So my GF told me yesterday she's going somewhere, and wont tell me where. She said she cant text me either while she's gone?
Is that something I need to worry about? Should I at least try to text her something?
Dont wanna seem like a weirdo worrying..
Checked.
Do you trust her?
>Yes.
Then don't worry about it.
>No
Then ask her where she's going, firmly. If she refuses to say, break it off.
>Gf doesn't tell you where she is going or is located when you ask
>Won't be able to text you
You should worry about this. This is a problem in itself, aside from being a massive red flag and a sign that she's cheating.
Wait a month afterwards and if she doesn't tell you go ahead and break up
How long will she be gone? She could be christmas shopping for you or something..
Well technically I didnt ask her. I didnt want her to think I was too nosy.
I kinda think maybe its a school thing she has to go to.
She'd be able to text while Christmas shopping and any normal person would say "I'm Christmas shopping". Unless OPs gf is buying him a fucking yacht from a yacht dealer inside of a faraday cage and can't give away information otherwise the surprise would be ruined, she's cheating on him or doing something of a lesser degree.
>Asking about what someone will be up to
>Nosy
Underage people aren't allowed to post on 4channel
It's not nosy because saying you're doing something and won't be able to text during it is an interesting thing in itself
What could that even mean?
OP's GF is getting deep dicked right now.
>"Hey user I will be gone tomorrow and won't be able to answer texts"
>"Oh, what will you be doing?"
In all likelihood this.
Tyrone
if it’s a school thing why is it such a big secret? you’re gf is testing you and finding how easy it is to cheat before you find out. she’s one step away from just fucking tyrone in your bed and waiting for you to come home jfc get some self respect user
Well Op did say he never asked her, so she probably is just doing something dumb.
fair enough. i see that now. i hope for the best
Im just a freaking worrier, I've had some bad relationships in the past, and Im just constantly afraid im gonna fuck up.
I think this chick is perfect, too good for me.
if you said you haven’t asked her then ask her user. if she still won’t budge then let her do what she’s gonna do desu you can’t stop her and trying to will make you look like a bitch. only option @ that point is start mentally breaking up w this girl so later it won’t hurt as much. it’s unfortunate but the reality. still wish you the best tho
She's gone already. It's too late to ask.
oh goddamn well. in your shoes i’d just keep this scenario in mind and be on the lookout for more red flags. don’t let it consume you to the point you think everything is a red flag though. just don’t be an idiot and don’t let yourself get walked all over. like i said...self respect
Got it, thanks m8.
sorry bro but she is cheating. that is just too suspicious not to think she is cheating.
She's cheating, enough said. Why the fuck else would she hide it? If she were gonna surprise you she could just slide a little white lie. But no, she stands to be called on it so she's gonna say nothing. Everything you say can and will be used against you, as they say.
She's a thot, just tell her you're done with the relationship and find a chick who isn't BPD
>I've had some bad relationships in the past
and you still haven't learn your lesson. is her pussy too good user?
The Grand Canyon wasnt carved in a day.
Seems too obvious.
No, but a person only has to take a peek down to know it's a bad fucken idea to jump.
Better turn of phrase is "bad habits don't break overnight."
The puffiest.
I could ask my girlfriend for her point of view in this but I promise if mine is dry and critical, hers will be downright volatile and vindictive. She hates when people play their partner in a relationship and I promise she'll tell me that's what this is.
You have put yourself in the situation you are in now.
Do you really think all the stress you are going through right now given your original thoughts and the comments here was worth not coming off as "nosy" to you're gf? In any sense, it's perfectly acceptable for your partner to want to know where you're going if you're going out somewhere, especially if they say they wont be able to text or call you while they are out. I wouldnt be surprised if you not asking where she'd be would come off as you not caring in the relationship (if theres a possibility she's not cheating)
Also, you still have not specified bow long shoes expected to be gone and not able to call.
And I'd proba ly be on my toes after this. I say make a few questions in you're head and ask her about where she went/why/with who and try to read her face for reactions if she seems ingenious or not.
Just think about it, not asking 1 or 2 questions before because you think you'll come off as nosy is causing you to worry and potentially have to ask a lot more questions so you dont worry and will actually make you look nosy. You're in for some self conscious shit in the next week or so
obviously cheating on you.
She just logged onto Xbox, and wont answer me.
break up with her
Its probably Christmas related due to the fact that ahe warned you ahead of time.
If she was getting rooted out by some construction worker at the bar, she would have told you she was going to a friends house or staying late at the office.
Savage
Fuck it, Im down with that.
>she won't tell me where she's going!!!
>well i didn't ask her...
You absolute pathetic pussy
>she logged onto xbox!
>SHE DIDN'T MESSAGE ME
>IT'S OVER, BITCH
This is hilarious
I honest need this, thank you sir. I am garbage.
Good, now go talk to her. Don't panic if she doesn't answer, just fucking ask her point blank later. Don't beat around the bush to not be nosy, be fucking nosy.
>tell my bf I have something to do and cant answer his texts
>call over tyrone for big dicking
>log into xbox
>if je asks we what I have done, I can use xbox as an excuse
>I am a genius
>get boned big time by bbc
>I am sorry user, was so into the game i didnt see your message, thehe~
>continue like normal
Fucking retards, stop being so gullible. Do you seriously think she plays Xbox and cant answer you cause of that ? lmao
Friendly reminder to ignore all incel posts! They belong in Jow Forums and everyone hates them!
Im a sub 8 male.
>my GF told me yesterday she's going somewhere, and wont tell me where. She said she cant text me either while she's gone?
You can safely assume she's cheating on you, a loyal girl would have had no problem telling you.
this, but OP just ignores these type of posts, cause we clearly are mad incels and dont align with his ideal world
Best case scenario it's a shit test and she wants you to put your foot down.
Worst case scenario she knows you are weak and is putting you in your place knowing she can do what she wants with no repercussions. You can't see it as a trust exercise because that's not how one works, she will only use it as a reason to do it more in the future.
I was seeing a girl for over a year who was "going out somewhere with a friend", she never had an issue telling me where she was going before or who with. I got the whole "user you don't trust me" thing and she tried playing the victim, I didn't back down, I was ready to call it a day, she told me "user I'll give you a couple of hours to apologise to me". A few hours later she called me in tears because she expected flowers and didn't get them.
After that she told me that she will tell me where she is going and who with under the conditions that I don't argue or get angry, I didn't agree, she tearfully told me she was going to go to the cinema and dinner with a guy she worked with that Friday at some time, I told her to cancel the plans, I intended to bin her. Leading up to that Friday she was delaying cancelling those plans telling me it would cause problems at work and all sorts, I told her to make plans with me instead, she claimed she did.
I went to her flat, packed my things up and told her that she had an hour to convince me not to leave her, she grovelled on her knees, bawling her eyes out telling me she would do anything. She sucked my dick still crying, when I came, I gave her another hour and kept fucking her holes until it was almost time for her date, she thought I forgave her, her hair was a mess, she was sweaty, her clothes were a mess on the floor and I came on her dress that she was going to wear, then I told her "enjoy your date with Callum" and binned her.
She cried and I was told she went on the date with him, he didn't fancy carrying on with a woman who had clearly been ravished.
She might be getting you a Christmas gift but that doesn't make sense why she wouldn't be able to call or text.
Or maybe an interview. But then it still doesn't make complete sense.
It's probably nothing good.
100% something bad. No decent person in a relationship keeps her activity secret and then adds that he/she cant be reached. Thats a huge red flag
>hey user. I'm going to study abroad in Africa for a bit, I wont have solid phone or internet access
>*while shitposting on Jow Forums* huh? Ok sure, whatever
>halp, my gf said she is leaving and cant phone me. Is she cheating?!?!?
lol
You, I like you user.
Watch she had to go out of town for a funeral and you gave her shit.
when your gf goes someplace without you and tells you you can't come with her, she is:
a) planning a surprise party for you
b) fucking somebody else
probably the second one
this question is so common I feel this should be stickied