Welp I think my marriage has to come to an end. I've been waiting a few years for my wife and I to have kids but she flat out said she no longer wants them and during the argument said I probably shouldn't have any either given my reaction.
>Her career is advancing rapidly (more than mine admittedly) >Climate change fears >Kids are expensive and taxing and time sinks >Who cares about teaching them your values and carrying on your flame after you die
I don't know what to do and am honestly about to cry. My fuckin career has stagnated and the woman I'm married to wants nothing to do having children with me. All my friends lives are taking off and having famies. Fuck. Just end it all please. 33 years old. What the fuck am I going to do.
Like the women of the past, blackmail her. Tell her she can either pay you to exist for the rest of your life or she can give you what you want.
Camden Foster
Honestly sounds like a dodged bullet mate.
If she has legitimate fears about climate change and doesn't understand the value of having children she's extremely mentally sick and you're better off starting over.
Jason Jenkins
Having descendants is the primary reason for our existence on Earth.
You get a Darwin award if you fail at something so primal. So does she.
Move on without any doubt. She fails as a wife for being useless and worthless as a reproductive vessel.
She will have kids, with whoever she is sleeping with.
Get out now.
Ryder Rogers
Who the fuck gets married without talking about kids? What the fuck is the point of marriage without children?
You really put a big one in your ass here user.
You have to try to convince her. Do not reason with her. Show her pictures of children, of herself when she was a child. Call her parents and talk to them about it. Then when you tried all that and it doesn't work, tell her that you want a divorce.
33 is not that bad, you could still find a desperate 30 year old to birth you some sons. YOU CAN DO IT.
>Tie her up in basement >Fuck a baby into her >Raise kids in the dark below and create new race of mole people When the nukes start dropping your bloodline will have the advantage OP
Four years ago she was ready to have kids but we were poor as fuck and in no shape to do that. This happened after we got married.
David Anderson
Fucking based
Brody Foster
Just move on. You're just going to resent each other and she's gonna get knocked up by Tyrone. She's only saying that because she knows you won't do a damn thing pussy.
Aaron Kelly
All of this. Trigger her primal baby making instincts and shame the sources that tell her family is not what lifes about. Family is the only reason why life is worth living, ask any suicidal person they havent done it usually because of family.
Jack Gonzalez
Really sorry dude. Praying for all people in your situation, men or women.
Mason Rivera
divorce the retard, let her become a career cat lady. If you're lucky she will kill herself by 40
Hudson Roberts
How old is your wife? Mine decided during our first year of marriage that she was gonna have a career change, travel by herself every summer and prolong having kids by 2 years all for her career. I divorced her immediately (not immediately but after it became obviously that we had different visions). Being single sucks at the moment but knowing that I would have ended up being the bitch in that relationship, I would not go back.
Parker Martin
God fucking dammit I'm so destroyed now. How the fuck did this even happen.
divorce her go for large share of assets and alimony find younger woman whose eggs are not all dried up she will be impressed that you have ANY assets and ANY job >hide 1/2 assets from new wife before wedding marry her (will loose alimony after but use it to pay for wedding ) knock her up live happily ever after
Brandon Hughes
Can you annul over her change in desire to have kids, the purpose of marriage, or are you going to get divorce raped? How does that work if she makes more than you?
Also remember to play nice and act like nothing is wrong until you have all your ducks in a row and have spoken to your lawyer to set everything up for you
Zachary Butler
The only reason to even get married is to have kids. Unless you're so materialistic and vain that the only thing you care about is acquiring more wealth and assets and how often you can get sex.
Aaron Long
big setback but you will recover. tell her you need kids or you will find someone else. then if she won't change her mind, leave her. as a man, you are young enough to find someone else and have a big family. you can do it user.
Jordan Nelson
Rape some babies into her and lock her up until they are born.
Jacob Williams
No, eat this whitepill you fucking nigger
Aiden Martin
>about to cry Jesus Christ. Nut Up.
It sounds like she doesn't need you now that she's making money. She'll probably have kids with her next husband.
Aiden Jackson
You want kids. Your wife doesn't want kids. You can try to "convince" her that kids are a worth it but that is a terrible idea because it risks her rationalizing her desire for kids rather than it just being instinctive. The risk is she will end up being a poor mother as a result. Or she will realize that she never actually wanted kids once she births them. Or she will end up saying "I did this for you". At least she made it crystal clear by saying she never wants kids.
Michael James
Find a new woman that wants children. Don't waste your precious time with her, and grow some balls. Also, stop focusing on what other people are doing, and worry about yourself.
Cooper Nguyen
>>Climate change fears How are people so fucking dumb.
And you still refuse to beat her. This is why the whites are going extinct
Hunter Moore
Thanks for the kind words. I just can't really feel anything. I've been with her for 9 years. We've been through a fucking lot together and I just feel bettered by her stance now.
I don't even know where to begin with ending this or dating in this current world. I guess I'll look for a job out of state in a place I'd rather be in.
>I probably shouldn't have any either given my reaction. >am honestly about to cry. shes right
John Wood
>climate change wait so she actually thinks having babies is gonna yeet the ozone layer? i thought that was just a meme. didn't know white women were buying that shit too. fuck this gay earth. im having trouble finding reasons to keep going and to give a shit about anything anymore. every day i pray to die in my sleep. if i wasn't such a coward i would have killed myself long ago. this is why i pray for ww3.
You married dead weight. End it while she is ahead and move on.
Thomas Foster
Oldfag here, 51 yo. Married to a woman I love but... that isn't enough. We never had children. She just didn't want them. Both in grad school at the time, and we were busy and then got even busier and suddenly,.. just too old.
Get out. Now. Before your life is *really* gone, like mine. It will be painful, the pain will last months, many months.
But you will still be relatively young and can start anew. Your life is just beginning!
Logan Adams
Sadly you need to leave soonish. You don’t want to give it another few years to see if she changes her mind then have to start dating divorcees
Parker Richardson
She's fucking around on you.
Brody Campbell
Do NOT give her any hint this is happening Contact a divorce lawyer File without warning Demand Alimony like Cernovich Did.
No kids means they can't use them to demand child support.
>>Her career is advancing rapidly (more than mine admittedly) huffington post fanfic
Elijah Young
If she said it during an argument, she may have been trying to push your buttons. Have a calm conversation about it.
Climate change is a retarded basis for deciding whether or not to have children. It's more of an excuse than a genuine reason.
I don't know what to advise regarding marriage. Even before we were married, I knew my wife and I were inseparable. Still, I understood early on that she was delighted by the prospect of kids, and we have two now. Trading potential children to keep your wife is a harsh choice.
You clearly want to keep her. Give her a bit more time. Also, patiently get to the real reasons she doesn't want them. It could be something as silly as fear of childbirth, which can be managed. Put yourselves in situations where she gets to deal with children positively, maybe spend time with some of your friends who are over-the-moon about their own kids. Consider talking to her parents. They want grandkids. If they like you, they might have advice.
Xavier Wilson
>I'll look for a job out of state in a place I'd rather be in. I'd stay away from NY, user, I'm trying to get out
Easton Hughes
>What are clones? Op get with the times
Benjamin Price
This happened to a college friend of mine. >went to his wedding >he was very much in love with her >her career advances >no kids >gtfo divorce bitch >re-marries >sweet young POA >3 children
>I don't know what to do and am honestly about to cry. My fuckin career has stagnated and the woman I'm married to wants nothing to do having children with me Just get a divorce. There is no child support to pay, and no alimony, because you make less than her.
This is win/win trust me. I am 42 and have a year old son. He brings me joy every day. Imagine yourself in 10 years married to a 40 y.o. childless bitch. much better to start over now than wait.
Just ditch the bitch and move to a new town with better career prospects for your line of work or trade.
Finally, I will say: If you bow down to a woman, it's the kiss of death. You will lose respect for yourself, and so will she. You might think that complying with her wishes is a viable way forward, but it's not. Women are like dogs, in that they can smell fear and weakness.
Don't beg, don't negotiate, don't demand. Just pack your bags and leave.
Oliver Taylor
>having famies Your wife was right.
Cameron Davis
LMFAOOOOO WHITES: THIS IS THE FUTURE YOUR PARENTS CHOSE FOR YOU.
THIS IS WHAT BOOMERS DID TO YOU. THEY TOOK THE MOST BEAUTIFUL, PROSPEROUS, RICHEST NATION ON EARTH.... AND TURNED IT INTO WHAT IT IS TODAY.
WHAT ARE THE IMPLICATIONS OF THAT? I'D SAY IT'S ABOUT TIME FOR A FUCKING REVOLT.
Luis Rodriguez
I don't have any advice user but I hope it gets better for you. I will pray for you tonight. Go to church user, you might be hitting a rough patch and finding purpose is important so you don't go off the deep end or wind up a trainwreck.
I'm in the exact same boat, user. Struggling how to handle this
Brayden Russell
Find a 24 yo and pump her full of kids. Thread.
Brayden Gomez
>Demand Alimony like Cernovich Did. this.
Caleb Rivera
I just proposed to my cutie blue eyed girl.
But I made it clear that I'd only wed her if she wanted to have children, at least 3. She agreed and has come to really look forward to be a mother.
When we first started dating (before I got redpilled here) she swore she'd never have children or get married. Since then I've slowly gotten her to 180.
OP listen mate, you are literally still 10 years away from being in your prime, at least as far as sexual market value goes. Your wife is on the way down already. You have the high ground. Make sure she understands that her time for attracting a mate has run out and if she doesn't want to die alone she had better take your seed.
Women hate being reminded that they are getting old and your wife will have a major crises if you can make her confront that reality.
Honestly in this current world, they won't be carrying on your flame, but the Jew's instead after learning about the Holocaust in four different subjects once administered into public education.
Cameron Brown
lots of young girls want to get impregnated, even be single moms
just pump them full of baby batter and deny its yours
Ayden Brooks
her career in making power points?
Carson Ross
33 so still in your prime and a replacement wife should be no problem. If you want them you will need to go elsewhere. Commonly in their mid to late 30s they get all clucky when their friends start popping them out but of course birth defects greatly increased (assuming pregnancy is even possible). Stay with her a year until you get your finances sorted- or even retrain while letting her financially support you so you can improve your job prospects/income.
Split= get a property settlement and start looking again. You still have time up your sleeve. Kids will be the best investment yoou ever make if done properly.
Leo Ortiz
just go sell your jizz as much as legaly possible. >you get to procreate >she gets to live her life of greed everybody wins
Kevin Hernandez
You have to divorce her man.
Kevin Lee
For the longest time the thing that made my wife orgasm the hardest was whisper "you are gonna be a great mother" while fucking.
Three kids so far. Blue/green eyes and blonde/red hair
Jose Fisher
do a fuck ton of acid
Nathaniel Morris
>Climate change is a retarded basis for deciding whether or not to have children
Remember this is a woman were talking about
Asher Davis
First off throw your fucking TV out the window if she believes in the climate change shit. If she doesn't want to have a kid because of muh carbon footprint then she needs to understand the same people parroting that talking point are also shilling for endless muds to come here and breed like rabbits.
Valuing a career over having a family is another nail in the coffin though. She's obviously been exposed to way too much shitlibbery. What's more fulfilling: raising a family or being some soulless company's cubicle overseer?
There should have been a lot of warning signs her brain was getting mushed by liberalism. What happened?
