My GF (21) has the tendency to become very wet when we are making out.
When she gets aroused, I am able to put all five fingers of my hand into her vagina (up to my knuckles), without her experiencing any pain or any need for additional lube.
I am worrying a bit that I am missing out.
>Is this an average degree of stretch due to arousal?
>Is this merely due to arousal and/or physical predisposition?
She's prime breeder. enjoy having her poppin' out babies.
Fuck I wish I could fist my girlfriend without her squeaking like a dog toy.
OP you might enjoy anal if you feel like you need a tighter grip on your overly fapped dick
Jesus Christ. I hope she knows he has to change her tires after 60000 miles.
Does her vagine hang like sleeve of wizard?
Definitely. Wide hips as well.
I do enjoy attempting to fist her. That being said, I am worried that my dick (and her) are missing out, especially because I am on the smaller side.
She doesn't seem like a slut.
Nope, looks right front he outside.
Vaginas are flexible dude'
My girl has the tightest pussy ive had and even her i can fist without her being too uncomfortable if i wanted to
>She doesn't seem like a slut.
I'm not saying she's a slut, but when sluts finally decide to settle down and get a boyfriend, they become the girls that seem the least likely to be sluts. It's called overcompensation.
Virgins can have loose vaginas and whores can be tight
It just means she's out of shape
Get her some kegel weights
>but when sluts finally decide to settle down and get a boyfriend, they become the girls that seem the least likely to be sluts. It's called overcompensation.
Not OP but this scares me. I’m single and 27, I really really really don’t want to be the guy who starts dating one of them... I don’t want to get duped by a former slut
The same way different guys have different penises so do girls have different vaginas, hers could just be on the bigger side.
not to mention , vaginas are flexible and expand when aroused.
Don't sweat it.
Well, everyone has that fear. Lucky for you, the FBI convinced everyone to keep a detailed track of their life so that they don't have to. Just check out her facebook. If you see:
>multiple guys, not related by family
>bars
>parties
>huge gaps
Then she's a slut. Pay attention to the gaps specifically. Girls will post a bunch of pictures with men, and when they cut ties with those guys they will delete those pictures in shame.
I don’t use Facebook tho.
Having been to her home several times and it being filled with nerdy fantasy books and paraphernalia doesn't lead me to think that.
She is aware of it and knows about kegels, but I don't know whether she is doing any exercises at her place.
Are there any potential upsides to her 'looseness' and wetness (when we make out, her underwear literally ends up soiled)
Neither do I, but girls do. When the time comes just create an account and add her so that you can take a look.
>Having been to her home several times and it being filled with nerdy fantasy books and paraphernalia doesn't lead me to think that.
Oh fuck. This is bad. Nerdy girls are usually the biggest whores. Have you been to a con orgy?
>make an account
>add her
>have only 1 Facebook friend (her) and no comments/posts
That would be awkward dude....
I don’t want Facebook. Man, I’m seriously thinking about never dating ever again. I really don’t want to get duped. I know it happens to nice guys all the fucking time. I don’t want that to happen to me.
Nope, no cosplay orgy yet...
>That would be awkward dude....
Just add her one week into the relationship. She will think that you just want to start using facebook and because she's your gf she won't mind.
>I don’t want Facebook. Man, I’m seriously thinking about never dating ever again. I really don’t want to get duped. I know it happens to nice guys all the fucking time. I don’t want that to happen to me.
Well, you do you. I don't think you should give up though. A good woman can add a lot of value to your portfolio, you just need to use some precautions when picking one. What I'm telling you should be enough, but if you do not like this then just try to come up with your own ways to screen sluts. Trust me, it is not hard. These women are filled with psychological scars from all the men that they have been intimate with that now would not even go to their funeral if they died.
Well, she has. And trust me, those girls typically go 3-5 guys at the same time. These orgies are typically organized by the women, attractive girls that think they can disconnect from their own personality while in costume and just fuck like complete sluts. Then they hunt down any man that doesn't look like he stinks too bad, starting with the cosplayers too, but going with normal people just to be able to get that 5:1 ratio.
I don’t want to be taken advantage of since I’m a nice guy
Sounds like she got bbc’ed in the past.
bump out of interest...
lmao the state of this thread
vaginas are just really strechable, they don't get used over use, delivering babies is the only thing that damage them a little (and it's fixable)
now go and compare the size of your dick and the size of a baby
if she's so loose it just means she's made that way/she's extremely aroused which is a good thing
also even if it was loosen up because of use (which it isn't) what's the deal with calling women sluts? If a woman stay with a guy for years and they have sex regularly she's not a slut right
>T-they're just stretchable
Yeah, when they are used a lot or when they give birth. I doubt OP's gf have been pregnant.
Seriously, have you ever tried to finger a virgin, even if they masturbate a lot, you can barely fit a finger in.
>when they are used a lot
no, just no. Ofc virgins are super tight, they're stressed out because it's their first experience and sex is scary.
I should know, I have vaginismus, my vagina is often SO tight that it hurts my bf's penis if we don't use lube. However when I'm masturbating alone for a long long time, or if there's a lot of foreplay and I'm relaxed I can fit many fingers inside of me. Vagina muscles are powerful man
You have no idea what you're talking about. It's like me saying penises become smaller and smaller after years of use...
And I'd add I have been sexually active for 10 years, so if your theory was right my vagina should be a huge hole
this! only girl in the thread, she's right. when girls are hot and bothered, their vag become more relaxed. it's a sign she's comfortable with you. with that said, the muscles of the puss can be trained to be stronger through use and weights, which will increase the "grip."
>Ofc virgins are super tight, they're stressed out because it's their first experience and sex is scary
Not really. Even if you drugged a virgin woman or, say, try to finger her in her sleep, she'd still be really tight compared to a whore. Yes, technically you can fit a lot of fingers in a virgin's vagina, but chances are it won't only hurt even without an hymen but it would be hard to do so.
>You can't know about vaginas since you don't have one
>My vagina is just like all others
>Penises are the same as vaginas
Come on.
Yep, a used vagina is going to be a looser fit than a fresh one. Muscles stretch over time and use. You can "fix" that with Kegels and Ben Wa Balls, etc. Also, some women just have big vaginas and others have smaller ones. That's why gynecologist have different sized speculums.
Well of course "whores" are less tight, they enjoy sex and are more used to it so they're more likely to be relaxed, wet and loosen up.
Tell me do you have a lot of experience of drugging virgins women? Seems a bit rapey to me...
I have a vagina (yes, it's just like all others, since vaginismus is psychological), I have sex experience, and I have seen a lot of gynecologists who have explained things to me and would laugh at your face if they read your comments. I assume you don't have the same knowledge as me, yes. Even if you fucked a lot of girls. It doesn't count as evidence, it's anecdotical and biaised.
Only baby deliveries can stretch muscles. Penises aren't big enough to damage them. Time/aging, maybe, idk.
Guys, please go with your girlfriend the next time she go to see her gyn. Seriously
>if your theory was right my vagina should be a huge hole
it's probably is, who are we kidding
If I told you I have a lot of experiences with it would it really matter? The fact being that no, even "relaxed" virgin women are tight. Your vaginal muscles contract every time you put something in it. If you do it regularly big sized object it will lose it form. Try to hide this fact as much as you want, but no amount of relaxation would give you the ability to have a gaping hole and prolapsing easily and painlessly without being a whore.
Did you miss this part?: >my vagina is often SO tight that it hurts my bf's penis if we don't use lube
Even with lube, is there's not enough foreplay I'll often experience pain at the beginning of the PIV and find a bit of blood on the toilet paper afterwards, because it's not all about the wetness, muscle relaxation is important too. But I bet you guys will tell me only hymen loss cause blood huh lmao
If you're just gonna dismiss everything as I say as lies there's not point to continue
Are you a doctor? Gyn? Sexologist? What's your evidence besides raping women? Because you sure seems to know more than them...
I'm a gynecologist.
That's why I mentioned speculum sizes here.
I know how a vagina and muscles work. You either have different sized vaginas or are stretched out. Not you personally I mean the general you and OP's girlfriend.
Also
>I assume you don't have the same knowledge as me, yes.
Bitch, your pussy does not make you sound any smarter.
>I have seen a lot of gynecologists who have explained things to me and would laugh at your face
You sound like the kid on the playground who's cousin's uncle's friend works at nintendo and there is totally going to be a shenmu 3 this year.
Okay "ladies"
I'm not sure what the PC term would be is I think their vajayjays are surgical inversions of the male peneal glands.
>gaping hole and prolapsing
lmao you won't have these with PIV alone, you'd have to use HUGE dildos and toys for that
and that's entirely my point, dicks aren't enough to loose up vaginas they're too small
Well what you're saying contradicts what I've heard for them
>I assume you don't have the same knowledge as me, yes.
>You sound like the kid on the playground who's cousin's uncle's friend works at nintendo and there is totally going to be a shenmu 3 this year.
Wtf?? I mean most men I know don't know shit about female anatomy, and never saw a gyn in their lifes (which is understandable, since they don't have a vagina and all). Women have, I have a lot because of my condition. If for you saying I saw a doctor is so extraordinaire it says a lot about you...
Don't know how that compare with saying I have an uncle at nintendo
most of the points made here are valid OP
If she is loose by default it could just be her or it could equally mean she got around in the past
up to you to decide which it is and then decide what to do about it
if you really think you are missing out then try and focus on the non-intercourse parts of sex or try anal
>You sound like the kid on the playground who's cousin's uncle's friend works at nintendo and there is totally going to be a shenmu 3 this year.
What kind of turbo-virgin kind of analogy is that ?
the kind only Jow Forums can produce
It's the way you are articulating your thoughts. Most men know how vaginas work, I'm sorry you only seem to know neck beards.
>Well what you're saying contradicts what I've heard for them
Elaborate exactly what they have said and how they explained it. Because their is some miscommunication or misinformation going on here about how muscles, glands, ligaments, etc work. In short, a lot of use from larger objects will cause vaginas to become loose. OP stated that he is smaller in penis size. other have suggested that she has been BBC'd. And if you've never seen a penis that could damage a vagina lucky you, since you seem to have a small one.
>Wtf?? I mean most men I know don't know shit about female anatomy, and never saw a gyn in their lifes (which is understandable, since they don't have a vagina and all). Women have, I have a lot because of my condition. If for you saying I saw a doctor is so extraordinaire it says a lot about you...
Don't know how that compare with saying I have an uncle at nintendo
Again, it's the way you articulate your points. You're saying you have a vagina and doctors have told you one thing. To the rest of us, we see no proof. We just have to take your word for it. Where as men, on Jow Forums, we don't take any word for anything without some sort of source or substance.
And did you never play on a playground when you were a kid? It's a meme/trope that there was always a kid who would BS and claim that they knew somebody, who knew sombody, that stated some outrageous shit as fact. That is the joke/referance.
Of course, I can't know how/whether she got around a lot before. At the age of 21 and knowing her in person, I am more inclined to doubt that she was a 'whore' (it took her 3 months to put out with me, while going out very regularly).
That being said, I am more interested in what I can do to make both her and my experience better. Are there positions or other ways that help? (I do enjoy fisting her).
WTF??? how young are you kids? Did you not go outside with kids in your neighborhood? I never thought I'd have to explain a joke this basic but I did and not just to only one of you. here you go
If I told you I'm a gynecologist, you'd believe me?
Gynecologists don't tell you this because they'd lose a client. That's PC culture for you.
>Dicks aren't enough to loose up vaginas
They are if they are used a lot. I used the gaping hole example as hyperbole, because you can stretch a vagina, be a penis, be a baby or be a dragon dildo. That's why it gradually gets easier to have sex when you lose your virginity.
You forgot your "incel™".
>it took her 3 months to put out with me, while going out very regularly
That means she is trying to fix her life. Doesn't mean she is not a whore.
Sorry your penis is not enough for her.
If you enjoy fisting her your dick is never going to feel good in her pussy, sorry bro. Unless she does her Kegels (it takes a few months to go from lose to nice) and you do your fucking then stretch her back out for fisting.
Although I am not complaining per se, it is surprising to me that she gets extremely wet even when I am hardly doing anything.
This makes me unsure whether it is her predisposition or whether she is actually enjoying herself.
Seriously, what the fuck? I sure as hell can't fist myself no matter how horny I am. I get really, really wet and masturbate and have sex with my husband a few times every other day too. I think my max would be 3 man fingers and maybe 4 of my baby fingers. It'd probably hurt still too. Is this a bait thread?
>To the rest of us, we see no proof. We just have to take your word for it. Where as men, on Jow Forums, we don't take any word for anything without some sort of source or substance.
Didn't see any sort of source or evidence anywhere in this thread to be honest... it's just words against words, experience against experience
I'm pretty sure everyone know the meme (although I've never heard it as a kid on a playground but more like plastered everywhere on the internetà but it didn't made any sense in the context, I fail to see how it's more bragging to say you have seen a doctor than to say you have fingered a lot of vaginas or you are a doctor yourself
I can assure you that it isn't bait. I am able to insert all of my fingers up to my knuckles. She says she doesn't feel any pain, unless I try to push past my knuckles.
Add to this that she gets very lubricated almost without my physical interference and questions started arising.
>I am not sure whether this is indeed average for most girls and whether she (and I) is missing out in terms of sensation as a result of this.
>blurred pr0n on a blue board
based OP
yes,it is.