My boyfriend(now ex) of 2 years fucked my sister. I don't understand why? We had sex almost everyday...

You don't seem to understand how relationships work. It doesn't matter what his hobbies and job is, his actions are what tell the most about him.

Would you empty your whole bank account for a man if he said it's his fetish?

Get off Jow Forums, Jow Forums

Meditate, write down your thoughts and feelings, grab a pillow cry into it/yell into it.

Come back tomorrow when the tears have dried.

You're going to be my pay piggy. That's right you. You going to go on to my Amazon Wish List and start buying me things. Be a good little pay piggy.

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I know for a fact it was her because my (ex) boyfriend stayed home that day. Also I have noticed them eyeing each other a few times at family gatherings. It doesn't seem like much, but my woman's intuition tells me they've likely thought about it. When I first introduced them to each other my sister definitely had the hots for him. I can't blame her, he's almost model tier and the gymnastics have really shaped our bodies nicely. But I trusted him because he was such a kind person. Even his friends said he'd never do something like that.

It's abuse when someone uses someone for one-sided sex and threatens to leave if the one-sided sex stops, retard.

Just because someone is good looking and smiling doesn't mean they're kind. So far you haven't said anything that implies he's kind.

He volunteers every Sunday at our local soup kitchen and I've never really seen him be rude to anybody. He always says please and thank you. Everytime we pass by a homeless he just has to drop $20 and sometimes he'll even sit and talk for a few minutes. I guess he's just being a decent human being.

It's actually not. See consent and abuse cannot be changed retroactively. Just because you are angry at someone does not mean things in the past you've done together consensually are suddenly criminal. At best you can say the boyfriend is manipulative. But manipulative is not abuse, because she can still say no. Also, if a partner in a relationship expresses a kink or fetish, that implies that they would like for that to be incorporated in future activities. Think of it like trying to convince your partner to get a boob job. You can't just undo a boob job.

You go girl! Electrician huh? I've heard that there were female electricians but never thought I'd find one on Jow Forums. Say baby, why don't yoi forget about that scumbag and send me ur discord?

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Not defending him but if your sister is actually less attractive than you then it doesn't make sense that he'd pick her over you unless she started tempting him and he acquired a taste. Confront your sister, she a hoe.

Fetishistically using someone's body =/= using someone for sex.

'Using someone's body' in a fetish context just means one hands control over to the other. It can be about the submissive partner acting as a gratifying plaything, taking pleasure in making their partner happy, or about them being a treasured possession/pet who's highly valued and taken care of. On the dominant side, it can likewise be about taking care of someone, feeling empowered by their trust and confidence in you, about freedom from self-consciousness with someone who'll give themselves to you without judgement, etc. It's a dynamic that can exist in a perfectly healthy (if kinky) relationship.

'Using someone for sex' just means disregarding their feelings and the entire emotional side of a relationship. That's not a fetish, that's just being a run of the mill dickhead. In fact it's pretty incompatible with the concept of a mutually gratifying kinky dynamic since it's entirely one-sided. Not that kinky people can't be assholes too.

Obviously OP's relationship probably wasn't healthy if it ended in cheating, but it's a crapshoot whether their sexual dynamic was a factor in that.

While we're at it, using someone for sex, while a real dick move, doesn't automatically equate to abuse either.

Making partner think they aren't good enough if they don't fulfill every sexual wish is abuse.

Why are you even bothering explaining sex to people who clearly haven't had it some yet?

It is abuse unless you are very clear. I just straight up tell my girlfriends that if we don't have sex when I want, I am much more likely to dump them. It is not abuse because I am not forcing them to have sex, just telling them that if I can't get it from them I'm going to go get it elsewhere.

You are pressuring them into sex against their will. How would you feel if girl told you she's much more likely to dump you if you don't have sex when they want, forcing you into sex in middle of the night when you want to sleep? If you wouldn't she would call another guy to fuck her.

>You are pressuring them into sex against their will
No, I'm not. See, I'm a very sexual person with a ridiculously high sex drive. I sometimes even masturbate 5 minutes after having sex just to get out some more. It is important that my girls know this, and if they can't keep up then they should just go find someone else because our relationship is not going to work.

>How would you feel if girl told you she's much more likely to dump you if you don't have sex when they want
If she was really hot then I wouldn't mind it, but if I couldn't keep up I would just tell her and then just break it up. What's the point of carrying on something that won't work?

>I sometimes even masturbate 5 minutes after having sex
That's not normal. You're a addict.

Well, what can I do? I have to live with that. I'm a sex machine.

>"my gf is a 10/10 sex god and makes it her daily goal to make me happy and fulfilled, but I saw a hole in the sidewalk that kind of looks like a pussy, should I leave my gf for it???"
fucking kek

Aren't all women just holes in the sidewalk?