Am i piece of shit

>be male 26
>at work
>theres this cute 29 girl
>she has a daughter
>also apparently is not married but in relationship
>for some reason she flirts with me like crazy, even other females at work pointing out she likes me
>openly calls me "her boyfriend" even as a joke
>not going to lie id love to tap that great butt of hers
>but also dont want to fuck shit up in her "relationship" that probably sucks as is
>on other hand i dont want to promise her bright future with me cuz its not there
>shes cool and all but like i said has child already
Even if its just flirting, it makes me feel good that actually attractive girl gives me attention (im ugly desu) but on other side it screams the girl has issues.

Should i just cut it off and starve her of attention

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>theres this cute 29 girl
>she has a daughter
Oh no no no no
Get the fuck out

Just make it clear that you're not looking for something serious. Give her the D, OP.

Why not just get some action and tell her you should keep it casual?

This. Don’t do it OP.

Wait do you want to date the daughter or the mother? Because if it’s it’s daughter, go for it. But if it’s the single mother, don’t you even think about it. Especially if you work together XD

Daughter is like 7 so i dont think it would work out bucko!

>>but also dont want to fuck shit up in her "relationship" that probably sucks as is
Dick her or somebody else will. This shit happens at every job place. You're either in the group that fucks around or you're in the group that talks about how everybody fucks around.
>the girl has issues.
Of course she does. Everybody does. She just wants a lay just like everybody else.
Tap it, wear some protection, don't get attached, have fun. Or don't and save yourself a potential headache at the workplace. But throw all that morality bullshit in the trash, it won't do you any good regardless of what you do.

Thing is her guy is not that bad looking, pretty fit and all

Maybe she just hates him guts, it seems like he knocked her up or something i havent really asked

what does her ass look like

Really good when she wears those high waist pants

All her fat stores on ass

>cute 29 girl
you cannot use the number 29, cute and girl in the same sentence

Look, she's a single mom so the man you hear she's in a relationship with is just a man that helps her out financially and gives her dick occasionally. Meaning, she is open for business, but do not catch the feels for a woman (notice she's no girl) like this. She is good for fucking around with and that is all. Don't meet her kid, don't go to her house, don't go on any dates. She comes over and you fuck and she goes home.

She might develop feelings for you and get attached and obsessive. Or not.

Don't shit where you eat.

Fuck her and you will get #metoo'd, fired and have your reputation destroyed
Don't fuck her and you will get #metoo'd, fired and have your reputation destroyed

You can only lose in this game. Just have a helium tank ready.

I dont give a shit about that workplace, can quit any day
She seems to stare at me vrry often, winks and makes sexy eyes

Attractive femoid
Sorry

>Attractive femoid
single mom, don't forget that.

Like I said, single moms are the second easiest pussy on the planet. (married women with kids being the easiest if you assure them you won't fuck up their marriage) so go for it. Having a bf doesn't make any difference to her but I warn you, do not catch feels for her or you are fucked.

Double this. She's looking for a sucker. Do whatever you have to go, even if you have to get an escort with a big butt to get over hers it will ultimately be better for you in the long run

>gives her dick occasionally

i know for a fact she doesn't get laid, at least by him. they're in the middle of breaking up or something (i've seen them fight before and she's stated he won't touch her, and he has been fucking around) so i'd just be a placeholder, or maybe even some sidepiece while she and he work things out.

Boys who forget they were children once and have daddy issues

Ok cuck. Now go lick your bull clean.

You have to understand that a woman will always have a place in her heart for the guy she had a child with. He's her first choice and will always be. If one day the guy would magically get his shit together, bare you get her pregnant she'd dump you right away. She already has a child, if you really don't have any other option then dick her down but don't settle with her. Unfortunately you can't do that because you work with her, if you do otherwise then prepare for a LOT of drama. Also maybe she's not into you at all and it's all in your head. Don't shit where you eat.

This. I live in a place with a fuck ton of single mothers and 9/10 of them are fucking their baby's father on the regular, even while dating other guys. It's a really ugly type of mess you're better off being celibate than dealing with.

Also you really only fall into two places with single mother. You're either the White Knight savior of their lives (as in you have money and are a clear upgrade from their spermdoner) and they'll song your praises from the roof tops, or you're just another man they'll shit all over with the scorn of a thousand pump'n'dumps. Not only is your reputation on the line but your job too. I would steer clear.

I'm a woman in this situation. You have to understand you are flat out wrong, and telling guys not to have healthy, fulfilling, satisfying relationships with a woman just because she's already reproduced is the dumbest nonsensical shit... meanwhile men are knocking up women left and right and having conniptions over it despite that's what they were made to do.
She may have a "place in her heart" for her kid's dad, that doesn't mean she wants anything to do with or sleeps with him. What utter shite.
I agree with the don't shit where you eat part, but OP sounds too goofy to hold an adult conversation with the woman anyway.

maybe she just flirts with you because it's fun and doesn't want to do anything physical with you

True but false. It's far harder to have a healthy meaningful relationship with a woman with kids because the part of the relationship where your bond truly develops can never happen - the part where you're on each others mind 24/7 in the relationships infancy. You can never devote yourself 100% to anything from the point that you have kids. Its sad, but there's no easy answer to this. From a value proposition standpoint there's no rational reason anybody should pursue a relationship with someone who has kids when they themselves do not. Men or women. It's just a bum deal.

This. Just make this out of it. You dont want a woman that has a freaking kid. Dont be a pathetic loser.

Yeah, you're trash

>It's far harder to have a healthy meaningful relationship with a woman with kids because the part of the relationship where your bond truly develops can never happen - the part where you're on each others mind 24/7 in the relationships infancy. You can never devote yourself 100% to anything from the point that you have kids. Its sad, but there's no easy answer to this.

Spot the teenager.

fuck her and marry her daughter

ditto this

Op here again

I understand the concerns and all that is at risk when dealing with mothers
I def not going to pusb for anything and just enjoy talks and smiles.

Sad i didnt meet her when we were both free but that would also probably mean she wouldn't be attracted to me in the first place.

For some reason i keep attracting already married girls, bitches with husbands at work and they are flirty to me, which blows my mind and shatters my disney tier dream of having a cute trustworthy girlfriend one day

Do i give out some provider good guy vibe or what rhe fuck is uo

Taking care of someone else's child is degeneracy at its finest

Reread his post.

Dumb whore

STFU Roasties

Single moms are trash and a waste of time.

You can take your fucked uo belief syatem and shove it your baby daddy’s asshole, cunt.

Ahhkc fuck me I actually disagree, you give off total daddy vibes taken or not... but

What the fuck is this thread
Are we gana shag or

Unless you are a widow with your own kids, going for women with her own kids will not be smart for you.

>29
>has a daughter
>in a relationship
>flirts
>at work

Connect the dots here.

I'm older than you two, work in an office, been in relationships and I know what I'm saying.

Their relationship certainly suck, but imagine for a second if you'd like to have someone in your life that acted like she does around other men. Even if you don't want anything serious.

Have you been through relationships? Things are not perfect 100% of the time, right? Do you want someone that makes this transparent and paints a bad picture of you? Do you want the bad things to leak to the place you work?

If she has a daughter, she is in a relationship and still works on substitutes or orbiters, it probably means she can't be alone for a moment in her life.

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Also this

Avoid. If you engage with her and it affects her job or her relationship/family life you WILL become the bad guy.

It's a heavy weight to carry, but you can and you will carry it. You first, user. You can brave any and all temptation.

She is literally desperate to lock someone in because she is a single mom, and is manipulating you. It's pretty obvious bro, don't do anything. Woman prey on men like us when they get older so they can get a pass.

Confirmed. Women with kids are a poor shot no matter how hot, because even an uggo without a kid promises a more consistent night and there's nothing a guy is gonna want less than to pull out of his lay mid-thrust so she can go comfort a child or something.

It's never worth it and their poor decisonmaking skills breathe and live, so it's not like you're somehow being hidden away from something you'll 'miss out' on.