garbage. Just sleep over and let your small inferior weener hang out, that should do it.
Isaiah Bennett
Go somewhere else Jew
Dominic Foster
You're a godsend, user. I wish you the best of luck with your family.
Jackson Foster
Yea, thanks man. One more thing, try and do some girly things with her. Sure what I said sounds gay, but trust me, it's not. Baking and cooking food with her is a great way to form a bond. As well as playing house or anything else for that matter. I'm not sure how it is with American children as my niece was raised around next to no technology as it is, not by choice of course. Perhaps if she enjoys playing on a phone or tablet, you can get her to play on the computer. I honestly can't help much if she likes technology as I find more old fashioned ways to interact with people to be a lot more comfy. Sorry if it sounds like I'm rambling on. Just want the best for kids. They don't deserve half the shit they go through.
Noah Martinez
definitely take the younger one shooting, but keep it to a .22 and do everything for her but pull the trigger. Make sure she has a positive experience. As for the 17 y/o I don't know what to tell you. Try to watch some redpilled anime with her maybe. Banana Fish is fujobait that also covers the US protecting heroin crops in Afghanistan, and pedophile rings blackmailing US politicians. The important thing is staying in her comfort zone while tugging on her overton window. Any attitude towards guns would probably have to be through osmosis with her younger sister enjoying it though.
Gavin Carter
Sit her ass down and teach her. Dont let her walk away. Explain to her gun safety and how they're paper weights when empty. Invite her to go to an outdoor range. Have her look up CDC statistics on gun violence in the US. If she doesn't want to learn then she doesn't want to learn
Jacob Mitchell
Ty Norwegian bro. I'm just a bastard who's never had anyone try to look out for me and wants to help these bastards stop the cycle even if on a micro scale.
Gotcha man. I took her to a concert and convention last year and we all try to cook everytime I come by. So at the very least there are some larger bonding events.
Yeah, I just bought a .22 for her to start out on now but assured me she doesn't care of the caliber which I find refreshing. And I'll definitely give that show a try, she's all into Yuri on Ice and dating sim type shit anyway so that could be a great segue.
Yeah, getting her to go is the first problem but I can at least give her the 4 rules and drop some breadcrumbs to start.
For kids in that stage it's also about what their dumb friends think and say too. Once she ends up liking it her banshees are gonna move in. Obviously can't control that but I've told her not to be some hivemind drone. I blame myself partly for not being around enough for her to assimilate my ideals instead.
Mason Sullivan
With the shit-show happening at home, I think you won't need to ask twice for me to stay, besides, I rather enjoy my job and 100k a year, so not gonna give that up. Besides, Alternativa Dreaptă looks like it won't be much, but if it does do well I will be rather pleased.
Kayden Brooks
Hm. Got two nephews myself. They're not that old but they really do love their uncles and aunts whether or not they're conscious of it or not. Try not to be preachy when possible. Lead by example.
Eventually, convincing the older one to at least try shooting would be great headway.
I noticed anime like Mob Psycho, Gunbuster, Eva all emphasize being self-sufficient, being good to people, and that self-defense is okay. But don't show her shit like Angel Cop where it straight up schools the viewer on the JQ (I'm serious).
If it comes to that I'll bring up the race correlation but we live in a blue state, redish county so I think that could hurt me if I don't drop that the right way but it's not off table.
has a good idea with CDC statistics I was going to cite the amount of lives saved and ask what she actually knows about laws so far, go through my collection and practice rules.
Luke Young
>17 y/o, low logic high emotion and has become bitchy. I can't just tell her she's an idiot and why or else they shut down. Challenge her worldview. Her brain's been indoctrinated and warped to a state where a rational logical approach won't reach her. Start by planting doubt, an obscure fact that most gun grabbers are taught to ignore or shout down with emotional nonsense because it upends their entire argument: Cops are NOT obligated to protect you when your life is in danger.
So if no one out there is obligated to protect you, then who's left? Yourself. So how are you gonna protect yourself? Against an assailant with a weapon? Dress it up as a creative exercise (leftist love to show off how "creative" they can be) where SHE tries to convince an old conservative ideological dinosaur like yourself on the error of your ways.
Also >Comes to my house and finds mags on my bedside. Visible disgust. Don't do this. You got kids running around your house, don't keep guns or live rounds lying around unsecured.
Oliver Ross
Haha no shit? I've always seen angel cop floating around but I got ya. The preachy thing might be some of my shortcoming. We don't go out and about as much as I'd like so I fall into the trap of "tell not show" but noted.
She's started mob and apparently has seen 2 eps of Banana Fish so we are talking about that now.
Christian Mitchell
show her the diversity picture
man It's hard to find what leads one to the route we have taken
is it love for oneself ? with a love for others ? with an understanding of ethnic cohesion ?
Don't make her feel ignorant or like a retard though. That's crucial. She'll become even more entrenched in her ideas if you do. Watch this video. I know it features that insufferable woman and Juden Peterstein, but the argument tactics in it are indefensible for talking to someone who believes differently in this era. It boils down to keeping your calm, addressing loaded questions and making the person you're talking to realize you already agree on some principle.
I like the "change my mind" approach. When I got her away from the "LA or bust" idea I had her outline her plan for when she gets there and it spoke for itself.
>Don't make her feel ignorant. Yeah I learned the hard way when she started to cry after some lukewarm questioning.
I no shit thought back to the time my dad saw me grab my sisters barbie and told me in so many words to drop it. Literally a whole different approach. Good point nonetheless.
Girls are pretty comfortable with carrying pepper spray, and a liberal girl I know carries a knife too when walking around the city at night. I suppose the older one will eventually want pepper spray, and instructing her on how to draw it fast or something could be a huge place to start.
