How do you know when a woman loves you?

They don't

>How do you know when a woman loves you?

she swallows without asking

You're asking a bunch of bitter dudes. Ignore them abd look for genuine answers.

When she smiles when she sees you
When she sends you things you would think are interesting or funny
When she always wants to spend time with you
When she is supportive of you
When she will comfort you when it's difficult
When she will always listen and not play games or threaten you
When she loves who you are

A woman in love with a guy acts like a beta orbiter who actually gets sex

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when she acts like you act when you love someone.

this would be my serious answer.

This. This board is rapidly becoming a circlejerk of incels and misogynists giving bad advice disguised as "based" truths, or screaming at other people in the name of logic

she ruins your life

virgin detected

every girl does that

Unbased and bluepilled

liberal, bluepilled, AND low IQ post

ACTUAL virgin detected

many girls are afraid of cum and hate the taste

ACTUAL virgin detected, for real.
Cum isn't real.

You're either a clueless girl or a beta that doesn't get around girls often.

Every girl I've had a one night stand with has swallowed. Every girl my friends have had a one night stand with say the same. You telling me otherwise says a lot.

I don't know and it doesn't matter. It's easy to tell when she's fallen IN love with you, you've heard all the signs before, changes her voice when she's around you, very nice, smiles, sucks your dick, does things for you, supports you all that bullshit.

The real question no guy can answer is how do you know when they actually love you? Once the honey moon phase is over and the chemicals in the brain normalize, how do you know you've got a companion for life that actually loves you? There are so few people that have gotten there it's hard to tell, all I do know is women fall in love temporarily all the time so you don't have to worry about that. It'll happen to you over the years naturally and you'll know when they do.

.t 3 long term relationships, all failed eventually but started out great.

of course sluts are going to swallow. theyve been trained to because theyve literally fucked hundreds of men who demanded it of them

im talking normal girls whos cock count is in the single to low double digits. some of them just dont like cum and gag at the taste

Unbased and tragically redpilled. Unless you're trolling, having fun "discovering" the horrible truths of the world and whining about how life sucks. Take a blackpill next homies

>you fuck sluts and i fuck NICE girls

You couldn't sound like anymore of a tryhard. A girl will swallow for her man if she respects him. She won't swallow if she doesn't respect him. You girls (if you get any) don't respect you. And I guarantee if she isn't swallowing for you, she's swallowing for somebody else. fagboi

The problem is people want folks on their deathbed swearing love exists. The truth is that nothing's meant to last that long really.

I'm extremely happy with my girlfriend and she with me if I take her at her word, and I do. But we both recognize that the future is undetermined, and are both concretely aware that we won't tolerate the other becoming abusive or otherwise betraying the trust our love shares now.

I think love is one of those forests people miss for the trees-- instead of being found, it's something you build. By enduring, by growing, by learning and by sticking through the tough spots together.

Of course we don't cheat on each other and never have and we don't go around Snapchatting other men and women and shit. There are clear, concise boundaries for both parties.

> it's something you build.
There's a lot of evidence for this with those couples that were forced to stay together for the kids and actually managed to build something up from hating eachother to being the best couples in their 40s, 50s and 60s but how are any of us shmucks supposed to know that bricks are being laid for that kind of foundation? Or when we get there? Or if it's even possible?

Decades is a lot of time to dedicate to a huge unknown. That's why I think necessity is a great helping hand.

you're just larping. you've never kissed a girl in your life I guarantee this. go outside or kill yourself retard

Women don't know what they love, they will always love someone in one situation and somebody else in a different. You're just the one she loves at that given moment.

This 100% as someone who loves my bf more than anything this is so accurate

Something I also do is I find myself staring at my boyfriend a lot when he's not looking lol, just admiring his face, his movements, and his presence and smiling thinking about how thankful I am to have him

Or maybe women really are just shitty and more and more men are finally realizing it?

They do, but they'll lie about it and then get upset and bitchy when you ignore them.

All the advice I’ve taken from women has resulted in getting blueballed or cucked.

So I started asking the “assholes” who actually get women. And their methods were simply correct.

Sure. Then give up on women completely. Why are you in a thread about female love again?

When she doesn't abandon you during the worst of times. I've done the same for her and would keep doing it since she means that much to me, and I'm assured she would too from how supportive she is.
is right. Things have grown really strong between the two of us over the years of hardships.

Do you want to list some of those correct advice?

Just because a thing isn’t perfect doesn’t mean it’s worthless. Women are eye pleasing and feel good to touch. And they make good lapdogs while they still you’re the best they can do.

Dude just get a sexbot or something. Fits everything you have there

This reads like a buzzfeed article

this
i may try to because i know eveyr man wants it, but i'm going to avoid it as much as I can because I honestly can't tolerate the taste. I just find bodily fluids to be untasty and I gag a lot. It would be worse for him watching me gag and wanting to puke from swallowing, like I reject him and find him disgusting, so I avoid it

I think women are actually biologically incapable of feeling true love.

Which is a problem because those disney movies really brainwashed me

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>I think women are actually biologically incapable of feeling true love.
Why do you think like this?

yes that too!! I smiled reading this and thinking when I do that

it's my own experience

you just like how he looks you dumb whore, thats not love, why are women so retarded

nobody loves them

You don't, just make sure you have a lot of money and make sure there are no niggers nearby. Good rule of thumb, if the hair looks like puked up crayons, she's going to stab you in the back at the earliest opportunity, maybe literally as well. Best safety measure you can have is a prenup in triplicate and update it often.
This is also an excellent answer. Anyone got the screencap of the guy that snuck nicotine patches on his girlfriend when she behaved like a good girlfriend?

why do incels leave their quarantine.?
ban with you all

First thing, check if she has a Tumblr account
Second, make a fake account and check if she has feminist friends/ideals
Third, if the answer is none, then its moderately safe to consider it true. If the answer is in anyway a yes, get the fuck away while you have the chance.

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Fuck off ye subhuman Dumblrina, while many of us may die alone, you cretins will stab each other in the back at the earliest opportunity to get a better position.

She will rim your ass when told and give your cock a full tongue bath ending with willing swallowing every last drop of your seed.

>When she doesn't abandon you during the worst of times.
This is a good summary. My gf abandoned me when I was depressed. And the same happened to most of my friends. And many of my girl - friends have done it too.

Women don't want to have to deal with our burdens, but they expect (bcuz society) you to deal with theirs. It is just how things are.

Yay, she does all the time!

They don't

A man's love and woman's love is different.

Men's love is more altruistic, wherein we love women for just being there. Loving "the person" so to speak. It's what keeps us attached when the woman is pregnant or crippled by breastfeeding or raising kids. It's also why men are more loyal, and why women feel a sense of security when a man loves them (truly loves them, hence why women shit test).

A woman loves differently. IMO we should have different words, but unfortunately we dont. In English there is only one word for love. Anyway, a woman's love is to herself. She has the womb and the capacity to create life. She also has the duty to evolve the species quickly by selecting the best man she can. Unfortunately, this means a woman's love is not altruistic, but idiosyncratic. She "loves" what you offer her, what you can do, your power, intellect, everything; she is in awe of you. Foremost, women love splendor. There isn't any one particular thing a woman loves about her man; she loves the whole package. It's her biological imparative to improve her DNA.

So how do you know when a woman loves you? Well how do you know if a child is happy when you give them a Nintendo 64? You look at how she responds to you. It will always be obvious (with the exception of "crushing"). If you are having doubts, then you probably don't offer her enough to influence her to love you. Because if you did... then you wouldn't be having doubts.

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It's easy, they don't.

When you’re the best man available (subject to change)

When you are hideous and your mother sincerely tells you that you are handsome.

>Screaming at each other in the name of logic
If I can dismiss everything else you said and focus on this one line. What is wrong with arguing over logic? Afaik, logic is the tool we use to uncover truth. How do you perceive this as a bad thing?

The man must always be altruistic and give far more than he takes. Too often, men will have an unwritten "debt" with everything they do. A hug is never just a hug, if you don't say "I love you too" back immediately then his feelings are hurt, if he does a lot of nice things then he expects a kiss or something. Think with an open mind and don't focus only on my examples here. Once it "clicks" you'll get what I'm talking about completely. The point is some guys keep this debt record, and it makes their love appear conditional, and girls can sense this. It makes the woman feel like she has to constantly work to keep you happy and satisfied. Sometimes it can make her feel not good enough or unworthy. But above all it makes them insecure because they can't always offer things... they will be crippled by pregnancy with your child, breastfeeding, and raising your kids for the rest of her life. They simply can't play tit-for-tat in the love game.

When I say "debt record" I mean everything, so keep an open mind, but here are some examples:
>Yes, money
>Attention
>Affection, romance
>Availability, responsiveness
>Emotional support vs emotional neediness
>Time
>Happiness
So don't ever, ever be fair to your woman. Always give her far more than you take from her. And give her confidence and security by completely erasing, deleting, and never considering keeping a debt record in your brain. She will feel it. And she'll love you dearly for it! She'll feel like she's made a real catch.

Yep.

underrated post

When she looks at you like she's home.

Every halfway intelligent mathematician, stock broker, and really any businessman knows that humans are not logical beings and to assume that any system involving humans is a rational system with rational actors is unrealistic to the point of being dangerous. To claim that "X person always does Y because biology/logic/instincts/hormones/test/etc." Is possibly the most anti-intellectual statement imaginable because it assume any part of human psychology can be reduced to rote programming.

This is a good post. You know what I'll just let my wife fuck Tyrone too that'll be a nice jester for her staying in the apartment I pay for. Actually I'll just offer her an open relationship. This is so based

>nicotine patches on his girlfriend when she behaved like a good girlfriend?

this is ethically shit

Fuck off

Our “illogical” behaviors are only “illogical” in the framework of modern civilization. They have very obvious biological origins. I hate creationists like you who think humans are somehow special and not driven by neurophysiology too.

My father always said female love is hero worship while male love is adoration

"Being driven by" and "always acting according to" are two different things.
Exceptions prove the rule after all.

I bet you think pitbulls are trained to be vicious

Your dad is an incel moron.

And I know you didn't understand my post.

You're very clearly a retard who would deny the word of God if it didn't match up with your worldview and would toute a piece of burned toast that kinda looked like a graph showing women only sleep with the top 20% of males as unequivocal proof you're right so I'm not sure where you get off saying you're the intellectually rigorous one here.

I don't know. My gf tells me she loves me a lot and wants a future for us. So I guess she does. I don't always feel like she does, I'm not sure why. I love her more anything though. I try to show her by cooking for her, always being there for her, going down on her whenever she wants, giving her massages, etc. Overall though I feel like love is a little overrated because I am afraid of losing her and it gives me anxiety

women only love their children.

I never said logic is a bad thing. It's just incredibly typical for incels and fellow misogynists to aggresively argue their warped viewpoints, claiming that men are so logical and women are so emotional to give themselves a feeling of superiority.

Ironically when putting out that argument it is based on emotions. And it is typical for them to namecall (roastie, whore etc) others when they are argued with emotive language. They then dismiss other people with stuff like "ANECDOTES"

If anything, people filled with such hate rarely change their viewpoints. They cling to false notions of "logic" to constantly circlejerk about their viewpoints. There can never be truly 100% logic in arguments, unless you're devoid of all emotions.

Kek

Facts right here.

Is this bait? Or can a human really be that cucked, retarded and have such low selfesteem to believe this. Impressive either way. Wow.

bullshit, or mommy would have loved me

I'm not sure what point you were trying to make in that mess of words, but you highlight a common problem with boys....

You're scared of altruism because you haven't matured yet. Part of being a man is giving more of yourself to others than to yourself. It's the only way we can have families and society. You have a duty to work and build everything around you. Every woman and child is supported by a man/men in one way or another.

What happens is, you feel threatened by the thought of giving something away. You feel it's wasted. Your ego kicks in. You want to take and not give. It feels right and there is no other way to feel. You can't possibly imagine how a man can be altruistic, as he must be a cuck and not in control of his destiny.

The reality is much different than that. For one, your family is a part of you. You have to release from this idea that your wife is a separate person, because after you have kids, you have literally fused with that woman. Her needs are your needs. You're not losing anything by giving to the woman you love. Your kids are even more special, because they are essentially helpless. Your society provides the framework to support you (currency, laws+enforcement, governance), and your religion is there for moral guidance and to secure your blood's spearhead into the future. None of these things exist in a vacuum. They have to be worked for, and as men it's our duty to work. It's the responsibility mother nature laid on our shoulders as birth.

The most narcissistic thing in the world is an infant, the most altruistic thing is a man. Every male who reads this post is somewhere inbetween. At some point you'll grow up and your ego will evolve into loving to give. In our capacity as men, this feels like "love". Ever ask yourself "What is love?" If you can ignore the meme song, actually think about it. Why do we love women? Why do men love their tribe (read: nation)? What does pure, unthrottled love, make you do?

Giving all of your being to the world is sabotage. Simply stupid. Your efforts will get eaten by evil men and the world will be a worse place.

Giving most of your being to your wife and kids is fulfillment. It is very safe, intelligent, and makes the world a better place.

Your ego is kicking-in too soon. It's not allowing you to visualize the very reason women don't love you. As a man, yes, you must give more than you take. Of course you should be smart about it, but that doesn't mean playing tit-for-tat with your wife. The woman you love. Give more to her in every way possible and let her receive you. If you're too afraid to do that, then do you really love her? And if not, then why is this thread about when women love men?

tl;dr Release yourself from the ego trap.

Thank you user, I've been looking for alternate words to use for a long time now. Thanks for taking a moment to share that with me.

Agree. Love is built. Love is a combo of loyalty, fidelity (as it means to the couple), trust, life experiences, respect, appreciation for what the partner brings to your life, maturity, building meaningful things together. These make the deep bond. "In love" is a chemical infatuation.
For as much as I think polytards are dumb, they do understand NRE vs. love.

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When she told she doesn't like anal, yet allows you to fuck her ass every day.

>Things I read on Roosh but will falsely attribute to my dad to increase its perceived wisdom

My gf tells me she doesn't like giving blowjobs but still offers a lot. I never let her because it's incredibly degrading for women, but still

what's a incel?

A guy who believes that he can't get sex no matter how hard he tries.
The truth is almost all of them simply don't try.

I can't tell if you're joking

You forgot:

When she says, "ooh you are so sexy and hot! Your body, your face, you are so much better than the guys ive seen! Your penis is so gooddd!

My gf has actually told me these things. She also says my cock is bigger and better than her ex. Whether it's true or not, it's nice to hear

An involuntary celibate. The term incel became popular after a recent school shooting, where the perpetrator said he killed everyone because he couldn't get a girlfriend. The term has since become associated with antisocial and undateble men (Jow Forums) and the government is legitimately afraid of them.

I think you're all wrong. Love is conditional, as it should be. A lot of people have such a jaded belief on love because they were in relationships where they had love but lost it due to their partners or their own faults. Love is a bond of two souls that is built on many things, and if built properly, can last an eternity.

And yet no government issued GFE

If it's not conditional, it's a sickness
Or it's religion

State mandated waifus when?