Got so fucking close to getting laid what the fuck did I do wrong?

>be me
>22
>decide to go travel
>go to bar where no one recognizes me
>strike up convo with girl that 3 other dudes were hitting on
>soiboifag leaves eventually
>based asian bro gets the message and fucks off
>basically me and her
>tell her to walk with me to my hotel
>we talk about some bullshit
>ask her if she wants to see my king sized suite hotel
>she declines
>fucking fuming
>we were legit 2 fucking steps away from the reception
>REEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>now I am sitting here browsing porn masturbating my stiffy
>sadesthandjobintheworld.exe

What the fuck did I do wrong exactly
>get to know her
>exchange contact info
>talk about what she does for a living
>talk about what I do for a living
>she's a prison therapist or psychologist or some bullshit for male inmates
>basically worked her way up to a meme psychology degree phD
>could've been therapeutic as fuck to have a mommy gf to sort out all the bullshit problems life has thrown my way
>talked about how both of us are still in uni and what a meme college is cuz of curves, ridicuoulous professors, majors that shouldn't be allowed to gain a job in your profession that do
>talked about life in general
>conversation gets brought up as to where I traveled to
>tell her I been to the Tenerife Islands, Japan, Russia, Ukraine, Finland, Mexico and Canada.
>She's impressed that I have been around so much
>Based asian bro comes in
>tries to hit on her but she doesn't like him cuz she thinks he's naracisstic or some shit
>we decide to leave after

>was impressed that I work as a software engineer at silicon valley
>tell her I recently quit that gig cuz of nepotism and retarded pajeets in my team
>work as a math tutor trying to transfer to her local town university
>talk about how she should visit me over where I live for the bomb ass restaurants over there
>spent like 3 hours trying to hit on this girl
>she was fucking milf material
>30 years old
>fucking stacked
>all I get is a fucking hug from her at my hotel

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Not all women are ready to jump into bed with a stranger they just met. Calm down sperg

THIS, she could sense that you were trying to fuk from the beginning, but she gets to decide if she wants to. you spent a lot of time talking - did you ever get any signs she was sexually attracted to you? Like, talking for women is just talking. Talk, talk, talk, they talk all the time about nothing. If she isn't staring at you, and love bombing you, turning her feet towards you, grabbing you - she isn't gonna bang you at your hotel. You gotta at least break the kiss barrier before the Hotel arrives, otherwise it's always gonna be a hard no, especially for strangers in hotels. That is like prime time murder special right there. You sound intense and not in a good way.

>could've been therapeutic as fuck to have a mommy gf to sort out all the bullshit problems life has thrown my way
No

This. If you liked her, contact her in a week and arrange to meet up. Sounds like you were in for a quick fuck though.

Well she went out of the bar with me, she hated the asian dude and she wasn't interested in soifag (legit has been orbiting her as a "friend" for a couple years now). She was impressed I worked as a software engineer and that I have traveled a lot for 22 make of that what you will.

I make of it a woman responding to a man bragging about himself hoping it will impress her enough to open her legs. Its the subtle, physical clues that will tell you if you had a chance. Leaving the bar, she was showing you a POTENTIAL, but if she hadn't touched you or shown any flirtatious behaviour besides "being impressed," then she left with you because she was ready to go home and it was convenient.

You mean the fucking crossing her legs to me laughing at my jokes that bullshit? Yeah I didn't really pay attention I was fucking slushed but I'll be honest with ya chief that shit doesn't mean anything and is autistic as fuck (not going to argue with you about it beyond that though). But she told me to my face that I could if I wanted to get fucktons of pussy if I went on tinder but I told her I was uninterested in that because I want something deeper and someone who gets what I am going through. The only reason she left was because the asian guy pissed her off (she wanted to do karoake with me)

>I told her I was uninterested in that because I want something deeper
gee I wonder why she didn't fuck you 3 seconds after meeting you

honestly dude, you're delusional if you can't put this together. the answer is screaming at you like every other sentence you type. how are you confused?

Okay I just woke up from getting pretty wasted tell me what exactly I am missing.

Agreed am genuinely curious this has happened multiple times before and I'm not sure if it's just a lack of experiencing in closing or lack of touchy feely flirting

The other guys knew she wasn't giving out pussy that night and left. You didn't pick up on that. Bottom line she wasn't there to fuck anybody so you wasted time on the wrong female.

Are you a nigger or some shit and can't read?
I legit said that the soifag has been orbiting her for years but nothing worked and he left and asian guy fucked up royally by trying to correct me on some bullshit which pissed her off and she told me to my face that he was an asshole and she didn't like him

Yeah.. its the story of my life getting extreme close to something and then me fucking up somewhere somehow and everything is thrown to shit, same in academia, life ect...

its your mental state you gotta change
and to be honest with ya chief it does matter, women do it on purpose the way you flex your career on purpose

>You mean the fucking crossing her legs to me laughing at my jokes
OMG she was dripping wet just by talking to you. how dare she!? she fucking.crossed.her.legs ffs

So what do fellas, was I fucked from the beginning? Pic related is me.

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You read her wrong and were never getting that pussy. You think because you are so awesome and made sure she knew about it that her panties would drop. She was not impressed with your boasting. To her you were some young full of himself entertainment and she let you pant like a little puppy all night for giggles.

Again, you wasted time on the wrong female and went back to your room a fool.

Okay, I didn't force it or anything. We naturally talked about just life and other bullshit just so happened we talked about work and school shit.
>Its your mental state you gotta change
Can you explain in detail what exactly you mean by that in the context of what just occurred.

hahahahaha
you look like a fucking dork
ain't no wonder she passed

Again didn't force it I didn't even steer the convo that way just mentioned it.

I mean before I walked in and talked to her she was talking about her dnd campaigns.

Fuck she even had the same dark sense of humor as me which you never get in CA REEEEEEEE

> told her I was uninterested in that because I want something deeper
>Tries to bone after a bit of chit-chat

Many women are willing to fuck right away, but they at least need to know you are trustworthy. Stating one thing and then doing another is the opposite of that.
Secondly, you need to create and keep up some sexual tension between you , and spergy bragging and boasting does not make that , even if she might have found it endearing.

>was I fucked from the beginning

Nah, this sounds like it would have been possible. But you did fuck it up horribly by going after Sex without using your gut, your instincts, letting her have fun

>We naturally talked about just life and other bullshit just so happened we talked about work and school shit.

WHich is an okay starting point, but girls want to feel good around you. Talk some bullshit, be funny, charming, make her feel good and like you consider her a human being - yeah, no one wants that nice guy bullshit, but even for casual sex women want to be seen as persons and not wet holes or at least get the feeling that they are.

Btw, if you still have her contact, theres nothing speaking against asking her out, going or some drinks and this time try to go at it properly instead of whacking her with a horny sledgehammer.

She has my contact info and its already like 12ish here and still has not contacted me she said she will be working today but idk I think I really fucked it up if she is not even interested in giving me a call.

Help me based bro

You fucked up by saying not interested/want something deeper. She prolly thought you'd be clingy or you were being manipulative. Dont bs

Okay but then why did she leave with me and I cucked the other two faggots that were there.

>I cucked the other two faggots
Seems like you got “””cucked””” too.
She probably left with you because she liked your company, just not enough to fuck you.

That's really stupid though, why would she go out with me leaving those two guys just to talk the shit? I think the main reason why my dick is dry right now is because I basically asked her "Hey want to hang out with me at my hotel" Which lacks a fuckton of tact and I prob should've invited her to the bar downstairs from my hotel.

>ask her if she wants to see my hotel room

Are you fifteen? That's literally code for "let's fuck" and women don't do sex like that so why would they interact with you outside the bedroom like that? You didn't build up enough intimacy with her at the bar so she was never interested in your dick in the first place.

BECAUSE WOMEN LIKE TO TALK WITHOUT IT LEADING TO PHYSICAL PENETRATION YOU STUPID DICK IT's called socializing and it's about making FRIENDS. Women areN'T SOLELY FOR PENIS.

LEARN2HUMAN.

This can't be real.

what do you mean exactly by that. Like what should I have done?

You just got rejected man, it happens.

I was so close though holy fucking shit

Please lose the glasses, contact lenses are very cheap but will have a huge effect on how others percieve you and you will definitely notice a change in your own self confidence from wearing them

t. Girl whose bf looks like you

ThisJust be a fucking normal person and not a waggling penis looking for a wet hole

Yup, if you want to successfully bang a girl you barely know, you have to walk the thin line between acting interested in her and what she has to say all the while keeping up enough sexual tension and confidence to subconsciously let her know that you're into her sexually so she's not caught off guard when you make a more obvious move.

>tell woman you're uninterested in getting pussy on tinder because you want something deeper
>surprised when you don't get pussy
Literally how are you missing this?

>I don't want cake, it goes right to my thighs
>bish y u no offer me cake