I am almost thirty, and although i’m not a virgin, I never had all of the experiences everyone else has like sleeping with young girls who are in their prime. Flirting with tons of girls all over the place and all of that shit.
Did I waste my time? I focused on just building my career, and mostly ignored girls expect for I had 1 gf.
Well humans evolved to want to fuck lots of young girks because we could spread our genes further that way. Just like we evolved to love the taste of sweet things because it was a rare calorie rich treasure that could keep us alive. However nowadays following your craving for sugar will lead you to becone obese and unhealthy. Likewise fucking a bunch of randoms does nothing to help you spread your genes because we have birth control now. It even appears that having too many sex partners makes it harder for you to pair bond (maybe this was once a evolutionary advantageous change in response to a success in breeding with randoms). Like our urge to consume sugar, our urge to seek out many sex partners is not very useful in this period of human culture.
That being said you still to need to progress to the point where you have a woman and children to satisfy your biological needs. You may be a bit behind in that you are inexperienced but you are ahead in that you have a good career.
>That being said you still to need to progress to the point where you have a woman and children to satisfy your biological needs
Well. I’m never going to have children
Also, why does it automatically make me inexperienced even tho I’ve had a gf before? Am I expected to have had multiple gfs?
Well thats a tough one. If you don't have a spiritual purpose (the betterment of man blablabla) and you refuse your biological purpose then I see no reason why you shouldn't make the purpose of your life blasting the reward circuits in your brain as hard as possible while you wait to die, and fucking a bunch of young teens is definitely a way to do that. But i would think if thats what you wanted you would have done it already, you could also try heroin or cocaine or travelling around the world. To be honest i don't really get people like you. If you're never going to have children why do you care about how many women other people expect you to have sex with. Who cares? Why do you care about how good your job is? Why does it matter?
Yeah but its not a big deal. Women wont care if you've got the rest of your act together
A single male in his 30s usually has far more sex than he did in his 20s. You have nothing to worry about. The best decade of your life is coming.
Well I don’t want STDs tho. So I don’t think I am going to hook up with girls.
Also, I think that’s false, the 30s thing. That really sounds like bs. Most people are settling in their 30s. All of my friends are in serious relationships, married, or searching for a serious relationship
Im 25 and a virgin. Stfu.
Yeah because they want to have kids (duh)
If you're not going to have randon hookups why did you even make this thread?! The whole thread was basically "i didn't have random hookups i wasted my life"
If you had at least 1 gf, then that makes you experienced. What are you worried about? If you have a stable job, house, and aren't horribly deformed or antisocial, most women will be willing to settle for you.
>I never had all of the experiences everyone else has like sleeping with young girls who are in their prime
Most people didnt either, stop worrying
I was a virgin until I was 27
because I feel very indifferent. I don’t feel as if I made a mistake. But many people tell me I did. So it makes me wonder if I really did make a mistake
So who is fucking all those teen and tween sluts!?
>settle for you
That’s bad tho. Settling is a negative thing. You should always pursue what you really want
Why do you say that? Everyone I know did this
Did you have any experience before that? I had a gf for about a year at 24. Your situation back then is comparable to mine now. How was it? Any info helps.
The hot usually fuck each other, the average sex partners for people in their midtweenties is like 4-5
no that was it. the relationship was fine. I don’t have any regrets about it. She was a good girl
Anecdotal evidence is not representative of the whole population
Averages are pretty useless. Get a manwhore and a virgin fag like me and you get an average that does not actually reflect the masses or reality.
I feel like that’s a lie. because everyone I know has had more than that. Most of my friends have had 10+, and they are not even real manwhores
if you had a girlfriend in your twenties it defeats the purpose in making this thread retard
Well how is your little survey an accurate representation of society as a whole?
A few Details. Did she know you were a v? I actually lied to my ex and said I had done it at 18 because she said her first time was at 16.
Snap the fuck out of it. You're moping around on adv because you are bummed that other people say you missed out on doing something you would have never done anyway if the opportunity was gifted to you. Who cares what they think? You don't even want to have sex with a bunch of random girls so how did you miss out. Did i miss out on a great basketball career even though I don't like basketball? Rest assured that if you actually had wanted to fuck a bunch of young girls you would have. Why do you care what people think? Your thinking is so bizarre because you are playing status games comparing yourself to others but the arch status game thats the reason for all the others (DO YOU GET TO REPRODUCE) you don't want to play.
Neither are statistics which are manipulated even when you dont attempt it.
T. Finished statistics course with best grade, no bragging it was easy bullshit.
Yeah she knew. I didn’t lie
How old was she? How did she react? I regret lying about it. I think I ruined a lot by lying.
Yeah, well I think the reason I feel shitty is because sex is so pushed in society that it’s almost like brainwashing. So much on TV, music, movies, the internet, commercials whatever is about casual sex. People always say “ahhh college years” “best years of your life” “everyone fools around in college”. But I didn’t. It’s like i’m the odd one out of the world. Because I didn’t go with the flow. I get reactions from it.
It’s like if you believe in something, but everyone tells you you’re wrong. After so long you’re going to start having doubts and may think they are right.
She was the same age as me
>tfw 27 yo virgin
>tfw coworkers constantly ask you questions about your gf or hound you about finding one
>tfw you're running out of excuses and lies and it's going to blow up in your face eventually
Oh I know this well. Especially if you’ve worked at the same place for many years. Co-workers notice
Agreed! Fuck the 20's.
Worst time of life.
Like what? I get asked that shit too.
>do you have a gf?
>No
>why blablabla whatever people say after that
>I dunno
Why and how does it bother you so much?
As a single male in his 30s I concur that getting sex is way easier than in my 20s.
Because you don't want to be that weirdo people feel uncomfortable around, with your career going nowhere.
how tho?
No you're fine, just find a qt gf now.
Yeah and everyone's also fucking stupid. Do you feel left out now because you're not as stupid as everyone else? Also, college was the best time of my life desu, and I didn't even have sex until afterwards.
Fpbp, nice dubs.
The thing is everyone seems proud of what they’ve done. I’ve heard many people reminisce on their college days and they always mention all these different stories they have with girls. I can’t relate. I’m not saying I wish I fucked a bunch of girls. But it wears on someone when everyone says “what???” You didn’t do that??? “You wasted all of those years!!” “You only have 1 life and 1 dick, use it!!”
There are outliers and different number within standards of deviation, so?More people, more representative of people
More accurate than saying the people he knows
That doesn't make it a lie except the hot people stuff, you can be telling the truth (no reason for you to lie since it doesn't matter),, that just means they are doing better than average
What has having a gf to do with advancing your career?
You are insecure and they make you more insecure with stupid comments like that. I get that. So how do you fix that? Get over it, get over yourself, be sure of your own path and decisions. Just be yourself desu
>talk to girls
>sex
You wouldn't have done it in any case, by your admission. You're already convinced of the main point, that you didn't miss anything, but you still feel bad. There is no helping you. You're an insecure bore, and I'm out.
>Did I waste my time?
No. Life isn't about having sex with girls in their prime.
but it's sex with 30 year olds and not prime 18-24 year olds
not him, but 30-40 year old women are attractive af
>prime
>18-24
It's OK user, you don't have to lie here.
Only if you are successful. The reason a lot of men feel "prime 30s" is that by 30 you had a shot to pull yourself out of some shithole - so you probably have money, time, fitness, interesting things to say, etc.
This.
Even if that were true, there is that desperate-to-get-married thing.
not really. You really can't compare a hot 18 year old to a 30 year old. Unless she's blessed with great genetics. But then she's already taken by that age. I never found MILF porn hot or older women hot in my life
No I genuinely feel 18-24 are a women's prime. I don't have any reason to lie