Losing Virginity in 9~ Days pls help

I'm losing my virginity in 9~ days, I'm taking a bus to visit my girlfriend I met on Tinder for the first time.

I'm 8 years older than her and am going nofap for the 10 days prior so that I have a better load.

I'm looking for general advice on how to handle/approach initiating sex for the first time ever. She is also a virgin but is quite a bit younger so I would like to be as sensitive as possible and ideally not autistic. (1 year older than the local age of consent)

Also will be my first kiss so please give advice on how not to be terrible at basically anything to do with touching a girl IRL. I've been a hikki NEET for the past 10 years now so I'm way out of my element when it comes to real life shit.

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Is she also a virgin? Have you told her you are a virgin?

>Tinder
>Virgin

Dominate that pussy. Girls like rough sex and feeling dominated. They don't want a whimpering little beta male moaning like a pathetic dog, they want you to violently thrust inside them without stopping. If she says to stop it's just an act, they like feeling submissive and not being in control. Watch some porn and see how they do it.

>girlfriend I met on tinder

Lol. Sorry OP but this most likely will not end well

uh I'm losing my virginity, ending well is already assured for that reason alone.

Fuck. It's not such a big deal. She's a virgin as well which should make things easier.

Relax and let it happen. You will have a hard time getting hard if you are anxious and worry.

>girlfriend I met on tinder
>uh I'm losing my virginity,

Oh my sweet summer child

Even ifits for real, this is just having sex with a stranger, which both of you need to label as a "relationship" for your own wierd reasons and probably because someone once told you you should only have sex in a relationship. Or some bullshit like that.
Either way, just have sex and dont expect to see her again.

You think OP gives a shit? A woman is only worth her vagina, they're boring as fuck to actually hang out and do things with, that's what we have other guys for.

Some guys give far too much of a shit.
You on the other hand, by far not enough.

It is going to be lousy and you'll likely regret it. I sure hope she isn't ugly.

Dont no nut for 10 days prior, youll finish in 3 seconds flat and you wont actually be able to count it as losing your virginity cause she'll have kicked you out of her vagene and (assuming) cardboard box on the side of the street (with its little $2 wendys sign (not even a sign just writing) on the side), have a fucking wank the day before you virgtard.

Make it two days before just in case you can't get hard. Don't drink or do drugs ahead of time and remember to bite off her tongue or whatever turns girls on these days.

figure nutting too fast with a huge load is better than being soft from deathgrip or whatever that i probably don't realize that i do

well there's three nights for us to get it down better, but she's definitely not ugly she's very cute actually, takes really good care of herself to boot. very girly.

at this point being old as I am I don't think I'll regret it regardless it'll be nice to just have it over with even if it did kind of suck. but it won't.

>Watch some porn and see how they do it
Sorry but that's a very virgin thing to say

What the fuck are two virgins living at bus distance doing on tinder
This is going to go terribly.

>probably because someone once told you you should only have sex in a relationship. Or some bullshit like that.
Oooh, check out the fuckin individualist over here, god you just don't play by the rules do you? Fucking maverick lone wolf with his finger on the trigger, watch out

yea not nutting for 10 days prior is a bad idea because you really don't want to ejaculate too much, that's disgusting and will show her how much of a virgin you are, you won't last too long either. Also don't be too rough, communication is the key with ANYTHING, especially if she's a virgin too. If you want to physically practice then practice your lower back and stamina because you need strengh with those in missionary. wish you luck

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Why do you need a huge load? Do you think she wants to swallow extra cum or something? You should only need a couple days to get a good recharge, but a week of edging will give you a massive load if that's what you really want. I'd recommend you two try to get each other off with oral and manual simulation before fucking. And when you do get to the sex, start very slow. Work your cock in slowly and then start with slow deliberate thrusts. You can built up speed in time. Watch for her reactions and you can probably gauge what is feeling good for her. Play with her clit a little, or even better, ask her to. It's going to be awkward no matter what you do, just have a sense of humor about it.

what about amateur porn?

Pls dont listen to him op

I really hope she doesn't stand you up.

Decent advice. Also for what it's worth, first time I did anything sexual with a guy he told me he had been saving up his cum too so that he could have a big load - I was kind of disgusted to be honest and had no idea why he d think that would be something I want.

Have you met her in real life before?

You didn't want that extra dollop of dick snot? Honestly, cum is gross. Unless you're going for a porn money shot, no one cares how much cum you're shooting.

here's how it works OP, she's gonna take her clothes off and get on all fours, then you're gonna stand behind her and drop your pants. Then you're gonna see something that looks like some kind of Japanese food, it ain't so don't eat it but that's the bull's eye. Then you just start tugging on your little solider, keep tugging until he gets to attention then you're gonna poke him in there, keep poking him in there until he spits up. You're probably gonna need a raincoat since it's your first time and doing nofap, have some towels ready or something. As soon as you're done, run to the bathroom and wash your crotch with soap and water. That way you don't wake up wondering why you got oatmeal in your carpet. breath through your mouth so that you don't puke.

Okay, let's be clear, dating a 17 year old over tinder still isn't great when you're 25.
Secondarily, sex is highly personal. My girlfriend LOVES penetration, like, so much-- and yet some girls get barely anything out of it.
Any guy worth his salt in bed is gonna tell you the same thing, "PIV is for you, use your fingers to get her off." (Or your tongue but you may wanna wait for that)
Otherwise, my suggestion is that you take feedback from her and just touch and explore. Gentle is better, she'll tell you when she wants it good'n'dirty.
I'd also watch out on nofap because it might cause you to blow your load in like 40 seconds. Vagina is some real feel, my guy.

She's 17, though, man. Don't expect to be guaranteed a mindblowing experience. Teens are dumb, impressionable and usually self-centered, so it might not be what you expect.

Before you get into the act, get some lube. Now when you have oral, remember to know what her clit is and slowly work your way into eating her out. Play with the vagina a bit and then suck on her clit until she cums. Kiss her thighs, the back of her legs for maximum orgasm.

A lot of women like it when you dirty talk to them. Let your animalistic desires out and tell her how much you want her or how she turns you on so much. A women gets turned on when you tell her these things because it makes her feel wanted.

For sex, I recommened you start out missionary so you'll know where to insert your penis. The entrance is going to be a little lower than potrayed in porn. If you can't find it, ask her to guide you. When it's in, you won't even feel like its in. You'll know its in when you start 'pumping' and she starts to moan.

In terms of stamina and fast pumping, don't worry about those things first. It's true that women love rough sex, but if you want to feel pleasure, go slow so you can feel something because if you wear a condom and you go fast, you aren't going to feel shit.

For a beginner, I recommend Doggystyle, Missionary, and cowgirl position.

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This is true except for the stop part. If a women tells you to stop, you need to stop. Unless you want a rape charge, faggot.

It's not true at all for virgin girls though. user is just bein a cheeki cunt

Lube? Lube for vaginal sex?

>dating a 17 year old over tinder still isn't great when you're 25.

Just curious as to what makes this the case in general other than the fact that it certainly won't be a life long marriage type relationship?

>I was kind of disgusted to be honest
Seems weird to me, you must have grown up pretty wholesome/untainted by pornography I'm assuming?

>Lube for vaginal sex?
Yes.

>Seems weird to me, you must have grown up pretty wholesome/untainted by pornography I'm assuming?
Not at all, I grew up in a very open household and sex was an open subject from a young age, and I talked dirty and lewd with my friends like teenage most teenage girls did. I didn't watch porn though, you're right about that. I just couldn't understand why he thought him having a big load would be something I'd find attractive. More unpleasant tasting body fluid to swallow? Great man, thanks for that. Now that I'm older I wouldn't be so dumbstruck and slightly grossed out, but the young virgin OP is going to meet probably couldn't care less about the size of his load - not fapping for 10 days is excessive (and from the stories I've read on Jow Forums, possibly gonna make him cum in a few thrusts anyway)

that image hits too close
i'm no virgin, but i don't get laid very often

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>both virgins
>8 year age gap
just checking, how old are you both?

Have you arranged to meet with the mutual intention of losing your virginity to each other, or are you just hoping it'll happen?

>Seems weird to me, you must have grown up pretty wholesome/untainted by pornography I'm assuming?
I think you've grown up a little too tainted by pornography if you think a virgin girl is going to be interested in the size of your load.

The other user had it right, 17 and 25

>Lube? Lube for vaginal sex?
Yes. It might be self-lubricating, but that's only if a girl is hella turned on. And even then, a little extra doesn't hurt. But she's likely going to be tight and nervous, so having lube on hand will help ensure things go smoothly, punintended.

For the record, 99% of the advice in this thread is irrelevant if her hymen is still intact. If that's the case, your only job is to get all the way in without hurting her. Also note that breaking it is unnecessary and will just render her unable to have sex until it heals (and possibly very unwilling for some time beyond that). With a little patience, it'll stretch out of the way and eventually wear away entirely.