Ask other genders anything

I got a pretty good idea how to raise that percentage.

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It’s still a yes from me. It just turns me off. Maybe it’s because we’re supposed to be there to celebrate a couple’s marriage, not try to score a date. Can’t you bear to “miss” an opportunity for a special occasion?

What are you asking exactly?

I want your daughter.

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hes right tho

Understand that most women spend less than one second on average per profile before swiping. It is ALL about your first picture. What you write or what your other pictures are don't matter, at least not until after you've matched.

I started my period in my sleep. When I wiped this morning, the blood was that grayish brown color you get at the end and in similar small quantities. Not a drop of red in sight. Why? Am I okay?

Male here. Why do women think having babies only at 28 is okay? I wanted do have a kid earlier but she didn't want to.

because of hypergamy. They want to whore around first and think there's no consequences, drop her and find a nice young beautiful woman who wants to have children.

I'll do it. I'll message her. I'm sick of sitting here waiting. Wish me luck.

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Because they better understand the gravity of having a raising a child than you. And a woman having a baby between her late 20s and mid 30s is completely fine for the child’s health and hers as well.

Fuck.

Nah older the woman more defective.

Nope. They’re slightly more likely to have complications with conception, delivery, having a fetus with Down Syndrome, and things like that, but the numbers are still so small that it’s not a problem for the vast majority of women.

Autism and other stuff. Younger is better.

How many "stops" should she say before I really stop? Is there a rule?

For health, yes, it’s slightly better, excluding teens. You’re also not accounting for the maturity and financial stability of the mother, and the time of finding a good partner to start a family with and getting to know and bond with that person for several years.
>inb4 cock carousel bullshit

>How many "stops" should she say before I really stop?
One.
>Is there a rule?
More like a law.

Nope. Cock carousel is gross and destroys pair bonding.

Also no woman is mature anymore.

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Well that doesn't help at all

If you want a lot of kids, and start having kids at 30, you'll be running high and unnecessary risks by the end.

Doesn't matter if the walls are thick

>these are the worthless, useless, disgusting, stupid, unfaithful, immoral creatures I'm wired to be attracted to

What did God mean by this?

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Idk if jail can be consider a rule, but yeah jail

If a normal period followed, yes you're okay. Sometimes it can happen to bleed like that, also not during your period, it's called spotting. You should get checked if it gets a regular thing

women are literally A FUCKING RIB

Ladies: What do you think about a 32-year-old man living at home with his mother and little brother?

Background: Mother lost job and now gets paid significantly less. Brother is a moron who won't get a better job to help her out. Had to move back for a year to help out family--despite their inability to thrive and survive, family is important to me.

Should I just give up dating until I move back out?

Why does a girl I'm friends with make those sort of moaning noises when shes on the phone to me. She calls me and talks about random life stuff for like 3 or 4 hours its never sexual stuff. I asked her why shes making those noises and she just laughed and didnt answer my question.

It’s the first day, unless it’s spotting which I haven’t experienced before. I lost the date of my last period when I got my phone repaired but it was about 4 or 5 weeks ago which is normal for me. The blood just looks so old though.

Girls would you ever date a guy who used to be gay?

girls how do I get a girl to stop orbiting me

I already told her I'm not into her

There are no girls here. Only dudes and dudes pretended to be girls.

Only if he was confident in his sexuality now.

Dude here who's been in that situation. Unfortunately you're gonna have to make her cry.

Rape?

Kek

Uh... no? Just that girls never take rejection well, and if she's so invested she can't take a direct no, then she's gonna break down when she finally gets it.

Not a chick but dude... you *dont* want an emotional response on a first meet... if you get one that either means you hit a landline of a subject or you just met someone with some major baggage/heavy shit going on, which means they’re either highly unstable or in no position to be meeting anyone.

You know what girls I know do take well? Deadpan humor.
You? Not so much.

Deadpan humor is kinda hard to get through text, especially on this site. Poe's law.

I swear the worst of temptation comes right when you're vulnerable

>be down and depressed because another holiday season single
>run into girl I'm acquainted
>she's very clearly interested and I'm into her because she's sweet and has a great set of tits
>roundabout ask her if she has a boyfriend
>she says she does then immediately backpedals and tries to play it off like he's just a roommate
>gives me her number anyway
>we hang out that night but no sexual stuff happens
>sparks are flying and the sexual tension is out of this world but I'm troubled
>she has a boyfriend and I don't want to be one of those guys
>the fact that she's entertaining me anyways DQs her for any kind of serious dating
>still really into her and admittedly want that ass
What do I do? I feel like I should tell her I can't see her because she has a boyfriend but to be truthful I really don't want to

>Deadpan humor is kinda hard to get through text, especially on this site.
Just like a girlfriend.

Guys how come guy who was great friends with me won't speak to me anymore? He said he loved me and wanted me as a girlfriend but I said I only wanted him as a friend. This happened a year ago and he has completely ignored me since I said I only wanted to be friends. I sent him a message last week asking him how he's getting on and what hes up to and he opened it on facebook because I saw the message read thing but he never replied.

>Guys how come guy who was great friends with me won't speak to me anymore?
Because he doesn't want to be just friends with you. It's that simple

Bait.

Why won't women touch my penis I don't understand I do everything right like say hello to them

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But we were really good friends. He used to tell me everything and i'd tell him everything. We'd stay on the phone for hours. Once I was on the phone to him for 6 hours.

Not bait.

>Not bait.
Prove it. No one can be as retarded as you.

You were girlfriendzoned. It sucks but that's life. Better than fuckedzoned at least

If you want to be with someone and they don't feel the same way back it can be painful. He doesn't want to keep feeling bad so cut contact.

Your as entitled to his friendship as he is to your love.
As in not at all entitled to it.

I want to ask someone out, but they're rarely alone whenever I have a chance. I'd rather not ask them when they're with their friends, since I feel like that puts undue pressure on pretty much everyone involved, and I also don't really want to do it over text, for obvious reasons.

What do?

Not all women do. Many are simply unaware of the difficulties in conceiving past 25 (I’m not talking about birth defects but difficulty getting pregnant and higher miscarriage chance). Part of this is that they see older women with kids, but they don’t see all the expensive doctors visits, fertility treatments, years of trying, and all the frustration, or her last miscarriage that wrecked her emotionally. Many also want to put their career first, not realizing that is easier to enter the workforce later in life than it is to try and enter motherhood later in life.

There are plenty of women who still want to have kids earlier though. Kids are one of those things you can’t compromise on so you need to look for one of those girls. To pressure your girl into having kids or to want to be a father but suppressing that desire are both really shitty.

This is totally ignoring that it IS more difficult thought not impossible and also the significant change in energy from 22 to 28. People just do not retain that vigor even in very good health (though if you go from poor health to good health it will be an improvement).
Women can have children older, but to misconstrue it as being exactly the same or to suggest women who have kids at younger ages simply don’t understand the gravity of it is manipulative and baselessly insulting.

Yea, the risk isn’t that great if you want to have just one kid at 30-33. I want more.

Time for shenanigans. Try to subtly make her vigiliant of you and you want to talk to her i.e., drop a piece of paper in front of her that says "please read" or have a friend or even acquaintance divert that friend of hers from socializing after class so you can talk to her alone. Either those, or use the cold approach method walk up to her explain you didn't really take notes from that class and if you can use hers, if she says sure then the friend may get the hint and say "I'll see you later girl!" Or if she says no you're going to have to grow thicker hair on your chest and flat out say "Can I have your cellphone number? I want to be friends".

This so much.

Cock carousel isn’t bullshit, it’s hard fucking science that the more prior partners the lower marriage satisfaction is, and it’s dose dependent. If she’s had lots of experience with other men that also means she doesn’t have those experiences for the first time with you - something special that you could have shared is gone.

Emotional maturity has very little to do with age. Financial stability will likely increase as you get older but that doesn’t mean you can’t have enough for children at a young age.

Luck.

It’s okay if you’re paying the bills and your mother is unable to care for herself but a woman still prefers the man to have a place that already can be just theirs.

How to be flirty? My dad never taught me how. Help

Your dad shouldn’t have taught you how. It’s something learned only through instinct and experience

Text them for coffee or lunch
Then ask them out

So I’m just supposed to look like an autist until it works?

Talk with guys until you're normal socially
Then you'll understand how to talk to girls

I can talk to them I just don’t know how to imply I want them

You're not understanding.
Talk with guys until you are normal. You aren't doing anything special with flirting. You shouldn't try to. Treat her like you would a guy. Tease her like you would a guy, perhaps moreso. Talk to her like you would a guy friend, not an alien.

If you put up an act, it won't work. Just talk to guys and girls. Its like driving. You learn it like
user said by doing it. "It" in this case is social interaction, not flirting. Flirting is just an extension of social interaction .

If a shy girl opens up to you fairly quickly is that a good sign?

Well you were supposed to socialize when you were a preteen so that you wouldn't be an autist.

Fuck this is a lot of work. I’m gonna go jack off to anime instead.

Is it a Freudian slip if your male colleague accidentally says "lets have a drink" when inviting you for coffee?

Yes, but it doesn't mean she wants your dick or will ever want your dick.

Good. Leaves me less competition.
Maybe, he probably wants to go out on something more formal with you. He might ask you on a date after coffee. If he didn't clarify if the coffee was professional, you should've gotten the hint.

Isnt that functionally identical to just asking them over text?

To clarify, this isnt someone that I talk to/hang out with on a regular basis.

I mean, he's asking you out either way so I don't see why you care. It's like asking if saying "I wish you were here" is a Freudian slip when he's telling you how much he misses you. It's pretty much the same statement either way.

Good luck jumping through hoops my dude

Dude post + Canadian
I'll tell you what my friends told me, just because there's a goalie in net doesn't mean you can't score.
Just keep in mind, she's unfaithful and will probably do the same thing behind your back too.

...no.
Texting is stupid. Coffee/lunch is where you go to see if you and them get along. Its a date but its a date where she can leave at any point because its open ended. If the lunch goes good, ask her on a date - and make sure you use the word date when you ask.

Even more so if you dont hang out with her often. It would be weird to ask an acquaintance to go on a date, but not weird for lunch.
What? I socialize with men for my own enjoyment, which means socializing with women comes naturally. Its like working out. I do it because I like it, not because muh girls.

The only hoops are the ones you're projecting to justify being a miserable unhappy person.

Also
>functionally identically
Yes, but only to a man with some autism. Women dont think like that.

whats the point of this shit thread if i cant ask femcels questions that matter?

For either guys or girls:

The big advice I always hear is "have confidence". However, I don't have confidence. Why? Because when I take my shots, I only miss.

If I were actually successful, then I'd have a reason to be confident. However, I've only every fucked up, so any confidence I could have would be baseless.

So here's my question: when someone says "have confidence", are they telling me to PRETEND to have confidence or to just magically become confident without ever having been successful?

True that.
The icing on top is that when you act confident and assertive, people will hate you for that too.
You really gotta fight through life.

njlifehacks.com/the-stoic-archer-focus-on-the-process-not-the-outcome/

>confidence
doesnt matter if youre ugly as shit

Alright so generally super vanilla and I don't really like having to be dominant in the bedroom, but obviously I gonna have to, so I'm trying to figure out stuff I'm into that's close enough.
Anyone been in a similar position? And what are some ideas.
So far the best I've come up with is teasing or denial or whatever it's called. Like giving her the female equivalent of blueballs. Anyways I need some ideas or inputas to what I can do.

You miss because you're not confident, not the other way around.
You can fake it, sure, but it will come crashing down eventually
Based. Also pic related
Matters even moreso if you're ugly

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Fake it till you make it is the usual advice.

>t.over confidence creep who everyone thinks is a murder rapist

>Alright so generally super vanilla
*Alright, so I'm generally super vanilla

I dont know, at that point it might just be better to avoid the legwork, and just ask. I dont want to best around the bush with this.