My gf is out of my league and I dont trust her

Ask her

>Things that never happened

>26, 4/10, and a neet
>have a 19, 8-9/10
pure fantasy

Femanon here, OP from archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/20258257/
My bf is in the same situation as you. He trusts me though, but he thinks i should be with someone 'better' than him. If you've proven multiple times that she's not cheating on you, that means that she loves you and she really finds you attractive, funny and interesting. My bf sometimes thinks i'm with him because i'm feeling sorry for him or something like that. I really love him and i love spoiling him and treating him like he's the best human being on the planet. Maybe you can talk about this with her, the thing is that you have to understand that maybe, if a '9/10' girl is with you, you probably have good things to share with her.

>tfw actually happened to me
>tfw not retarded enough not to trust her becsuse there's no way she'd constantly do all the shit she does for me otherwise
Only difference is I'm 27, she's 19 and I found a job shortly after we moved in together. I love her so much and she spoils me constantly. Yesterday she made me these chocolate chunk muffins with my favorite candy bar and wrapped one up for me in my lunch.

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She's gonna dump you in 2-3 years so enjoy it when it lasts

I'm a student and saw a 27 yo absolute loser date a 19 yo. The 27 yo guy had done nothing for about 8 years, was broke and an unbelievable manchild who played videogames until 4 daily. The 19 yo came from a very rich family, but was admittedly a 4/10 tops and kissed someone else right in front of him while they were dating. I think she must have done it to spite her parents

One day OP, she'll come to her senses and dump you. It always happens, at some point they feel you are holding them back and start accepting other offers.

I really don't understand people who has a lot of love to give. Like, why? why the heck would they date OP or anyone in similar situations? I also can't pamper people with love so this is really beyond me.

She is young user

You don’t deserve her.
You do deserve to get fucked in the ass.
Also your greentext is shit.

What country?

I was in a similar situation as your gf. Same age difference too. Our relationship fell apart because my bf didn’t trust me and wouldn’t communicate his insecurities. He ended up cheating on me. I truly did love him and never came close to cheating. So be trusting, be loving and be appreciative of her. My bf and I would still be together if he had done these things. Also be more confident. She clearly sees something she likes about you so be proud of it.

OP, watch this movie.

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uk

because of that movie, I'm still single

I have never seen a more fabricated story on the internet.

i hope she breaks up w you. i was in a situation like this, but in high school, dated a guy that was pretty hot but a weak wimpy fucking beta with incel friend group. not smart not stupid and pretty funny. i did love him. gave him all of myself and completely loved that he saw me as such a catch (i was a regular popular girl at the time) so i did spoil and pamper him with love. but it was easier because i felt like i never had anything to worry about. finally broke up with him after i moved, found a guy that i thought was kind of out of MY league, socially, intellectually and physically, and he went from thinking i was a dumb naive hot girl, to telling me that i’m the light of his life and that i’m smarter than him. it is ten times better to shower someone with love and be validated by someone that actually deserves it and from all this nonsense you wrote doesn’t seem like u do.

You know those guys say those things about you because they want you to jump on their dick right?
Just from the way you type, you're a dumb motherfucker, and you probably look like a gremlin without makeup.

You're a fucking joke.

That'd mean we'd have been together probably 6-7 years which is still longer than a decent amount of people. I'd be fine with that.

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fuck not 6-7 I mean 4-5

This. But you know what they say evrything ends anyway so enjoy while it lasts cuz you know at least for NOW her feelings are real

>projecting your insecurities onto her. you are not trustworthy so you think she is to justify it.

You should break up with her.

You have crippling depression & your relationship is extremely unbalanced. She achieves while you underachieve. She has purpose (something a man should have) and you don't.

You did, LEGITIMATELY the shittiest shit a human being could have done, AKA, created fake accounts & hit her up. That is some insecure shit.

Either: A) Find a new girl that is as pathetic as you are or B) You spend the energy you're consuming being a sissy & being sure your gf is a cheating whore on investing in yourself.

The more unbalanced a relationship is, the more bound to being destroyed it gets.

Nice, 99.999% pure laboratory-grade cope. I'll take a few samples for my supply.

agree it will happen after she start thinking about children and she needs a man that has his shit together.

I have similar feelings. God I hope she's not reading this now. It's a LDR, and while I'm not a complete sack of shit, she's so much better than me and I wait everyday for her to tell me she found someone in her area and is ready to break up.

Just ask her user. Don't be confrontational or mean about it, but ask why she's with you, and have a conversation with her about it until you understand.

Didn't read past you headline. If you care about yourself you should dump her before she destroys your soul.

sounds tasty

thats what im scared of

there is no such thing as "deserve" really.
I love her, and she seems to love me, so I deserve (to put it your way) her as much as anyone else

I dont have depression, although its a little imbalanced right now i guess.
Plus I do have purpose.
How is that shitty? like i get its untrusting, but shitty? in what way.

they always are in LDR's. usually both guys and girls. howd you meet her?

Well then what's the issue? Seems like you understand that there's nothing to worry about

>they are always in LDRs
Who?
Initially met them through a discord server, whenever I go somewhere, I'll ask online people I know in the area if they want to say hello, have a beer. Ended up hanging out with them for a day which turned into a date by the end. She is very straight forward whereas I'm very shy when it comes to the feelios.

Not true. If you're not a mongoloid you crave things other than sex
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