Why are men being so feminized?

I'm Jow Forums so getting my dick wet was never a problem, but I go into my college classes and 9/10 men have some sort of anxiety about just talking, how autistic is that?

A couple years ago we were at all out war, but men now are afraid of talking. LMFAO.

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>getting my dick wet was never a problem

Are you trying to impress people here? sage

Because some cunt can just take what you say and ruin your life. The internet is a wonderful thing but I think it will be our down fall. We have free access to porn which is pretty much digital cocaine. Social media has destroyed humanity. I'm not surprised that most people are afraid to talk. No one wants to get ass blasted on the internet because they said the wrong thing.

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>Muh dik

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I have gotten into trouble with my college and was threatened with legal action for what I said, so I only talk with people I really trust.
I can't trust women, so I don't talk to them.
Building on that I've seen several men be accused of sexual harassment/ rape without evidence and have their lives ruined.
Finally divorce laws are horrible.

I do also have mild (very mild) autism, but I've basically learnt to cope with it.
It's no longer an issue, but I still do not talk to people.

Im a 9/10 otter mode 130iq

I have such a hard time talking to women. I feel like most of them are stupid and self absorbed (especially the hot ones) and the fact that I come here everyday doesn’t help.

I feel like the biggest problem is that I ‘place the pussy on a pedestal’ now I’m just trying to talk to women like I talk to men (before any romance at least)

I think it’s working

Men raised by women. What did you expect?

post body.
>no homo
and IQ test
>very homo

anyone have the comic of this guy driving to work and wanting to kill himself while looking at tinder?

>I'm Jow Forums so getting my dick wet was never a problem
Im fit and getting my dick wet has always been a problem
Youd think girls jump on a fit guy but they dont, they jump on the popular guy


>how autistic is that?
Its not about fear, its about opportunity
Most girls who look 5/10 are often taken so why waste time?

affirmative action

It's intimidating, a woman can fuck over your whole life should the mood strike her and Im not even talking about her cucking you with one of the 300 dicks she's got locked and loaded to take your place. Why even bother, honestly? So much risk and for what? To get your dick wet. My hand performs the same task and I don't instantly regret it's presence once I've had orgasm.

im not a loud jackass that disrupts whats supposed to be a classroom learning environment, i want the value of what i paid for, why should i want to talk to strangers anyways

Cmon dude bro don’t you wanna be cool huh bro class is for losers dude cmon suck me off behind the bleachers bro haha just kidding I’m not gay you faggot

I thought all /fit / guys were homosexuals

I talk to other girls like normal people at best, usually I just talk to them like shit. Girls eat, sleep, piss, and shit like everyone else so idk why everyone acts so autistic and different around them. Women know when people are trying to give them attention and act different around them to get laid. A lot of dudes need to realize that you will more than likely be at odds with some females (and men for that matter). Guys are so afraid of not getting female approval because of this faggot gynocentric society. Fuck what women think about you. They're not here to think.

E.Michael.Jones explains it better than anyone else

They’re true Spartans

I'm not an autist and I agree that it's safer not to talk to people.

>afraid of talking
Reminds me of when me and a classmate were talking about other classmates and I commented about the blonde girl with a big ass. The dude literally jumped out of his skin and began to lecture me about keeping inappropriate comments to myself.

A lot of you mention the potential for a woman to ruin your life. Are you happy to completely disregard intimacy with any woman because of that? I think an entire life without any female contact is not worth living (I should know). There are loads of shit woman, true, and unfortunately, there are no perfect woman. But be real with yourself, there are decent girls out there. Take calculated risks with women, don't go anything reckless, but in all honesty, I think reckless risks are preferable to no risks ever. To succeed in life requires risk-taking. Risk it lads, take calculated risks, life isn't meant to be insulated and safe, be discriminating with women and do well for yourselves.

Bitch, I've had trouble starting a conversation since we 'were' at war dumb zoomer.
Maintaining a thot is too costly.

They are.
Ahha got him ahah

You could have been expelled for sexual harassment for that. He did you a favor. Flirt with women in bars and out in the world. Classmates are off limits these days in modern liberal schools.

You might find the love of your life- but you are equally likely to find a woman who will destroy you from her protected position of power.

Women prefer it this way.

It's only too dangerous in modern colleges. You can be punished with no evidence and no fair treatment can be expected there.

After a lifetime of experience with psychotic abusive woman that now can use the power of the state on a whim absolutely

Estrogen in the milk as well as liberal and progressive culture

anyone under the age of 30 is not and will never be a real man

I just say the things that are on my mind. Don't sperg out and shout that you should gas the kikes but it's entirely reasonable to ask people why a Jewish ethnostate is acceptable and a white ethnostate isn't.

A simple question like that can instantly let you know if you're talking to someone reasonable. If they just vomit the indoctrination you're talking to an NPC. If they actually think about it then you found someone you can talk to.

There’s a difference now, a big one. Back then it was just “eww get away from me, creep!” Now it’s “I’m going to use this bear mace on you and say you raped me”

Lack of social contact. People spend most of their time communicating online instead of face to face.

>Technology
>Isolation
>Chemicals in the water/food

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why do you always start every single one of your shit threads with "why"?

This. OP is a fag. All fields

True. Women act so oppressed and shit. Yet in actuality they are showered with attention from the opposite sex online all day. Not only that, but some women get free handouts from men all the time just by looking pretty on twitch. They don’t go out to get a career to survive, a career for a woman is a luxury. They don’t need to lift a finger to get their needs met like men do. If their career fails they can just put a hole in a condom and get daddy government to take care of them while marrying and monkey branching from one beta cuck to the next. No stigma for women to live of socialist services to provide for herself and kids like a nig. Because she can always blame men/fathers of her kids for her being where she is at in life.

Guess he knows how to get himself filtered

who cares
more for you

No more male only gangs, secret societies and organizations to be a Männerbund. Thats why they took out the proud boys and RAM

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when you have your right hand what else do you need

I'm a ??fuck knows??/10
very big
very strong
135IQ
I'm confident to the point where I feel disconnected from everyone but I have a hard time getting women to like me because I have absolutely 0 charisma

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>Be with my friend o. Study abroad program
>He and I are hitting on a pair of cuties in the same program from another university
>He stumbles cause he's drunk but grabs on to one of the girls to slow stop his fall
>He grabs a tiddy on his way down
>A girl walking near us points in horror
>He tried to grope her!!!!
>Other girl of the pair goes
>He tried to rape you
>Fall on girl goes
>He tried to rape me!
>5 drunk people 2/3 are guys that definitely did not rape while the other three are screaming rape
>We hoped the fuck out of there
>they never got our names
>we never went to any more events with others from the program for the remaining two weeks

Jesus Christ right then and there my friend would have been railroaded and his life destroyed. And that was 12 years ago. I can't imagine that today.

They are not Chad like you and women despise them for being ugly. Sorry if that offends you.

You eat ben and jerrys cuck cream?

>be me in deutschland
>a colleague is a white german male
>no facial hair
>no jawline
>submissive af
>another german chick with us, blue eyed blonde
>she prefers staying with me rather than him
>two weeks later find out he's a 30yo living with his parents in 'berlin'
>it all makes sense

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The white male is a victim of constant brow beating from childhood by feminist women, Jews, SJWs, blacks and many more groups. Every group projects their failures onto them. Its no wonder that some of them give up hope.

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N - no homo b-bro

I think its a generational problem. There was another guy who was the husband of my supervisor. Literally looked like a fucking viking and was huge beyond measure, had this harsh almost sexy german accent. And to top it all off, had 4 blonde kids.

conditioning is the biggest thing.

Parents are retarded.

They:

- overprotect their children.
- teach them shit habits (like eating shit, watching TV, browsing phone all day)
- don't promote good habits (socializing, reading, doing a sport / lifting / learning to fight)
- don't teach them about women
- don't teach them about money
- don't teach them discipline
- don't teach them to control their emotions

Overprotection leads to insecurity, insecurity leads to less socializing and risk taking, which leads to bad habits like eating shit and playing videogames all day long. This starts at a young age (between 5-10) and it becomes a prolonged habit through adolescence, and then in adulthood. When they get to college they don't know how to talk like a normal human bean, then they don't know even how to act in general in society, which then fucks them up for life.

I will repeat again: parents are retarded, then their children become retarded, then, their grandchildren too. The cycle repeats.

You must break the cycle somehow.

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If women are threatening to mace you, I wonder how you're approaching them.

The college thing is fucked and I hear how they operate, but how often are women crying rape? If you wanna avoid that stuff, avoid one night stands with intoxicated women, make sure there's some kind of relationship there before you fuck and I'd argue the rape accusation risks diminish, especially since you can screen out bad women.

I don't mean to come off as accusing, but if you think most or even a large amount women are just waiting to destroy mens lifes, I think that's crap, they're a minority and they can be mostly avoided if you don't let your dick take over and do reckless things.

The alternative is to avoid women forever. Unless you guys are monk level independent, I think that's just unnecessarily creating long-term suffering for yourselves, I think you'll regret insulting yourselves from risk, men are not born to live in cotton wool until they die. Life is overcoming, not retreating.

knock out the power for a while and let the patron saint Darwin save us.

Ive had the opposite experience mate
Chicks here usually select very strange dudes and geting fit usually doesnt help much.
Been working out most of my life and was 95kg lean mass at one point, still struggle my ass off to even find a date

Women are social creatures

Amen. I'm not saying I have other together, but I look at so many parents and just wonder how on Earth so many unqualified people have children. They don't know what they're doing, they're not interested in helping their children becoming independent, courageous and useful people who will lead better lives than their parents. They just have the kid, and whatever will be, will be. A cycle of endless suffering, no progress.

then I guess you just gotta dominate with your words

aint so easy man

I probably have aspergers or had a mild version of it.
I had extreme difficulty talking to people, especially girls in elementary school through high school. I had friends that came over almost each weekend, but I was pretty detached and often didnt interact a ton. Hated my birthday parties, because even a lot of familiar people is stressful.
Liked a girl a ton in 7th grade, was in almost all my classes where we didnt get to pick, because we had same birth day, same last name, Similar first name and middle name. She had a boyfriend so I didnt say anything, til last year of high school and froze.

College I took communications classes on the side, got better at speaking, I also got medicated a bit. Got much closer to normal. Had women friends, but most exploited me for a lot of money, emotional support and labor.

Took a long break from associating women. Partly because my health became shitty. Might try to start dating again later this year. Im 32.

I was also mostly raised by a hover parent mother. My father was in high end medical sales and almost never home. He was also fairly abusive, threw me into a wall when I was 12.

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>getting dick wet
How are STDs working out for you?

STDs are a myth pushed by jews to make people stop having sex you retard.

I have zero, because they're not real.

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>Life is overcoming, not retreating.
That phrase doesn't mean that the "hardest" path is always the best one. It's always bad if you don't put the effort of running to work, nor is it always bad if you can afford to take a helicopter to work. Life is about making smart choices, not difficult ones.

Case in point, most men today would be better off reproducing with surrogates than in a marriage with a modern woman. Relying on himself, he is much more in tune with his inner stoicism, and needing a woman to do the easy kid chores is a meme.

They talk about all the tight 19 year old pussy they're going to fuck while they dick each other's asses in the mirror of the gym locker room.

Of course, just because a path is the hardest one doesn't make it the best one to take.

I don't think many men at all are proper stoic men. We're social beings and by and large we do best in marriages with good women, though I mean marriage in the social sense, not the legal sense; the government has no business in marriage and declaring yourselves married is enough.

That's why religious traditions often advocate for lay people to get married, as a life of celibacy and religious devotion is a rigorous one. Have a child through a surrogate? How disfunctional. If a child is guaranteed to not have two stable parents, mother and father, in a strong relationship, don't bring it into the world.

Clearly we need another Vietnam to thin out the herd.

Hire a nanny if you think you think your time is better spent elsewhere, but women offer no value other than a steady hole to fuck. Love is not real.

The protests for this would be great to watch.

We don't need to seek war. With society degrading as it is, war will find us.

Women are higher in neuroticism than men, hence why we think of shit like anxiety and depression as female problems.
Testosterone is a hormone that helps heighten aggression, lower neuroticism and make swift decisions. As testosteron crashed throughout the years, neuroticism went up in men.

Most college-tier normies are brainwashed idiots into feminism.
Most men I meet will try to say the right things and talk about patriarchy and emotional labour like that shit means something. With no direction except respecting women, they don't know what to do, so they don't know how to grow up, so they stay forever in that state of adolescent anxiety where you didn't know what to do. And their lack of testosteron doesn't help.
Also, a whole lot of guys are fat and don't go outside. Being fat changes your microbiome, makes it easier for you to get depressed or anxious. Lack of sunlight will fuck with your head.

>Long term suffering
user the worst long term suffering is getting with someone that doesn’t actually give a shit about you, not even out of obligation either if all they see is your money and don’t want kids.

Fuck that

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Indeed, what a nightmare to be with a woman who has no love for you, or who is only superficially interested (money).

That's not what I'm advocating, I'm saying do your best at finding a decent woman. Maybe you don't find one, that's a real possibility, but I strongly disagree with the sentiment that all women are shit (not that you said that), they aren't. Some people are shit, half are male, half are female. We're not these virtuous men surrounded by a sea of degenerate women, we're men flawed to differing degrees and women are flawed to different degrees.

The way I see it, choosing to be alone without exhausting yourself trying is giving up too soon. I say, if you've still got some youth left in you, take your chance, that's living, find the courage to take the risk in front of you. Seek a decent woman, you might find one and you'll be all the better for it. Maybe it goes wrong, but without trying, you'll never know what could have been.

One last thing, courage is different to confidence. Confidence is a feeling, feelings can't be forced, you can't make yourself confident, nor do you need to. What people need is courage. To be courageous, you need to be fearful or anxious or terrified; if you're not scared, you can't be truly courageous. So when there's something you want to do but your emotions are holding you back, remember that it's okay, that as much as you don't feel great, you can act. Practise courage by encouraging yourself to act when your fear tries to stop you.

>I agree that it's safer not to talk to people.
>people
Do you mean women? I never heard a man accuse a woman of rape or even go as far as to take them to court for it without any evidence.

Brain damage at birth from mercury vaccines
Hormones in meat and milk
Estrogen in the drinking water
Estrogen in the plastic
Flouride in the tap water

That's why.

combine all that with all the man shaming and "toxic masculinity" and "rape culture" and "woman almighty" them bitches just trying to monopolize

power hungry bitches lol

feed em a dick. its all they want

i wake up at 6 smoke a bowl and eat raw meat then cocoa with raw milk
you niggers are very jewed
also i only work for 3 hours and then i do other shit

population control

Definition of a parasite.

I'm 36, and let me tell youngfags the older you get the more females you witness firsthand among family and friends cheating on their guys. It's not even millennials. I have seen aunts cheat, my mom's best friends have cheated, one got still alimony, I've seen successful married women go to bathrooms to hookup at Christmas parties. I've had three GFs sorta cheat, not fuck, but seen borderline emails and drunk txts.

Girls respect a guy more if he fucks around. If you can pull off the cokehead skater look in college, there is no ceiling to quality rich white sluts you can pull. That's not a good thing, but it's that simple. Girls fuck guys that other girls wonder about, that make other bitches talk.

Best thing you can do is be straight up with any girl you want to seriously date. Say: if you have problem with fidelity I'm not interested though. A real girl will appreciate that. Any hesitation, dropped. Don't waste years on slags. Sounds easy lol. And then we all fall for them. Old as time.

Based.

Its better these young guys focus on studys and not get side tracked by roasties like you that write long ass gayparagraphs.

>I feel like most of them are stupid and self absorbed (especially the hot ones)
That's the problem. Very good looking girls get attention from anywhere anytime. They'll never have to self-reflect or acquire character. Average and sub-average girls can actually be very worthwhile to talk to.
>now I’m just trying to talk to women like I talk to men
Definitely helps I learned. If you treat a girl like just another guy friend instead of putting her on a pedestal they magically get more interested into you because you lose the reek of desperation. In their eyes you become smart, interesting and hard to get attention from

What does getting your dick wet have to do with anything? Faggot.

I’m in a 70+% female college and the men are too afraid to speak in classes. Women usually give them dirty looks when they talk (even though the women don’t participate) and they talk shit about “cis white hetero men”. Depends on the college.

I'm not a woman, I'm a clueless, cowardly, angry guy in his mid-twenties that doesn't get any.

I hate the truth.

How does feeding men dicks defeminize them?
Leafs, I swear

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Most of the Jow Forums dudes I know act like women. Constantly taking selfies and obsessing over their body. It's sad really.

I just don't know how to talk to women because I lack social skills, not because I'm "feminized", the fuck does that even mean for you? It means that you have feminine traits, are you assuming that all women are anxious and depressed?
I'm ugly and I have bad experience with women (very bad) so I rather not try at all.

Bear spray is lower concentration than most pepper spray intended for use on humans. Bear mace would be preferable.

I do it to document progress and push myself. But doing it so you can boast on Instagram is chav tier, you're right

>Im Jow Forums
OP is a faggot, who would have guessed

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Come redpill these faggots.

Yes. Once you understand that it’s a game of not giving them attention and not think about sleeping with them (or don’t show it), then you’ll realize all of them are addicted to attention. The hotter they are, the more they are addicted. Like a cocaine addict. To say guys are addicted to pornography is the flip side of women addicted to attention. When you realize this. Then the objective of the game, behind any interaction, whether you are interested in her or not, is to not let her believe that you need her or you want to give her more attention than the moment demands.
Or you could just be a really important, productive, and hardworking man that you legitimately have no time for women and their games. That’ll make them see (not feel, see) that you really have something else going on in life. Something bigger than their shallow lives.
Welcome to the game buddy.

I always see this side of it, but do you think there are real successful marriages? Do you think there are relationships where the woman isn't fucking around? Is it even real? I've never seen it. I just hear about relationship troubles

There are two types of girls/women

>Girls with daddy issues
Always be aware if s girl you like is child of divorce. Esp if parents divorced from ages 4-16. Generalizing sucks. As you get older you realize that generalizations are simply shortcuts made for men by generations of other men's mistakes. That's a redpill. A girl with daddy issues has a paradoxical struggle: she feels abandoned, she wants to feels abandoned AGAIN, she wants revenge on her father. This is self destructive. It's why if you ignore a girl, she's going to text you and call you. The shorter you are, the more persistent she becomes. But if you're calling and texting, she senses weakness. The opposite of her POS daddy. She'll date you for comfort and self esteem boosts, but fuck around. Nearly everytime. This is how rape culture became mainsteam. Girls want their rape and their charges too when they have daddy issues.

>Daddy's girls
This is what you want long-term. Girls with longtime married parents. Girls who had to come home to a dad on week nights and weekends. To authority. These girls want to be told what to do and what is expected. The downside is they are stable and if you're on Jow Forums you are an autist. They need a guy who delivers and who doesn't get too emotional. They need a dash of crazy. They want to be yelled at, and shook on occasion. But they are loyal. And loyalty in a woman is love. Nothing else is. Sex is not love to most women. Loyalty is. The problem is, they often date Guys of Divorce who cheat on them. Which fucks them up.

Always seek a girl who likes her dad. But avoud meeting her dad until you actually think she's worth it.

imagine thinking just because you fuck roasties you are better than everyone else you run into
KEK
like a self fulfilling joke within itself

Yes, once you realize it's actually “that simple“ you're in the game. Catchphrases like “ Oh user, you're such an asshole hahaha :3“ tell you're reaching the sweet spot and are near getting them on your hook. I was highly exclusive up until age 16 or 17. I got rejected by a girl I had a huge crush on which put me into deep depression. At one point I decided to not give a fuck about what anybody thinks and started behaving like a cynical narcissist. That's when I realized that's how you have to treat easily moldable people, both women and men and I got socially integrated, respected and even admired. It's not easy as an autist to behave more extroverted but it's definitely not impossible.

NIGGER FAGGOT

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I had my Heart broken by my ex who I thought was my SO. I was a beta cuck mangina back then and would cut off my arm for her. Found out she was cheating on me after 2 years, maybe she started cheating earlier. After 6 months of redpill rage and I decided to get my feminine touchy needs from an Escort. She took good care of me and the sex was out of this world. My ex would always get tired about 30 minutes in, the Escort kept going non stop for 2 hours. It was much better than any therapist I've been to. I pay to get my primal urges satisfied and I only do escorts who have privacy as top priority so I dump my thoughts and worries on her while she massage my head in her lap. And apparently most clients of escorts come to them because they want somebody to talk to. Its like talking to a bartender, she's getting paid to smile and be nice so I know she does this to make more money off me but that is fair. Much cheaper than girlfriend.

I know it's hit or miss when it comes to chemistry with an Escort but if you find one you can easily talk to, I would recommend escorts to any man who is sexually frustrated and need to talk to someone. I can easily disregard roasties and thots and keep myself focused without distractions. It's helped me to also quit porn and masturbating as I want to save my loads for one of my escorts. Take the Escort pill if you crave female validation and touch. A serious Escort will always demand protected sex and I'm inclined to believe a clean Escort is much safer than a pill popping, cream pie accepting tinder thot.

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>tfw lonely

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Yes. That's the other thing you observe as you get older: healthy marriages are gems. I hate to say this, but most healthy marriages have a religious component. Maybe not Every Sundays, but I think religion creates a higher goal, an ideal, to strive for.

Personally I really try not to fuck around. Because I was an idealist and didn't want my generation to repeat what the white Boomers did, fuck around then find Good then bow to ZOG like cucks. But few girls think like this lol. Just the idea that you sleep in a bed with someone, share an intimate space, and you or that person is a coldblooded lying betrayer, I've never understood this behavior. Treason is the worst crime. It's also why I respected Ron and Rand Paul, they don't have mistresses run by Jews that can blackmail them.

Divorce is the ultimate destroyer of whites imo. Whether your parents are divorced or not you are affected by it. This is a terrible time for white youth, and divorce can make or break them. Jews in NYC, I give them credit, because their families stay together. Like at Kushner's. Kushner to me that is our American Dream stolen from us and flashed in our face with a wolfish grin.

Truth.

>I hate to say this, but most healthy marriages have a religious component

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