If I never had a girlfriend or did anything with a girl in high school or before did I just miss my train...

If I never had a girlfriend or did anything with a girl in high school or before did I just miss my train? How do I overcome the inexperience? I'm 19.

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You're fine, maybe once you're 30 without any experience with woman you can start talking about missing the train but at that age there's plenty of equally inexperienced girls.

To overcome the inexperience you really just need to start going for it, show interest in girls that you like and try to pursue a relationship.

I do not have a way of getting in touch with any, I have 2 friends with who I occasionally hang out with ( like once a month ), and even then we go to a sports game or something. They already have their friend circles.

neither did I all the way up until age 18. I'm 27 now and successful with women. You're not stunted probably, but you will seriously regret it if you don't start talking to girls now.

Regret swells when you get old. While you may feel hurt if a girl rejects you now, you will feel worse *in the future* if you don't ask anyway. So my advice is to push yourself out of your comfort zone and even embarrass yourself a little bit. You'll never regret trying.

If you have a girl in mind, ask her out today. Like, now.

Also if you have any chance of dating a young girl (legally) then do it now, you'll never have this chance again.

I can talk to girls normally and I don't have an incel mindset at all. It's just that I can never make myself appear as boyfriend material in someone's eyes.
I run away from asking out and confessing because I know girls my age still have the kid mindset and are going to gossip about it with their friends and that I'll be made fun of.

So? Why do you care? In 50 or so years we'll all be dead and rotting in the ground anyway. Might as well have some fun now while we still can.

I don't want to make it harder for me than it already is. I'll try it for sure, but only when I'm 100% sure there's something between us, my social anxiety won't let me ask someone out out of the blue. You could say I'm too paranoid...

>gossip about it with their friends and that I'll be made fun of.
It's impossible to make fun of someone for asking a girl out on a date. Maybe if you really do something awkward, but what are they gonna say, "ooo user asked anonette out on a date" .... so what? That's like making fun of someone for eating a sandwich.

Actually this happened to me. 2 weeks ago. This girl I asked out is a barista at Starbucks. I go there often and everyone knows me. Since then, they always text her and tease her when I come in. Like if I order a god damn coffee and bagel, they will text her and say "Hey! Your boyfriend just came in and he ordered a small Americano and salmon bagel. No sugar" Like I'm not even kidding. They tell her my order. This is just shit women do you'll never escape it.

You should blow all those thoughts to high heaven because it means absolutely nothing to you.

>I can never make myself appear as boyfriend material in someone's eyes.
This is how you do it, and I'm being serious:
"Anonette, I like you. I'm wondering, would you like to go out with me?"
She'll then respond yes or no. Prepare yourself for either and respect her choice. If she says no, move on and ask another woman out later. You can still be great friends with a girl even after she says no.

you’re fine. lost my v card at 21, now I have a qt 3.14 gf & we bang often. just keep improving yourself and STAY AWAY from Jow Forums

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>did I just miss my train?

Nah man, I first started dating after high school. I was a complete fucking loser all of high school. High school is for dumb little kids don't attach any importance to it.

Right after I graduated I started meeting girls online and going on awkward dates, one of them sucked my dick but I was too much of a turbo virgin to cum, I eventually got my first real gf and had proper sex like a year after high school.

>How do I overcome the inexperience? I'm 19.
Like I did, just go online. And I'm old as shit and this was like 15 years ago there was no tinder or even facebook or even myspace or anything I had to go through livejournal and MSN chatrooms too meet girls. These days you literally just swipe on your phone.

You can also just go to whatever shit hole bar and find the ugliest and fattest girl there and just practice with her. You can just flirt, you cam make out with her, you can go home with her and fuck her the sky's the limit but uh try not to get herpes or anything.

>in b4 it's mean to have practice girlfriends

I was no 10/10 myself when I first started dating and I found myself to be the practice boyfriend to some girls.

>I run away from asking out and confessing because I know girls my age still have the kid mindset and are going to gossip about it with their friends and that I'll be made fun of.

Don't ever confess to a girl, it's incredibly unattractive as well as emotionally selfish and immature. It's probably the biggest red flag for a guy.

I often tell myself that I should just do it but I don't have anyone who I want to ask out. I don't meet new people. I have no one right now who would be worth the risk.
I think that my biggest problem is not meeting enough new people.

Since I started browsing here when I was like 14 I made it my goal to not be like people from Jow Forums but I'm getting closer.

same as you but what if I'm 28?

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I'm from a place where finding someone online on tinder or the like is rare ( Croatia ), I do plan on going to america in my 2nd year and continuing education there if I get enough money. Maybe I'll restart my life then.

I don't want to go to a bar alone that just seems extremely depressing.

>Don't ever confess to a girl
I mean, if you ask them out you kinda confess to them don't you? They now know you like them.

BTW, she said yes and I'm dating that barista I asked out. Really I love her.
But they still gossip and poke fun of us. So it happens user, there is no escape lol.

>I think that my biggest problem is not meeting enough new people.
I think you're right. And I think you're very mature for identifying it. You know what to do user. I wish you the best

>You know what to do user
No I don't waaaait...
People often say "go out" but it's not as simple as that. Going out alone would make me even more depressed and I would hate myself even more. I can't just go out alone and infiltrate an already established group of friends.
As I said earlier I have like 2 friends with who I only go out once a month or so and at places where meeting potential girlfriends is hard ( a football game for example ).
I once tried the whole "go to a cafe by yourself" meme and I just ended up sitting at a desk in a cafe alone for almost 2 hours. It just made me depressed seeing people going in and out alone and having a good time while I'm just there for the purpose of being there. I couldn't sleep at all that night.

I'm sure you can hook up with people online in Crotia my man, all that soviet civil war or whatever is 20+ ago. People have internet and phones now.

>I don't want to go to a bar alone that just seems extremely depressing.

Loads of people go to bars by themselves, either to hook up or just to have a drink. it's not half as depressing as being alone in your room or whatever and posting on 4channel.

>I mean, if you ask them out you kinda confess to them don't you? They now know you like them.

Not at all. I mean yeah it's obviously implied that you like them when you ask them out, but when you confess to a girl you're basically dumping all your emotions on her and going "here, you're in charge I don't know what to do, you figure it out because I am a weak man and I need you to sort my emotions for me and then I'll cry and threaten to kill myself if you reject no because I had to make a big deal of confessing to you"

Liking someone is not worth confessing, just ask them out like a normal man. You asking them out shows emotional maturity, you're in charge by making the first move.

I've seen so many trainwrecks of dudes confessing to girls, both in my everyday life and obviously on the internet and even in my own personal experience to know that it fails 100% of the time.

Hell I've even had girls confess to me and I felt weirdly repulsed by them even if they were attractive enough. Confessing means that the person is going to end up needy and clingy and overly dramatic with their emotions.

>I'm sure you can hook up with people online in Crotia my man, all that soviet civil war or whatever is 20+ ago. People have internet and phones now.
Yeah but it's extremely rare, even rarer someone my age because in Slav countries most people have it already figured out and don't need help from online dating.

I tried going to a cafe once alone and I would not want to repeat that in the near future.

>but when you confess to a girl you're basically dumping all your emotions on her
I get where you're coming from. It's like when you're friends with someone for so long and know everything about them so you don't even want to date them. You just know too much and there's no secret anymore.

well all I can tell you is that you're not gonna get a girlfriend by not going online, not going to bars, and not going to cafes. Just sitting in your room by yourself isn't going to make a girlfriend fall out of the sky. You gotta work for it like anything else in life.

Follow your passions foremost. Do you like dancing? Join a dance class. If you're religious, get involved. If you're in university, socialize.
Get out into the world and start living your life.

First and foremost I need friends with who I can go out. Going solo and randomly meeting someone is too far fetched.
I know that me sitting in my room is not going to do anything.

I go to guitar lessons 2/3 times a week, but they are individual. Guess that's something at least.

Bumping 8 hours later ?

>Guess that's something at least.
You're not thinking. Start thinking. This isn't hard

I have the dumb

>How do I overcome the inexperience?
by getting more experience. I swear to christ you kids are retarded

U overcome the inexperience try to get new experience. If you´re not that family with it, than try something ligther, like anyone on internet, or something like tinder. Its a way to pratice. At least, my first kiss was days before i get on 20, through a girl I met on tinder.

I had my first date at 22; it's not a problem. If you're now at the point of being worried about not dating enough then perhaps it's a good time to start. Date lots throughout your 20s until you find a nice gf and you'll probably just be average.

The inexperience makes me scared because every else has experience

Online dating is not so common where I'm from

And how do you just start? I meet, on average, 0 new girls a month and I can not just go out and sit at a bar by myself because it's depressing.

You're pretty retarded

You're asking how you can get a thing without working for it.

You don't. You work for things you want.

Your posts are so pathetic like you want your handheld like a little boy. Fuck dude thats creepy get your life together fist then start thinking about women.

I got my first date by approaching a girl who looked cute whom I saw in some of my classes. Most people I guess meet people at work, or get to know someone as a friend of a friend, or meet people at some other kind of socializing they engage in. If you really never meet any girls at all and you don't want to use dating sites/apps, then perhaps you should actually go out and sit at a bar unless you have a better idea.