Want to ask for open relationship

Im in a relationship with a girl I love a lot. We have an apartment together. I'm thinking she is the big one, but Im really anxious about being young and not having had a lot of partners. How would I ask my girlfriend to let me explore polyamory? She's against the idea but i don't think the timing will make us compatible. I know I'll regret it if I don't experience all life has to offer. Should I ask or should I just forget about it? I don't care if we're both seeing other partners fyi.

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If you love her and think that she's "the big one," then why do you want to completely destroy the relationship?

I don't! I want to experiment physically with other people but remain together. I realize that you might be implying that these are mutually exclusive, and I hear you, but I want to hear especially from anyone who has thought about it or tired it or maybe made it work.

It won't work. It never works and your relationship is no exception. It'll destroy the relationship.

he doesn't want to "completely destroy" anythin
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what an ignorant answer

I understand you, OP -- I think you should either make multiple attempts at convincing her *or* "explore polyamory" w/o her knowing.. but only if you're sure you can rly pull it off..

It did work in my relationship!
It was really dramatic ... but it worked!

You are based and therefore don’t exist. If you did and this is true then why is it that the world is still shit and everything doesn’t go our way?

I do exist, ask my gf, who's still very mad at me, every time she remembers it ^^"
(cuz I did the latter and fucked up)

dunno... I think everything depends on what the majority of ppl consider valuable at the moment... if monogamy wasn't so compulsory in our society...

well... I just do whatever I want, I guess

also, you must be pretty whack to assume everything would change just cuz one person did something unusual..

Lmao get ready for her to dump you. It’s a win-win, you can both experience other people while you’re young, have fun op

She will take it as you telling her she isn't good enough for you, prepare to get dumped or her being insecure for a while.

posts like these make me sad
OP, get your shit together. your life will be worse after fucking a lot of other women and losing your girlfriend.

I was a virgin before I got with me girlfriend, I have never once wanted to sleep with another woman or "sow my wild oats" whilst being with her. All I want is her, if you can conceive of being with another woman physically you do not love this woman. Before I got a girlfriend my life was filled with regret about not fucking everything I saw, I have no regrets now. I may have only fucked one pussy, but it's the best pussy and I could never want any other.

Slime person preaching destruction and mayhem.

"polyamory" is just a term people use when they're trying to justify selfish behavior. Want to fuck other chicks? So does every fucking man on the planet. If she's the one then why would you want to fuck it up? What are you trying to prove? I can tell you from experience that fucking whores is fleeting and you will get a little older and regret not being a man of integrity and staying with her. But do what you want op it's your life faggot

if she might be the one then don't ruin it. You should spice up your current sex life with your gf rather than fuck women that u don't care about

i agree with this
i thought about "poly" or open or cheating, etc, etc, because i was going through a selfish phase and was craving new pussy. almost fucked up my life and almost drove away a great woman. luckily she is patient and a better partner than i deserve (or deserved at that time, being so selfish)
poly is for selfish self-absorbed people who've convinced themselves and their partners that they are making a noble choice and a partner that's not willing to put up with other sex partners is unenlightened, overly attached, not self-developed or insufficiently mature, and so on. its post modernist nonsense to pretend that you can build a long term, real partnership while one or both partners are developing emotional, physical, sexual, and spiritual bonds with side partners. They call it compersive or modern or feminist, but it sure seems like high levels of COPE.
that said, i am probably still a little selfish, because if my partner brought home an attractive female as a gift for us both to enjoy, i would be game.

What if she brought home an attractive male?

thats because shes your first. things will change when she dumps you, i promise.

depends on the male, i could still be very into it. but it would be presumptuous and very potentially a no-go.
i'd rather her pick a female and I pick a male for us. feels less threatening and more like a gift we both can enjoy.
i realize i am not a great role model