How does Jow Forums deal with a girl they like having many sex partners? Nothing churns my stomach more than the thought of a girl I'm interested in fucking other people. Idk how cucks do it desu.
Is it hypocritical though that I have previous partners? How do I get over this? My ex fucked another dude and she instantly became dead to me.
Does pair bonding affect men too?
Also it seems women will inevitably stray and cheat and how do you stop yourself from being homicidal? I think I need help
Pair bonding affects men far less than women. And you should next her. There are more apples on the tree. No need to bother with the rotten ones.
You move on
Get past it
You wont change her
She'll just lie and cheat
You don’t deal with it. You drop her like a hot coal and lift
Far less maybe, but it can still affect right? Just need to experience more partners for affects to take place?
Stop being a faggot
First you have to realize you’re a beta and that means you care too much about a woman that it negatively impacts your well-being (putting them on a pedestal)
How you deal with this information is your own doing
This is a lie men tell themselves so they can continue to be degenerate. Practice what you preach.
Little late for that because I have over 50 sexual partners
Like pottery.
>being interested in a slut
you are the problem
>caring this much over dumb roasties bad decisions.
Im gonna write you a prescription, take 2 bleach tablets and call me in the morning.
>Is it hypocritical though that I have previous partners?
yes
I'm really sorry user. Truly I'm really sorry. The thought of the one I'm in love with fucking someone else makes me sad and sick. I get it, it's one of the worst feelings. But you can't be a hypocrite. If you were to get a good wife, one who saved her virginity for her husband, do you think she'd want her husband having fucked some other girl? It would devastate her. You can't do that to her.
Only virgin men deserve a virgin woman.
Yes it is biologically different when men have partners compared to when women have partners. But biology isn't the only thing, it's morals. And think about how your wife would feel. She rejected every Chad her whole life to wait for her husband and you couldn't even do the same? You put your dick in some girl? It will make her sick with sadness. She'll never forget it. It won't be the same. It won't be just you two, ever. If you're not a virgin you can't get a virgin girl.
Best thing you can do is redpill people to have sex with one person. Teach your kids to do better. At least get some redemption there. Waiting for marriage and traditional values worked beautifully before feminists and jews ruined it and said nah don't wait, sleep around, whatever. We need to bring it back.
the dumb roastie in this case is the girl he wants to marry. caring about roasties: no. caring about your future wife: yes. the thing is you have to get a virgin wife. then you can care about her.
It’s 2019 this shouldn’t upset you.
>But biology isn't the only thing, it's morals.
Then you have no room to talk about her decisions.
You were her 50 too.
You dislike her number because you have a low number. If your number was higher it would not bother you. Realize this is your insecurity at work. Her number does not matter on an individualistic level; Vet her appropriately and it is irrelevant.
Two solutions: Increase your partner count for an artificial ego boost; work on yourself for an actual self-esteem increase.
Disregard the majority of Jow Forums's advice.
lol fag
Shut the fuck up bitch.
I lost the love of my life because she was a virgin but I wasn't, I'd slept with over 10 women. After she found that out she didn't want me anymore. I never got over her, she was perfect. I learnt a very hard lesson that it it matters on both sides. Purity is meant for purity.
Dude the feminist insult of "insecurity" is getting so fucking lame. "if you don't want the person you love to have been cummed in you're insecuruuure." Stop falling for it. Insecure is not the only emotion people feel. Sometimes you just want to love someone without them fucking another person. We're not all npcs.
>considering dating a girl that ive been fucking on and off for 10 years while she was dating/engaged to my roommate and friend
Is this a good idea? shes the only wahmen i don't mind being around and she once drove through a 2 hour blizzard to make me thankgiving dinner and suck my peepee
and shes only ever fucked me and the dude i was cucking for the last decade.
:'(
I'd tell you stop being a faggot, but somebody beat me to it and I'm sure you haven't stopped being a faggot. Girls are allowed to enjoy sex. Girls are allowed to live their lives and have many sexual partners. Are insecure that you won't measure up? Pussy will stretch a mile before it tears an inch. She's probably fucked a mile of nigger dick before you ever heard her name. Get over it or stay in your mammy's basement jacking off to anime.
biology says it's bad when men fuck around, just not AS bad. so if you want to be a nihilist fag you still shouldn't be a degenerate manwhore.
Insecurity is real, user. Just because feminists use it doesn't mean it's false. Being mad / sad that a women has fucked other guys when you've fucked other girls is plain retarded. If it isn't insecurity it is mental retardation. Pick your poison.
Did she cheat on you? You do what they do, have backups. So when she does cheat you move on to the next.
this
degenerate man sluts have no right to be choosey about their women
Stop "liking" girls and choose a woman based on her ability to produce a strong, traditional family with you at the helm.
>Fucking your friends girl
I don't think you know what being a friend means. She can do better, don't worry about her.
>How does Jow Forums deal with a girl they like having many sex partners
I don't like girls with "many sex partners."
Don't have oneitis. Stop being 20. Marry a baptist girl, most churches have multiple young women looking for men to marry since there's typically slightly more women than men in churches.
God's got a plan.
I agree that it's lame to be sad that she fucked guys when he fucked girls too, but it's still understandable. But if he was a virgin (by choice obviously) you'd see how it's not insecure. I didn't even know the "insecure" over sex stuff was a thing until feminists started saying it. Most people don't feel insecure. They just feel the normal human emotion of not wanted your beloved wife to have some dude's cum inside her. It does not matter how confident you are. (confident is the opposite of insecure) Confidence does not make you want to be a cuckold.
cuck
i don't
thats why im sitting on Jow Forums on a friday night as the last of my youth slowly disappears
>she can do better
probably. but i want to squeeze her milkies for a couple more decades and a relationship could let me do that
Men and women shouldn't be held to the same standards of behavior. No evidence has emerged that men pair bond in the same way that women do. I am against polygamy in men in principle, but if a man agrees to change his behavior, then he's not a lost cause/damaged goods; whereas a woman is.
i learned to stop asking. my first real gf told me she'd had 8 partners before me, i almost fucking puked. the relationship never recovered. as long as she's clean i make it clear i don't want to know.
and remember- women always lie about the number anyways.
>idk how cucks do it
your doomed with this thinking
Agreed. Though my problem is that while I'm still a virgin, I have fapped to porn daily for over a decade. Trying to quit but it is hard. If I were to kick porn and masturbating for good would it be hypocritical of me to want a pure virgin girl for a wife? I may be a virgin but I am far from pure, and I wonder if I am even deserving of a decent wife at this point.
No hymen, no diamond.
this stems from insecurity, furthermore: women are not the innocent creatures that male-dominated society has portrayed them as.
also it's 2019 and women have been empowered and are no longer burdened by societal or religious setbacks.
women control the world and always have, it's just become more apparent as of late.
>Is it hypocritical though that I have previous partners?
Stop falling for the gender equality jew
Its because you are a cuck op. you are comparing yourself to her past lovers and are worried you may be inadequate, which you probably are. you cant focus on making her yours, and instead focus on the other men who have.
worst advice in the thread, kill yourself leaf.
cuckoldry is many levels of pathetic
how did that scrawny faggot with glasses and acne get a girl like that. dammit. he must be loaded af
tfw the mother of your child sucked of two dozen strangers, swallowed half and kisses the baby on the lips before flicking off the light
>biology says it's bad when men fuck around
where does it say that?
it's not about equality. it's not treating good white women like garbage. a good white woman doesn't deserve a nigger manwhore.
Well first of all, are you a man with low partner count? Because you can’t be someone who’s slept with 20 women and ask for a virgin woman. Cuz even though it doesn’t affect guys as much, you’re still a man whore.
Now if you are not a a man whore, then think about this:
Why are you getting upset over rotten food? It’s already rotten, you shouldn’t eat it, throw it away and don’t look at the trash can again. Find new food that isn’t rotten yet. There are a lot of girls who don’t fuck around. You need to be mindful of where you fish.
There are a lot of damaged women out there. And the goal is to not marry them, so you should thank them for showing you their true color. Makes it easier to next and forget.
If you play the game by giving them authority over your life, by allowing their action to determine your worth (many guys think you need to slay a lot of pussy to be worthy, news flash, only degenerates look up to those notch counts, actually normal, sensible human beings would find you disgusting and lack moral, therefore weak), then of course you will lose every single time.
But according to God, fucking around us immortal, and dirty. Let’s not forget the shit that follows:
Babies
Child support
STD
Spiritual emptiness
Complication in one’s personal life (more women, more troubles, especially the ones who are loose)
Other men might have beef with you (cuz you might have slept with their women without you knowing)
Let them be. Let them waste their youth capitals on immoral and degenerate men. They are a match made in heaven. Just know that you don’t have to get down to their level to attain happiness. I’m glad I don’t have to pay child support or deal with women bombing my phone so I can get shit done.
God’s plan works in mysterious ways.
It disgusts me too user, I think it does for all healthy guys. Relationships are hierarchy based, we seek out women by value. Part of their value derives from their womb. When they sleep with someone else, their value decreases. It disgusts us to see what could of been such a valuable asset being degraded. Learning a woman has a high partner count invokes a feeling of disgust for the same reason learning a new restaurant was staffed by illegal aliens; or learning about Rhodesia, or South Africa before the fall. It's a feeling of lose for something which may have otherwise been a great contribution to the world.
Men and women have different reasons for their value, women are born valuable and most only avoid losing it in life through abstaining from certain actions. Men are born without value, and must work their lives to build it up.
I dated an older woman who had sex with a bunch of guys I'm sure, who did more with her than I never did.
I had plenty of fun with her body and we fucked for years too.
I was fine because I knew she's fucking me at the time, and then she's fucking other dudes these days and I'm fucking other women.
the opposite of insecurity is confidence. you sound like buzzfeed when you say confident men are cucks. not wanting the girl you love to have sex with some wigger is not unconfident in any way.
>How does Jow Forums deal with a girl they like having many sex partners?
By getting over your oneitis and just getting a sex doll.
She's not really your wife unless she has a hymen and gives you the blood covenant.
Good mindset, but ur totally pure regardless if you feel pathetic from porn addiction. At least you recognize it’s a problem. Just put together a few day streaks and go from there. I’m the youngest of 6 brothers so I started looking at porn before I even went to elementary school. I finally realized it was a problem sophomore year of college, took me a year with constant relapses to get to the point where needed a gf to stay sane. Then I finally got over rejection and having unattainable standards and met my wife. Meeting a women you can marry is probably the only way you’ll ever stop, U can fucking do it bro.
If he was a volcel it'd be different I agree.
>most people don't feel insecure
You might be surprised, user. It's really common, actually. It's not a healthy trait. If you've fucked other girls it is not okay for you to be upset she's fucked other guys. It is hypocritical. Insecurity is just a common reason why (do I fuck her as good as she has been fucked? dick length / girth? etc).
>cuckold
Her past relationships by definition cannot cuck you. Meme wise, if your partner counts are similar you aren't being cucked either.
Absolutely degenerate. Also hypocritical of you to be so judgemental of others' moral fibre when you're such a pathetic individual yourself
>Because you can’t be someone who’s slept with 20 women and ask for a virgin woman. Cuz even though it doesn’t affect guys as much, you’re still a man whore.
Disagree. No evidence has been put forward which proves that men pair bond the same way women do. If a man agrees to change his behavior, then he can still form a family. Women, on the other hand, are irreparably damaged goods.
Judging a man's value based on his partner count is like judging a woman based on her career success. A man who has been sexually degenerate in the past is not irreparable.
To those saying OP is degenerate, hypocrite, or undeserving because of his actions : Why? Do you honestly believe men and women should be held to the same standards. and if so why?
The reason men sleeping with random women is bad is because it reduces their value to potentially be with someone that may intend to breed them. If OP intended to breed the women he slept with, no foul, if not, than OP should be held accountable for his actions by having to meet with the father's of all the girls he slept with and pay them compensation; or man up and take on care of all of them for life
Thanks user
it doesnt cause men to not be able to pair bond but from one fellow man to another who's thinking about creating a family and creating a stable society, men who fuck around create damaged women, especially when they take innocent women, talk them into bed, and do not commit afterward.
i saw my friends did this and it's disgusting because all they can think about is their dick instead of the consequences they brought to the girl, themselves, and just the world at large
the bill always comes due
How is being single even a thing?! Just marry your virgin high school sweetheart like I did.
What?
well if you live in a big city there is no need to save the population. if you live in a little tribe and you can die out, sleeping around will replenish the population, however all the new generation will be related (half-siblings). so you're causing incest. the solution to the incest problem is to ship your daughters off at a young age to another tribe. that sound like something low life niggers and muslims would do.
promiscuity is for spreading seed. that means if you have sex with a girl but never make babies with her, you are a biological failure. you're supposed to make babies with everyone you fuck. so in the modern age, a man with 2 or more sex partners is being useless.
children need a mom and a dad. this is something everyone knows. if a man has kids with two women, they women will get jealous sharing him. they do not want to share his resources with another woman and another women's children. they want the resources for themselves.
when a man has multiple sex partners, he is causing women to have multiple sex partners. unless he's gay, he is directly 100% contributing to female promiscuity.
male promiscuity creates violence and crime. when men are competing for partners like that instead of one partner per person, men get violent. the most promiscuous nations in the world are the caribbean, middle east, and africa. it's not just their low iq that makes them violent. their low iq probably translates to low eq and doesn't give them the concept of monogamy and being in love. monogamy = civilization. white westerns have always tried to control whoring. we must succeed.
and those are the serious answers. other answers like stds, abortion, unwanted pregnancy, acting like a nigger, making your wife sad. those are well-known reasons to to have multiple sex partners and those reasons are enough. there's no need for it and it only causes problems.
Outstanding
>it doesnt cause men to not be able to pair bond but from one fellow man to another who's thinking about creating a family and creating a stable society, men who fuck around create damaged women
I agree, but the difference is a man can change, whereas a woman cannot.
This.
The problem is that people don't have to face consequences these days. Remove women's rights, and return the authority of women to their fathers and husbands. Men who sleep with women should be forced to spend the rest of their lives with the woman they spoiled
I used to feel insecure like this OP, I hated the fact that my girlfriend had slept with other people before me. When the relationship took its course and it ended on mutual terms. I slept about so much that it didnt matter about my next girlfriends past sexual encounters.
Do some travelling, go to party destinations and fuck loads of women, have weird sex, have new experiences that you'll always have one over on a future girlfriend.
Just dont be a faggot and fuck guys.
>find girl i genuinely like
>quit masturbating cold turkey for almost a month after years of daily masturbation
>get rejected
>start masturbating again
make it stop please
I appreciate your point but I have 51 partners, and knowing my girl has 6 or 7 is too many for me. I mean before me is different, after we have broken up is different. However she doesn't know how many partners I have.
I just stop considering her relationship material since we clearly have widely different views on sex. If anything I'd be sad because the risk of her ending up lonely and miserable is higher but what can you do, better to find out early than to learn it after being married five years.
fapping is screwing yourself literally and figuratively, so he did a lot of self harm in terms of skewing his view on women, relationship, sex, and intimacy. but i agree, it's an inwardly harm that with determination, guidance, faith and solid thinking, he can change how he views intimacy.
the greater harm is that you have had your fun at someone else's physical and or emotional expense. like pumping and dumping virgin girls. or cheating and breaking a girl's heart. those damage you cant mend on your terms.
>Is it hypocritical though
It absolutely is, but degenerate scum here will tell you otherwise because they think they can stop the apocalypse by getting other people to have kids
so? the damage has been done.
would you rather change the way how you drive BEFORE you get into an accident or are you gonna wait til you get into an accident and then suddenly change how you drive?
if you can stop hurting other people, why wait until you have victimized someone and then change, why not just, not do it in the first place?
Some of what you say is true, but your elevation of monogamy is poorly thought out. Polygamy is the true way towards lasting civilization, monogamy helps open the door to dysgenics. The most capable men with the most resources, should be able to breed with more women than those less capable. Otherwise your society does not improve over time
to me that just sounds like you're saying a man would be ok with (or even WANT) his wife to have sex with other men if the other men had smaller dicks. that just sounds insane. i couldn't care less if the other person was ten times uglier than me.
alright i'm sure some people feel insecure. lots of people are insecure about anything and everything. insecurity is common no matter what topic you're insecure about. but shutting down the traditional value of monogamy by yelling "insecure" is something i see feminists do and it's just annoying. and IF those guys don't care about their wife being a slut, they only care about insecurity, then they are a problem as well. we need people to genuinely value monogamy and marriage and sex.
if your wife fucked other dudes you're cucked. by definition of cuck, it would have to be a man who watches his wife have sex with someone else or raises another man's babies. pretty much any time cuck is used it's used not literally. a non-virgin wife is definitely cucking the guy, i would argue.
Ugly fact is that your pure virgin woman image is a MALE creation. We're far more romantic than them - for them """romance""" means being treated like they're special. That's all they get out of it. Our feelings are deeper and more complex than they are capable of comprehending.
Pic related is what they felt they had to be at the time. The only thing that held those rabidly sexual, thoughtless creatures in place was social constraints. Dissolve that and you let them loose to be the degenerate, disease-ridden whores we have today.
when a few of the top men get all the women, or not even all, if they get more than one woman, they are leaving a bunch of men without wives. we can't have that. beta cooperation is necessary for society. men need to know they will be able to secure their genes in the future. if not, they will get violent, bitter, resentful, and useless. they will not cooperate. they will not produce things. they won't invent. they won't DO anything. it needs to be one woman per man.
>so? the damage has been done.
To what? The man's pair bonding mechanism? Prove that the male pair bonding mechanism works the same way the female one does. No evidence of this has ever been found.
>would you rather change the way how you drive BEFORE you get into an accident or are you gonna wait til you get into an accident and then suddenly change how you drive?
There was no accident. Your metaphor doesn't work because nobody has ever proven that sex outside of marriage affects the male pair bonding mechanism.
>if you can stop hurting other people, why wait until you have victimized someone and then change, why not just, not do it in the first place?
I don't disagree. I'm merely stating that a man is capable of changing his behavior and still starting a stable family, while a woman isn't.
what the superior man has in terms of resource, the lesser men have in terms of number. and number always win in these interpersonal conflict because you cannot outright nuke the whole entire population of men who are hell bent on killing the king to redistribute his women.
you have it the other way around due, monogamy is what advances a civilization. sure, you are gonna have people who may not be top notch materials breeding, but you dont decide on life, god does, and if you ever think you have the right to decide who receives life and who doesnt, then you have sided with the devil and you have done the unthinkable - believing you are god
>The only thing that held those rabidly sexual, thoughtless creatures in place was social constraints. Dissolve that and you let them loose to be the degenerate, disease-ridden whores we have today.
That's why social constraints exist. You think I don't want to run over every jaywalking nigger I see? We have social norms and rule of law in order to maintain the social order which produces everything you take for granted.
First half of this is true. Women are simple creatures, second half is not true. Women are not inherently whores, they're not inherently anything. they're simple creatures. Women reflect the behavior, values, and attitudes of the men around them. Women became whores because men wanted them to, men wanted a warm hole and women became that. Women are the canary in the coal mine for civilization, women acting poorly means their men have started acting poorly. A woman will become whatever we tell or want them to. It just so happens that men wanted milkies and their dick wet
i don;t know man, do you really think a man will like his 50th gf (that he had sex with all of them) as much as his first love? it's a human thing to want to bond with someone. and no matter what, unless he's gay, he's causing girls to be sluts.
>Ugly fact is that your pure virgin woman image is a MALE creation.
No it's physically the hymen, Gods seal of freshness.
>How does Jow Forums deal with a girl they like having many sex partners?
Rub one off to hentai and look somewhere else
Couldn't disagree more, every tribe requires a surplus of men because of the nature of men and their responsibilities. Men do the exploring, they do the fighting, they do the discovering, they do everything meaningful for a society. Which just so happens to mean they also die, they die a lot, and they die a lot sooner and easier. Raiding party? You may of just lost a handful of men, sticky tar discovered? There's some more, predator got your bud during hunting? There's another, found out that food wasn't actually safe? Another right there. You get the idea, in modern terms the surplus of men would be used to fight and die for their society. It's why Muslims have suicide bombers, their losers die for their societies causes instead of demanding state mandated gfs and dolls.
no, the damage is done to the woman in the case of men pumping and dumping them. and it cascades into her life and the people she encounter, and that cascade further outward. if you think pumping and dumping one girl is just gonna make her feel miserable for a couple of months, you are DEAD WRONG.
she's going to turn down eligible man who might have been great husbands, she's gonna go out to try to relive that high, maybe catch STD, maybe birth a child without a father, that child's gonna grow up most likely to end up in jail because kids without father figures dont do as well. mothers make children and fathers make adults. let's go even further. say the girl started riding the cock carousel and she turns old, regretful of her decision but unable to bring herself to face the consequences or own up to it. she's gonna tell other girls to make the same mistake, crab bucket mentality.
so, would you rather inflict problems on the world, and then own up, and say "opps, sorry!", or would you rather look and think about what you're about to do and the consequences and say "ah, it's not a good thing, i shouldnt contribute to this"
but by all means if a man wants to change and repent, do so. but i put forth this warning for other young guys to see because i feel an obligation as a man to tell them these things as opposed to telling them "yeah bro! go fuck a bunch of girls and score some points!"
>i don;t know man, do you really think a man will like his 50th gf (that he had sex with all of them) as much as his first love?
"Love" as it is known today is a fake 20th century Jewish invention. While love and communication are foundational to a healthy marriage, discipline and trust are far more important.
>it's a human thing to want to bond with someone
There still hasn't been any evidence produced, ever, that men bond with women the same way women bond with men. At least not chemically.
yeah. men who have nothing to lose will become extremely violent. one woman per man is a must. the men have nothing to lose: either they die in the violence while trying to get a mate, or they don't act violently and their genes die by not reproducing.
>God does
What you call God was an ancient people's encounters with a superior civilization. The same way modern Negro tribes worship airplanes as deities in cargo cults.
what's love as we know it today? the love i'm thinking of includes trust and discipline. it can't exist without it.
>no, the damage is done to the woman in the case of men pumping and dumping them. and it cascades into her life and the people she encounter, and that cascade further outward.
Oh okay, now I understand what you meant.
>if you think pumping and dumping one girl is just gonna make her feel miserable for a couple of months, you are DEAD WRONG.
I'm against pumping and dumping. I'm against all forms of premarital sex. I think it's possible for a man to realize the folly of his ways and change, though.
>so, would you rather inflict problems on the world, and then own up, and say "opps, sorry!", or would you rather look and think about what you're about to do and the consequences and say "ah, it's not a good thing, i shouldnt contribute to this"
See above
>but by all means if a man wants to change and repent, do so. but i put forth this warning for other young guys to see because i feel an obligation as a man to tell them these things as opposed to telling them "yeah bro! go fuck a bunch of girls and score some points!"
Agree. It's one of the things I hate about Jow Forums. I really wish there were a place like Jow Forums which excluded people like that, as well as pornposting. I'd abandon this place in a heartbeat.
Virgin women do NOT deserve a virgin man lol. They should be rewarded for their chastity not punished
yes, men who dont have much to lose either choose to drop out of society, or they will join the fight to create a society where they believe will thrive in. see ISIS fighters.
for men the binary is builder/destroyer. and even inaction, or dropping out, is part of destruction because you no longer contribute to the tribe for growth
very funny. but being in love with a man who was sticking it in other pussies is a punishment. women are very romantic and very jealous. if they can get a hot alpha who only wants her, they'll take him any day over the fuckboy.
Yeah dude that's why there's stories as far back ad we have records about the same kind of love. The 20th century just commercialized and dumbed it down into a more marketable form, it didn't invent it.
I should have clarified further. I believe the widespread proliferation of that form of love, as the primary socially accepted practice, was a 20th century Jewish invention.
Funny? Im not joking hombre. A womans first time should be amazing, and she should actually cum. Just LOL if you think your 29 year old virgin ass is going to deliver when youre cumming in your little boxers the second her top comes off