User is confused and possibly bi

i know this probably makes no sense, and honestly youre probably right. but im still scared

Listen to this.

>noone to talk to
Porn doesnt count. Go to swimming pool and then figure out if you are actually attracted to real life bodies.

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>Go to swimming pool and then figure out if you are actually attracted to real life bodies.
not really attracted to real life bodies of either sex. but women do make me want to stare more

no, its just that sex with either gender 'feels' different.

i know

You are probably just another underage who spend too much time on porn. Do no porn for few weeks and you will be normal again. Feel free to fap, but only with your eyes closed while lying on bed.

Your brain and dopamine systems will reset back to normal.

Take lsd and realise that sexuality is the same as your tasty in food.

Like the bill nie shit show

okay man, thanks. i tried nofap for a while but with noporn. ill only try noporn this time

you’re retarded ngl. bi isn’t gay. it’s bi.
would it even be so bad if you were gay?

yeah, it probably could have been worse

Good. I'm a Kinsey two. Great life. Women galore and a few dudes back in the day. Married with kids now, if you're really bi, the hetero route is way better. And 80% of females do not think that gay shit is ok. It's okay and cool and they're so progressive, but not their man, they aren't trying to date or marry a faggot. Real talk.

is kinsey two even bi

I told my long term girlfriend I was bi at year one and she had no problem at all with it

some girls dont have a problem.
and i think they have a problem when you act on it

is this true?

Eh.

I just enjoy the selection. If I bump into someone who tickles my fancy, I go for it. It's kinda nice to have twice as many options. I don't particularly have a preference, there are benefits to both genders when it comes to sex, but for a more general level of affection, it doesn't actually matter enough to change my opinion. I sorta like feeling like this about the whole dating thing. No one who knows me thinks I'm gay for dating both men and women.

Of course, I'm a girl, so I guess that is somehow more socially acceptable, for some reason. Though for what it's worth, pretty much all of my female friends I know who watch porn, all of them love the whole "men's love" gay of stuff, so I can't imagine it being that bad that you should outright fear being labelled as gay and undateable by women. Though I suppose country norm might matter here.

>Though for what it's worth, pretty much all of my female friends I know who watch porn, all of them love the whole "men's love" gay of stuff
yeah, but

Ive sucked dick a few times to get it out of my system. Now i kinda feel ashamed that i did it... now pussy is my mind more than ever now. Just try new things you fucking faggot

I have a friend whose husband is bi. I've even chatted with his ex, pretty handsome guy. No one seems to think this is weird.

I think that is projecting. You don't like "fags", so you think women don't want a "fag" for their boyfriend/husband. I don't think women actually think like that. At least not from my experience, and I have friends who outright married a bi guy.

>I think that is projecting. You don't like "fags", so you think women don't want a "fag" for their boyfriend/husband
i dont think that, ive heard that. and ive hear it too many times to just dismiss it.

i will if i ever get there

>i dont think that, ive heard that. and ive hear it too many times to just dismiss it
Interesting, how did you even discuss that with someone? Seems like a weird topic to chat casually about with the opposite gender.

Which country are you from? That might also matter a lot for this sort of thing.

USA
heard it from this place, reddit, twitter, and sorta guessed from the way girls behave about bi guys.

to be fair im also under the impression that all women lie and cheat, and everything else the red pill told me. so im probably in the wrong here. but its still hard to drive the thought out of my mind.

>heard it from this place, reddit, Twitter
Protip: half of the people who claim these sorts of things, are angry homophobic males.

>guessed from the way girls behave about bi guys
How is that?

I am from Europe (scandinavia specifically), so I suppose the cultural differences could just be that huge, but it definitely doesn't sound right from what I know. I have even heard a few women say they would vastly prefer a guy who has gay experience, because it means he knows what's on the other side of the fence. A portion of divorces happens because a guy gets married to a women, and then 30 years later figure out he would rather want to be with a guy. Knowing he already dabbled with other men, means that has already been resolved, so I kinda understand where they are coming from.

I'm with this guy.

Did modafinil a bunch and it made me a lot more bicurious.

Sucked a few dicks. Was pretty fucking fun if I'm being honest. But just have no interest in being physically close to dudes. Had to test though, to see if some switch would flip when I was with a guy.

It didn't. No regrets though.

how do girls react to this shit? do you ever tell them?

Femanon here, my immediate thoughts, if it was a guy I was romantically interested in, would be "nice, so I don't have to worry about him being a repressed homosexual, and won't have to listen to him be a judgemental asshole towards gays like my dad is"

I would be more concerned about a guy saying "never even touched a guy, I'm completely gay free!"

I did that shit when I was dating a girl and I think she would have thought it was really weird. I remember her saying early on that there is "Something different about girls hooking up and guys hooking up". She's incidentally bi, as well.

tl dr bi girlfriend probably also would have thought it was a bit weird.

I've told one female friend but she has tons of gay friends so was totally unfazed.

>Only really an issue if it's a stigma in your family and in your culture.

Which is every culture in existence as far as I know, to some degree. I'm in the UK, arguably one of the best places in the world to be LGBT, and there's still stigma against bisexuals. How many bisexual guys do you think there are in the closet, even to their life partner they trust the most, because of stigma? 90+% of women are disgusted by gay sex, even if they won't admit it, and the thought of being with a partner who's had gay sex repulses them. Bisexuals are routinely stereotyped as cheaters or people who can't make up their mind. I was never educated about bisexuality or LGBT in sex ed at school.

Stay in the closet like most of us OP. The law may be fairer now, but society hasn't caught up.

Do you watch porn?
If so, stop for a few months. It might just be sexual confusion from that.

>The law may be fairer now, but society hasn't caught up.
Depends on your generation. If OP is a gen Z then a sizeable chunk of his peers are literally pretending to be gay because it's been so widely portrayed as cool and edgy. I knew one "trans" dude who ended up getting his "lesbian" gf teen pregnant, lol.
In highschools today being a fag will get you far more social privileges than stigma.
t. Zoomer (18 years old)

good to know
thanks anonette

thanks for sharing, user

yeah i hope so. ill try that too

19, so probably not gen z. i think i wont be worrying about coming out before i can figure out what i am

By most metrics, 19 is gen z. Basically if you were too young to remember 9/11 you're a zoomer.

okay user

>all of them love the whole "men's love" gay of stuff
There's a big difference between "gay people seem pretty cool and "I want my bf to be a faggot"

Keep it on the DL and just fuck dudes on the side

I'm 19 and i have memories from early on in childhood, and when i ask when some of them were, my parents say it was when i was 2. Yes I can actually remember 2001, but barely, and I don't recall 9/11.

do you just like femboys and prettyboys or what? if so, that’s a pretty common thing people just don’t talk about unless they have permission.

yeah, this is what ive hear

that would still make me a little uncomfortable, ill feel like a liar

>do you just like femboys and prettyboys or what?
not really.

could the 'gay' feelings be a result of porn, like this user said?
i actually have never been attracted to guys irl

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>not really.

Do you want to be the femboy or pretty boy?

become a sissy

sort of. i dont how how to explain it, but im starting to think its this

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>did modafinil and sucked a few dicks
you’re a mess. modafinil is not recreational, it’s for alertness.

people like you have me convinced that homosexuality is part of mental illness.

>girls seem to hate bisexual men
Don't repress it but don't flaunt it. When I'm with a chick I'm straight. When I'm with a dude I'm gay. I don't stress, wear rubbers, and get tested frequently. The rest is none of their business.

id feel like i was living a lie. part of me just wants to repress that part of me.

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