Dating virgin for 2 months now

She doesn't like him. Otherwise they would have had sex already.

>projecting this hard
The only part I can agree is messed up is her unwilling to be his gf yet still doesn't want him to date others.
Otherwise, she's a virgin. She obviously has hangups over being physical. And OP wants to rush. We don't even know how old the girl is.
Either way, it feels you're not compatible with her op.

She wants to know or at least feel like you want more than sex so she can bang you ya dingus
Try paying attention when she talks and do something unexpected to show you care
You Zoomers have no clue about women

I've been in a few relationships and the current one I'm in escalated to sex after 2 months. he was really inexperienced and shy though, so that might be an exception. Its been 3 years and I'm still with him.

I'm not sure about the personality of the girl in question, but she could either be really shy or just plain uninterested in OP and likes the attention he gives her rather than him. I don't think there's enough info given for meaningful advice.

>rush
It's been two months.

t. Underaged virgin

Sounds like BPD at a glance, but I usually write off people who can't figure their shit out.
She's not willing to label it then too bad. She loses. I wouldn't text her a ton either if she were playing that pussyfooting game about "I don't know what we are."

she's 18
I'm not in a rush, I just feel shitty about her not being clear about what we are.
She lets me play with her tits and she stroked my dick for a bit while I fingered her, it's the most she's ever done with a guy idk that means anything.

Not that guy but it's funny how two months doesn't seem like a long time, but every girl I dated I managed to see naked by the second or third week of dating them.
I've been off the dating scene for a while though so maybe i'm just used to waiting now.

>and do something unexpected to show you care
Like what?

You already fucked things up beyond repair right here.
what do you mean?

have an actual conversation
be affectionate
communicate
relationships are give and take
etc, etc

You know what you're doing wrong.

Where you from?

She's not doing her part of give and take.

Slow down on making out and shit and spend more time consuming media together and having fun. Seriously. For her, she's probably feeling like the two of you spend tons of time together just doing heavy petting and whatnot and she's getting nothing emotionally and mentally from it. It doesn't matter if you two text all the time non sexually. She needs non sexual things in person as well.

Literally people hold out for two or three years. Grow up. Assholes want to date virgins then get butt hurt when virgin girls want to stay virgins. You're pressuring the ever living fuck out of her to have sex, then turning around and saying "I don't know why she wants to drop me!!!!" Maybe because you're showing her that all you want is sex ALREADY.

Leave her. It will be very difficult to do it but you will be so happy in the future when you leave that toxic relationship. She seems like a bitch

then communicate that to her

Dude i have mega libido u though her might be ok with fucking other girls until she's ready

You've already had some reality check replies, but here's another. You don't know anything beyond this text. In all likelihood, they are texting for hours a day, he runs out of things to say and stops, she feels that's not good enough.

How stupid do you have to be to take an out of context text message at face value, especially when it's from an emotionally fuelled and private conversation between two (presumably) young people?

She wants you to tell her you care about her, you fuckhead.

She said she doesn’t know what you two are because she’s afraid her answer isn’t what you have in mind. Women know exactly what they want, they just want men to read their minds and take action accordingly. She wants you to take the lead on this one.

She’s not pussyfooting around or leading you on. She’s a virgin and shy, so man up a little and make a move. Treat her like she’s your girlfriend and she’ll be blowing you and wrapping her asshole around your cock in no time.

No, people don't hold out for two or three years. It's rare and abnormal and only done by very religious people. The adult world doesn't work like that.

The adult world isn't littered with virgins. If you are dating a virgin, as an adult, expect to wait forever. That's it. They've held out this long.

shes a fucking virgin, maybe she doesnt want to just give it away to some dude that only gives her half what she wants

Everyone was a virgin once. Whether they lost it as a kid or an adult, very few of them waited for two or three years.

Not true? Tons of people, at any age, wait a few years with a partner until losing said virginity to them.

Unironically this is the truth

Some people have plenty of opportunities to lose their virginity but don't give it up until they feel firm and good about it. Get over it.

Dating virgins sounds like a pain in the ass.
Then again I'm not as emotionally closed off as OP.

Statistics do not agree with you. Unless a few percent is "tons of people". Why in this day and age would people not have sex in a relationship other than for religious reasons?

I don't even believe this, is this for real? Are you really this clueless?

A few percent is still a lot. Undeniably. 1 out of a hundred ina population of a million is still a lot. Face it.

It really not hard to get a girl to be comfortable and trusting with you enough to take their virginity. OP literaly made her uncomfortable with implied cheating, inability to ask questions, and passive aggressive statement like "your out of my league"

Nigger where you from?

>All these clueless retards ITT

>ask her what our relationship is, she says idk
First of all this is a huge mistake to ask this, you should be leading, and she should be the one wondering this
>ask her if it would bother her to see me with another girl, she says yes
And? You know what would actually help you in this situation? If you started talking to and seeing other girls because this chick is playing stupid fucking games and playing you.
>says we spend more time making out/touching then getting to know each other
You have had 2 months to get to know each other, this is a shit test and you should not respond to shit tests.
>next time we met she didnt really show affection besides a kiss on the cheek, lying on my lap, and holding my hand/to her body
Listen guy, if this girl is not giving you what you want then find a girl that wants to, in the current state of the relationship you have already shown that you can not stand up to her and are showing her that this kind of shit is ok, the more this drags on the more she will lose respect for you until she leaves.
And in response to her text, I want you to think about something, she isn't your girlfriend, she isn't giving you what you want, and now she's nagging you about not keeping in touch? Fuck that, you don't owe her an explanation and need to pull your head out of your ass and make her your girlfriend, then she can bitch about this kind of shit, the big question here should be rather or not you want to put up with this or find another girl that isn't all over the place.

>dating a virgin for 2 months now
your first problem is dating a virgin OP and I'm not joking when I say this and not trying to be a dick but continue seeing her at your own risk.
The reason I'm saying this is because I've been around virgin girls before (friendship wise) and I recently dated one, half the time they're really not worth the hassle because as a woman their virginity is "sacred" they always make it a bigger deal than it is, they're picky and they're selfish because they don't understand the value of physical love like people who have had sex do. What I'm trying to say is that you have needs and continuing on with this girl is just going to make you more frustrated and bitter as time goes on.
>says I only want her for her body
Don't feel ashamed about wanting sex, it's a natural biological function and in a relationship as understood by most people it's an essential part of showing someone you care and having passion for them. Never feel ashamed of it, don't let her or any woman try to pull that shit on you, unfortunately a lot of women do exactly that, it's beyond annoying and a bit cruel as well.
>says Im out of her league
she's clearly insecure on top of everything else which is probably not helping and dating someone who's insecure in that way is beyond frustrating, if you do continue to see this girl either learn to brush it off or avoid conversation that triggers her insecurities because it she will start a fight for almost no reason over shit like that, I've been down that road before. Also when she does start showing insecurity under no circumstances should you crack and try to reassure her or coddle her over that, it just creates a horrible feedback loop.

This is just me bro but I would give it 2-3 more months at the very most, try some different things, but I really wouldn't hold out much hope in her changing anytime soon, I think after a certain point you just have to throw in the towel and look for someone better.

I don't know OP besides the greentext but he's been with her for 2 months and we're really only getting what she's claiming, I doubt all he's tried to do is hook up with her for two straight months, I think this girl is insecure or has confidence issues and is projecting that insecurity on OP, I don't know that for a fact but OP only told you what she is saying for which you have no other context and the fact that he feels concerned enough to seek advice about this girl tells me he's probably genuinely been trying to connect with her but she can't get past her own negative emotional barriers and biases to see that.

I mean it is pretty reasonable for a virgin girl to wait more than two months with a partner before having sex for the first time. OP seems really immature and entitled.

So what do you want from her? like what are you asking advice for?

Don't take her virginity unless you'll actually marry her.

Listen to her feeling when she talks, like those text messages, you should feel grateful that you're with such an honest woman who communicates, not ungrateful because... idk OP, wtf is wrong with you? She's asking for a bit of attention, is it so hard to text her every once in a while?

You sound incredibly selfish and also degenerate. Do her a favor and leave her.

>virginity is "sacred"
It is.
Extremely. The outcome of their entire life is quite heavily weighed on how they treat this fact. It's her life, and to her, her life is extremely important. As yours is to you.

Since you have no sensitivity to the woman's life, you are also selfish.

Virginity is irrelevant you stupid incel. It's not some magical thing that bounds someone forever.

>virgin

Right and the used car salesmen will tell you the last owner of the car was great and nothing is wrong.

>It's not some magical thing
I made no appeal to magic. Ironically, your entire post earlier made ideological denials to reality.

>you stupid incel
I'm not going to help you if you're just going to be mean to me.

you don't love her you just want to fuck her and she suspects

>she's not willing to commit
have you asked her to marry you? I think you mean she isn't willing to fuck you

Nobody wants your "help", you are clueless and angry.

Been there, done that; like to think you're seeing someone like my crazy ex - Jessicas are fucking mental

i agree, especially with
>ask her if it would bother her to see me with another girl, she says yes

what the fuck were you thinking OP? what kind of question is that even?