My wife just lost her absolute shit on me because I asked her for a blowjob, after explaining that I feel sick and don't think I can have sex tonight, although I really would like to get off.
She says that I am using her like an object to satisfy my sexual desires. Is that reasonable? I mean, I can see how one could feel he is being used like a toy if asked to be the one-sided means of an orgasm. But isn't giving freely and boundless/unconditional an important aspect of a relationship?
I always made sure to give unconditional, passionately and to give a lot in the bedroom, but she never really reciprocated in the same amount and eventually our sexlife died because she says she doesnt feel sexual anymore.
Well, over the past days and weeks it got a little better and we got into BDSM. She used to tie me up and suck me off which was really hot. I asked her to do it again and as explained above said I wouldnt be able to fuck her though. She says I only care about myself and that I am being selfish, but yet she didn't even tell me she would like to get off aswell.
>she says she doesnt feel sexual anymore You are being cucked. Make an appointment with a divorce lawyer.
Nolan Garcia
This is a blue board faggot
Isaiah Collins
She’s thinking about leaving you. Probably already knows who’s next.
Women only stop willingly fulfilling your desires when they find another guy.
Hypergamy.
David Brown
Na, she is not cheating on me. On the one hand because I absolutely trust her, on the other hand because she wouldn't be able to logistically/physically in our current situation (we currently live in a small one bedroom apartment and spent all our time together).
She has been depressed and bipolar, also has BPD and got committed for attempted suicide a while ago. I'm not even blaming her that she doesnt feel sexual, I suffer from manic depression and I know how it is.
It just, why does she has to lose her absolute shit on me and shame me for asking for a blowjob like I'm a monster goddammit? She can just say no, or she can ask for sexual favors in return, or just sacrifice and simply give a blowjob. Shouldn't she be happy about giving me an orgasm? I know I am happy when I get her to cum.
Instead she just loses her mind on me...
Aaron Mitchell
ooooooh...you married the wrong one boyo Any chick that pulls that "WAHH YOU'RE TREATING ME LIKE A SEXUAL OBJECT WAAAHH"shit when she CLEARLY isn't is a walking red flag
Ethan Jackson
Also, blue board. Enjoy your ban
Jack Torres
>bipolar
Yeah she’s cheating on you m8
Colton Barnes
She doesnt have anyone else. It's just, she has BPD and threatens to leave and/or tries to make me leave all the goddamn time.
Also I feel like she acuses me of being selfish, but she herself seldomly just "gives". It feels like she wants to take all the time instead...
Henry Wilson
Why do you want your wife to be a cocksucker op?
Thomas Martinez
Sorry to tell ya, user, but you are not her only husband, so to speak
Dominic Thompson
Sorry, I didnt know. I guess there is no way for me to change the picture.
Andrew Stewart
>posting porn on a blue board It's almost like you want to take away Hiroshima's advertisement money.
Jackson Walker
Why wouldn't I?
(as long as its my cock shes suckin)
Na guys. She doesnt have anyone else. It's physically not possible, I'd know. She legitimately has been incredibly low-sexdrive for the past year and I kinda understand that. There are ways to work around that.
What I dont understand, is not being willing to give in the bedroom and losing your complete shit after being asked for a sexual favor
Kayden Lopez
Well, than you better please her in bed
Owen Turner
-asking- for a blowjob while your wife is like washing dishes or watching the news is borderline autistic. If you're already making out in bed, then sure you can ask her for a bj context is everything how you managed to not know this while still getting married is amazing.
Also you could have been like "hey why don't you try being on top" which is a good compromise where she also gets to have sex and you barely have to do anything.
Also don't post porn on 4channel you absolute newfag
Charles Rivera
Thats the thing, I do please her in bed.
The moment I can't and ask her to just blow me she freaks out on me wtf
Nathan Hughes
Matters not them, sex is only for reproduction
Gabriel Jackson
She doesn't care about you enough to want to do favors for you.
Brody Torres
Shouldnt we be able to discuss sexual desires outside sexual situations?
I mean, do I have to turn her on every single time?
Jack Hughes
>Thats the thing, I do please her in bed.
I think that maybe if she was posting on this anonymous vietnamese tribal tattoo magazine, she might disagree.
Also, not every girl is actually into giving blowjobs. There was one girl i was with who had absolutely no problem going down on me and sucking me off even when I was all sweaty and gross and had just come back from the gym, but only because I also had no problem going down on her and eating her out like it was my last meal. We both knew that not every night of the two of us getting frisky would end with crazy sweaty wall-shaking sex sometimes you're tired or it's cold or too hot or whatever so you just get a suck off.
Lucas Rogers
discussing something is not the same as asking for something
