Jealousy and Insecurity
I know men have the right to look at other women and be sexually attracted to them "because that's just how men are and you just have to deal with it". But I cant.
As me and my fiance are in a long distance relationship, he visited me for birthday. However on those 3 of those days, I had work at my unit (I'm in the army), so he stuck around me. When he couldn't be around me, he hung around my friend, that looks like a prettier version of me. Immediately they hit it off and he invites her to go and eat dinner with us. When i asked if she had invited herself, he replied "no I did. She seemed kinda sad. She said her boyfriend had cheated on her".
She had told me this herself. But this happened 4 months prior.
After he leaves, i go on Instagram and see he has followed her account. He regularly comments on her pictures and likes them all.
When I sent him a meme that went the lines of "men that like other girls pictures are just looking for their attention". He said "lol no. I'm just being polite." And I believe him. But it still bothers me. I did mention that it did bothered me he liked and commented on her pictures. But again he said he was being polite. Which I agree he is and I know hes right. But fuck it bothers me. Even after telling him it bothered me he still does it, which he has the right to, but ughhhh.
I know all of these interactions alone mean nothing and even together mean less. But I just cant get it out of my head. What should I do?
>inb4 communicate with him
I have and he sees no problem because really there is none. It's all me.
The original picture I was going to post was of her picture of her pointing her ass at the phone (second picture) but I dont want to manipulate this picture as him being the bad guy.