Liberalism has ruined my relationship

>becoming a cunt and you're not even engaged/married
>feminist friends
>doctorate program; ie: shit load of debt

If you don't ghost her right now you have no one to blame but yourself.

We're kind of in a rough patch right now, I don't know how things will pan out if I do.
The last few weeks she's been saying how she's been unhappy and things need to change for the better for her to go on in this relationship.
Now I find myself calling into question what I thought was her dedicated commitment to this relationship and making it work.

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That is fucking terrible, man. Sorry to hear that.
I hope you're still young, it'll make dating again much easier.

Dude... your girl is taking maximum amounts of cock while at school. she probably started the very first time she went out with her whore room mate and had >1 beer. It has nothing to do with her politics.

You should have married her already. At this point it's too late.

>She’s long distance getting brainwashed by someone who isn’t you
This is exactly my fear.
Doesn't help that we haven't spoken much in the last 2 weeks, while she's had other brainwashed friends there.

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Yeah you will. The first one aligned with your politics because she saw that as beneficial to herself. Now she’s turning into a blue haired SJW because that’s what she’s surrounded by.

Always remember, women don’t form their own opinions and are like liquid—they take the shape of their container.

>She's been in Boston for 2 years.
Long distance, long term, most relationships don't last through this.

get cucked muh traditional woman shes better without you sounds like you were a control freak no one owns another body

Women are like mushrooms. They have no flavor themselves so they soak up the bullshit they are cooked with at any time. Around you: Trad wife. Around compromised females: Another compromised female.

This

she was cold to you because it's already over in her mind. She is already getting railed. Women want nothing more than to fit in and do their best to mold to the environment. This environment is feminism currently and you know she did things to be accepted. You know they talked shit about sexual libertation blah blah. It's over man. I hate to say it because i recently lost a woman i thought i would be with forever but once that coldness is there it's there for a reason.

Haven’t talked in a week? Hmmmm yeah sounds like that’s over dude. At least ask what happened, but definitely end it - some ass was destroyed during this time.

(((doctorate program))) and you know its a bait to delay further the urge of babymaking....until the wall

>she was cold to you because it's already over in her mind.
This is what I was thinking, hard fucking truth to swallow.

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Just tell her how you feel. You want to spend the rest of your life with her and if she isn't willing to make a few sacrifices of her own to make it work then you're better off without her.

As for the single women being promiscuous, just know in human prehistory the average man had one child and the average female two.

I have come to believe that women do not have object permanence.

Kill yourself.

Women act like sheep.
It is known.

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she outgrew your close minded flyover politics. grow up.

Lol now its two weeks? What the fuck man?

>She's been in Boston for 2 years. Lives with an Asian whore in her program who invites guys over all the time since her bf is from out of state

Stopped reading right there. Thats where you fucked up. She should be living with you.

it's over dude, jist ghost out of her life and spare yourself the pain.
I ditched a relationship of 4 years due to the same circumstances.
Leave before she only hurts you more.

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hey what college is she at? i work around a bunch of them. maybe I'll hit her up.

Confront her about it. Ask her whats up. Be stern and demand that she speak her mind. If it turns out she's bitten by the feminazi libtard bug, tell her what her future has in store. Misery, loneliness and regret. If this doesnt deter her, break up with her.

She’s getting fucked by another guy. Long distance relationships are for fucking retards and cucks. Move on, she is lost to you.

Stop brooding over her. If you have goals to be successful then she will eventually realize her fuck up and if she doesn't then she wasn't strong enough to hold out against pressure. Don't waste your college experience crying over her, fuck some girls and move on.

>waiting till after post-grad to get married
There's your problem you cuck.

MASSIVE EXPLOIT INCOMING
Get off your fucking parents dependent status you cuckbois. Here's how it's done.
1. At 18 move out and work shitty job. File your own taxes. Get off your parents' insurance.
2. Marry that highschool sweetheart. Pop out a kid even. Claim all welfare benefits.Your parents can keep you afloat under the table.
3. Apply to college as poor married parent. Get buckets of money thrown at you. Get free college and get paid to go to school.
4. Finish college debt free, married, have a family already.
5. Land a good job

You're welcome. Don't be a fucking cuck. Leverage poverty for max advantage and for God's sake get off your parents tax return. Waiting for after college to start a family is literally boomer tier. Libs are willing to pay trads to start families at 18. Doit.

>She starts to get annoyed when I point out Whoreish behaviour of her room mate.
she's been fucking someone elsem sorry senpai. I just dealt with this myself

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Shes already fucked multiple niggers in boston, you are a cuck. End it and move on.

I'd forego it altogether. He doesn't need to have his suspicions confirmed.

depends on the girl op, opposite my dorm when i was at uni were two girls, they were both above average.
One stayed home and didn't go out much, she practiced cello and studied all the time. no thottery at all that i saw.
the other had a long distance boyfriend that visited sometimes, she was kissing my flatmate in the club a few times and i saw her wasted bringing back guys to fuck every other week. for reference she kissed my mate on the 1st and 2nd week of uni and her boyfriend visited on the 3rd week (lmao), this guy was a big looking chad type too.
you probably have a girl like the latter

Maybe she's found all the images of other women on your computer, like the ones you've shared with us. Put yourself in her shoes, why would she stay with a man that fantasizes about other women? Seems like you're the one who really isn't committed.
>I want my cake and eat it too, but expect others to overlook it.

listen up leaf, I hate you lot more than anything on this earth but I feel a bit of empathy for fellow man, end this relationship now. Be the one to do it, not her but you. Take the lead and do it lad, not for her but for your fellow man and family. She isn't someone that is worth fixing, you will be driven mad if you try. Remember time on this planet is dwindling by the day, the world is going mad and war is on the horizon. Do not spend your last thoughts on a traitor.

It’s a hard and painful truth but you need to swallow it so you can move on.

I guarantee you she’s already fucked other dudes. Loyalty and integrity are not values that mindwashed liberals care about.

She’s fucking someone else, you gotta bail

this

Thanks for posting this OP. You’re inspiring me to commit to my current gf. She’s 22, didn’t go away for college, has a good relationship with her family, doesn’t go clubbing or anything. I’m only the second guy she’s slept with and I’m her first serious boyfriend (I actually believe her on this front).

Honestly user, you're suicidcally ignorant of female nature.

Long distance relationships do not work.

Women require frequent attention or else they will stray. Hell, they'll stray if they get a better option or even if they can get away with it.

The dumbest thing you ever did was let her go off to the Jewnited States, alone.
I'd bet hands down she's already cheated, and if not yet she knows who it's going to be with.

It's a lost cause user. That sucks and I'm sorry. But better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

My advice; break it off now. She may eventually come back to you, but it will be with multiple addition dicks on her history and a head full of (((programming))).

Otherwise, you're just setting yourself up for a world of hurt. I'm sorry user. It sucks, but that's my honest, sober take on it. And that's how nature truly is.

Disregard this faggot. Terrible notion.

This. Shes been riding the carousel, I'm sorry user

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I'm sorry to hear that user. I don't wanna be a bringer of a shitty news, but not speaking over a week - there is either some extremely deep personal issue she has now or she is already interested in someone else.

Women rarely have any loyalty to other women they call their friends. If she is getting pissy when you point our her friend is objectively a whore for cheating, chances are, she is taking it personally because she is cheating as well. It may not be true, but I have this experience.

Otherwise this: and this . Just don't fall for memes and try to talk it out - if it won't solve anything it will give you a peace of mind, since you've done what you could.

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Nope you own your own body, that’s why you should be held responsible for the actions you take. If you’re a whoor you deserve to be called a whoor.

It's long over for you lol, when they start acting different it's already too late.

t. beta

Do this. Don't even bother with her anymore. Just find a young qt.

>She used to be a perfect trad girl
Yea but then she went to college right? It's an old story. Furthermore, why does she need to go to college with you at home doing " engineering " stuff. That's not a perfect trad wife in the first place. She never needed to go to college at all. If she was the perfect trad girl college probably wouldn't be a thing.
Unless she was going to be a teacher or something, sometimes those gals can be trad if they teach elementary.
But otherwise what the FUCK were you thinking you were going to do with a career woman?
You don't need a career woman.
I bet you're too busy for that. You need a woman who's going to be home when you are, so you can fuck her, and make babies, that she is willing to care for while you slave.
This gal wasn't going to do that anyways.

That relationship is over. For one, women marry up. She went to college and you did not (apparently). Marrying you means she is marrying down. That is not going to happen as a rule.

The liberal stuff is just the finishing move.

>dogs roam around and shit everywhere when unattended
>women roam around and suck all the dicks when unattended
Who knew such simple creatures resort to such primal behaviours without a master around.

That is how they work
Messed up
The best course (and the hardest) is to cut her, tell her you feel her coldness and that you notice her constantly unhaapy, tell her you dont want that unhappines with you and that you sre sad she changed so much (do not mention feminism just leave it like that) if she can put 2+2 together eventually she might come back but it is most likely a lost case, she is gone and does not love you, there is no poit for you to stay

This. Letting her do college for years without you was the red flag. Just the fear of becoming a trad wife while her friends live the "life" is sitting badly by her. You'd need to do something to "sweep her off her feet" again, but there is a very good chance she cheated already after 2 years.

She laready cheated on you, the guilt is driving her further towards the people who will accept her "slut" ways.

Sorry to say, but she's lost.

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You've likely been placed on the back burner...someone she has on reserve in case one of her new prospects doesn't work out.

Be glad you didn't marry her before this happened and move on. Good luck user.

Either you end or keep it in mind that she potentially had other guys inside her. Which probably is the case. Whatever you do, if you do end up breaking up with her DO NOT get back with her. She will realize what she lost, but real life actions have real life consequences. I know it's difficult to drop someone you have grown attached too but it's better not only for your health but your own self respect.

I’m an older fag I’ve been around and been with and dated a lot of women. Being honest if you’re girls already getting what I call “cunty” and moping and complaining it’s already over. I’m very blackpilled on women and in years past in your situation you guys would have got married and had a nice life, but right now in this day and age once things turn like that you can be sure she’s talking to someone else of not already seeing them. I have had endless experiences with seemingly good married and not single women come on to me to the point I never again can trust any woman ever. Because you’re young you haven’t realized it yet but basically if you don’t break up with her one of two things will happen. Either she will be kind and break up with you or she will string you along for a while “because she didn’t want to hurt you” while you continue to get cucked and pull your hair out because she no longer responds to you positively.

Based

Is the Asian girl named Lauren?

No, he totally sounds like a control freak. but imagine being stupid enough to be worried about the political affiliation of her girlfriends and totally overlook her obviously riding the cock carousel while out of town.

Its over my friend...move on...sorry

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Are white?
Look for a another girl
Otherwise dump and MGTOW

Sure he does. He will have closure

No. Starts with an S

This is not always true, it depends entirely on the woman.
My woman who I would also call "traditional" and I dated long distance for a good 3 years.

The difference is that when she was red-pilled she got increasingly annoyed and tired of her dumb fuck friends who were whores and partied and whatnot and dropped them.

OP's case is different, but no doubt 2 years living with a lefty and having lefty friends could change someone. You become a product of your environment even if you don't want to be sometimes, especially when you're still young and your brain is still developing (as I assume OP's girl is). And even moreso if you're a women, since women tend to be a lot more emotionally dependent.

and when she's done she will have a 'higher social standing' than you. she will look down on you because you don't have the same social status.

Hypergamy.

Its over accept it, stop living in a delusion.

If she isn't annoying her friends talking about how awesome you are, its already over.

1. In Boston, dating some rural faggot isn't cool
2. So, she is not talking about you to her friends
3. So, she is dating other people and lying to you

OP Why aren't you dating, single man?

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She's taking dick that isnt yours. Find someone else.

what the fuck is up with you cucks abd explaining?
There's no words left to be said. THE best course of action for OP would be to go out and smash some puss in front of her hometown friends.
My ex was fuming for years because she lost her sex control over me in the end.
She cucked me then cried when she found out I screwed her childhood bff in retaliation.
Never felt better.

She is already talking to another guy, sorry man.
Women do this because you no longer are exciting.
When you criticize her roommate, to her, you are criticizing her.
She doesn't enjoy the overly serious attitude you always seem to have.
Let go a little. Enjoy life, in your own way. Smile.
There is nothing you can do EXCEPT become a better man. She will stay or she wont.

t. Christcuck

start fantasizing about her getting fucked by blacks while she calls you a loser while you masturbate and develop a chockold fetish, faggot lol

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Tell her how you see things, and that you're done with her.
Tell her you never want to see or hear from her again because she has betrayed you.
Then block her number / ignore her calls for a few days, perhaps two weeks.
At that point if she is still calling answer and tell her she needs to make a choice: an unhappy socialist career, or a happy family with the man she loves.

this 100%. If you haven't talked in 2 weeks its over. Although I'd say she knew she wanted to end it when she went away for school. If you're together for 4 years at that point, you live together, period. Should have followed her to Boston and married her.

nice blogpost faggot

i'm with you croatia. Just drop it and walk away. Be truly cold. "it is obvious we are done you have nothing of value to say. goodbye" and DO NOT TALK TO HER. Here is the thing about these fucking cunts. She is already fucking on you and cold to you but if you drop her like that with no emotion it will fucking devastate her. She has it coming. She might try to appear strong in front of you but trust me, i've seen it a bunch of times, she will run to her friends "HOW COULD HE JUST DROP ME LIKE THAT AM I NOTHING!?!? WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

Point out that she was happy before she went to college, now she is unhappy in college. The things they are telling her are making her unhappy. Then point out that college is an insular bubble. Then start disproving the liberal brainwashing she had received.

>The leaf cuck speaks
"Control freak" because he worries about compatibility with his woman? What the fuck are you even talking about? Do you just let your girlfriends do whatever the fuck they want without discussing their behavior and thoughts with them?

>I wont find another girl like her

Thats probably a good thing. Shes a whore now.

Don't be a doomsayer . Don't be a woman and try to use fear to persuade her.

Tell her what you want . If she doesn't oblige , then toodelou, give her the ole wave and goodbye.

Two options user. Figure shes cheating on you, dump her and go, or you basically kidnap her, take her inna woods and try to reprogram the shit out of her. Good luck.

>Hasn't spoken to you in a week
>Says she's unhappy and things need to change

Sounds to me like it's over my dude. I wouldn't sweat it too much, you're still young and there are plenty of other women out there. Definitely sucks to end such a long relationship though.

Just find a new GF and don't MGTOW, look hard for a better women. You only go MGTOW when you really hit the age of 40

Don't mind me but I think your gf, or should I say whore, cheated on you with some chad. If not that, I think she is just bored from the relationship. Women need men to guide them, even if that is something she does not want. You need to man up and stand your ground, the bitch is testing you or cheated.

Sounds like she already screwed another man and is trying to figure out a way to tell you without paying the consequences.

I agree.

This is the most probably scenario. Logic dictates it.

Things are this fucked.

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t. blackpill literal incel

these boston libscum hipsters just walk out into the street drinking their coffee's like there is no such thing as cars & traffic.

>end her
>then end you
Not all anhero wear capes.

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you got it figured out

She's been cheating on you the entire time. Cut off all contact immediately and find a new woman. Good luck!

End it right now. You've already decided you're going to. Just be very happy that you got to enjoy what you had so far, which is better than the vast majority of guys ever experience.

>whom I can guarantee did everything in their power

it's who, leaf idiot. it's the subject of the clause. maybe if you didn't try to sound smart and fail your girlfriend wouldn't have come to the states and opted for AMERICAN COCK.