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FAQ: >What do girls/guys think about ? >Do like ? There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of . Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, bit by bit, step by step. There is no "magic moment" (or activity) that will instantly change you.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. "Signs" of attraction are meaningless.
>Where do I meet people for ? Anywhere outside. Or online. Above all, leave your comfort zone.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me. We're not in their head, we don't know.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I have a chance? No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, froyo, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, gallery, park, .
>I'm insecure because of my penis >Do women prefer penises of certain qualities? >How do I my penis? > Fuck off
>Why can't just give a straightforward rejection?! >Why are terrible? . . Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread? Make one yourself! Try these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2
>dont really enjoy interacting with girls in person >enjoy their bodies so it's mental illness for me?
Brayden Cruz
Theres a 9/10 asian qt in my upper div. lecture(100 people class); however, there isn't a lot of talking during class at all. It's halfway through the semester.. My goal is to take her out on a date and go from there. How should I go about achieving this goal without coming off as a creep or autistic?
Try to sit behind her next class and during break or after ask her for the notes of the previous class. Say you couldn't go and noticed she has nice and legible handwriting that's why you're asking her for it. Then just go from there like asking whether she wants to get lunch with your group etc.
Jeremiah Taylor
Is Tinder a good way of gauging how attractive I am? Like, say I just put up a few good pictures of myself, some kind of benign bio, and just swipe right on every girl that's not fat? I don't actually want to talk to anybody on that app so I don't care who I match with.
Brody Rodriguez
>Is Tinder a good way of gauging how attractive I am? Just post on soc
Carson Smith
no, because only top tier chads get initiated on. it will kill your self esteem even if you're above average. just go into the real world to get an ego boost.
Jace Foster
Guys, can I borrow your significant other for a night each?
Evan Powell
I think a girl likes me, as she wants to hang out however, whenever she asks me she always says "ok when and where" Am I being autistic for being slightly annoyed by this? If you make plans with people, you should have plans rather than then put that on the other person. How do I say this to her without coming off like a douche?
Jeremiah Brown
>autistically angry over a girl showing submissive traits
Liam Diaz
That's not what that pic is for, reddit
Leo Miller
Women should grow balls
Joseph Anderson
Is dick size a deal breaker for girls? How small is too small?
Robert Jones
I'm about to go to on a 2nd date with someone i recently asked out. 1st date ended good and resulted in getting her phone number and text mostly once a day.
How do i know if we're exclusive like bf/gf? Is it as easy as asking? I just want to hold her hand...
honestly you should assume that you’re not exclusive and she’s seeing other guys unless you have a talk about it and decide to go steady.
Dylan Mitchell
does the right one even exist?
Jacob Lewis
Oh, honey, my girlfriend would fucking fight you before she let you so much as side-hug. She hates people as it is, never to mind guys who can't stand up and take their own life by the reins.
Michael Jones
not him but how tf do people manage to juggle multiple partners at once in the dating game. I never date more than one person at a time. Ever. Shits too stressful and I don't like feeling disingenuous with my date, even if it's very early.
personally i’m fine with anything between 4” and 8”. i mean half an inch less wouldn’t really matter i guess but once you’re smaller than 3” i feel like that’s getting into micropeen territory.
Charles Price
How often do you girls flake on first dates? Like for me, a last minute “oh I forgot I need to babysit” or ghosting isn’t unusual, it’s like I have to walk on eggshells to get something going
Jacob Cooper
I mean I was just told by my gf that on our second "date" I guess she was literally on a date that night 30 minutes before. When I asked her to hang out she asked her date and friend to leave. Feels weird man
Thomas Wilson
Post a pic of yourself
Nolan Reyes
Yeah if your dick is under 3.5-4'' you should really just become a sissy.
Jordan Kelly
>does the right one even exist? no, only who ones with you're more or less comfortable. the one is just disney fairytale.
Zachary Robinson
Mine is exactly 4 inches erect. Is that ok?
Charles Hill
For girls a date could just be a free dinner, guys don’t have that luxury
John Jenkins
Why does the girl I'm currently seeing insist on paying for everything? I dont just mean her own stuff, she always insists on paying for my stuff too.
Tyler Morris
It's social etiquette, I wouldn't ask someone to hang out and then make them plan it for us.
Austin Lewis
i guess ill just stop searching i find no enjoyment in casual sex, feels bad man
Easton Phillips
No. Everyone is an asshole. You cant get along with anyone 100% let alone love them
David Martin
Must want to fuck your ass
Jeremiah Rodriguez
If a girl says you would be a good husband does that means she thinks you are a beta male?
Samuel Martin
Anything under 4" is too small, ideal size would be 6". Big enough to feel full, but not so big that it actually starts being painful.
Logan Edwards
have you ever loved anybody?
Luis Gonzalez
I’m skinny 5’10 and have an average face, pretty plain
Are man boobs a huge turn off to girls? I'm not fat but I have gyno the genetic kind. I'm 5'10 and 160 pounds.
Luis Gonzalez
Not really poor. In fact I come from a reasonably well off family and she comes from a poor family with divorced parents.
Thomas Sanders
didn't buy her shit. We just sat in a bar and chatted. I've only bought her a drink so far, which she insisted she pay for and I refused. (and I had groceries that I used for breakfast once)
from my experience people like her like to give because they were never able to. Ask her why, say you appreciate the offer but insist she show that affection in some other way. If you feel comfortable with that idea. She might be overcompensating knowing that you have more money than her. It's always a touchy thing, even in long term relationships.
I just forced a sperging girl to shake my hand, while talking to her friend(male friend of mine). problem is my hand was cold as ice, thoughts? do people notice/hate when they shake a cold hand?
Kevin Reyes
Because your a man. Go be a trap if you dont want to lead.
Ryan Jones
I find it embarrassing when we are in a restaurant and she insists on paying. I'm the man I'm supposed to pay.
Jason Ramirez
Females: I'm a khv. I've always had terrible difficulty deciding when it is ok to pursue a relationship with someone I'm *physically* attracted to. Is it ok from your point of view to have sex with someone who may not be fully into you? When do you decide you want to bein a relationship with someone? Is it before you have sex or after? Do you feel used or betrayed when someone tells you they want to have a non-strings-attached kind of arrangement during a date? What if it's during the second or third date? Mind you, I've never had sex. You will have to be quite clear and frank with me.
Daniel Parker
you can still enjoy having gf
Chase Peterson
Girls are really stupid and boring anyway. Most guys just pretend to be interested in what they say just so they could fuck them later. Only for Chads. Other guys will always have to compete against each other to keep some average bitch, especially these days, where women get offered dick from around the world and get offered 20k to let arabs shit on them. I think most guys would be very happy to have a loyal woman for the rest of their life and not deal with the constant struggle of getting a gf and then worry about keeping her, but women obviously don't want to be with one man since they are always looking to upgrade.
Asher Taylor
>in the past no >current day yeah
Luke King
So I should ditch her so?
Matthew Smith
>Most guys just pretend to be interested in what they say just so they could fuck them later. I cant even pretend. Dancing around just to get dick wet is such a boring thing.
Angel Walker
yes user, as long as i otherwise liked you then 4” would get the job done.
Hunter Howard
i don't want something that i know will end i don't think chads are safe man i cucked a chad without even knowing it i am ashamed of it but i didn't know she had a bf
Aiden Lewis
even when you date type A women, you are going to be making the fucking plans. It's gendered. when you fuck with it you end up feeling like this guy. Btw, if you insist that she doesn't pay and she doesn't respect that, you have an issue. If she backs off then she's just trying to be generous. Don't let it get to you man.
I guess you're right. It definitely is a weird world these days. Even the NBA star Scottie Pippen got cucked by a mumble rapper(Future), kek.
Dylan Perez
I (male) was hanging out in a party with friends and there was a girl that I had already met before. We (me, her and one mutual friend) talked and she mentioned that she didn't remember me, I teased her about her being drunk and she was having a nice time. After dancing in the room upstairs for 20 minutes she came back and started giving me a sort of backrub and then tried to make me fall from the chair three times, jokengly. One time she stared a bit into my lips and in the end she said that we live close from each other and that we should hang out. I'm really paranoid and can't think that someone like her can be attracted to me so please confirm that she probably found me fun and just want to hang out to be friends.
Cooper Turner
if chad can get cucked, whats the damn point then i feel like old cat ladies are the smartest people
Hudson Green
How would a guy react if I said I wanted to hit him and slap him in the bedroom?
Lucas Price
Usually I want to pursue a relationship first, sex after (but that's just me of course). >Do you feel used or betrayed when someone tells you they want to have a non-strings-attached kind of arrangement during a date? What if it's during the second or third date? Not if it's on the first date. Any later than that and I would feel a bit led on tbf, depending on how obvious the guy made it.
Oliver Torres
i wouldn't mind at all depends if the guy is a pussy or not
Samuel Ramirez
What if I wanted to hit your dick and balls?
James Carter
Why is 8" always the cutoff? Feelsbadman.
Kevin Taylor
dick depends balls never
Nolan Roberts
I would think you're weird as hell.
Carter Kelly
guys and girls i suffered from ED for like 1 month already it has put a strain in my relationship with my gf to the point that we almost broke up last wednesday because she wants to fuck and when i get hard she feels that im more concerned about putting my dick inside her than making love.
i know its a stress thing because i have no job and i have deppression and i know that i have to relax but when we make out outside her room i get hard really fast but as soon as we are in a place where we could fuck i can only think about my dick not being hard enough to fuck or having to do it quick before i lose the boner and i cannot initiate sex with her, it was spontaneus before and i dont know how to regain the confidence that i had.
do you have any tips?
Brandon Gray
Is it a huge turn off if the girl pays? The guy I’m dating is extremely poor so I’ve been paying every time we go out to eat because otherwise he will just sit there and get an appetizer or the cheapest thing on the menu. I feel like shit sitting there with my big plate of food while he has a little cup of soup or whatever. So now I insist he just gets what he wants and I pay for both of us. He accepts and always says thank you and seems grateful but also seems to feel sort of guilty or bad about it at the same time.
Nolan Ramirez
Damn the boomers must've had an easy dating system. When people acknowledged men and women weren't equal and you could hold the door for a girl without being called a beta nice guy >not that anyone's every said that to me
Noah Fisher
i have a small vagina and bigger than that starts getting painful and uncomfortable. but there are plenty of girls out there who think “the bigger the better” so don’t feel too discouraged just bc of what i say user. i’m only one girl.
Benjamin Sanders
I would feel bad about myself, but it wouldn't make me think badly of you.
Henry Wright
Relationships will never work if the girl has more money
Bentley Smith
apparently people get flustered (at least ITT) but I wouldn't mind it from a gender-perspective. I would just be worried if I was being a burden.
Carter Murphy
not a boomer, but I don't live in California or new york. Women still have traditional expectations here, even those who are more modern.
perfect scam when i want to get off but dont want guys to look at my body too closely desu.
Logan Price
i would be scared if you recorded me actually
Isaiah Cooper
I fucked up, I think. I don’t really know. I tried out that fancy thing called “Placing Boundaries” and told a woman I was getting to know that I did not want to just be friends and wanted to go out with her. She tried to put me on the back-burner and I didn’t really have comeback other than telling her to give me a call if it doesn’t work out.
I don’t text her or anything but we have had lunch together twice in our college’s caf and dating hasn’t come up and now I don’t quite feel the butterflies in my stomach like I did before about her?
I think my feelings changed and now I’m kinda at a loss and I don’t even know how she might feel about me. Help?
Lincoln Ramirez
I live in the South, my parents are from GA/AL so I was raised to say mam, sir, hold the door, never ask a woman's age or a mans income, etc but its becoming increasingly less common for men to act like this. Girls still like men who are traditional in that sense, so it just means less competition for us.
Noah Rodriguez
If I fuck this gorgeous trap prostitute, will I crave cock for the rest of my life? I'd want this to be a "once in a lifetime" thing (if I do it).
Juan Foster
Just stop going out with her? Tell her you aren't feeling it.
Daniel Wright
I'd be weirded out, but I'd probably go through with it in the end.
Jaxson Ortiz
This. Butt stuff is a hard no.
Benjamin Wilson
I wouldn’t call it going out, we just had lunch and the first time, I felt a bit of tension but the second time it was just kinda... bleh. Idk how to explain the feeling.
Ryan Sanchez
How long do girls expect sex to last?
Brody Robinson
Sex or penetration?
Dylan Hall
AAAAAA guys girls I have a question Im a dude and I often glance at qts, sometimes they look back but because I have a resting bitch face Im sure they dont understand why Im looking. Id love to smile but isn't that creepy af? I always feel this urge to freeze and not smile idk. Would like any advice thanks.
Isaiah Scott
After you stick your dick in her how long does she expect until you cum
Chase Kelly
Just smile, and if appropriate, laugh. Dont look down when she catches you, stare back.
Tyler Jenkins
Most girls prefer 10-15 minutes of penetration.
Thomas Turner
According to my statistics, I'll never have a gf. Girls, prove me wrong.
Michael Wright
>stare back What if she keeps staring
Sebastian Lewis
Why would a guy sleep in the same bed as me and feel up my boobs and my pussy but not try to have sex with me?
Daniel King
You don't stop. Keep smiling, add a wink perhaps. If you smirk and have the right body language it's not weird. Sometimes I stare for 15 or 30sec before she starts giggling.
Jordan Bell
If a guy felt you up without your consent would it be as bad as if he tried to rape you?
Aiden Wood
Probably because he realized he was heading straight for #MeToo
