the bitch I love to death has snapchat. We are together since 2 months and she loves me as hell.
I kinda trust her but this fact eats me from the inside. I got cheated on a few years ago and I'm a little bit paranoid about being cheated on again.
we aren't from the USA so we haven't this social media mass epidemic but the fact she has snapchat enrage me from the inside.
While I understand this is a "Take it or leave" situation I came here for a bit of casual talking to stay calm, because today is one of those day I'm paranoid about everything.
>I kinda trust her but I don't then break up, pussy
William Powell
All women are a botnet, you need to accept it if you want to spend time with them. I know it sucks, but I don't think you can change this on your own.
Alexander Jenkins
I wouldn't think about it twice if I will find out she is flirting with someone online, but for now it's all in my head
Some days I do not care, others I'm mad as hell. This duality inside me breaks me really hard
Nathaniel Flores
Good to see anti-cia posts. user is right. Woman are botnet. When I was dating they constantly wanted pictures of me with them on Instagram and facebook. I don't mind taking pictures. I hate where they end up.
It's one of the sacrifices you gotta make when you are dating.
>It's one of the sacrifices you gotta make when you are dating. I went in the other direction. I have never used social media (unless you count Jow Forums and github), but that also meant I have been single for the past 11 years.
Luis Myers
I know a handful of girls without snapchat, IG, or fb. They are actually interesting and have hobbies.
Oliver Cooper
github is social media but for productive reasons. Kek you don't see thots on there pushing commits of their asses. That sounds so funny to me.
Nolan Sullivan
Should I give her unconditional love without caring to snapchat or social media fuss, lowering my defenses while stopping to be so investigative and paranoid?
Blake Ward
>We are together since 2 months you're not really together, together. you may be a guys she spends most of her time with and you want it to be something but she is still open for business. You should know this already. No woman cuts other guys off.
Kevin Lewis
>Should I give her unconditional love sounds like you already are and it does not good
William Garcia
You sound like a psycho waiting to happen. Social media is common place in this day and age. This is like being paranoid because your girl has a phone that she can use to call other guys or access to, I dunno, a door, so she can leave the house to meet other guys. Cheating is and always has been easy as fuck. The whole thing about relationships is that you have to choose to trust whoever you're with not to do it anyway, because otherwise the relationship is shit.
Liam Young
OP is jealous Just admit. Confront her about it. Talk it through.
Zachary Bell
>Confront her about it about what exactly? Yes OP is jealous but its more likely he misunderstands the relationship
Parker Foster
So you're going to disqualify 95% of girls because they like sharing pictures of themselves with their friends ?
Lucas Diaz
>like sharing pictures of themselves with their friends and male admirers
Elijah Miller
Look, if a girl is really happy to be with you, she is not going to cheat.
You being "investigative" accomplishes nothing. Chances are your jealousy and insecurity is in fact what will drive her to lose interest in you.
Focus on the quality of your relationship, not trying to protect yourself from something that isn't even real
Eli Phillips
If she has some beta male orbiters but you're the one fucking her, who cares?
Christian Davis
My girlfriend has Snapchat and so do I. We mostly use it between each other in lieu of texting. (I like getting pictures of her and of my cats during the work day)
Honestly, why not just grab it and send her funny shit? I have four total people on Snapchat (2 friends, gf, gfs sister) and send them all sorts of weird stuff I see walking around. There was a carton of milk and a Tupperware full of milk and cereal. Makes for a funny thing to see when you're at work in the morning
Chase Powell
I really appreciate this. I came here to actually find someone who could tell me to stay calm and to not be paranoid with different words. I guess you are 100% right. I have to learn to give her trust even if there could be the remote possibility something can't be perfect as I want. I already did it. While we started to hang out, I explained to her while I hate snapchat and the story of why I hate social media and whatever. She was very understanding and said she could have the same fear if I was more addicted to social media. She also explained to me she is as jealous as me for girls who likes me on facebook, but she can't say a thing to me because I barely use my phone at all.
Andrew Taylor
Their friends, their orbiters, their stalkers, the NSA, Brazillian big data, Chinese identity brokers, Indian scammers and Russian crime syndicates.
Hunter Gutierrez
>She also explained to me she is as jealous In the real world that means absolutely nothing. The most jealous gf I ever had I found pulled her panties down for any guy that told her she was pretty.
Oliver Walker
I don't think this is the case sorry, but she is a good and caring girl, the problem is my head, not her
Ian Perez
You are a retarded fag. This whole generation is. How the fuck OP is a psycho waiting to happen? Your desire to share every aspect of your life is the most mentally ill thing a person can have.
Gavin Gray
for a Jow Forumsentoomen even a woman is a botnet
Cameron Gonzalez
You can use social media without sharing your entire life or making it a priority.