Mommy GF

In my city they've started shitting up the activity partners section. Mostly guys though. Does a Daddy BF count?

You could give BDSMPersonals, GentleFemdomPersonals, or any similar subs on Reddit a try, I guess. Just be aware that a majority of girls that frequent Reddit's relationship subs are either fat af, ugly, or both, and are on there because nobody irl wants them. Good luck with your search, my guy.

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I did notice a shit ton of dudes on there the last time I looked at it. I'm not OP, but I'd assume he's not looking for dick.

You sound like a bitch and mom complex or not no woman is interested in a weakling bitch boy. Man up pussy

You probably dont apply yourself enough in real life. I could be wrong but that's probably the case.

I wish this weren't true, and yet I feel it is. Oh, what agony it is to live knowing my only desire in life runs contrary to nature.

I am not into anything s*xual, but thank you for your response my fellow friend.

Well, I don't talk to girls, but I have other personal issues which partially prevent me from doing so. Ultimately I don't feel compatible with most women, and for both my and their sake is it better that I avoid interaction.

This thread, to be quite honest, is just fantasy for me. I know that I won't ever take steps to get a Mommy girlfriend, even if I could. I live with my parents too, and could therefore never yet be in any relationship in the first place. This thread is simply a desperate plea, though ultimately meaningless. I will continue to daydream about the theme of this thread, and simulate it via ASMR, yet never act on it or try to change myself from desiring it. I am truly worthless, as others have insinuated. I habe simply had a bad experience of life thus far, especially so since puberty, and I have come to outlets like these as my escape from it all.

Let this thread die. No advice given here will change me and my pitiful ways. I'll likely live as if dead for the next few years of my life, if not decades, depending on whether this void inside me can ever be cured, or if I am doomed to carry it forever.

I wouldn't give up hope exactly. I'm pretty submissive in terms of a relationship too, and you can get lucky sometimes. Girls like that are just difficult to find.

I'm a mommy gf type of a chick but not because I want to be like this, it's just how my personality works. When I'm into a guy I want to take really good care of him, keep him warm and safe and offer emotional support and lots and lots of love. However I would never ever date a guy who specifically wants a mommy gf. These guys from my experience have either serious mental issues or are into incest or like you op, expect some other human being to fix them. It's a turn off honestly, because for me guys still should be the stronger sex. Obviously all people have their weaker moments and I love to be there for my bf when time is rough and he needs me by his side, and I always make sure that he doesn't lack anything, but he is not a fragile or dependent person by any means. I think you could benefit from actual therapy because wanting a surrogate mother to take care of you when you are an adult man is a sign of deeper issues.
Let me put it this way: coddling and spoiling a guy who is maybe a bit forgetful and awkward but otherwise independent and well-adjusted is fun. Dealing with a guy who is a dependent mess and needs enormous amounts or emotional labour on my side is exhausting. Mommy gfs are just people, we aren't equipped with necessary tools to fix you and we aren't your emotional support pets.
Rather than looking for a mommy gf, look for a nice girl who will be willing to support and build you up when you need it, but don't expect it to be one-sided. Good luck op.

I’d say I’m a mommy gf, a lot of guys actually seem to find it annoying. But yes, we do exist.

This femanon speaks the truth. It does sound like you have underlying issues that you should seek help for. But that doesn't mean you can't find yourself a busty qt 3.14 to give you head scratches too. Just don't expect them to fix your life

Thank you for presenting a feminine perspective. Yes, I do have internal issues, yet I have been to therapy before, for many years, and came out the other end more or less unchanged. I should also stress that it isn't a literal caretaker which I desire, who allows me to be completely incompetent while picking up after me in every manner, but simply a girl in my own age range who would behave maternally toward me and let me call her Mommy and let me love her as such and love me the same way. I am not a complete mess in life, and can manage most of the ordinary affairs it entails, but I merely feel no satisfaction from this external world - from working, earning income, spending said income, entertainment and so on - none of it brings me anything but emptiness. In my daydreams I am always envisioning myself cuddling next to a sweetheart my age, who has a maternal nature and allows me to express my own little-boy nature when with her. I would still be able to love her as an ordinary male too, placing my arm around her and being the one to cuddle her, but it would mean so much to me, for whatever reasons of personal dysfunction, to be able to love her as a little boy would and to be loved by her as my Mommy. To cook for her, for example, and feed the food to her, but do so still in the roleplay of a little
boy to his Mommy. To cutely kiss her on the cheek in a similar spirit. Things of this nature. Having elaborated on this, would you still class me as dysfunctional, or does this story sound less strange to you? I imagine it still does, and I admit that I im indeed dysfunctional. I simply don't know how to find fulfillment in life, and I have several disorders - like ADHD, OCD and Depression - that make it even more challenging to make it through life.
I feel these have partially pushed me into the needs I'm detailing today, though the onset of my Mommy complex began much younger, when the last crush I ever had for some reason began roleplaying as one to me.

If you can answer, though I imagine you cannot - where can one find types like you? I imagine you can't say, since you're sinply an individual and not an archetype. Perhaps you can elaborate on why you gravitate to this nature, if you don't mind me asking, as it might tell me something about which girls become Mommy's at all.

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I have sought professional help for years without gain from it. I hope to do as you said and find a type like you described, not to fix me but simply to care for me, and I for her. Though you and her are both still right, and I need to ensure I don't begin coming to depend on her to "fix" me of the other issues.

A few yrs ago I was looking for exactly the same.... Had this idea that all I need to get back on my feet was a hug... Was not looking for daitng or anything like that... Ling story short - I could not find it. It was painful like hell... Drugs ...rehab.. I gave up. It doesn't exist. Girls who love and care - they exist only in books and movies... A loving gf - it's an urban legend. .. all of them, not real.
Sorry.

>a girl in my own age range who would behave maternally toward me and let me call her Mommy
>but do so still in the roleplay of a little
boy to his Mommy
This is disturbing and a huge red flag. Calling your partner&lover mommy (or daddy) is incomprehensible to me, and creeps me out thoroughly. Are you an orphan? Were you neglected as a child? Do you have a mother, biological or adoptive? Yes user, you still sound dysfunctional. You just said it yourself, some underlying issues from your childhood (abandonment? being conditioned by that crush), depression, ahd, ocd... these are serious issues, pretending to be a little boy won't help you, if anything it will propel you down this escapist route and make you regress even more. My take on this is that you were vulnerable and impressionable when that mommy-rping crush happened and it affected you so deeply that in your mind this is the only relevant model of male-female relationship, also possibly because even before the crush happened you had some mommy issues and that girl just triggered them by initiating that shitty roleplay. The danger in these kinks is, imo, that people who are a bit more vulnerable absorb them too deeply. In your case, you don't seem to want an occasional role-play or merely some freaky sexy times, but a functional relationship with a dynamics copying that of mother-son dynamics. I don't it's healthy.
And as a sidenote: having a mommy gf, or any gf at all, won't cure your depression. Pretending to be a kid won't heal you either, you will just fall down the rabbit hole. I really strongly advise visiting new mental health specialist. Not even to tackle the whole mommy thing. It may just as well be caused by your depression. Maybe you felt safe and happy as a child and now you want to go back to that state which you connect with being a young boy? Dunno user, as you can see there are many things to address and many possible explanations for your current state.

If you live in a large city + You can probably hire a girl just to hug you. I know that such services exist in LA and Ny, if I remember the link I will post it later. They have like a club where people gather in theirs pajamas and hug each other.... It sounds retarded, but ...

Or you can pay about $80 per hour and one of the women working there will come to your place and hug with you personally there. No sex or anything weird - just hugging. It's sounds crazy and somewhat pathetic, but its very therapeutic...

Ok here is the "hugging" service in LA - cuddlesanctuary.com

I think you misread OP post. He clearly wrote that he just had some shitty phase in life and just wanted a support... Like a temporary thing, you know. Not a life long fetish.

So?

I'm really sorry user for your turbulent experience, but please don't give up like that. There absolutely are girls out there who love and care - if there weren't, why would their men be with them? Keep searching. Your request is not as particular as mine, and can definitely be found. Yours is ordinary, so don't give up yet.

Thank you so much for such an extensive response. I'm not an orphan, nor was I ever neglected as a kid. I feel nothing unusual towards my own mother. I think it's merely the fact that I never outgrew my childhood stage - firstly I was a very late bloomer, only going through puberty at 16 and being prepubescent until then. i was still my middleschool height in high school, which was very short, roughly 4"9 or so, and looked like a little boy. It was at this time that my former crush and I met, and she on her own instigated the roleplay of being my Mommy and I her "son". It has been 9 years since then, but something changed in me after puberty and I haven't functioned well since, and therefore havn't had another crush in the intervening time. You bring up a really good point - about that dynamic modelling my perspective on all male-female relationships. Perhaps it is so.

And you are entirely correct regarding my wanting a full-time functional relationship with the dynamics of a Mommy-Son interaction. Well, maybe not 100% of the time, but for much of it. But is there really something wrong with me, user? To still feel like a child inside, and want to be able to express it to my partner? I hate this adult world - I hate sex, politics, drama, and much else I see in the world around me - it is all such error, borne of people who have lost their innocence. I don't want to have any relation to these things, to this cruel, heartless modern paradigm that we all live under, I simply want to be innocent and loving towards a woman herself innocent and loving towards me. I am not pretending to be a child either, but am genuinely still connected to the essence.

I appreciate your advice alot user. I just want this so badly and cannot see why it should be seen as harmful. Why must I conform to the order which is followed by the society around me? Why can I not pursue the model of relationship which fits me, the one that I desire? Rather than live life as a pretender?

No user, he/she diagnosed me perfectly. My post here today is because I have presently reached a low point, but what I'm discussing here I would want indefinitely and not merely temporarily.

Yes, I see it now. It was me who got it wrong. I guess I was just "projecting" my own issues....

Anyway, I wish you all the best and good luck!

user, it's important to be connected with your inner child and preserve childlike wonder and innocence, but being an adult and attempting to live like a child, cling to idiosyncrasies of a child is imo dysfunctional and dangerous. You are crippling yourself that way. We all are expected to grow up and some point and become more mature emotionally, but it's not chiefly because society wants us to; it's a natural, biological order of things. Never lose all of your innocence, but cling to it blindly either. You cannot just close your eyes and pretend ugly and bad things don't exist, because whether you want it or not, they will still affect you and it is better to be aware of conscious of them. And I'm sorry, but to me son-mommy play doesn't sound innocent. If anything, it perverts innocent archetype of almost sacred bond between a parent and a child. You are a grown up man trying to emulate emotional and behavioral needs of a child and you want to find a partner who will enable you... it's unnatural and because of that, hardly innocent. Being asexual doesn't make you innocent either. There is absolutely nothing wrong with sex. You can argue that some kinds of sexual acts or some kinks are wrong and degenerate and I can agree with that, but your aversion to sex in general seems to point out, again, to stunted mental/emotional growth. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but I think you just want to stay forever in this phase of being a sexless child because it's a mechanism you use to protect yourself from this shitty world. It's not healthy though, you can't repress your growth forever. It will fuck up your psyche even more. The question you seem to ask is "why can't I just stay a little boy and build a relationship around that if I want it so badly", and the answer is, you can't because it's not sustainable. Our brains and bodies are designed in such a way that forces us to grow, expand, mature, progress. If you can't do that, something is wrong.

I'm not talking about people who have mental defects and are restricted by their health issues. You seem to be capable of being mature, so why do you want to pretend to be a child? Because user, asexual as you are, scorning politics and big bad world in general, you must know that your innocence is already gone regardless. You will never revert to purity of mind you had when you were 5 or even 10. You are on Jow Forums, for Pete's sake...
However, there is nothing inherently evil in the lifestyle you want. It's abnormal and unhealthy, but doesn't hurt any other people and is no more degenerate that little girl/daddy shit. But be aware that finding someone willing to indulge you, especially without sexual gratification, is likely to be extremely difficult and you may waste a lot of time trying to find a mommy gf who would fit your bill. So that alone slices your chances at getting what you want (and in consequence possibly becoming content with your life) significantly. I think it would be much more productive to work on your issues instead, so you can finally go through mental/emotional puberty and learn to be an adult man you are. Then not only life will get easier for you, but also chances at building pure and loving relationships with some kind girl will skyrocket. A genuine relationship, not some strange play-pretend mommy-son stuff.

You might laugh at the notion of men wanting mommy gf.
But in reality most women don't know/can't do what "mommy gf" does, mainly because spend most of their time at the gym trying to shape that ass, or busy getting tanned to learn anything, and brain washed by feminists.
I'm gold collar worker, I have very stressful job with hectic work hours, When I come home I just want to have nice fulfilling homemade warm meal, and warm bed to sleep in.

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Why do you assume guys that want mommy gf are broken?
I want mommy gf because she will be good mother for my children, knows how to cook, clean, and please a man in bed.

>Why do you assume guys that want mommy gf are broken?

Because you're a parasite.

Instead of being a man who protects his wife and provides for his children, you just want to ejaculate inside a woman and then be cuddled like the baby you just created.

Then when the woman demands to be treated like the wife you'll just leave.

You're a weak beta male.

Imagine if you were the woman and your libido was low like a woman's.

Would you want a man to cum inside you, impregnate you, and then be like, "Cuddle me pweeezzzz."

THINK beyond the sex. Think beyond the male perspective.

She's not giving anything to you.

You're not giving anything to her.

You're making a fair trade. Strength for Beauty. Resources for Sex. This creates families. If you're not ready, then wait.

Don't be a parasite.

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>or anything weird

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>Then when the woman demands to be treated like the wife
What does that imply?
>Would you want a man to cum inside you, impregnate you, and then be like, "Cuddle me pweeezzzz."
Yes.
>THINK beyond the sex
I did, where did I mention sex in my post?
>You're making a fair trade. Strength for Beauty. Resources for Sex. This creates families
this is exactly what I'm about.

don't many women complain that men don't want to cuddle as much as they do?

>What does that imply?
You protect her and provide for the children. In return, she stays good looking, provides good sex, and takes care of the house and kids. That's it. That's all you get. You don't get to be a kid, too.

>Yes.
Faggot beta parasite.

>I did, where did I mention sex in my post?
You use the term "Mommy GF". If you just want a friend with a maternal streak, then go hang out with a 55+ year old woman. The fact that you're looking for a "GF" means more than that you slithering, slimey little fuck.

>this is exactly what I'm about.
No, you're not. If you were about strength and resources you would have found a beautiful woman who wants to fuck already. Instead you want a "Mommy GF".

Beta male, parasite, faggot fuck lol.

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There's a difference between being "cuddled" by Steve Urkle and Conan the Barbarian you dingus.

Yeah but I’d want to feel like I’m being protected by a man still, not like I’m comforting a weak little child. I can’t think of a lot of women I know who are into that. I don’t think I know ANY women like that actually.

OP is pretending he's asexual. He's not. He's a beta parasite who wants to get off.

He thinks there's such a thing as free sex! Ha!

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You should want better for yourself in life.

I was going to come into this thread and call OP pathetic but it seems like he already did the job for himself. And instead of a bunch of people coming in and saying everyone wants a mommy gf, we got real replies.

I'm pleasantly surprised, Jow Forums.

Double gross. Sounds like he may have mommy issues- gross, and not even being able to sexually satisfy a woman- super gross. Also lives with his parents still. OP get your shit together.

>she stays good looking
Nothing stays good looking, you just appreciate every wrinkle in her body more.
>You don't get to be a kid
You seem to misunderstand something, I want mommy gf for my offsprings, not me.
Mommy gf knows how cook, clean and rise kids, and pleases men.
>Mommy GF
Means a woman that can take care of house like a mother.
>If you were about strength and resources
At this point you're baiting.
women call men that want "mommy gf" parasites because of very simple reason.
THEY ARE USED GOODS, good for nothing except for their looks which wasted years on it instead of learning useful skills to keep a house.
Mommy gf got her superior body from doing house chores.
>You should want better for yourself in life.
Is there better than a woman that can help you lead a more fulfilling life?

I'll be a little bit nicer to you, OP.

First rule: separate maternal love from sex. NEVER mix the two.

Have a maternal friend who you're not attracted to. That's okay.

Have a longterm wife who you fuck. Also okay.

But the moment a woman smells you needing maternal love while also wanting sex you're done for. She will go psycho on your ass. This brings us to:

Second rule: There is no such thing as free sex.

Doesn't matter if you're rich or poor. One way or another you'll have to pay.

Whether it be through committing to a long term relationship where you support your wife financially as she raises your kids, or if you some how manage to get "free" sex then wait until you get your name and career dragged through mud like all the #MeToo guys, or you will have to pay a high dollar hooker, or if you sneak into a woman's pants then ask to be cuddled like her son she will tell everyone you sexually assaulted her. One way or another you will pay.

I hope other men are reading this, too.

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A more fulfilling life isn't having a second mom. I'm an adult, I can take care of my own house and be the master of my domain. I'm not going to marry some bland nurturing woman who sucks up all my money just because she knows how to put a casserole in the oven.

Sorry man, I've dated a super nurturing girl in the past, and as an independent human who can take care of myself, there's nothing worse than some chick nagging me every time my stomach gurgles, always asking me what's wrong, or insisting I haven't eaten enough and putting a 7th plate in front of me for the day.

I don't get why any guy wouldn't want to be independent as fuck, unless there was some chick in his life that just made it ten times more fun.

>I want mommy gf for my offsprings, not me.
Yeah okay. Sure you do faggot

>Mommy gf got her superior body from doing house chores.
>Mommy gf

The fuck. So fucking gross

What’s that? You want a mommy gf for your OFFSPRING? Wow that’s really interesting OP because last I checked, you said something in the original post suggesting you want a mommy gf to baby you.

>Do girls desire to be Mommy's to men who still feel like little boy's inside?

Sounds like a guy who wants a woman who will be a mother to HIM and the “little boy” inside him.

Mommy GF do exist but a true through and through mother figure is pretty rare. I love to nurture my husband when he is feeling low or just because, it makes me feel needed and great to give back when he needs my support. As far as the little boy aspect I cant really relate to that, my husband is independent most of the time and usually takes care of me even if I don't ask for it, which I appreciate. We just pick each other up when we are feeling down, but I do feel a special bond with him when I can stroke his head and tell him everything will be ok in the end.

>no such thing as free sex.
That's why we're fucking traps now.

>just because she knows how to put a casserole in the oven.
I'd
>7th plate in front of me for the day.
Nothing wrong with that.
Where to meet her?

You're confusing me with OP.
That's why trips exist, OP should use a trip when discussing or Jow Forums need to get ID.
Anyway, going by double standards, having a girl calling me daddy is a huge turn off?

Understandable? I don’t think anyone is arguing that being called daddy is pretty fucking nasty, just like I’d hate it if I were called mommy.

That's the ideal "mommy gf"
Most of people think "mommy gf" is just roleplay during sex or projection for mommy issues.
A mommy gf. is a gf that take care of you just like a mother.
Back when I was dating my wife, I had to work 3 different jobs, I remember returning home and just collapsing on bed, I wake up fully undressed and covered with blankets and her sleeping next to me, that's when I know she's a keeper.

>2018
>not calling each other daddy and mommy to make it easier for you children

>2018
>having kids

Anyways, when you’re fucking, it’s different. I don’t want to think of my parents or my significant other’s parents. Gross.

It sounds like you want a homemaker gf, traditional, warm and feminine. This is not the same thing as mommy gf
Honestly, this disruptive trend of treating your partner as or expecting your partner to be your semi-parent is incredibly worrying. It just shows that adult people can't handle shit on their own and need to be babied and coddled. How a man who needs a mommy gf be a good father, if he can barely make it through life without a surrogate mother-lover monstrosity, and how a woman can be a good mother if she needs a "daddy" who will spoil her and treat her like a child but fuck her senseless in bed? Call me old-fashioned, but despite Freud's (and not only his) postulates, I think mixing up parental feelings with sexual feelings is not a healthy thing, it blurs the boundaries and fucks up kids of those inept people, who in turn fuck up their kids and so it goes.

OP here, was asleep. My last response was , everything after hasn't been me.
...
were not my own posts.

Anyway.

You are probably very right about everything you say, but it will take me a long time to come to terms with it. It is a self-change that will take me quite a while to make, if it happens at all. Thank you for your advice, friend.

Isn't it? Someone else posted it on Jow Forums in some "wholesome shota" thread (meaning, non-sexual, since the sexual stuff creeps me out and I don't look at it).

I am not the one who was replying to you guys. To clarify, I am indeed anti-sex, and am presently a celibate virgin. Though you may, from the posts that actually came from me, accuse me of what all you wish to. I want a Mommy GF that I explore all the relationship aspects of a regular GF with, save that of sex. Think of it like a Christian couple who waits until marriage before consummating eachother, except for me it would be indefinitely.

Thread has kind of derailed now, since everyone thought the other user was me. No disrespect to you user, but you should have stated clearly that you were not the OP.

Anyway, I don't know what is left to say. I feel that you are all right, that I have some sort of defect within me, a stunted development in my self-concept and a desire to hold onto my childhood, which were the last days of my life which carried any meaning for me, the last time I've ever been happy (as said, since puberty onwards I have had major hardship in this life, feeling only emptiness since then). I am 23 today, but 14 years old, which, though a pre-teen, was like childhood for me since I was still completely prepubescent. You could say, if you want, that either childhood or pre-teendom was the last time the sun shined in my life. I know that an adult shouldn't behave as I do, yet, it expresses itself naturally and is not an act I put on.

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Now that's projecting.
There's nothing wrong in indulging in something kinky during sex for pleasure.
My wife went to catholic school, and after I spanked her as a joke she told me she find spanking arousing, and she's not into bondage at all, just spanking.
We made a little sex game were she have to spell words, and if she go it wrong she get a spank for each wrong letter.

>This is not the same thing as mommy gf
It's not?
I thought that's what's mommy gf mean.
A girlfriend that take care of you like your own mother.
>you want a homemaker gf, traditional, warm and feminine.
And this is wrong why?

Most kinks are fine. Daddy/mommy kinks are just nasty.

>you should have stated clearly that you were not the OP.
On hindsight I probably should have.
But I didn't think I came out as you.
Many people here think wanting a mommy gf, mean you have mommy issues.

For you OP, I think what you need is not a mommy gf, what you want is a healing relationship to heal your wound.
I don't know what kind of troubles you've faced, but you did well hanging there.
You just need to hang a little more.

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YMMV.
Personally I think anal sex is very nasty, but my gf is into it.
Doesn't mean I think any less of my gf.
That's why you're projecting.

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Thanks for the reply, yeah that's what I always thought a true mommy gf was too, I just wanna help out my husband and be there for him since his alcoholic piece of shit mother was never there for him. Plus I think the feeling has to be mutual, there is nothing better than having someone there for you to hold you and tell you it's ok when shit hits the fan, and if you do that for me then I am more than happy to do that for you.

What’s the difference between me saying I think mommy and daddy kinks are nasty and you saying anal sex is nasty.

To continue, I genuinely hate this adult-world and do not align with it at all. The politics on TV and the internet, which our generation has come to be ensnared by, I consider pure chaos and a tumor to our minds, and I despise the division it sows. I wish we could place it aside somehow, and that everyone could simply be kind to eachother, which I always strive to be to all people. I hate arguments, be them between partners or friends, and never enter them. My parents argue every day of their life, and I cannot stand it at all, it grates at my mental health. I hate parties and everything about them, and no longer attend any. I hate social media for its enabling of narcissism and its lack of purpose, and do not use it. I hate sex, especially in the modern era where a sacred act has been reduced to another entertainment outlet, and I see libido as the cause of so many problems in our modern world. If only humans had lower levels of it in the first place, and our present world wasn't so ruled by it. I hate money, wish everyone could survive without it, and have nothing in life which I desire to buy. These and many other institutions do I truly see no meaning in.

I simply want peace, and love, warmth, and play, and nothing else. For the rest of my life, these are all I want. To be atop a bed with my loved one, in embrace, reading a book or playing some music to the two of us, and all the errors of the modern, adult world far and away from us.

I don't know what else to say. I feel you are all correct, yet I do not want to let go of these desires of mine. It would not be organic if I did, and they could only leave me with time. I just feel so sad in life, and have nothing else I turn to besides my Mommy daydreams. I'd like to keep this thread open if you don't mind, since I've never had others give me advice for this aspect of me before. It would be nice if discussion could continue in a general sense, even if I feel that you've hit the mark already.

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>Plus I think the feeling has to be mutual,
Precisely, Just like she's a"mommy" to me, I'm like a "daddy" to her.
She comes from fatherless family, and her abusive mother treated her like a doormat, she had no one to stand up to her in her whole life, she started dating me because I don't drink, turns out her abusive bf used to hit her when he's drunk and wanted to get away from it.
Yes, sometimes past issues makes seek certain stereotypes in a partner, but that doesn't mean it's sex thing, or it's regression.
It's change that we seek, to not go back on those troubles and turn a new leaf.

You think less of people, I don't.

I would love to be a mommy gf and just someone who can bring comfort and love and affection, a safe place to come back to, but boys either won't let me or will be resistant

It's not wrong at all.
>A girlfriend that take care of you like your own mother.
Back in the fifties it was basically what a wife did, aside from infantilization bullshit. Mommy gf, in my understanding, is a woman who will treat you like a child, i.e. call you her little boy, sing you lullabies, use baby speak when communicating with you, make sure you ate all your greens, your socks are paired, hair combed, ears cleaned, and will be "above" you in hierarchy, just like your mother was when you were a child. Homemaker gf is your equal because she doesn't treat you like her child, but like her partner who needs her love and attention. And that is imo perfectly natural.

>I simply want peace, and love, warmth, and play, and nothing else
Sorry user, but you sound deluded. What you want is an utopia, and it won't happen. I strongly suggest you to work on coming to terms with that, because you will be forever suffering if you keep clinging to this dream.
And you are either poorly educated or astoundingly ignorant if you really think that only modern world is full bad things. Politics was always an issue, even back when people lived in small clans, there were elders and decision-makers, and they talked about politics: which other clans should they attack, with which should they unite, how should their cultivate their produce, who should hunt and how should the hunters be rewarded, who should gather and how gathered goods should be distributed among clan members. You complain about modern narcissism, but that isn't a new thing either, just more affordable. Back in 14th century a regular Joe couldn't broadcast his narcissism because he had to work long hours and had no means to flaunt his beauty or wealth because he either lacked both or either of them due to poor living conditions, or his only audience was comprised of other regular Joes drinking pints after work. But royal courts? Higher societies? What is vanity fair, my man.
Aversion towards sex? Absolutely abnormal (I'm sorry) and if your excuse for being asexual is "muh modern degenracy" I beg you to read some historical accounts regarding sexual habits of our ancestors. There was always a lot of filth, a lot of degeneracy, just - again - whores of both sexes couldn't broadcast their activities because they lacked ways to do so. I can agree that social media ruined a lot, but it didn't really make people that way, it merely cast light on things that were kept in shadows for the longest time.
tl;dr: OP, you are full of shit and know nothing about anything

Good for you, I'm glad that your relationship is going well! As long as a couple is willing to work both ways the relationship will remain strong, it sounds like the both of you work well together.

I'm not saying none of this was there before, I only stressed the term "modern" to bring a picture to mind of the present world we live under, and the specific form of these things it contains. That's all I meant, and I know that this stuff has always existed. I simply meant that their existence in the world of 2018, in their modern forms, is what I cannot stand. The level of division which today's political environment perpetuates (wherein one can find themselves excommunicated from their family or friends simply because of their political leanings, and wherein it feels like a civil war is brewing in the USA and other parts of the world), the rampancy of rape as well as uncontained sex, seen in the hook-up cultures existing all-over, and whatever else. I never once said anything about "degeneracy" in my posts, by the way, I am not from Jow Forums and do not use their lingo. And social media, I said, has "enabled narcissicism", meaning it has provided a platform which encourages the innate narcissicism of people - I never said it "created" it. There's no need to be mean to me, even if I am indeed deluded. The purpose of this thread is for me to better understand where my errors lie.

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>7th plate
If you want to be a disgusting lardass, sure. It probably means your girlfriend/wife is too.

No, people fully understand what a "mommy gf" is, and it's atrocious that anyone who is an adult would consider it a good thing. I don't want to be taken care of by my mother. It's why I moved out and got a job.

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with asking for help and needing it, or occasionally showing some vulnerability after your dad dies, dog has to be put down, or shit sucks at work, but if you want a woman to constantly be an emotional sponge to you and give you "cuddles," you're pathetic.

I had a roommate like this. Dude had the world's biggest victim complex and all he wanted was a mommy gf. Really, he was just a spineless fuckup who couldn't take responsibility for himself.

Being held and told everything will be alright when it actually won't be is infuriating to me. Hugs and lies aren't going to fix the issue. I'm the same guy that said above that there's times where this is alright, but someone that ACTIVELY seeks out a "mommy gf" is looking for someone to either solve or distract them from their problems, instead of dealing with them.

I'm also an only child who has been taught a fierce sense of independence, and I I trust my friends to be there for me much more than my mother (dad is supportive but more in a 'I know you can figure this out, here are potential solutions'), so take that for what it's worth.

Every once in a while I look around and think "gee, it sure would be nice to hug someone right now," or "man, I'm sick as hell, it sucks that I have to drag myself out of bed because no one else is going to get me medicine or soup," but it's wholly superior to the kind of girlfriend that's always trying to be touchy feely or treating me like a child when I don't need it.

I don't understand why people are mad at some people wanting "mommy gf"
Sucking a breast while receiving a handjon is one of the most relaxing things a man can do.

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>being this much if a bitchboy that you need a woman to sustain you financially and treat you like a child
There will be a reckoning and people like that won't make it

Did I say I think less of people? No.

i think such people belong into mental asylum desu

OP here, just a reminder that my last post was . Carry on your conversations, but know that you are not speaking to me specifically, and I am only responsible for my own words.

I've got an awesome mommy girlfriend it's so amazing especially having my real mother abandoning me at age 1. I've never had/experienced mother type love before until now. it's amazing I feel like she's bringing out the best of me. They are out there user you just gotta look and be patient I hope you find one user

I dont go out of my way to treat my husband like a child, he even hates it if I teasingly baby talk him, it's just occasionally when he gets a bout of depression or sadness over something does he ask me to just comfort him. He says it's a lot like how a mother would comfort a child, but in the moment he loves it.

Also only child here! My parents instilled a lot of independence in me as well since I didnt really have a lot of friends or family where I lived, and they didnt want me to make the same mistakes they did, so I enjoy being able to help others in any way that I can if they ask me to.

So you are using your sexual partner and possible mother of your children as a surrogate mother for yourself? Shameful and disgusting...

Also to add on to my post after rereading it, I dont tell "lies" to my husband, we both know things can fall to shit at the drop of a hat if it wanted to but most of the time things will work out in the end, at least they have for us.

Bump.

Rather than a Mommy GF, you sound like you want a Mommy Domme. You describe wanting someone who will care for you and nurture you while having a loving, caring relationship. It doesn't strike me that you want to be equals at this point, but submissive and cared for. I would recommend checking out FetLife to see if there are gentle or mommy dommes in your area. Welcome to D/s.

t. Dom (male)

I am sorry but the fact that it is tied to B**M is really not something I want to come into contact with. I also don't like the formality of using such a site, compared to the organicness of finding someone in real life. I really don't like the power-play terminology either.

This thread will likely die soon. It was nice to get what replies I did. I guess I have a lot of internal work to do. Sigh, if only this could all be simpler.

I have depression and anxiety issues but I feel better when I confront them head on instead of someone feeling sorry for me. Same goes for relationships. I know I’m personally on one extreme here. But I think anyone that is going to just always act like a sack of sad shit and needs to be held constantly isn’t a real man.

By “lies” I meant shit like my roommate who didn’t get a job for four months and didn’t pay me. He’d spend all day in my house with his chubby girlfriend holding him and cuddling, saying everything was going to be alright, but no it wasn’t. He needed to be out taking on odd jobs, pounding the pavement, etc... Or he was going to get kicked out, which he did. Most people who want a mommy girlfriend want to feel so bad for themselves that someone else needs to feel bad for them.

A U S T R A L I A?

No one will save you. A future is not given to you. You must take it for yourself

>mommy domme
I'm not into it personally, buy my gf has a handjob fetish, she would edge me for hours until I cum, does this count?

>I am sorry but the fact that it is tied to B**M is really not something I want to come into contact with.

The enemy of the perfect is the good. I understand that you want a relationship which occurs under the most ideal conditions possible, but we are talking the real world. Most women do not want to be "Mommy," and even those which do might not have in mind the same things that you do? Does that include encouragement? Cuddling? Sexual dominance? etc. etc. If they have mismatches with you would you try to change them?

The women on FetLife have both experience and know precisely what they want and who they are. If you want a big milkies goth Mommy GF then you just have to find one and you can know that that is something they prefer as well. BDSM isn't all about riding crops and leather.

>I also don't like the formality of using such a site, compared to the organicness of finding someone in real life.

Finding someone for you is more important than where you found them, especially when you are looking for something uncommon. You need to check your expectations of what you are going to find "organically."

>I really don't like the power-play terminology either.

It is important to know what each side wants in a relationship. You want a Mommy GF which indicates you are submissive. There isn't anything wrong with that.

>I'm not into it personally, buy my gf has a handjob fetish, she would edge me for hours until I cum, does this count?

I'd consider it something in a relationship you both enjoy, though it doesn't necessarily have to have power connotations. No person is 100% dominant or 100% submissive and even during a given day we each oscillate a bit from our baseline. One of Mine who can be extremely bratty would be similar to what you described if I allowed her. She'd get all excited to "take care of Daddy," and act like she was in-charge.

I appreciate your information, friend. You obviously know more than I do regarding these things, but I am personally uncomfortable stepping into waters of the kind you've brought up. All I want is a girl my age who is normal in every regard, except that she behaves as a Mommy. But at the very least you've introduced me to a platform I wasn't aware of before, and perhaps I'll check it out at some point in the future. For now, though, I likely won't, to be honest. As said, this entire thread here was moreso made from sadness than because I intend to set up an actionable plan to attain what I've described myself to want here. This thread is to vent, and receive feedback from others, so thank you for the information. If you wouldn't mind, could you post for me a picture of what the "Mommy" section looks like on that site? Since I can't see anything until I've made an account, and you could better show me what the site is like.

Just let this tread die and go fuck your mother already
Dirty pervert