>gf complained for months and made me cut off all my female friends cause she thought i was “emotionally cheating”
>yesterday found out she cheated on me with a guy from her class
>she burst into treats and told me shed kill herself if i break up with her
what the fuck, am i the biggest cuck ever here? what do i do?
i dont see why you should continue being her bf if shes gonna do that stuff and then threaten you
Break up with her and continue talking to your female friends.
You're not a cuck. Stop using words if you don't know what they mean. Break up with her. She's not going to kill herself.
If she does, it's not your fault anyways.
Because OP is afraid she might go through with her threat.
what if she actually kills herself tho?
shes using you as an emotional crutch man, you do all the emotional labour while she fucks other dudes, have some self respect and dump that cunt
not your problem amigo, that's on her, not you. she made that choice not you
idk i dont want to be responsible for that. even if it’s not my fault it would ruin my life to have the girl i love most die because of my actions, i would never recover
she has self harmed before so i am inclined to take her seriously.
My man, she does not respect you. It just seems so fucked up to me that you'd still think like that after she went and fucked another dude
ive been in love with her since i was 17, i cant just turn off the switch. it fucking hurts. i was there for her through everything, i did what she asked me, i would have dropped everything to be with this girl forever
what i don’t understand is how she could make such a big deal and be so against cheating of any kind for as long as I’ve known her and then cheat herself. i feel sick
yeah, this.
she's another BPD bitch, we've been seeing a lot of their damage around here lately.
Then you need to talk to her so you do come to an understanding. You also probably need some time to think about your life and if youre really in love with her or just her image, since clearly shes not the person you thought she was
Oh fuck off. She'll pop four tylenol, puke, experience symptoms not unlike a hangover, be unable to comfortably eat for a day and then realize she hasn't got the fucking copper cojones to kill a fucking plant or an animal, much less herself, living and breathing and feeling it all.
Just fuck off and tell her emotional blackmail is what fucking villains do
Break up with her idiot. Every word of this story is a crimson flag.
Ive been in your shoes. You can try and stay and work it out if you put your foot down like a man. But girls like that end up using you and the next guy, until they're forced to settle.
Break up with her but record the whole conversation. In fact, try to have a record of every interaction from now on. You’re more likely to get hit with a false rape allegation than she kills herself.
She manipulating you, does she have a best girlfriend? Try to get ahold of her and tell her what’s up with her friend, break up with your gf and send her to her friend to take care of her and let her sort her emotions out. Or even contact her family. Do not let her hold you hostage like this though
>what do i do?
Break up with it and hope the garbage kills itself.
Call her bluff
Just do it. She's too fucking pussy to kill herself. I bet as soon as you break up with her, she's probs gonna run back to the guy she slept with. She isn't worth your time and a relationship built on no trust isn't worth it.
Yeah leave bro. She won’t kill herself. And if she does...... so?
Text her you two are done. Fuck that hoe.
People who are afraid of their partners cheating are themselves cheaters.
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This. If you try to be “honorable” and do it in person, you won’t be able to.
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Time to get her admitted to a psych ward for genuine fear for her life.
Also break up with her.
>Break up with her but record the whole conversation. In fact, try to have a record of every interaction from now on. You’re more likely to get hit with a false rape allegation than she kills herself.
This. She crazy; protect yourself.
yep, been there, she didn't die, didn't come close and the histrionics comical, then she got mad and tried to kill me
>letting a woman control you
>with stupid made up terms of all things
Bruh....
You aren't going anywhere, just like 9 of ten guys in the same situation you'll latch onto any excuse to let this slide.
What all you guys that stay, whatever the reason, don't consider is the tears and begging are not because she cares about you but because she was caught and the first reaction is to avoid the consequences immediately. All she is doing is playing for time, a little rope-a-dope to get out of a corner and when you back off she'll sucker punch you again.
I would go to the police and file a report saying that and say she is crazy and are going to leave her.
Never know if she will claim rape these days