Lads, basically im a 21yo old virgin and a girl wants my dick. A buddy who knows that im a virgin is trying to hook me up with this chick whom ive never even met.
Heres my issue tho: I consider myself to be a very spiritual/religous person, none of my friends really know this because i live in an atheist shithole country, so i keep it to myself. And meaningless sex goes against my own personal principles and ideals. Im completely comfortable with being a virgin but i cant decide if i should just fuck her for the social acceptance of my mates.
Just drink a lot to the point where you're better off going home due to whisky dick
Aiden Gutierrez
I dont drink alcohol my man. But i might be forced to make an exception...
Christopher Adams
Fair enough, "forget" condoms then? Basically something that you can both leave her and it not result in more serious bants from your friends
Matthew Torres
Does this ever work sounds like a bad idea most girls that have ever come on to me and my friends supported me on were not that attractive to me. So I've just been coasting along not trying to flirt with any girls.
Christopher Sanchez
Is she hot? If so smash that dank puss
Ethan Torres
Don't do anything you may regret later for social acceptance.
Henry Carter
Just say it's against your ideology. Don't mention religion, but just say you don't want to waste such an experience on someone you probably won't spend a larger portion of your life with.
Connor Hernandez
Obviously your ideals aren't that set in stone or you wouldn't be here asking us whether or not you should betray them. Either you want to do it or you don't. I hardly see why you need our input at all.
Cooper Bailey
1 in 5 teens has a real std. wait it out. Or just get a handy
Juan Turner
You should fuck her, not for social acceptance of your mates, but for practice and experience. I'm a 25 year old guy who regretted thinking that sex is something special and not taking the opportunities I've had for an easy lay. You don't want to meet the girl of your dreams without an inch of experience and skill in flirting, seduction and sex.
Also, red pill, there is actually no such thing as that one special girl and pretty much all women enjoy being fucked and they're not even keen for waiting too long, they just wait because they feel pressured by social norms, the second you make a girl feel comfortable like she won't be judged by you or anyone else, she'll be chocking on your cock. I'm saying this because a lot of guys fuck up by thinking that women are innocent angels who are offended by the very idea of sex like some anime characters.
Mason Ramirez
Fucking this.
Women love confidence and experience, and either abstain from sex because a) they were raped, or b) they feel like they shouldn't. Unless you're trying to nail a rape victim (have done, it was fucked up), you can call that shot as soon or as late as possible.
TL;DR; She's horny, too
Julian Roberts
Whiskey dick works differently for me. I can get hard for as long as I want but it takes a lot longer to cum. I basically won't cum until I decide to. It's awesome.
Ryder Gray
>being moral >getting fleeting approval from a few faggots Wow, you've got a real dilemma on your hands. Remember that a thread died for this, OP.
Charles Foster
>I'm a 25 year old guy who regretted thinking that sex is something special and not taking the opportunities I've had for an easy lay. Me too. I had the first chance at 17 but I backed down. Now I made the damage worse because I realized I suffer from delayed ejaculation from masturbating too much from porn. I will never know how sex feels like when my dopamine receptors were at it's peak during puberty. Fucking sucks.
Juan Morris
Can I just say that I applaud you, and encourage you not to lose yourself in the process
I was in a similar situation. I was a 26 year old virgin. KHV. I always felt like I would find a soulmate, and I may have in a girl I’ve been dating for 6 months. Before that? My friends would bust by balls cause we were in college and we would all talk about fucking girls and I was always the quiet one who would just laugh in the conversations. To the point that I would hear them late at night making fun of me and such, thinking I was gay or saying how much of a bitch I was.
I just never was a DUDE GET DRUNK AND FUCK COLLEGE PUSSY guy. It’s not in me. I listen to women. Respect women. And yeah it fucked be over so many years. But now I found a really special girl. The kind who I haven’t admitted i lost my virginity to her, but I’ve told I had a few partners. I didn’t want to freak her out, like a 26 yo virgin wtf is wrong with him. I would just play it off and end up kissing the girl but nothing more.
Gavin Kelly
I've had a similar conflict about this OP. I've gotten a gf and we're in a LDR at the moment. Its a matter of time when she comes up to visit me at my apartment, but I'm terrified she'll reject me if I adamantly say I'm waiting for marriage. Even if I did decide to go through with it, I'm still a virgin, so I wouldn't have the confidence in knowing "What's right." If I decide to "get experience" prior to her coming I'm cheating on her as a scumbag so I feel like I'm screwed no matter what.
Ayden Ward
Here's some advice.
Drop your cult ideologies and grow up. Fucking children and their ignorant unfounded beliefs. Leave this board.
Jeremiah Parker
THIS
Do not EVER EVER do anything for social points, you fuck yourself up while impressing others for like 5 mins then they forget about it anyway
Michael Roberts
So you are asking us if its ok to compromise the principles you built your life around for a skank only to get social acceptance?
Why? you wont even get that much respect from it and you are going to just regret it and feel dirty and dumb afterwards.
Lucas James
I saved my virginity (and should have saved it longer, full disclosure), why can't you? Just tell him you really appreciate the offer but you're looking to find something you can invest a lot of time and energy into, not just a fling. If he hits you with something else, just deflect and say you'd rather get out there yourself and learn how to do it, rather than rely on people playing Cupid.
James Foster
OP here,
Thanks guys, i appreciate your guys’ input tremendously. My beliefs and principles are the main pillars of my existence, and im not going to abandon them for some random chick. Nor should anyone. Thank you for making me realize this. Right now, my focus remains purely on my religous practices, training, and my studies.
