I'm in love with another guy
And I know we had to part
GIOYC / Get It Off Your Chest
wish I could take my 2 kids and run away from everyone else and never have to see or talk to them again. Just leave with my babies one day and disappear. I've started saving money to be able to do this. How did I make such a mistake picking a husband, hes not the man I thought he was at all. I feel like he lied about who he was and what he wanted out of life. I dont have any other family or friends, my parents are crazy and abusive. I just want to take my kids and run. They are the only ones who matter to me in life at all.
I feel like I'm driving myself insane. I feel like everyone secretly hates me. A friend didn't message me back once the other day and I still feel like they're trying to cut ties with me even though we've talked since then. I'm so tired, I don't want to do this anymore. I can't feel happy because I'm so paranoid
I wish you luck, I'm the daughter of a great mum who picked an abusive husband and had abusive parents and just went through a lot of bad stuff. Be there for your kids and they won't blame you, you can do this. Most importantly ask for help, maybe to a nonprofit organization
Is this GIOYC a meme of sorts?
Do it sister. Go to Canada or another country and ump him and you'll figure it out as you go. Get a burn phone first though and keep the battery out of it while not in use because they can track that shit. Haircut and color. Kids as well, keep them out of public eye til you can get a name change and fake birth certs for em. Good fucking luck. Others have done it.
>I feel like he lied about who he was and what he wanted out of life
How long have you been together?
Is he abusive? If not then you owe him a conversation about how you feel.
I love a manager at work
She likes me
I've never felt like this
Next time we are alone I'm going to ask for her number. Problem is we are rarely alone. I can't ask her in front of others or when we are busy. I just need that one chance.
Fuck I'll never get over you
Oh fuck off. Where else can I find someone real to me than here?
I'm tired of men being in love with me for two minutes and/or using me as a muse.
Hes not abusive he just doesn't want our family. He doesn't want his children or to be a family with us.
No one will look for us
We have been together since we were teenagers. Got married at 23 and were 29 now. Hes not abusive, he just dosent want our family. He had a kid young and fought really hard to get full custody of her. He was in the military when we were first out of high school. We got married after he got out. He was really driven and a good dad to his daughter so I was overjoyed when he asked me to marry him and even happier when we had our first baby at 25. But things were somewhat different after that, he didn't want to take care of our baby very much at all, not involved with her very much, we had a second child together two years later. Now he says he hates kids and dosent have anything to do with our now 3yo and 1yo. He works a little but not much, just spends all his time on his computer gaming and barely talks to me or the kids. It makes me so sad that he says he hates them. They are the biggest joy in my life. I'm afraid I'm pregnant again, we use condoms but one broke like a month ago and when I tried to talk to him about it he said I would need a hard punch in the stomach. Hes never hit me but I feel like that was a disgusting thing to say. I make enough money to support my kids, I do 100% of the child care, change the diapers feed them clean up after them. It's not like they are some burden to him or something. I dont understand why he even wanted to marry me and tell me he wanted a family with me and now that we have that he says he hates our children. I feel like I failed them as a mother by not picking a better more loving dad to have them with. I'm going to save up enough so I can get set up all anew in a different state.
How are you doing OP? I'm headed there and think I'll regret staying and leaving equally.
I finally get a fucking break
I feel like I’m losing my best friend of six years and I can’t do anything about it, it might be his depression catching up to him because of a series of draw backs he’s been through recently. He’s always been someone that didn’t open up but now he’s treating me with an attitude because of his shitty situation and I don’t think I can keep up with this behavior so I’m thinking of stopping communication with him despite our fun friendship, it went down the drain the more pessimistic he’s gotten and it’s a headache now to see him so unwilling to change his behavior, he doesn’t even try anymore
This sucks
Move On
Oh god. He's been cheating on you since you were preggers, or trying to. Throw it all back in his face, document everything including recording if you live in a one-party-consent state, he's a drunk too right? Record him saying he doesn't want the kids, that he'd punch you in the stomach. You'll get full custody AND possibly a restraining order AND child support. Once the proceedings start, if you can get a cheap lawyer to show he's just full of shit when he fights for custody (he will), it will be a fight ut be brave. Sorry you didn't know about him being a garbage person beforehand.
He dosent have any money, I dont want anything from him. Hes not cheating he never leaves the house. He dosent drink really. He just sits on his computer playing games. He won't fight for custody, I think the only reason he fought for his first daughter is because the mom was a drug addict and his parents helped him do it financially. He knows I take good care of our kids and he dosent want to care for him. He doesn't have money for court either. I think I could just leave with them.
I'm ambitious.
I have talents that I'm born with vut also that I work hard for.
So I'm going to do so many things.
The problem is motivation.
Not sure how long I need a mental break before I can move oast the anxiety.
I need to just sit down and get busy.
And holy shit this fucking recaptcha shit pisses me off.
It's been 3 years since you died and I still think about you. All of us do. It wasn't until recently that the cops came back and gave your brother your phone back. Who knew they gave back those kinds of things? A lot of memories were on there, including your laugh and funny moments. Makes me miss you even more. There was one thing on your phone that made us feel pretty bad and brought us back to those final moments 3 years ago. We couldn't save you, you knew it, and unfortunately we know it. I just know that you're in a better place and I just hope we meet again.
No, just a thread we have every day, much like the ask the opposite gender thread.
Hah! Thought you cut me out of your life.. messages went unread for 2-3 weeks, said the app was deleted/logged out. I pick today of all days to just let you know my real, true feelings for you, and you are there.. you read it instantly. I've never said so many fucks. I waited until tonight to add a bit more too it, and you read it soon as well. I don't regret what I said, I mean every word, but fuck I was surprised. Should I have waited? Told you in person at a better time? Did I wreck any chance we had to just be friends again? I feel like a fucking idiot, but I'm glad you know that I have real feelings for you at least. I want something real with you. I'll always be there for you even when you don't feel like talking. Love you A.
She loves me. I never thought in a million years that would actually happen. I can't stop thinking about it, and her, and how validated I feel because of this. I'm still being careful; I've got a close guard around my heart for the time being as we have only just started. God help me.
You had kids together, you're a family. You need to make choices based on what's best for the family because that is the most important thing. I'm not necessarily saying to stay but ghosting the father of your kids and most of your family will have consequences on many aspects of your lives, especially theirs. You would essentially be ripping them from their father and everyone they know and then isolating them. It will scar them emotionally. This shouldn't be considered unless your situation is dire. You need to talk to your husband and sort this out either way you choose.
IF YOU FAGGOTS DO NOT CONTROL YOUR LIBERAL SNAKES THEN I WILL RUN FOR REPUBLICAN PRESIEDNT IF YOU TAKE DOWN TRUMP AND I AM NOT NEARLY AS PATIENT AS HIM
YOU WILL BE ASSASSINATED FOR TREASON
Live with it
If I dont get hired to a job by January I'm giving my dog to my brother and his gf because they're looking into getting a pet and mines well trained and would fit in perfectly to their situation, and then I'm going to take an uber to the city and jump off a building. Jan 4th rochester ny if you wanna see the follow up on the news.
Mic Drop
I'm watching TV now
I just beat the final boss of the interenetz
i wish you could just be transparent about how you feel
Saw girl I was a massive orbiter bitch for at home on thanksgiving. She strung me a long for a bit then banged a lot of my friends. She looked sad seeing me realizing I've cut her out of my life and cut off all her social media. It made me sad seeing her and I still think of her a lot. I don't hate her but I just can't have her in my life and its a reminder of my failure. I need to respect myself and find girls that like me the way I want them to.
Jesus online dating is difficult. I live in a huge city and there's so many people to weed through. I gotta swipe left on all the people i'm not attracted to, all the weird people, anyone without a bio (not gonna send "hey"), and all the people that won't be attracted to me. And then on top of that, the people I do match with either don't respond back, inexplicably stop or we never meet in person.
It's so difficult to find a normal, cute girl in my general league that will actually talk and go on dates.
I met a girl on Tinder and I dated her for two years once. I must have gotten so lucky, holy shit.
Always had imagined I would live a quiet life alone, maybe a dog or 2. Never cared for the idea of a romantic partner or marriage. Met a girl somewhat recently, and went on a date thinking nothing of it. Here we are now, an official couple. I thought "sure that could be fun, its not like I ever get close to anybody anyways". I'm pretty sure I'm falling hard for this woman and I hate myself for it. I never intended to develop feelings for anybody, and I'm blindsided by it now. Was at dinner with a buddy tonight and he told me to embrace it. Truth be told, I'm just afraid of being hurt. I've repressed that fear for years now and this is really my first time saying it. I just don't want to be hurt again. I feel so weak and I hate it
It hurt me. She'd never do anything with me? Yet she's done it before with her. It's not lust. She thinks it is lust and if you knew me you would too, I guess. But I love her. Knowing how close we were becoming and all I wanted to do was be even closer. Then she hit me with that. She doesn't even realize how much that stood out while we were talking. I shouldn't feel this way. Everytime I think about her friend it makes me boil. I never liked that girl but now thinking about what they both did makes me sick. I know, they're close. Way closer than we ever could be. And it happened years ago. Well they've known eachother way longer. But oh god after this weekend and all we've talked about something has changed. I still love her but it just clicked. Again, I should not feel this way. I'm just so jealous and hurt. This whole thing pushes me over and I'm already so close as it is. I know I'm going to do it soon. Despite all this I don't want her to feel guilt. I don't want anyone to feel guilt. Yet so much of my hurt relates to her. It's not her fault at all. I'm a bad friend. She's just being happy, and I'm horribly jealous. I just want to escape so bad. Fuck I won't sleep easy tonight. Or the next. All up until my last. At least when I do it I won't have to worry about hurting anyone anymore. I won't have to worry about anything. I'm such a pussy. Fuck.
I saw a woman streaming herself bathing a severe disabled man on Periscope and I can't stop thinking about it. There's no way he consented since he appeared to be entirely non verbal. He was naked on camera though his genitals weren't in view. I really wish I knew how to report it to someone who could stop her. I don't know if the man was a relative she "cares for" or if it's her job and he's a client. Either way I think she should face some legal repercussion but there doesn't appear to be any way to do that.
I don't know why this particular incident has stuck with me but it has.
Are you going to kill yourself because a girl kissed her friend but not you? Get a grip.
I wanna tear the limbs off of every vorefag, tie the by their stomachs to the ceiling, beat them open with their limbs, feed them their own guts, burn all their art in front of them and stuff the ashes and computer scrap up their ass. Then, I want to light them on fire, extinguish the flame with acid so that they melt into a soup like they so desire, feed it to a bunch of rats, cremate the rats, pack it into a canister, launch it into space, gudie it into a black hole, blow up the black hole and suck up the explosion with two other black holes that collapse in on eachother, creating a rift in space and time which closes in on itself, removing them from history and existence simultaneously, so that I never have to see one more fucking retard gushing over somebody being cannibalized, dying slowly and painfully having their remains desecrated, inside of an anime girl as "hot" or "Cute".
I ran into my ex at the store today. I was walking through the entrance as she walked out.
She said hi but didn’t look at me and continued straight forward on her way. I said hi back.
She looked like a mess. Her hair wasn’t done up and she didn’t do her make up. I had heard that she had been a mess lately, flunking out of one of her classes etc. her friend also told me she has been doing pretty bad.
She broke up with me, and half of me feels bad, because I really cared about her and seeing her in a shitty spot just sucks. But I’m also so glad she cut me loose. She was a bit draining emotionally, and she wasn’t good for me.
And she was really bad about the breakup. She was genuinely awful to me. I feel like our breakup was the first stage of a general unraveling she’s been going through.
I hadn’t really thought much about her for a little while before seeing her today. Kind of bittersweet.
Turns out I'm pretty good at smash bros, I just never cared
I can't stop listening to girlfriend roleplay ASMRs as I lie in bed holding my body pillow.
I've wanted a girlfriend more than anything for the last 5 years continuously, and been alone for all of it.
I didn't use to accept escapism but these keep pulling me back.
I don't know how healthy I need to be to find what I crave.
My sister isn't talking to me and there went pretty much my only friend.
I honestly wish I woukd stop wanting to die, because I'm not fucking gonna sk it's just one more thing I want and can't have. I don't wanna do this shit for 50 more fucking years and I ain't punching my own card.
I bought a hooker once out of grief over a girl I had a huge falling-out with, and a combination of the sadness and fapping and the condom meant that I had trouble keeping it up and came basically the instant I got the tiniest bit of my tip inside her. I paid her again for another hour and let her jerk me off through a condom while I smoked a whole pack of her cigarettes.
Looking back, I'm actually glad it went badly and I didn't really get to fuck her. Hookers are disgusting, STD rates are up, and it came from a bad place to begin with. Sometimes I wonder if God saved me from herpes or worse by cockblocking me there.
Stop leading them on, idiot.
You've only known him for 6 years, you'll live.
I was a real dumbass to fall for five years of "I don't know how I feel". Like how fucking stupid can I be? That was half a decade. 1/6th of my current lifespan. I literally burned my youth on that shit. Trying to give you time to say yes or no. But you were just enjoying the ride until something else came slong, huh?
If you're going to leave I wish you would just leave and stop playing with both of our emotions.
It's been the best time of my life but I competely understand your trepidation. It only makes things worse to hang around and pretend you aren't leaving.
If you consider the larpers who reply to people who they dont know and pretend to be them, yeah it seems downright memetic.
I'm gonna go buy into this LARP meme and ask for your initials, sir.
And don't pull any mystery shit like 'aww, lol, ur not him/her~', just fucking answer with the alphabets. I'm un-a-mused by nonanswers. I've seen your pattern fir quite a while now, only you and the J-obsessed user are familiar here, sans the Schizoid.
If you're done with your husband like you say are, put in actual effort to move out instead of telling me you can't afford it. You sit on your ass all day playing video games while complaining to me about how your husband doesn't do anything around the house. He works twelve hour shifts, six days a week. He shouldn't have to come home and cook dinner or clean the house. Think about who's paying for your internet connection in the first place, because it sure as hell isn't you.
>un-a-mused
Oh, I love a good pun.
You're right though.
Would you prefer they stay as stupid orbiters pining over unrequited love or try to find someone else that can love back?
Don't jump.
This is Jow Forums. Let's get you hired somewhere and fix your life.
Why is it so easy for you to completely forget about me? I understand I lost you forever but did that really have to include our emails and random hotel stays? If not the hotels, maybe emails. Why did it have to be complete severance? I sound so selfish, and when it comes to you I just cant help but to be that way. Not selfish in a malicious way either. I know even if you did break and one day emailed me back, there is not enough time to heal the damage I caused. I've always told you I am willing to do anything for a chance at happiness with you. Except it's takes 2 to tango baby and you checked out a long time ago. You told me a few times that the only reason you stayed around was because you couldn't handle me hurting or being sad. Rather then staying around and be miserable, why didn't you leave sooner? Why didn't you cut ties with me when I was a piece of garbage to throw? You pityed me and I didn't need or want that. If you knew what we once had would never exist to you again, why would you torture and humiliate yourself like that? When will you fully forgive me for all the pain I caused you? I'm not you so idk how bad it hurt you BUT I'M PRETTY SURE what I've felt this last year and a half is somewhat comparable. I don't understand how you can lie to me about sleeping with another girl AND startinga relationship with her....but you can't bring yourself to understand why I did what I did in the past. The principle is never to lie period. Both of us lied to one another and it shouldnt matter the length or depth of the lie. JUST that lying is wrong.! When you found out about my shameful and disturbing history, I stayed committed to bettering myself. If it hadnt been discovered and brought to the surface like it NEEDED to be, I would have a weight on my back and probably still out using. After that tho, I was NEVER able to redeem myself or restore any kind of faith. I hate how you put a label on me once the mask came off. I poured my heart and soul out to you
Hi R,
Are you doing alright?
Do you have a stable living arrangement with your boyfriend?
I hope you are happy as I’ve seen you post.
Wish I could be a better friend, and I’m sorry.
Is it possible he has ptsd? some of these behaviours are consistent? He may need help, a lot of it.
I'm really sad.
I thought she was the one.
she asked me rather abruptly "do you think we should have kids?"
I was absolutely fucking stunned
I regret from all my heart treated you like shit cuz i didnt know i was going come back on my knees and beg for you to like me again
Dear Diana,
Do you ever think of me? Do you stalk me on Facebook? Do you remember the time you asked me to lubricate your ass with butter and penetrate you? Wish I had taken you up on that one.
But I didn't. And it is not that I regret it to be honest. It's just a big if. Just as big as what if I had ever been serious about us. What if I hadn't been so indifferent when you bought me coffee and explicitly told me to make up my mind about you. Nini cum or some silly Romanian word, you called it.
You were a great fuck, though. Because you were fun. Exciting. I've only ever had great sex with women I truly like. So I don't know, when I think of you, if I'm horny or lovesick.
Turning 20 next month. My youth has run out; no house, no car, no gf, no friends. The more I'm alone the more my emotions will crumble into oblivion.
I take so much shit at work. I take so much shit from angry niggers complaining about their food despite eating %75 of the fucking meal.
My dad tells me If I want anything in this world I have to just take it. I feel guilty taking something whether I deserve it or not, I just don't have the balls to do anything about it. That's why I've lost every opportunity to be with a woman. EVERY
I just want to end it all.
They could still like you; maybe all you need to do to win them back is to apologize and explain yourself.
Then she told me to smell her armpits. I was fucking DIAMONDS.
holy hell man, what's that smell? is that your breath? how the fuck do you snore so heavily that I can smell your stinking breath on the other side of the room? it actually almost smells like you literally shit yourself dude
The romanian word was nicidecum? I can help you out
Also, are her initials D.C?
Hey A.
I miss you, I feel the loss of your presence every fucking second.
I hope you're happier with your ex though. If monotone, boring ass times is what you wanted, then I understand why you chose him
Also, strop trying to make me talk to you again. You know I can't be just "friends" with you. I'm interested in you romantically, keeping is like pals will only make me jealous and this will make you cry, again
You can't have both of us. And if that fucker has no dignity and is putting you on a pedestal and licking where you shit, I'm not. This is why I blocked you on everything
But deep down I love you and I don't want you to ever find this out.
I'm not ripping them away from anyone, we dont know or talk to anyone. The only person we are leaving is my husband their dad. He blatantly says he doesn't want them and hates them. He won't interact with them at all. Literally ignore them all the time. The only interaction he dose is to yell at them if they make any noise around him. We dont have any other family or friends. We are already very isolated, he won't let me talk to other people at all.
No he dose not. He didn't see combat or anything like that. Hes never had a bad life or any kind of trauma. The worst thing that every happened to him is apparently having kids.
This place is all lies. My friend was a depressed sack of shit throughout high school. He was isolated (we met online) and he was depressed as hell, and had the same abhorrent personality as me, that's how we met, we spent all our time together.
He was like 6'4 and fairly handsome. As soon as he went to uni some girl came up to him and asked him out and now he's totally happy all the time and doing shit with her.
I struggled through life and I'm ugly and alone. It has NOTHING to do with building up within yourself, NOTHING to do with how well you do or how "confident" you are. Success is 100% about looks and height, and girls are what make you happy in the end.
Fuck everyone and fuck this world, it's all a scam.
needed this
>friend gets new gf
>invites me and bf over to meet her
>making out/heavy petting in front of us the whole time we're hanging out
>she breaks up with him weeks later
>tells him she thinks I have a thing for buddy and my bf is autistic
>wtf hoe I barely met you
>run into her 3 months later in store
>don't remember her at all, she reminds me
>acts like we were friends and tries to catch up
Sometimes I think I'm odd and then I meet a normalfag like that who just perplexes me with their fake and fucking weird behavior
my eye hurts
I just needed to say it.
I never understood incels and bought into all the self improvement crap. But after striking out so many times with girls and seeing my friend who I KNOW is an awful person get one with zero effort and it ACTUALLY turn his life around completely as everyone imagined it... I realized the incels were 100% right and I had just been deluding myself.
I just want to experience real love again. Somebody to hold me close and somebody I can trust/ tell everything to. This loneliness starts to hurt after a while.
Ever since I had primal, emotionless, pleasureless sex with a friend I haven't been able to feel a deep connection to anyone. She cut contact after we did it a few times, I feel used. I feel like everything is a transaction and everyone I know right now wouldn't go out of their way to help me even if I would do the same. I can't even flirt because I think it's so obvious what my intentions are and I can't think of anything genuine to say. I don't feel better than everyone else, I feel like something inside me is off and everyone else knows how to make friends.
Getting this urge to reconnect with a guy I met on Jow Forums ages ago.
I know it sounds really weird, like to meet somebody on Jow Forums is dumb but.. We talked so much and connected and had a lot in common. I think we fell for each other, we were pretty serious about it, but the distance was immense. Like crazy big. And I will probably never meet him, as much as in my heart, even now, I really really really REALLY want to.
the only form of messaging we had was through Skype. I sent him a letter once, way back when we were talking, but I believe he isn't living at that address any more.
I remember him telling me that he deleted his facebook and a lot of other social media platforms, and I'm guessing he's done that by now with Skype. I have no clue where to begin to contact him. I feel like it's impossible, and it makes me really upset to know that. Maybe I should let go, maybe I should just forget about him, but I can't. I really miss him, I want to talk to him again, I want to SEE him, so bad, like skype call again just like we always used to.
I know this is gonna sound like bait, or probably a cry for baiting, but...
If anybody lives in the Lake Elsinore region of California, and knows a 'B Rivera' (America, but hispanic family I believe, wears glasses, likes Joyce Manor, last I heard was doing wrestling?? I think he has a sister) please please please let me know... Anything...
This might be creepy or going too far or something. But I just... really want to talk to him again. I want to know he's OK.
TL;DR-
A missed connections call out.
I check the email address every once in awhile still
only you have it
Property history said it was last sold before I met him. Maybe it's worth sending something, even if he's not there, he used to stay there with his parents while he was studying a looking for a job. I suppose it's worth a shot? I'm just scared of his parents throwing it out or even opening it and reading it.
I wake up almost every night from the guilt of how I treated everyone. She keeps appearing in my dreams even though I have to forget her. I only liked her, only sought their approval because I hated myself. To love myself I have to forget, but its tough when they all keep appearing in my dreams.
Why do you have to forget her? What is forcing your hand? Or rather. Your memory?
I suppose you're right. I just hate thinking about her because she's already taken and it will never work. I already think about her all the time, to the point where I feel like my brain has a dependency on thinking about her and I don't want it to get worse.
It’s okay. I don’t love you anymore.
You're right she doesn't but you're not her
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I wish I could say this to someone who treated me badly.
Maybe I am...
It took me years and years. It finally gets to a point where it’s you or them. I knew it would happen eventually.
SCREW YOU MAN! You always get the girls, but now you decided to steal the girl I like, I always treated and helped you like a friend but now screw you and I hope I dont ever see your face. I always felt that she's comfortable around me but no, you decided to show off that you're better.
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changed to COBRA to sound cool in F.E.A.R. beta
turned out I was obviously Alice and they just asked me to join- must have been really funny to them
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Girls just stop responding to me out of nowhere and I can't do anything to get them to talk to me. They seem like the normal type and the first one or two messages seem like they're interested but then when I ask them something they just stop responding. For fucks sake it annoys me so much.
There is a girl i like and i desperately want to ask her out. I see her everyday and she is the only reason I'm not depressed, the reason I still have hope. For awhile now, i have wanted to ask her out to be my girlfriend but the only reason i haven't is because I don't think she is into me.
I researched signs of interest and i have tried to talk to her but she doesn't seem into. I am also really nervous because when get erect, it peaks to 3.5 inches, meaning if I was to ever have sex with her, i couldn't ever please her.
It hurts me after each day i don't ask her out and I don't know what to do about it. Please help.
I wish I could just fucking drop out of Uni and start working, I'm so tired of all the dumb bullshit I'm supposed to put up with and the fact that I can't drop out because of my parents.
It's tiring, stressful and doesn't give me any satisfaction, at the end of the day.
user, it would fail anyway. If you want to get it over with then ask her out, get the inevitable rejection and maybe then stop thinking about it.
Thank you for the advice. Though i ask when would be a god time to ask her out? I just don't want to make things awkward in between us.
Thanks.
When i look deep at myself, into myself i see something that's broken. Someone that's given up. Someone who still doesn't know why all this bullshit is worth it. I'm too scared of death; but i stopped living a long time ago.
>about to buy my dream car
>literally everyone except this one quirky girl at college tells me it's a terrible idea
Any time. It's not gonna work anyway, so don't bother thinking about it too much. When you see her and chat with her, end the conversastion early and ask her out.
What car?
Also don't listen to people on this shit. Normies would drive new hatchbacks or SUVs only if they could.
It will be awkward no matter what given how much you allegedly like her, right? I wouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend, try asking her to go on a date. But I will say what I always recommend here (and IDGAF about people who say it's immoral): you should get to know as many girls as you can and always have a bunch of girls you can think of as plan B, as backups. So that if this girl rejects you, you can still think "well it's not so bad because I still have maybe a chance with that other girl, and if that one rejects me I still may have a chance with that other one". And so on. Always have another girl you can think of as potential partner.
I'm a guy who does this and honestly it really sucks when all of them reject you.
Thank you for responding to my reply.
The plan B idea of always having someone else to have a chance with is actually pretty smart idea and I don't know how you could see this as immoral but nerveless it's a great idea.
Thanks again.
Thanks. It's a 1981 Mustang. It of course has lots of potential problems because it's so old. For example the insurance here will only cover damage towards a third party but it won't cover repairs for my car, or if my car gets stolen. People also say the car will eventually break down and it will just sit in my garage since Idk anything about how to repair a car, but I'm willing to learn how to work on it. And I'm sure some mechanics will know how to work on it too since it's not that different than the other old Fords we have in my country. Engine parts should be available (I've asked a guy that worked on two of these) but it's true that it will be hard to get exterior body parts for it if something breaks.
Everyone tells me I should just buy a cheaper but newer car like a normal person. The Mustang costs all I've been saving up this last year.
I'm kind of worried that it may be a bad decision I make on the basis of maybe being depressed, but I love driving and I feel like I will really enjoy this car. I've loved all Mustangs ever since I was a kid and just looking at a picture of this one gets my heart pounding. I test drove the 81 I want to buy, it shakes a bit and did some weird noises but it was awesome.
I could buy another car that will almost certainly have less problems, but I'm worried about the idea of giving up on this one that I want a thousand times more than any other car.
Please tell me you faggots didn't think a fucking counter strike clan was the Internet Mafia I was talking about!
You people are so fucking stupid. I tell you all these dangerous things and you just think it's a fucking joke.
They are a sekret klub - and it's not Jow Forums
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They contacted me when I was throwing Ragers in Charles Mansons Old House
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>and honestly it really sucks when all of them reject you.
Not gonna lie, it really does. That happened to me. But I guess it helps a tiny bit in the sense that it helps you not get too invested on someone that you aren't dating.