femoid, have been having rape fantasies about a guy I like for a while now
always where I'm doing the raping
even though I really like him as a person
and I always have had sexual interests like this but recently they're really violent
I feel bad spending time with him now
it's not like I'm gonna rape him irl but it just feels like I'm betraying his trust
Femoid, have been having rape fantasies about a guy I like for a while now
You're not betraying his trust by having fantasies. Honestly I think a lot of dudes would be flattered knowing that a girl has those fantasies about him (remember, dudes are less vulnerable to that sort of thing than women are so it tends to scare us less) so maybe you should just tell him.
I worry though because telling him that I like him is one thing, if he says no there won't be any repercussions except maybe awkwardness
but if I tell him about these fantasies, what if he thinks I'm a psycho? He might never spend time with me again
Ease into it then. Don't just tell him out of nowhere. Start talking about sex in general, lead into sex fantasies, ask him if he's ever had any fantasies he's embarrassed about. Find a way to get to it slowly and build up the comfort as you go.
Yeah that's a bit of an issue. I think you're gonna have to rape him to get it out of your system.
that could work, I'm not sure
I'll give it some time before I say anything
well if you insist
Be sure to turn him into a zombie. Ganbatte, user! Oh, don't get caught either like Dahmer did.
Why do I never get this lucky?
At what point in your life did you realize that this was something you were into? My ex-girfriend had the same fetish, so I'm curious
Goddammit why can't I be this lucky. I don't know how popular it is with guys but this is unronicly my fetish. Are you by chance into pegging op?
ever since I was a kid I was obsessed with hypnosis because it represented total dominance
so I guess I always knew
in high school I did a lot of masturbating, as we all did, and it just sorta clicked
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Dats hawt. As for your situation don't feel bad it's pretty common for guys to have fantasies about girls they know but definitely try and lock that guy down. As for your fetishist don't exactly call it rape cause we don't know how far down the hole this guy is in terms of power level. Just say your more dominant sexually a lot of guys like that. But if it doesn't work out hmu bb
sounds like a plan
You have discord opie?
Seriously, anonette, DO NOT TELL HIM. user is giving you the dumbest advice i think i've ever heard. Sure, you can tell him that you like him, but don't describe the fantasies jesus christ lol
That being said, you don't need to feel guilty about fantasies, they're harmless and if he knew (which he shouldn't cos it'd be awkward af), then he would not feel betrayed trust me, he'd just be a bit weirded out lol.
that's good to hear, thanks man
yeah honestly I probably will never tell him
no I'm sorry
Just keep this in mind. Your thoughts do not define you. Its perfectly natural to have fantasies. You are not a bad person for thinking these things. (Unless you actually act out on these fantasies then that's a different story). But I would suggest not telling him about your fantasies because that sounds a bit rushed. Just take it slow and say you really like him. If you're lucky then maybe this guy is into being dominated.
I'd say that the only way of safely telling him about it would be when you've already been in a relationship for a comfortable amount of time, and you obviously wouldn't describe your fantasy as being rape, unless you know he wouldn't give a shit or would be into it if you did tell him that bluntly. Just let him know that it's a huge turn on for you to be the aggressor when it comes to sex, and that you like having control in bed or something.
The hypnosis thing is interesting. My high school gf was like you, and when I was put under to have my wisdom teeth pulled, she wanted me to tell her all about what being unconscious was like afterwards, because for whatever reason, her doing me while I was asleep/vulnerable was a turn-on for her. Damn, it's going to be fucking impossible to find another kinky chick like that who's actually attractive...
fuck that absolutely would be hot
my fantasies always start with chloroform, I'd love for him to wake up tied up while I'm having my way with him
my guy went to school once on heavy pain meds after surgery and I kept imagining how easy it would be
I didn't do anything obvs
just fantasies
once again I'll probably never tell him
by school I mean college
sorry user women cant rape men in most third world countries because of how the statutes are phrased
a rose by any other name is still a rose
Huh, I let my high school gf do some pretty rapey things to me, but I don't think I would've ever let her do something as dangerous as chloroform.
The closest you could probably get to the unconscious thing is either starting to do things to him while he's asleep, little stuff to not wake him, and then eventually waking him up once you get more into it, but that really depends on how close your relationship is & what he's okay with. And then, if you could actually get him onboard with your fantasy, you could probably have him take something like ZzzQuil that'll make him drowsy. Although, I've never used it, so I can't attest to wether or not it's affective.
yeah a lot of the stuff in my fantasies is legit dangerous
there are some fantasies I have only with people I've never met like celebrities or athletes, because there's a certain distance between you and them, you never really see who they are as a person
so some of those are really violent and risky
the things I think about doing to Noah Syndergaard from the NY mets lol, that shit's wild
irl though I'd definitely never act on those, not even in roleplay, too dangerous
yes ZzzQuil makes you mad drowsy, I once slept for 18 hours straight on ZzzQuil
I'd definitely enjoy that experience lol, infinitely safer than chloroform and probably almost as hot
What, like cutting? How come you're into them being unconscious specifically? As much as my ex liked messing with me while I was asleep, I think she preferred when I was awake, because she knew I was shy & she liked seeing how I reacted to her forcing things on me. She was in really amazing shape, and I was only about 10lbs heavier than her, so I'd be doing something in the kitchen or whatever, and she'd walk over, pick me up even though I was 7" taller than her, and would start carrying me to the bedroom, for example
>she'd walk over, pick me up even though I was 7" taller than her, and would start carrying me to the bedroom
That is the best. I wish I could do it to my bf but I'm 100 lbs 5' and he's 160 5'8. I princess carried him when we were in the pool and it made my heart race a lot. Legit one of the reasons why I started lifting
nah not cutting, I don't like blood
keep in mind that I would never do any of this but more like beating or punching when he'd try to get away, kicking his nuts really really hard, sticking pins into him
I don't know why I like unconsciousness so much, I think it's the helplessness
the total lack of control that he has over his body
I can do whatever I want to him and he can't try and stop me
and then I also like the concept of him waking up, realizing the situation he's in
I'd love to see him realize where he is and what's going on and see the look on his face
goddamn your girlfriend had the right idea, I'd love to be able to pick someone up
I'm way too skinny right now lol
Ouch, I've never been too into the pain stuff other than having my ears bitten by her or somewhere else below the neck to leave marks.
In my relationship, she knew I was generally submissive enough to let her do whatever with me. I can think of maybe about a handful times of where I resisted. The first, was before we were living together & I was at her house around Christmas time & all her family was at her house. She wanted sex, and I was too worried about us getting caught & tried to leave her bedroom, but she ran in front of me, shut & locked her door, and blocked it with her body & gave me the most intimidating & sexy look I've ever seen in my life.
And the second time I remember well was when we were outside at a park at night having sex in a hidden spot, and I tried to stop and stand up for whatever reason, but she showed me back to the ground really hard & told me that she didn't give me permission to get up.
Lol, you can pick me up bruh. I'm pissed that the odds of me finding another rough, controlling chick like this are next to non-existent.
you in Alaska bro?
otherwise it ain't gon work with me bud
but good luck finding somebody, others are out there trust me
it's funny, I sort of draw the line with voyuerism, even in my worst fantasies
like if I'm fucking up a baseball player and sticking pins in him and shit I still won't upload photos and ruin his career or whatever, maybe just put him on the DL though lol
so desu if my family were over and he could get caught I'd prolly wait
but otherwise it's fair game
I'm in California until I can save up enough money to get the fuck out of here, unfortunately. How's the whole 30 days with/without sunlight thing?
Is what's basically acupuncture your worst fantasy? My ex didn't give a shit who was around, we never got caught, but she liked being gropey with me in public & seeing what she could get away with doing around other people because she liked showing off.
I'm down with gropey in public as long as it's not a wildly inappropriate place
it's chill honestly and I enjoy the dark, I find it relaxing
so I enjoy this time of year the most, sun up at 10 and down at 3 or 4
and yeah basically acupuncture and ball-busting
I liked the gropey, because it made me feel wanted. Like, she was into me so badly that she couldn't wait at all.
I think I'd enjoy the nights being really long, but I don't think I'd be happy with how cold it must be up there.
How'd you realize needles were something you wanted to incorporate into sex? Either sounds really painful. I can get shots just fine, but I don't think I'd ever volunteer to be anyone's pin-cushion, but that would be the idea if it's rape, I guess. And ball-busting... A strong gust of wind can fuck a dude up if he isn't careful, so I can't imagine being like "Yeah, just hit 'em with a drumstick, it's so hot!"
Groping* I don't re-read what I type before sending it because I hate myself
yeah it gets cold lol
just get a really good jacket though, they're expensive but they last
yeah the point sort of is that he doesn't like it... although to do it irl he'd have to consent beforehand and yeah idk how many guys would
I've watched a lot of porn with ball-busting... I just love seeing their knees buckle in pain
always makes me think of King of the Hill though which isn't all that sexy
"that's mah purse, I don't know you!" *kick in the nuts*
and how'd I realize?
to be honest idk
it's just a really satisfying way to hurt someone
such a tiny little thing causing so much awful pain
I've only ever lived in California, so anything under 60° is a bad time for me.
Damn, I'm getting phantom pains from even reading that. So it's safe to assume you're the sadistic type in a relationship. Have you ever gotten to fulfill any of your fantasies? I got lucky, and the only girlfriend I've had was into being the dominant one, but I can't tell if my exlosure to that was also a bad thing, because now that I've been shown that girls like that exist, I'm not as interested in normal girls. I've always liked dominant girls, just never been interested in the BDSM scene, other than the rapey stuff, which makes it more difficult
New user. Are Alaskans well aware you're a curiosity to the rest of us? And are you curious back?
pretty sadistic yeah
no because we share a struggle bro
you can't find guys who wanna be raped and tortured very easily
I've had sex but I've never tapped into this stuff irl
it's a shame
yes we're aware
the big red state that could :)
Alaska's just like any other place really, or at least the cities / big towns are
there are still eskimo or inuit villages but I've never been, so if it's that you're curious about, idk either
Maybe some day you'll get to.
I loved the rapey stuff, I just know that it probably ain't gonna happen in my next relationship, because a majority of girls are submissive. But I don't think I could do the torture stuff, because I've got a pretty low pain tolerance, and the visual of having needles in my skin would definitely freak me out. Biting & being roughed around is fun as hell though
him being freaked out is half the fun lol
good luck to you too... as they say in Pawn Stars
you never know WHAT is gonna come through that door
True. Hopefully either he's open to it, or you find someone who is. And hopefully a hot white girl will one day walk through my door & take advantage of me or something
love that pic hahaha
she'll come someday :)
Fuck I hope so...
good luck :)