I’ve got a bit of an issue, all of my previous gfs broke up with me out of the blue...

What makes them lose the spark? My first gf said that quite a bit at the end of ours.

What do you mean "Like what?"

Also, these were 3 years apart.

I ask if there are warning signs to look out for, he says “usually”.

I have a similar problem except I’m a super reserved but confident guy and that turns girls on. It’s like there’s some mystery about me that makes me so hot, or so I have quote unquote literally been told. They think it’s because I’ve got some dark past that made me this broody figure they see but immediately lose interest when they figure out it’s just my personality and I’m not very good at opening up to others and having a personality. Does this sound like you where you have no problems picking up girls but trouble keeping them?

It's natural to lose the spark, it always happens. It's just some lose it earlier than others. I lost mine 2 months when I dated my ex because I was anxious and stressed. If they date just for the spark, then it's not worth it. Was your last ex barely out of a relationship?

I have problems with both, I’m an eccentric guy, not autistic, but a little on the odd side. I’m at least a 7/10, I have a deep voice, I’m 5’10, a bit scrawny, and pretty damn intelligent if I do say so myself. I feel like my problems are more based on my taste in females, and which ones I’m choosing. Of course, I’m just trying to look for a girl that won’t treat me like a cheap coffee to get her started in the morning. I don’t want someone for the spark, and I want to find someone similar. I’m just looking for common attributes to this hypothetical woman.

You asked if expressing emotion makes them lose interest and I said usually. Nothing is ever 100%, so I don't see what more you could want.

My first ex was a cum dumpster, and left her old bf for me, I was stupid on that one. But this other girl? Never in a relationship, yet a similar thing happened.

Oh, I’m retarded.

Don't ever ever act needy. #1 turn off for women

I've been told I'm mysterious too. I'm also in shape, tall, and confident. I can't speak for holding relationships, but there is something attractive to women about it and trying to "crack" you.

The first one probably believes the spark is love, so that's why she left her old bf. She thought you were better and were going to fix her unmeet needs, which always dooms a relationship. The last girl was probably anxious of getting into a serious relationship because she was never in one, I felt that with my ex.

Well, I’m a fucking retard for not saying this sooner, but my previous gf said didn’t like herself, let alone me when she broke up with me. So, I don’t know.

She's most likely insecure. One major thing to know for all of your relationships is to know what attachement style you have and your partner. Knowing that, majority things of the relationship will make sense.

I think she was just unstable, but I didn’t really notice anything that would indicate it.

Then you dodged a bullet. Just improve yourself and try to find a stable girl next time.