Wait till marriage or sleep around??????

Sleeping around is fine in the same way going to McDonald when your hungry is fine. It scratches and itch but you feel like shit afterwards because you know what you did isnt good or sustainable.

Having sex with long term gf who you're 100% comfortable with is amazing. Its worth taking it slow, if youre horny just have a wnk

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Sex is ridiculously overrated anyway, I tried it and was utterly disappointed.

I already have my EU citizenship, nigger. When I visited Germany briefly in 2014, everyone was super friendly, so I'm moving there for sure.

>It scratches and itch but you feel like shit afterwards because you know what you did isnt good or sustainable.
Thanks, this is what I needed to hear. I had a feeling about that. I even feel bad sometimes after I have a wank, so I'd probably feel like complete shit if I slept around. I hold out longer then.

I'm literally snow white and super blonde.

so was she

Goli otok tudi zate, kolega

Wait until marriage, and do your utmost to find a girl who's either doing the same or has had very few partners. Each sexual partner causes our bodies to release our sex's bonding hormone, and the more partners we've had, the less hormone our brains release with the next. This will make it harder to remain loyal to someone you love: your body will be conditioned to look for the next new fuck.

You keep it in your fucking pants dude.

Older unmarried women who sleep around are mostly pozzed, don’t believe liberal degenerates who tell you STDs “aren’t a big deal” or are “hard to pick up”.

Women who want relationships or marriage on the other hand are trying to suck out your soul, and will cost you all your money energy and time in the end. Feminist bullshit is everywhere in our society so the government is in charge of every relationship ultimately.

Women were always the playthings of The Evil One, but that goes twice or three times in these cursed times.

Save your body and soul by staying away from women you idiot.

I hear the hormone thing actually happens with men also, as it's basically just you forming an addiction. I talked to a guy who works as a therapist about this before and he said a lot of people have bad sex addictions, where they can't even control it.

In terms of finding a girl with few or no partners, it's actually not as hard to do these days, luckily. I was looking at a study before and about 58% of girls are still virgins by the age of 20. The other 42% or so tend to lose their's at a young age, and they sleep around more. I think people tend to focus on that half, since they are really in your face and disgusting, and we tend to overlook the rest. I just wish there were more white girls in my area.

It's true that sex is better with someone you love but sex isn't necessarily bad with someone who turns out to be just a casual partner.

Whatever you do don't go into any situation or relationship with the expectation of love right away. Just because she seems right doesn't mean she is and sometimes the more experienced girls are just looking for a strong man to go the distance with so don't lock the door on a woman who has had several partners unless she is truly fucked up beyond reason.

Just wait. You don't want to mess around and catch something :s

You're not missing out on much mate. It honestly feels like a warm wet wank if you're not emotionally invested. If you get an urge sort it yourself. Get a relationship going first.

Sex is unironically for women, since they have a billion orgasms (with me at least), while men have only 1-2 in a session usually.

Partner count is less important than the context isn't it?

Like a woman who's had 5 proper boyfriends is better for marriage than a woman who's had two one-night stands I would say.

Ty. I'm going to try much harder to get into a relationship once I get into uni (or move to Netherlands, if I get accepted there). For now, I'll just wait it out. I'm still really young, only a few months into 21, so I'm probably just being a little paranoid/in a rush and need to be patient.

See I've just had my first (((relationship))) at the same age. Went from kissless virgin to doing everything in quite a short time. And you know what? Best she ever had (she wouldn't shut up about it). You don't need to practice or anything, if you use a death grip wank you will last ages anyway. It's honestly piss easy. Kiss her throughout (properly though-mild tongue, suck her lip all that), external stimulation with a wide tongue (like an ice cream but slow) and the underside of fingers. Internal upwards stimulation with fingers. Penis penetration constant, deep, steady pace. (legs on shoulders is good for this). Suck her tits or something as well. Honestly. Nothing to it. Didn't stop her cheating though kek. People say the first time is awkward and nervous but it isn't, that's a load of Jew propaganda: 'You need to practice goy, work on fatties then move up'. Load of shit. And with this girl it caused me to get depressed since I really got attached to her, but that was her fault not mine, I didn't use anyone, I got used. And attachment is human, don't become inhuman and have detached, depraved sex with any hole you see. You've got to think: what do I have to show for it at the end? A dopamine rush isn't true satisfaction and happiness. I'm not saying wait until marriage. But have good intentions (for a relationship) towards the girl first, and you'll be better off for it as well, and you'll get the good sort of women.

Thank you for the advice and everything.

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No problem mate. Just my story and anecdotal experience. Do you have difficulty speaking to women at all?

Waiting can make you callous for sure. Just dont get jaded. You wont find anyone who hasnt already been used up by at least a handful of other guys. At least not in today'$ faithless and wicked generation. Yet If you can forgive womankind for their failed attempts you probably arent worthy of their affection. Not the whores mind you, ones who do it for money, but there are some who genuinely have been seeking stability and failed time and time again like you who still desire the monogamous foundation for family planning that faithfulness brings. Perhaps this is a better option in a world of queens who look like bitches, make wisdom your sister and the road will open itself for you. It is certainly a path less traveled and off the beaten path walked by normal men consumed with the bloodlust and hedonistic nihilism programmed into cinematic stereotypes of what defines the modern parent and single mother lifestyle. Hollywood no longer upholds the dream of a 50 year golden anniversary. Their idols lack the temperance and devotion to go that far beyond their golden years of young adulthood as they paint the picture on silver screens. They would rather dream only of today and discard history for the blind pursuit of tomorrows golden ticket royalties and a producers paycheck bankrolled by casting couches.

> yet if you can't forgive.

Typo. My mistake

I used to, but not so much anymore.

Ah then that's fine. I had a problem but heard of a three second rule: that if you want to speak to someone but don't act on it in three seconds you never will. That sort of idea helps. And after the situation I told you about something happened and one day I didn't feel fear anymore, and felt like a wind was behind me pushing me along in my life. There are strange things that happen in our lives, but there is nothing that happens that we can't endure.

Have you read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, emperor of Rome?

Not yet, but it’s defiantely something on my reading list.

classics.mit.edu/Antoninus/meditations.html

>Thou sufferest justly: for thou choosest rather to become good to-morrow than to be good to-day

I like:

>Let men see, let them know, a good man who lvies as he was meant to live. If they can't endure him let them kill him, for to die is better than to live thus

>There is but one harvest of this earthly existence, a holy disposition and neighbourly acts

>Your days are numbered,throw open the windows of your soul to the sun, or the sun will soon set, and you with it.

Loads more, that's just from memory a few I like.

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And different versions have it slightly differently, so it's good to cross reference a few.

This one is really hitting home
>Whenever you suffer pain, keep in mind that it’s nothing to be ashamed of and that it can’t degrade your guiding intelligence, nor keep it from acting rationally and for the common good. And in most cases you should be helped by the saying of Epicurus, that pain is never unbearable or unending, so you can remember these limits and not add to them in your imagination. Remember too that many common annoyances are pain in disguise, such as sleepiness, fever and loss of appetite. When they start to get you down, tell yourself you are giving in to pain.

I’m definitely going to dive into Meditations right after I finish the current book I’m on. Ty

Great. No problem mate:

>Some people, when they do someone a favor, are always looking for a chance to call it in. And some aren't, but they're still aware of it--still regard it as a debt. But others don't even do that. They're like a vine that produces grapes without looking for anything in return

I really like:

>Adapt yourself to the environment in which your lot has been cast, and show true love to the fellow-mortals with whom destiny has surrounded you

Don't have sex outside of serious relationships and you'll be fine. I find people that mystify it and fixate on the marriage component get married mostly just so they can have sex.

mindless sex is kind of pointless anyway

The biggest con of waiting until marriage is if the person you end up marrying is shit in bed.

>shit in bed

What a meme. As I explained before sex is piss easy.

You'd have to have a micro-dick or premature ejaculation or she'd have to be have a weird problem for sex to be bad. Every average person can do what they need to do well enough, if they think about what they're trying to achieve. It helps if you've a gigacock like me, but it's not necessary.

Wait until marriage.