My Ex's roommate texted me randomly, out of the blue, asking about hows life and shit.
I replied with one word answers, and then she dropped that my ex was seeing a new dude and that they have loud sex.
I don't know how to feel lads, my emotions are going up and down, switching from "idgaf" to really sad to angry and disbelief.
I need some advice, some help, on how to deal with this, and with my emotions.
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Your ex's roommate is a toolbag. Why tell someone that?
Fuck her roommate, if that's an option.
Three possible reasons she'd tell you that. She never liked you and wants to make you miserable, your ex told her to tell you, or she wants to fuck you. My guess would be one of the last two.
I'd try to fuck her. It'd solve more problems than you think. If that's not a choice, then drink a bit and forget the shit. Tell her to fuck off and that you don't care, because in close to a week you won't. You'll find another female to bang and cuddle with and you probably will never think of her again.
wow so your ex succeeded in making you feel bad after you showed no signs of still being hung up on her, congrats on falling into the trap dumb dumb
Agreed, listen to this guy.
I don't think she wants to fuck me, I've kinda brought it up jokingly, and she shot it down. I don't want to fuck her, she's a 2/10.
I'm guessing it's maybe 1 or 2 though.
That's what I'm trying to figure out haha.
What do you mean? I haven't reached out to my ex at all.
Dude, her roommate is obviously doing this at the request of your ex.
But why? My ex broke up with me, over text nonetheless, and I haven't spoken to hear ever since.
I know the ex wanted to be friends and I said no, do you think it's because of that?
It’s probably not even actually happening, sounds like some fucked up thing a girl would do with her best friend to mess with a guys head, omen love to do that shit, they often times don’t realize just how cruel it is. Quiet possibly it’s even your ex texting you with her roommates phone. The only other thing I can think of is the roommates interested in you. Did you ever notice any signs of this in the past? Even if it is this though, don’t feed her the attention she wants, you’ll regret it in the end
Because women are cruel creatures sometimes who want to live off of other peoples negative emotions especially if it involves anyone longing for them.
This user isnt wrong desu
Try to fuck her roommate tho if shes pretty spicy and do a little noise ya self
The roommates a 2/10, and being retarded uni students I would joke around with her where like, a dude would send her a dick pic, she would tell me, and I'd say "yeah mate i can show you mine too" and she would say "no thanks" or brush it off. She would always seem really excited to talk to me though in our previous interactions, so maybe that might be the case. I have absolutely no interest in her, she's literally a 2/10.
What does her talking about my ex banging someone else have to do with her wanting to bang me?
thats a big fuckin mood my dude, i can understand why people become incels or mgtows
What does her talking about my ex banging someone else have to do with her wanting to bang me?
people dont need a reason to ruin your day
theyll do it for fun
sorry user
I guess you're right
I wish I could hug all of you, I feel a lot better seeing it through a different perspective.
Thank you all.
If anyone else wants to add to the discussion, that would be great too.
its hard man
god speed
For some reason this resonated with me the most out of everything in this thread.
I've had my ex's friend just be a total bully to me. I'd walk right into her traps and get brutally burned just for her -- and by extension my ex's -- enjoyment. Shit stings thinking about it to this day.
People have the capacity to be REALLY shitty. Don't ignore this facet of life.
Man I'm really sorry to hear.
sorry mate
ive been on the shit end of it many times over
ive had people go out of their way to try and ruin my life because it seemed like fun
back in those days i convinced myself
i said im moving forward
im gonna keep going
and if i keep working ill do something good
ill build up all the shit i want and ill make my life with my own two hands
but thats not really how life works
and i really regret that i convinced myself of that
i really regret not just stabbing them up and taking them out of this world
because my life isnt going to amount to shit
least i could have done is taken some trash with me
that took a turn i wasnt expecting
where did you expect it to go user
every time i told myself i could build something good
i believe the idea i used to use was 'work for tomorrow if today isnt worth working for'
but im not gonna build anything
im never gonna achieve anything worthwhile
and ill never be surrounded by people i love and care for
but those shit people are still out there
and i dunno how many other peoples lives they chose to fuck up
all because i naively believed i could be better instead of just seeing them for being worse
I understand you've been hurt man, but not everyone should give up hope because people dislike them. Maybe your case is more severe, what happened?
>I understand you've been hurt man, but not everyone should give up hope because people dislike them.
i think
if you have the passion to do something
if you have people you love whether that be family romance or friends
if there are little things that still make you smile
then no you shouldnt give up
>Maybe your case is more severe, what happened?
a lot of life in not a very long period user
i slowly lost everyone around me
and while that happened i had the same thing op had on a larger scale
i had groups of people work to destroy my life entirely
unrelated mind you im not a conspiracist
and after i lost all of that and just clung to my passion hoping it would take me somewhere
slowly but surely i lost my health and doctors struggled to tell me why
i got really sick and horrifyingly weak
i recovered from that sickness eventually
turned out to be something stupid that my doctors ineptly missed
but user i was too sick to function for years and as i deteriorated i thoroughly believed i would die
now user
i dont know how to say this
there is NOTHING in this world - not wealth, fame, love, excitement
seeing that when you get sick and the end is seemingly approaching with great speed
that everyone you thought loved you will wilt
you will be nothing more than an inconvenience
no matter what you build up no matter how unconditional
they will all blame you for dying
and they will hate you for it
because you become redundant
Maybe the roommate is a psycho or wants to fuck you
>sometimes