I met a woman from a dating site. But I don't really like her. I think she's not very nice, and not very hot. She already criticized me and was kind of a bitch. She is looking for a relationship. I feel like I should cut it off, but yesterday she texted me and I replied, and then she asked if we could talk on the phone later, and I reluctantly called her, and didn't feel happy when I was talking to her. I'm seriously considering dumping her, but maybe some would say you should put up with some crap, I mean I think all women I've met have been unpleasant to some degree, and also none of them were very hot. For example when I said I weighed 65 kg this summer she said that's not so big, I thought that was an insult. She also said I look pregnant, that my stomach is big. And that apart from that I'm not so big, which is an insult because I've been bulking since the summer. She also didn't seem very excited or happy to meet me at first, a little bit happier after a while, then a bitch later on. Also, maybe I shouldn't have gone on a dating site at all. My plan was initially to not go on a dating site, I hadn't been for maybe more than half a year. My plan was to wait until I was 80 kg and then start approaching women, but I failed that and went online before that, not sure how bad I feel about that, the main goal is still the weight goal.
Should I talk to/meet her again?
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No you should not. She sounds rude
Yeah, but maybe it's just "shit testing"? But then again I don't know if I think she's worth putting up with that in any case.
You basically haven't said any positives about her, so I'm not sure why you're even considering it.
Yeah, I didn't say anything about it but I have mixed feelings, I think she's a little bit attractive and she was a little bit nice at times. But I'm leaning towards cutting it off.
you'd be better off cutting her off and working on yourself first my man. hit the gym, get more confident and you'll have less of this shit to deal with. good luck man.
>you'll have less of this shit to deal with
less of what? dumbass. Hit the gym? I already said I've been bulking since the summer, implying I've been lifting too, moron.
Also I don't feel like I want to settle with her, I'm hoping to get someone younger and hotter.
I sent her a text, half regretting it.
I don't feel any excitement. I think I'll probably drop her. It's all so fucking boring.
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My girlfriend is exactly my definition of pleasant and eight years of dating has not made going home to her any less the best part of my working days.
Look, guy: relationships TAKE work. You gotta put work IN. But that's like a renovation.
You sure as fuck don't renovate a house you got nothing to do with and no stakes in. So don't renovate her, get out while stakes are low and don't look back.
A girl who makes you miserable will bring you low and then start taking more than just your morale and good spirits
Yeah she's a bitch but at least she has a pussy. Didn't get to enter it on the first date but maybe on the second or third, even though she says she wants a serious relationship, which I don't think I want with her. However there aren't many women that want to meet me at all it seems.
65kg is a woman weigh, you can’t be a man if you weight less than 85kg
ok retard
I think I'll cut it off. No need to put up with all this bullshit.
I mean she wasn’t wrong, unless you’re 5’4 at 65 kg you’re borderline anorexic
Yeah I was very skinny, but there's no need for her remark, she was just a bitch. She probably has more fat on her stomach than I do, but I haven't said a word about it. She also has no hips, no thighs, no ass, but I haven't said a word about it, because just because you think something doesn't mean you have to point it out, unless you're a retard like her or yourself.
You forget that women are a meme, why would you expect a civilized male attitude in something whose only function is to hold your cum?
fuck I don't even know
>dumbass
> moron
>comes on advice
>asks for advice
>receives advice
>insults user like a champ
you really are a retard, I did read your post, and am no longer motivated to offer any further advice, dumb fuck.
>I did read your post
no you didn't
>am no longer motivated to offer any further advice
oh, I will really be missing YOUR advice
The thing is I sometimes wonder if you HAVE to put up with bullshit if you're ever gonna fuck. But then last woman I fucked I regret I let her sleep over and I regret I fucked her. When I told her another woman wanted to have children with me she laughed and said "you can't have children". I tried to forget it and fucked her anyway and let her sleep over. I should have told her to get out of my home.
Don't bother w/ her.
it's so fucking hard to make up my mind
When I asked when she wanted to meet, Friday or the weekend, she said it was up to me. Friday I only sent a text asking what she was doing and she replied and asked me the same. Nothing more. So I guess it's up to me, if I want to meet her it seems she wants to, but if I don't want to I'll probably not hear much from her.
And besides I've got some fucking wound or pimple or some shit at the base of my dick that doesn't want to heal in forever, it's been there for weeks I think.
I don't think any woman I've been with hasn't been a bitch
Fuck, I have to make up my mind now, tomorrow is the last evening it's good to meet before I begin work again. The bitch fucking insulted me saying I'm not so big.
The date was shit also because I got there late and I hadn't had time to shave, both my fault due to bad time management.
Now I remember she also said something about some thing in my country getting bought by the Chinese, and she's half Chinese. Why did she even have to mention that on the date? I bet she was a smug bitch about it too, I don't think I looked at her face in that moment.
>The bitch fucking insulted me saying I'm not so big.
this prick needs to get into therapy and onto xanax before he does a supreme gentleman. quite obviously unstable and quite likely some sort of a mongrel too.
Maybe you've experienced it before, maybe not, but if a woman likes you she'll be very nice, maybe shy to some degree and very attentive. The way you talk about her doesn't seem like she's treated you that way so she doesn't sound like gf material to me. I'd eiter break contact or maybe just sleep with her a couple of times.
Also, do stomach vacuums or those pilates exercises that use the "pull the navel to your spine while doing that exercise" method. I've had that stomach thing too despite being skinny, it's because your core is weak from sitting all day
Google "how to pass shit tests."
Also dump her if you don't find her appealing and work on your autism.
Good luck.
I think when it's a shit test it's usually accompanied by giggles, smiles and other clear signs of strong attraction. This woman didn't seem very excited most of the time.
Plus the woman has to be a certain level of attractive for you to care about passing shit tests, and I'm not sure she is. I'd probably fuck her, but she's looking for a serious relationship. I don't think I want that with her in any case. However, a woman I wanted as girlfriend either used me for a quick fuck or decided along the way she didn't want to see me again, and I hate her to this day.