So Jow Forums, here's the story:
I have a gf of a few years. Me and gf both have a friend we knew from before we were dating, let's call her "Jazz" (just so I don't have to keep typing out "gf's friend.")
Like I said, I knew Jazz before dating gf, and we're pretty good friends even outside of knowing gf, I guess? I always thought my gf trusted Jazz to be the "keep an eye on him while I'm not around" girl. Not that my gf doesn't trust me, but you know, it's nice to have a friend you can rely on like that.
Anyway, recently Jazz and I talked, and she asked me how serious I was about my gf, and I said pretty serious without getting too specific.
Less than a week later, my gf starts dropping some...weird hints.
"Hey, you know Jazz had a crush on you before, right?"
>I chuckle
"Actually I think she still has a crush on you."
"Do you think Jazz is hot?"
>"She's pretty cute."
"She thinks you're hot, lol"
"What should we get Jazz for christmas?"
>"Hmmm, I dunno"
"Let's get her a vibrator, user! She could really use one"
This finally culminated in, one night, my gf coming out and saying that she wanted to have a threesome with me and Jazz, and that Jazz herself had been asking about it. I kind of avoided committing to anything. It was a bit awkward.
Obviously, on a pure lust level, I'd be delighted to fuck them both. But...I am super serious about my gf. As in, I'm considering marrying her. And I can't stop thinking...if she really doesn't care if I fuck another woman, if she really wouldn't feel jealous at all, does she really love me? I know I'd never let another guy fuck the woman I love. Does she not see me the way I see her?
Would love to get advice from femanons on this.