Give relationship redpills of why love is a lie

>You realize you're talking to yourself, right?
nope it's my roommate being a faggot

Men love women for who they are and a mans love lasts forever.
A womans love is temporary and conditional, dependent on how much money and what you can do for her is.
Nigger lover

im not talking to myself you conservative faggots

men are romantics larping as realists
women are realists larping as romantics
deep down every men wish the blue pill is real but it's not, so they have to swallow the red pill and accept the cold hard truth. but deep down they still think there's a woman who'll love them for who they are, a unicorn.
women know their inherent value, it's not degrees, it's not their love for video games, it's not how much money they make. it's youth, fertility, and the companionship they can offer. they know the value of their hole is much much much more valuable than any of the shit they try to convince you. ask any attractive woman if they'd rather lose their attractiveness but gain 20IQ or lose 20 IQ and gain more attractiveness. deep down every single one of them would rather gain attractiveness even if it's for a little while.

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Its not a lie. You have to find someone you can trust with everything. Your money, your phone, everything. If you cant trust your other, or you KNOW that you yourself cant be trusted, it wont work. It isn't impossible to find love. Be patient my user friends, you will all find a taste of love at least once in your life.

>Its not a lie. You have to find someone you can trust with everything. Your money, your phone, everything. If you cant trust your other, or you KNOW that you yourself cant be trusted, it wont work. It isn't impossible to find love. Be patient my user friends, you will all find a taste of love at least once in your life.

women are thots that can't be trusted

the likelihood of finding that person decreases drastically and sharply as you age, this is for both men and women.

t. virgin

33 year old archmage checking in. I mostly had issues with getting close to anyone due to severe porn addiction and dysthymia that still goes untreated this day. After getting my stem bachelors, a nice medical sales job $$$ and abs, I still generally avoid all women and refuse to approach anyone. I’d like to thank pol for forcing me to swallow enough red pills to see the truth. Now I enjoy watching all the single RN’s, medical assistants and thots at the gym stare at me and play with their hair and the subsequent disappointment when I ignore their advances.

I bring money, a nice place, awesome physique, hobbies and education to the table; all they have to offer is obesity, unwanted children, debt, HPV and used to vaginas. I might die a virgin and get frustrated/lonely from time to time, but goddamn if stacking money and avoiding thots doesn’t feel great.

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Does anyone know any mind hacks to remove ones need for companionship and intimacy? Not in some neck beard-fedora tipping way, but learning some way to be content with working/cooking/vidya/making music/etc without worrying about pussy or starting a family? I can’t think of a good reason to get involved with anyone or make any attempts. It would be nice to focus on perfection in my endeavors without distraction.

Jesus offers loving mercy and forgiveness to all who accept Him, OP.

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a true redpill a friends grandfather told - never marry a woman that you love more the she does you

just think of the fact that at this day and age the most likely outcome is you getting married, get 2 children, she starts fucking niggers and get a divorce, gets half of your money, you get to see children twice a month so they can take more of your money, you pay for child support and alimony. believe me, that fucks up your vidya performance more than thirst for pussy.

You don't need redpills, you need blackpills. Redpill is PUA cuck garbage that if you up your game she will magically start wanting to fuck you.

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>dissing pua
go clean your cum sock dumb faggot

I agree with everything you said 7 years ago I was fat and now I'm in shape and my business is doing great, I'm 31 and I am trying to find someone to marry and have a family.

>larping (romanticists vs realists)
crude but actually appreciable analogy

>rest of it
eh, you lost me

Love is a paradox

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I mean, it can be partly effective, but it won't make her love you. Usually it's some handsome guy telling ugly guys to "just be themselves" which is laughable. The only people it helps are attractive ones who are too autistic to pick up on basic social ques.

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Love is having faith despite it's impossibility.

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even unattractive guys can get top notch girls with pua. the redpill/blackpill about pua is that there are certain triggers and cues you can use to get a girl, works on almost any of them.

Good luck with that if that’s what you’re really wanting. Having a career, a degree, a bankroll, financial independence and not being a fat shit puts you at a large advantage in the dating pool, or so I’ve heard.

>Even poor people can get rich with this one secret. Subscribe to learn more!

I’ll give you the hardest redpill to swallow then: love isn’t a lie, you just never found it and never will because you yourself don’t deserve it, so you lie to yourself that it can’t exist and seek validation from similarly morose anons online.
Stop bitching about how humanity is lost, thots and söybois alike, when you yourself are a porn-addled, weed-fueled, underperforming procrastinator and a flabby autist at that. Work on yourself and the few meaningful people in this world will bring you into their fold.
Or stay a degenerate pleb and continue to be surprised each time the other fornicators and adulterers you consort with disappoint you.
This may feel more like a suppository than a pill, but it’s your call to swallow or stay cúcked

haven't poor people gotten rich before? seems like you might have some trouble, so ill give you some hints. be and feel interested (ask questions), never give a physical compliment (thats like a girl saying hey nice bank account), Once shes on the hook, withdraw, attention if not physically. Women want to feel like their amazingness earned your attention, if its easy youre done

Great work user

What do you suppose it signifies when you see physically attractive women out in public and don’t really care to try to get to know them or bother approaching? I can do the whole charming, make conversation thing when I’m selling medical stuff because it’s earning me some nice coin, but socializing to meet new people or to try and get laid seems alien to me. Like courtship and socializing for the sake of it is really stupid and unrewarding in the big scheme of things.

Probably just bad depression.

Why do you say that?

well, (((they))) want us hating our women and not being compatible with them, hence the bbc and mgtow memes and such. i dont really care about the fit women, similar to you, i could do the whole charming thing, but id rather not. though, sometimes we lie to ourselves so we dont overcome our fears. gaining enlightenment in spiritual matters seems much more important than chasing women.

now gib tips on how to get rich

This man knows.

The intersection of the people who try get rich quick schemes and people who get rich is very, VERY low.
> never give a physical compliment (thats like a girl saying hey nice bank account),
Advice by autists for autists. Normal people don't even have to think about this because it's obvious.

visualization is key to success, though understand the concept of the sphere of availability. you cant have a ferrari instantly if your bank balance is like 2k, start small and build up. know thyself, do what you love and you wont have to work a day. some more real tips include buying silver, platinum (deeply undervalued), generate passive income streams.

There's no love, there's infatuation that lasts for a couple of months and after that there's coping and jumping through hoops

im not talking about get rich quick schemes, ofc most of them are bs. if you stay on the same mindset when youre poor already, not changing will just leave you in the same spot.

Been maintaining a full time 4.0 the past 3 semesters, get to use the campus gym for free so I do cardio and lift 3x a week.

Girls are more than willing to ask for help on class subjects, but barely want to discuss anything else with me.

As far as the average student here is concerned, I'm more of a tool than a human being. Doesn't help that I started balding early.

I'd like to think there's someone out there for me, but with average looks and the apparent charisma of a wet towel, I'm going to be someone's safety net rather than someone's choice.

I can only expect this situation to get worse as I get older.

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Well, they are scary in a lot of ways. Even after you think you’ve “made it” in life, it would feel bad to invest time and resources in someone that could cheat on you and fuck everything up at the drop of a dime. Nobody really gives a fuck about you when you’re trying to do the right thing and avoid degeneracy while working to become the best version of yourself.

>Give relationship redpills of why love is a lie

Love is a biochemical reaction to get a male and female to pair bond long enough to get a child past the dangerous years... i.e. The 1st ~7 years or so.

After that, the chemicals fade out and the bond (love) fades with them.

What this means, is you're supposed to fuck, make babies, and stay together only long enough until the kids are mostly self sufficient.

I'm saying PUA are hucksters. They're selling the "temporarily embarrassed millionaire" dream to the unfuckable. At it would seem that you latched on hook, line, and sinker.

the intensity with which you love someone steadily declines after the first year and that's because the chemical reactions in your brain that make you feel love are only designed to last through 1 pregnancy
after that males start feeling the same attractions towards other females to repeat the same process and further their genes
females act similarly but their genetic programming is reward based that's why roasties have no trouble being whores until they are too old and infertile to serve any purpose and men don't web them anymore, that's when they enter suicide mode

tl;dr: love is a lie, spreading your seed is the biological meaning of life

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they are, but thats what you should overcome. you have quite a blackpilled viewpoint, which I understand, but you make your own reality. thats why what i said before is correct, dont marry or love a woman more than she does you. though, if youre serious about enlightenment studies and such women should be avoided, though sex magick is real

Love is just a chemical reaction in your brain that releases dopamine to encourage pair bonding.
It lasts about 2-3 years before your brain adjusts and becomes used to the same stimuli at which point you wont feel it anymore.
That whole process evolved to create children, after 2-3 years when enough children have been produced it's no longer evolutionary beneficial which is why it doesn't last.

Men evolved to love women for who they are as an individual so you'll protect them from dangerous predators rather than another specific woman.
Women evolved to love men for what they can provide in terms of resources, and they will monkey branch to another man if another man can produce more resources.
Women will never ever love you for who you are, they cannot.

In our early tribal years, tribes would wipe each other out in war regularly and the men would be killed but the women would be kept for breeding purposes, those women who changed allegiances to the new tribe would go on to reproduce where as the women who objected would be abandoned or killed. So there was a selection pressure to produce women who have no concept of loyalty. That's why they often are ok with flooding the country with invaders through immigration or will dump one man for a replacement on a whim.

im saying youre completely wrong. sometimes even attractive guys cant get girls, because they lack the essence to close the deal. if the methods didnt work, i wouldnt be talking about them. not my fault youre too ugly to get past your mental blocks

Dude, same. Except my GPA took a hit and is 3.9

Took me a long time to realize that there is no perfect person or soulmate out there for me. Mom’s wisdom about “finding your match” was basically bullshit. As a wizard, I’ve had some time to sit back and observe that even the brave people that go out and keep getting rejected and follow through end up disenchanted on the other end of the spectrum. Either completely avoiding women, never making an effort and being lonely for the rest of your days, or suffering from an over abundance of casual sex or getting an std or having divorces or unwanted children. Plenty of anons visit pol to talk about how they wish they were virgins and naive again after fucking a number of married women and learning about the black pill of female nature.

We’re also just apes on the inside, exercising restraint and only doing what’s convenient or what we think we can get away with.

abracadabra - I create what I speak. the choice is up to you

the only way is to have an abundance of pussy, which requires constant effort and personal growth. this applies to everything in life though, so it's nothing to fear.

Anakin betrayed his bros for an old Jewish slag, he's the ultimate women respecter.

learn how to transmute your sexual energy, thats the only way to succeed for what youre after

The only thing that made women trustworthy in the past was the crushing boot of male authority on their neck 24/7. Women have to be beaten into submission; not necessarily physically, but they have to be kept in a constant state of fear. Fear that whoring around, slutty behavior, or disobedience to your husband carries unavoidable, catastrophic, life-destroying consequences. Women are evil creatures and will always choose evil if given the choice. Successful societies have to train their women to be virtuous just like a man trains a dog to be obedient. If the dog/woman doesn’t fear and respect their master’s absolute authority they will never be well-behaved.

Just disappointed with the human condition is all. I can’t wrap my head around behaviors that come naturally to other people. Spending too much time on your own can have that effect. Fear of love and intimacy isn’t something to overcome, but more so not seeing enough value that would incentivize me to bother from the outset.

Some of us live and love, others like myself learn to cope.

>fighting against the same people who encouraged to be what you are

yes this.

ok guys this is the secret to life long happiness in marriage and relationships. you have to engage in "bonding" sex instead of sex for reproduction. this requires both partners to refrain from having an orgasm. it is the orgasm that drives sexual partners apart due to evolutionary biology. read "cupid's poisoned arrow" to learn more about what i'm talking about.

Show me your ways, user. How to transmute? I’ve only studied the ham-sah chant, which seems to work, albeit mildly.

Not if you’re willing to step just a bit out of the comfort zone for a year or two. I met my love when she was 16 and I was 28. Been together for 12 years now, couldn’t be happier. When she was under 18 we got the odd eyebrow raise and comment but it’s very small in the grand scheme of things.

If you tried to do that in the US you would be in prison

In some states yeah, 16 is the age of consent in majority of states though.

Transmutation of that sort is preceded by sex and a relationship with a female. What about trasmutation where women and relationships with them are generally avoided.

I feel you user, youre on a path already. im dissapointed too, but realize who (((rules))) over us.. then when you see the truth behind the npc meme.. truth is stranger than fiction.

THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN
For most men, ejaculation involves spewing their
energy and semen out through their genitals.
Afterward, they feel they have released stress. The
superior man’s orgasm more often explodes up
his spine and into his brain, from there raining
down through his body like an ambrosial bliss
of rejuvenation. The technique for converting
depletive orgasms into rejuvenative orgasms involves
contracting the pelvic floor near the genitals and
drawing energy upward along the spine, though
the use of breath, feeling, and intention.

Wow, a cogent, non-troll response on pol.. color me surprised.

Thanks fren. Looks like I have some reading to do.

that's possible but i think it's healthier to be with a mate. humans are social creatures, we are not meant to live in isolation.

I wish I knew. It gets worse as you age. I never gave a fuck about women in my 20's, now in my 30's I have a deep longing for children.

>esoteric horseshit
You'll have to accept you're fucking a narcissistic child pretending to be an adult eventually. All this does is make it sound more dignified and masks it under "sacred duty" BS.

Good God you're more pathetic than I thought.

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>cuck general

True indeed. Doing that would be fighting against nature, but I can’t see myself ever getting involved with anyone, having a wife, a family, sex, cuddling, or even dating. OP talks of love, but there has to be some other higher meaning to life. I gave up on women 15 years ago, user. I’m not changing now.

I know it won’t go anywhere, but oh well, story time:

> learning Persian and touching up on my Arabic knowledge, need practice
> get a language learning app, put a non-pajeet tier bio for my profile with pic
> flurry of messages from Arabs and Persians, guys and chicks alike
> never happened before, and I’m usually the very introverted type
> dozens and dozens have messaged me, but I’ve barrowed down who I talk with to a Saudi girl, two Iranian dudes and three Iranian girls
> one the Iranian girls is like me, cooped up all day doing schoolwork with no social life
> I find out she is in school for much of what I’m doing
> we joke and flirt a bit, get closer
> she gets clingy at first (“you haven’t messaged me in a while” shit like that), and I tell her to calm the fuck down very honestly
> she’s stopped that and we talk once every day or two days
> she’s quite pretty to me and she likes me

Idk where it’s going, but I like her. I know as a burger I probably couldn’t do much even if i wanted, but it’s better than talking to no girls at all where I am while I waste me time on this damned degree. Hold me bros, I know I’m being contrarian, but I usually don’t like girls in my country.

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No need fren, knowing that someone has listened and will try something is enough. Look into breathing techniques if you havent already. Try the wim hof breathing and do cold showers or ice baths. Learn to control the flight or fight mode, this will also help to have a clear mind at the moment of orgasm.

>ifag filename
>frogposting
None of that wall of text ever happened.

Came here to pretty much post this.

Go with your gut and do what feels right, fren. You have a small time to immerse yourself in education and degree before establishing a career though. Keep that in mind.

>firstworlder gets baited by thirdworlder golddiggers
Gee user I wonder why it's happening. Hmm what could those people want from you, it must be your great personality

If only you knew, my yellow skinned friend... it takes up a bit more time than it probably should for me. These aren’t even the people I speak with normally.

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I’m aware of that Ivan, believe me. I’ve seen a little bit what your women can do too, and I’m perfectly cynical about what women want too. It’s just nice to have a diversion is all and a better fap than normal (I’ll be honest). Sad, but this is life doing a degree all day in a small town for me. I go out and dance in raves to get my social fix irl, but I don’t normally interact.

I don’t want to orgasm or release myself at all though. It would be optimal to save the energy for the weights and a diamond hard physique. I would trade my libido or desire tonight for the energy and focus to accomplish my goals. Finding a means through which to remain stoic and resilient when the lizard brain is telling me to mate, find companionship and copy my DNA is the main objective/

Thx frend, I’ll probably sniff out the pajeets, zaynabs, and Persians when I go to grad school, but I pretty much assume they all have one or two boyfriends on speed dial in a place like that. It’s a cold world boys

If you find conspiracy theories about MGTOW and other things being (((jewish conspiracy))), as cogent arguments then I have some bad news for you.

If you lack a natural understanding of why people court and have relationships and all that stuff then you're almost certainly have an imbalance of chemicals in your brain that means the natural reward chemicals (dopamine etc) aren't triggering the right response in your brain. That can be genetic and it can be due to severe depression which a lot of the time people don't even know they have especially if they're socially isolated. You can goto your doctor and describe that and they'll put you on a course of SSRIs which fix the reuptake of dopamine in your brain. All that really means is that stimuli that would normally create a dopamine hit to your brain and reward you for that behaviour will start working again and positive interactions with women should give you the "normal" amount of feel good reward.

I'm not saying that's necessarily a good thing or that you should do it, I'm just saying that if you desired to understand other peoples behaviour you're unlikely to do it intellectually because that stuff is subjective and you need to feel it rather than try and understand it.

If you consider yourself intellectual then stop all this hurr durr (((jews))) shit, it's just retarded. I'm a MGTOW and I know loads of MGTOWs and their reasons for going their own way and I've read hundreds of posts by MGTOWs describing their experiences and it's just men fed up with women and their power over men via the proxy of the state.

Men adore.
Women admire.
Both serve an evolutionary purpose.
He who achieves a lot gets admired. He also in all likelihood has very good genes.
Women want the very best for their child. Material resources today are a surrogate for conquests in most cases, but the real deal (hunters) is ever-more valuable.
Thus it follows that women admire men who achieve a lot.
Men on the other hand purely respond to the chemicals and the hormones he feels/interprets when finding the kind of mate who's competent and willing enough to be trusted with his kids.
It's much simpler for us.

Now we can bring spirituality into the mix and make things much more complicated, but that's a slightly less quick rundown.

This is actually the core conflict in Bloodborne. Seriously. It's mind shattering to realize the Moon Presence is really the Eternal Jew embodied, manipulating and leeching off Whites (Pthumerians) and the West (Church), but that's not the real point. We're beasts, plain and simple. Sapience was either a 'lucky' aberration or the result of alien fuckery, but probably not 'Divine'. The Doll is the perfect waifu because she's artificial, a Dream.

Once you truly embrace that you're incapable of "choosing your own madness," baffling yourself with bullshit, the only option is becoming an alien. Longing for companionship, never truly connecting. Knowing you see people as they are, pretending you don't. To stay sane.

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Lemme guess, the path is / should be reincarnating until we find a mate, humanity endures until the Omega Point, we upgrade to semi-robotic lifeforms and retroactively create the cosmos / nirvana.

Pic related happens only if these criteria are met
>beta male
>wifes father was absent, weak, damaged her
>beta male is putting his wife on a podest
>beta male doesn't put bounndaries into place
>beta male fails the every day shittests
All in all if you avoid these you're all gucci

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You’re projecting too much; I don’t delve into the Jewish conspiracy stuff in that sentence or even MGTOW. The depression is there to be certain, but there isn’t any value in taking a pill to do perform other behaviors that are commonplace with the rest of my species. I want full dominion over my brain; to evolve beyond the need for a partner. Maybe there is nothing that needs correction and it’s the rest of the world that is too polluted to function properly. I’m at peace with the idea of never finding someone or experiencing love or sex, but I want to fully develop the mind set that wouldn’t further complicate my neuroses as a result. Being lonely but focused on self mastery is preferable to popping Wellbutrin and downloading Tinder.

I never got into the lore of that title despite playing it through several times. That’s decent material and elegantly written, fren.

While I understand what you are saying frend, I believe there is a paradox between extreme abstinence and sexual feelings. People like priests and terrorists often do things because of their sexual urges, such as killing people or being radical, especially when it comes to women or successful groups they have resentment toward. The best example I can find is Jow Forums denouncing degeneracy and some women as it does while almost half the threads on a given day have either women as pictures or discuss women-related issues.

Not that Jow Forums wrong because of this, but sex is an important instinct to squarely address and not just put away in yourself, for that can have harmful repercussions. In my opinion, only very few people can ignore sex enough to do what a monk or certain hermits and mystics do. That’s why I like Sufis and Orthodox priests; they bite the bullet and get wives when the need them.

youtu.be/qTNA6U13rNY

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A woman can only love her child. And that too is sometimes not seen in some.
Everything else is simply affection. Fleeting emotions , a result of the decisions they make high on the hormonal cocktail their brains produce.
Sorry if it triggers some of you trad waifu incels, but its the truth. Women don't love you. They won't ever love you. And if they do, you better believe their definition of love is different. Do not play a rigged game. Become the man you wanted your father to be. Everything else including love will follow. Don't let anonymous neckbeards who cry about white babies, loose godless women or the society make your life decisions. Fucking get a hold of yourself and make some decisions for yourself. Look at the stats. Learn from your experiences. Improve. If you think its worth it, go ahead, nobody can stop you. If you think it will limit you, go ahead, work on yourself more.
Just don't ask questions while being full of doubt

The "finding your match" thing isn't bullshit, really.
It's just something that only applies to women.
They want and look for a match, whereas men are looking for just anyone who's fertile and trustworthy.

Do you not believe in centuries of Jew manipulation or just it's direct involvement in absolutely everything? Mass manipulation is usually a passive process of observation, only intervening to slightly direct natural impulses. "Lost in the Labyrinth" has always been a major tool / illustrative process in (((secret societies))). The "reasons" behind MGTOW are perfectly valid and respectable, sure, but money and sexuality becoming so convoluted was absolutely by design. Once you're really fed-up with your fellow man it's hard to truly care about awakening them, let alone fighting or dying for them.

No, it's more like this:
Everyone has a wavetable.
My wave and your wave may be entirely different.
It's possible they're harmonic and resonate.
It would be perfect if they aligned.
That's what people refer to with the soulmate shtick.
Life is a series of waveforms bouncing off each other, cancelling each other out or harmonising with them.
The trick is to understand what you are so you may recognise it in others.

Projecting what precisely?

I'm really just saying that agreeing with that other user when their answer seemingly for everything is jewish trickery is just not smart.

Well you said that you seek to understand your peers so that seems like it's of value to you, no? I'm just saying you're unlikely to intellectually understand their behaviour unless you can feel that subjective strength of dopamine hitting your brain. I'd also argue that a world where you're unnaturally lacking your brains reward system is a pretty dull one.

You can't evolve beyond a need for a partner because right now at least, you can't evolve at all without reproduction of some kind. People who suffer more emotional states are fundamentally capable of intellectual thought that's divorced from emotion it's just harder, it requires rigor and practice.

Describing the other side of the argument as popping well burtin and downloading tinder is creating a false dichotomy, and I think you probably know that. Some things you can't understand intellectually, at least not well, to understand very strong emotions like love you need to have felt them first hand.

Prostitution is the oldest profession for a reason. Plenty of callgirls are even perfectly fine with providing a "loving" experience.