is it normal for someone that ghosted you to watch your stories?
this guy i went on one date w ghosted me
>we talked for 2 weeks prior to the date and 2 weeks after the date so him ghosting me was random
and a week later unfollowed me on all social media platforms so my thought obv was like okay he’s out of my life he won’t watch my stories or anything like that since he doesn’t follow me n he would have to search my name to watch them,, which he did for about 2 weeks
he watched them daily but now he’s only watching them twice a week (ik i sounds crazy but it’s just bothering me) but isn’t that a little weird?? usually if someone unfollows me i doubt they’ll ever click on my shit again
since he’s still watching my stories i have an urge to send him a text saying hi but i don’t think it’s a good idea considering that he ghosted me
Ghosting zz
its not weird... and more importantly who cares???
obviously you really liked this guy, so get over it and stop thinking about it. send him a message if you want. It doesn't matter.
please tell me youre not talking about instagram
please tell me you cant see who saw your story
Can you clarify what you mean when you say he ghosted You? I find different people seem to use this term with slightly different meanings.
op please respond
i look at my exs stories and i had no clue that she could see that fuck me
Not OP but yes you can see who views your stories.
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Not OP, but yes they can see
LOL welcome to like 2016 bro. This has been in place since the beginning of stories!
Sorry bro
he's probably not that interested but who cares? make a move! say hi! see how it goes!
goddammit goddammit goddammit
i dont post stories so i never knew but i literally watch everyone's story always even if im avoiding them
and i guess it doesn't really matter cause its not like me and this girl will ever speak again but fuck me ive watched her same story like 4 times now and probably come off as super creepy cause i mean thats super fucking creepy (we havent spoke in a year and it ended with me basically harassing her because im an emotional cunt and she gave me no closure ideky she started ghosting me like it started right after i gave her "the best sex of her life")
cringe
yes you can see who views your stories on instagram. but idk if your ex looks at who sees them. i only started looking until after he unfollowed me
we were supposed to hang out one day but before that he said he was busy so i texted him asking if he wanted to cancel and then later in the day i was like what’s up why aren’t you replying and shit so i prolly came off as crazy, i sent him a last message few days later telling him how he can be honest w me instead of lurking around like a creep but he left me on read .
>we texted a lot before he ghosted me like everyday and shit
the way i see ghosting is when i stop communicating w someone even if they msg me i just ignore them and unfollow them on social media and never look back but what he’s doing is just weird to me
i might do that around christmas, i don’t have nothing to lose so it’s whatever
She can't see how many times you watched it, only a list of usernames that has.
well in my view
if someone ghosted me but still followed and watch my story i’d understand because the person is FOLLOWING me
on the other hand if they don’t follow me and watch my stories anyways that shits just creepy
>i might do that around christmas, i don’t have nothing to lose so it’s whatever
yesss do that! good luck!
Ghosting is really abusive because it is a selfish form of social rejection which is so painful because it uses the same pathways in the brain as physical pain.
try she ghosted me i dont follow her but i search her instagram every fortnight and watched her recent and only story shes posted that im aware of
the worse part is is she never posts and only started like right when she stopped talking to me hell most of her posts are about how amazing her current bf is
fucking kill me
A guy ghosting a girl is not so common. Usually it's always girls ghosting guys.
this women are cowards
if im leaving you youre gonna damn well know why
I find it helps significantly to reduce drama in my life by simply ghosting women. They can be tricksy if you give them the opportunity.
i don’t get it tho. i told him to be straight up and honest instead of leaving me hanging , personally i feel like i came off as crazy but i knew what i wanted and expected . i think ghosting is shitty and i don’t understand why people can’t be upfront about how they feel?? it’s so dumb
well maybe you should stop because it’s unhealthy reliving the past just to get shit on because she’s out here living her life while u dwell on it OP.
it’s time to move on and get over it , fuck her live ur life
You don't get it because you are the like one of the 10% that can be rational about it. Most women are not like that and don't react so well.
I've seen some things that will stun you, make you wonder.
easier said then done us ending set a domino chain that eventually ended with me in the psych ward for attempt
i haven't been the same since and i probably wont be here for much longer anywho
would it be bad if i messaged him tho, maybe just a simple hi, i don’t wanna be so full of myself but i think i’m a great catch for being 19. we connected really well and he told me that “i’m not like the other girls , ur so mature” bs but i’d like to think that i am idk
>i have 8/10 looks and a 9/10 personality
i’m sorry to hear that OP, have you tried other things besides admitting yourself to a hospital? maybe picking up hobbies or going outside more ?
not OP but ive tried everything
the issue is if everything's fine and dandy my mind will homogenise back to being utterly depressed
and every thing i put effort into crashes and burns so i never get that psychological treat for succeeding
basically ive been fighting an uphill battle for 25yrs now and ive only had like a year of not wanting to kill myself every day and even that year was extremely flawed