Be me: >Dating this girl for half a year. Really have strong feelings for her. >She gets new job working for a mid term election campaign. >The new job is hell. She works non stop. >Eventually she feels she is too busy for a relationship. >She leaves me because of this. >Campaign is now over. She is trying to message me again. She wants to talk.
I've tried to move forward, of course the breakup hurt and I didn't want the relationship to end...but I really feel like she messed up by leaving me like that. I know I still have feelings for her, and I've asked her flat out what she is trying to accomplish by talking to me again...and of course I don't get a strait answer. Just a "I don't know."
What should I do? What do you think she's trying to accomplish?
>ended the relationship because she was "too busy" That's a bullshit excuse, just because you can't be with somebody right that moment doesn't mean you have to break up with them. Please do better for yourself than her, you deserve it.
Luke Roberts
DO NOT CONTACT HER. NO CONTACT. SHE WILL BREAK YOUR HEART. SHE DIED THE DAY SHE LEFT YOU OK?
PLS LISTEN TO ME. I WANT TO SAVE YOU FROM THE PAIN I SUFFERED.
Nolan Walker
It's 200% more honest than workaholics faking other people into relationship
Connor Mitchell
Lies. My ex was busy af. Made time even for a quick snuggle and kiss past freaking midnight. Later she suddenly got too busy. All bullshit excuses.
William Cooper
Life Lesson.
There is no such thing as "too busy," just priorities.
Gavin Phillips
YEEEEEESSSSS. BURN THAT IN YOUR BRAIN OP!
Ethan Cruz
My exWife and I had still been together even when she was working 2 jobs and I was working nights. Your exs reason is bullshit.
Luis Carter
That's a new way of looking at it for me. Thank you.
It all just feels to convenient. We broke contact when she left me and did not talk to each other at all during the campaign. And now that it's over it just feels too convenient that she wants to talk again.
I feel like I'm being manipulated. It just seems too convenient now that she has time.
What do you expect from someone who would place a political campaign over you? Don't get involved with anybody who has ANY job in politics, they're cancer.
Jackson Foster
bust n' bounce
Andrew Sullivan
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Jose Wilson
Getting back in the relationship would just show her that she can do whatever she wants and still expect you to welcome her back. While you should be courteous in your actions if you get back together you would be making a huge mistake.
Cooper Young
This man
Dylan Flores
I wouldn't get back with her. It would just reinforce her behavior dropping you when life gets hard. That is absolutely not marriage material
Austin Diaz
I guess that's what it is then. Just have to move forward. You're both right.
I suppose I'll hear her out, but stand my ground. There is nothing left to come back for. She made her mind up the night she chose her work over me.
It hurts. But time marches forward, the lesson is learned, and I'll be better for it.
DONT HEAR HER OUT. WOMEN HAVE VAG AND SAD CRYFACE MAGIC. DO NOT.
Jesus Christ op just do what we are saying. Exactly what we say. God damn op we want to save you! I WANT TO SAVE YOU.
Lucas Brown
Why is op so dense :(
Nathan Roberts
Fuck if i know mate, must be love or sth. But that isnt going to help here.
She didnt say at the start. "Look midterms will be super busy and i will not have any time for you but i promise we will be on after" . Nope. She dumped him, thats not ok.
Dont do it OP.
Sebastian Martinez
We cant save him. After all you have to feel the pain to truly learn a lesson...
What are some examples of “broken relationships” that are worth “fixing,” in your alls opinion?
Michael Reed
Many young men face this bs excuse. Including me. Thank god I passed this experience. Like pocks when becoming a man. Nasty but you gotta suffer it once.
You know. Problems that dont include betrayal and not giving a shit about your Partners feelings.
Dylan Gomez
Betrayal and indifference could occur in the scenarios you mentioned, though. I definitely understand why these actions are justify moving on at least.
