Have any of you had success with a cold day approach in public area?
I've never cold approached and most women I have met it's taken the course of a few months to finally succeed in asking them on a date. The closest I've gotten to a cold approach was in college but it was a reversal - the girl approached me first but we had a class together so I was acquainted with her a little bit.
Every time I imagine cold approaching a girl in public during the day I just imagine them denying me and getting creeped or nervously giving me their number and never replying to any texts.
>cold approach >cold approach >cold approach Wtf are you talking about dude?
Luis Johnson
You've never heard of the 'cold approach'? In PUA lingo it means approaching people without prior acquaintance, as in complete strangers that you think are attractive. Salesmen also use the term and I've heard the term applied to asking a question to someone without prior research ie a 'cold question'.
Aaron Brown
I have but it landed me time with a SJW so I turned 360 degrees and walked away. It does and can work. The problem is most people are doing it intently to get 'with' the woman. I have perfected disarming because I want to stay very far away from the issue of miscommunication. I've had lots of problems over that. So, by now, I'm quite able to give off a disarming air.
That being said, it's because I always want to start at the friendship stage. Almost always my cold approaches are to expand the social circle, usually off someone I clicked a little with. Social Justice, kids. Not even once.
Robert Watson
>You're good looking. There's an important chance it will work. >You're not good looking (which in women terms means you're hideous, they don't seem to have a middle ground). It's very unlikely that it will work and you should switch to more long term strategies.
Nathan Thompson
What does social justice have anything to do with it?
Blake Harris
>pick up artist trash
Grayson Cox
Walked towards. Unless you're a 720 object, naturally.
Brandon Powell
Lol he probably met a decent woman and his dumbass walked away from her because "BROWN PEOPLE SCARY"
Anthony Ramirez
You know why its called an xbox 360? Cause you you turn 360 and walk away
William Robinson
To be honest even the shitty pick up guys get laid more then the average guy because they aproach a lot.
Luis Edwards
Boom roasted
Benjamin Anderson
When is it a cold approach though? I approaching someone in your class who you've never spoken to 'cold approach' or is that too easy to count as cold approach? In any case that's how I got my first date ever.
Jeremiah Thomas
>Have any of you had success with a cold day approach in public area? You sound like you've just come out of a marketing course for double glazing salesmen.
Cameron Sanchez
>360 >walk AWAY
choose one
Oliver Watson
Yes but I fell in love, found pickup shallow and realised I prefer women to pursue me Which doesn't happen *frantically dabs*
Kayden Adams
I keep the mask of sanity and self-effacement up to deter women
Parker Perry
You can turn around and still walk away from someone user. It's called going behind them. People often don't go full *blocks your path* mode
>360 implies turning once and looking the direction where you looked before
It sure would show the person how little you care, when you spin infront of them and then to just walk past them. I don't wanna nitpick, i just thought it was funny.
as a woman I wouldn't mind being approached ''cold'' to be honest, depends on the person and the timing I guess. My advide is just go for it, take a couple hits, maybe you'll win sometime.
Jeremiah Peterson
>depends on the person aka if he looks good its allright, if he doesn't it's #metoo
Adrian Mitchell
Unless you go to bars, or malls in your freetime cold approaching is kind of a meme. Most girls who even go out these days are already committed.
Meaningless sex is pretty nice homie. At least in regards to with a guy putting his dick in a girls vagina. All that other shit is barely better than jerking off.
William Mitchell
And? What‘s the problem? Is it seriously this much of a surprise to you that people are attracted to attractive people and not to unattractive ones? Bitter incel.
Thomas Hill
I have had a small handful of dates in my life from cold approaching in public. Almost every time, I made my intentions clear and asked her for her number quickly. Maybe we chatted for a moment, but not really more until we dated.
Unfortunately none of these random-in-public cold approach dates turned into a relationship. But I did get a few relationships by cold approaching girls at their work.