Is sushi a good idea for a first date?
Is sushi a good idea for a first date?
It is of you both like it and you have a place you know is decent
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That's a lot of money to drop on a girl you'll probably never see again.
How old are you? Can you go out for drinks and sushi? Do you know what to order? Do you know what your date thinks about fish?
I think most people are pretty comfortable with sushi these days, but it can be limiting. Dinner dates are kind of a shitty thing, so if I were going to sushi for a date, I'd be sitting at the bar with a primary focus on drinking, a secondary focus on eating. Not to mention, sushi can be reasonably expensive, or make someone reluctant to order what they like depending on who is going to pay.
I think the decent thing about sushi is that you two can split a roll or two, and there's not a lot of food to have to gobble down or take in a to-go box. It's why most of my first dates are at bars that serve small plates.
I like sushi d.e.s.u and the place I like is full of couples
Don't want to feel like an autismo going in alone
>How old are you?
I'm 23, she's 21
>Can you go out for drinks and sushi?
Yes
>Do you know what to order?
Both of us apparently go to this place pretty often so I hope so
>Do you know what your date thinks about fish?
She likes sushi.
Cost isn't really that much of an issue
Seafood is one of those foods that really splits people - they either like it, or detest it. Even the seaweed wrap is enough to put people off. If you don’t know in advance where she falls on seafood, choose a place with a more diverse menu.
2 things I really avoid for the first date are movies and dinner because the food gets in the way of getting to know someone and well, during a movie you don't talk.
But also think of it like this; your first date being good or bad is dependent on whether or not the food was good or bad.
Let's say you two have a perfect conversation, but the food tastes like shit or gives her diarrhea or something; this is going to be the memory that sticks with her.
Now, I'm not against getting something to eat during a date . Just going out to eat for the date is a bad idea for a first date.
The place doesn't only serve sea food, they have other Japanese food as well.
Yeah, I figured eating during a date might kind of be shitty but I think it's too late to change where we're gonna go but then again I'm pretty inexperienced in dating so I don't know if it's alright to change it since it's this Friday
Would it be a bad impression if I asked her to get coffee instead?
That sounds good then, I think it's a smart idea. It gives you a good chance to talk about what your favorite kinds of sushi are, try different things, not have to worry about eating a full pasta dish or something.
I might consider doing something else than a place you've both been to a lot, but both of you being relatively comfortable isn't bad. It could be awkward if you bump into each other, but I'm hoping you're not already at the point where one date is going to be this HUGE DEAL.
desu pretty sure I'm just overthinking it because I've been a lonely loser for over a year at this point
Coffee gives you bad breath and you'll both be up way late - that is up to you.
Maybe instead of something like sushi where you sit down something along the lines of pizza.
Either way - if you're gonna eat you're gonna have food in your mouth and in your teeth. Wanna stand out as someone that is considerate? Buy some toothbrushes and tooth paste and surprise her after you're both done eating.
Maybe she won't want to brush her teeth but if she does she can.
Umm that last part?
Seems pretty weird
Don't like a single part of this post
This is an awful idea. Like, all of it.
I'm not saying share the tooth brushes - just have some tooth brushes if you're gonna eat.
And coffee breath just flat out stinks.
Either way though that is my advice; I've never had a girl tell me I was weird for brushing my teeth after eating. Hygiene isn't a bad thing.
People kiss after eating pussy and sucking dick
The taste of coffee or food isn't a turn off
My dates don't ever revolve around eating or coffee - they might be side things we do but they aren't the actual date.
>bring toothbrushes on a dinner date
I laughed really hard at this user.
What is the point of this post?
Nobody goes out just to eat
They go out to talk, eating is secondary
>People kiss after eating pussy and sucking dick
>The taste of coffee or food isn't a turn off
If you aren't worried about bad breath during a date then you do you and go have coffee and eat.
Like I said, I've never once had a girl think I was weird for brushing my teeth and have only heard positive things about my personal hygiene. You do you!
>They go out to talk, eating is secondary
Dude, that is a boring unadventurous unimaginative date idea.
Like I said - I never go on dinner dates. Eating is just a side thing that happens.
Bring some gum like a normal person, not multiple toothbrushes and toothpaste.
>Bring some gum like a normal person, not multiple toothbrushes and toothpaste.
I'm OK
I've never once had any girls tell me caring about brushing my teeth or bringing an extra tooth brush was a bad idea. I wouldn't say anything if it wasn't well received by the women I've dated
Trolling is not allowed outside of /b/
If I were a girl I'd feel way too awkward about you bringing me a toothbrush to tell you about it.
Keep in mind, I don't think there's anything wrong with popping into the bathroom to brush your teeth on a nice date with a travel toothbrush and a single serve toothpaste, but bringing some for everyone is just outright weird.
Especially giving it as advice. I can just see it now, OP, who is probably a bit of a goofy fuck, finishing up paying the bill, and with a big grin, saying "who wants toooooooothbrushes!? :-D"
>OP, who is probably a bit of a goofy fuck
What gave it away? The fact that I haven't dated in so long that I need advice?
>If I were a girl
But you aren't a girl
>Especially giving it as advice
Man, I am gonna tell you; I've never once had a girl tell me they hated my minty fresh breath or that they did not appreciate me being considerate. Usually it's more along the lines of 'oh just what I needed'
>He thought I might want to brush my teeth after eating so he left an extra brand new tooth brush in his truck
>What a weirdo
You guys do you! Really, I am OK with how women perceive me.
Just the fact that you're here is enough of a giveaway
I was just playing the odds on Jow Forums. No offense intended.
No, unless you know in advance that she likes sushi and have verified that the place you're going doesn't give people the Fukushima shits. Sushi from a good place is good for beers with the boys. For a first date go to some place that caters to a wide variety of tastes but doesn't make you wait an hour before being seated.
its okay. But go on a sunday lunch or whenever its cheapest.
if your date likes sushi then yeah probably