Hey Jow Forums I'm having a relationship issue I'm hoping I can get some input on...

Hey Jow Forums I'm having a relationship issue I'm hoping I can get some input on. My gf (19) got her nipples pierced on Friday and she's been super excited about it. The issue is that personally is every time I look at her piercings I get massively turned off to the point of almost being fully flaccid. I'm not sure what to do in this situation. I want to outright tell her but I'm not sure how to say it without it either offending her or starting an argument.

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"I feel sexually repulsed by your decision to mutilate your body. I am no longer sexually attracted to you and this is the end of our relationship. Sorry about that, you did this to yourself, thot."

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just shut up and pretend she's a pornostar. bring it up later during a fight

I mean yeah that's how I feel I just don't want to say it so bluntly so our mutual friends don't think I'm that much of an asshole
What do you mean by that? Like pretend she's impure?

Have you done anything yet op?

Just ask her to take them out during sex
Don’t tell her you think they’re gross just say you prefer her without them

What's wrong with you?

Nipple piercings turn me off a person’s nipples, but they don’t turn me off towards the rest of their body. You must be having some kind of bad emotion about the piercings, or you’re giving them such deep thought that you lose touch with the moment. This is a you problem. You can make it her problem by complaining about what she has chosen to do with her body, but that would be unideal.

This is very normal. Lots of people don’t like nipple piercings, and if you’re really attached to the person it can make sense to become upset when they change themselves.

Maybe get over yourself and a stupid tiny bit of metal. One of my gfs got her titties pierced and I wasn't crazy about it, but I wasn't turned off by it either.

>I mean yeah that's how I feel I just don't want to say it so bluntly so our mutual friends don't think I'm that much of an asshole
There is no reason to be a cunt about it. Obviously she has the right to do whatever it is she wants with her body and you have the right to end relationships with people you aren't sexually attracted to. Speak with her, be honest and not an asshole. Being cruel to her is not necessary. People encounter these kinds of difference in relationships all the time. Honestly, if it were me, it might be worth moving on. Even if she decides to take them out for your sake I don't imagine that there is any circumstance in which that wouldn't generate some kind of resentment. I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who makes concessions in their own self-image just for me. That seems like a recipe for disaster. Again, just talk to her. There's no reason you can't find a calm, adult solution to this issue.

are you a woman? most men can’t afford to leave people who are real catches, not over petty shit.


OP sack the fuck up. maybe buy her some piercings that aren’t plain, ugly bars. buy the piercings you want to see in the world.

>are you a woman?
No
>most men can’t afford to leave people who are real catches, not over petty shit.
Can't afford to? What does that mean? Also, how is being completely sexually unattracted to your partner to the point of not being able to achieve an erection considered petty? If he hates it that much he should leave. Not sure what about that is so unreasonable. Also, you're absolutely pathetic if you stay with someone simply because you can't afford to leave them. That's real sad.

Tell her she was hotter after she gets them pierced

Maybe subconsciously you're upset that another man saw and fondled her tits? Actually be honest, there's a good chance several guys saw her tits

>when your gf is getting pierced and everyone in the shop knows she’s a thot and they all hate you and want to run train on her really sloppy in the ass and throat

I’m operating on some real life shit, telling OP not to leave his gf simply on the grounds that she got a piercing

if he’s just looking for a reason to ditch, fine then. nobody becomes totally unattracted because of a piercing. OP is probably young and used to getting a boner without thinking about it. now a tiny light of consciousness is coming on in his head. the piercing is a wakeup call to him.

>implying they didn't

how do you think she paid for it

her dad paid for it, of course

When she talks to daddy on the phone that’s not actually her dad you retard

this was a while ago. you kids only started saying daddy recently. yet I don’t hear anyone saying mommy, which disappoints me.

You posted this last week fuck off

I'm dying for my wife to get her nipples pierced (got her a giftcard last Christmas that she hasn't used yet).

It makes nipples more sensitive and look hot as fuck

This is actually a massive red flag

Break it off so someone who actually deserves a kinky girl can snag her instead of your boring ass.

i call my gf mommy and she loves it and calls me her baby boy sometimes