How do I make her break up with me?

Perhaps but you need to face your fears head on or you will remain a coward your entire life.

>relationship of 6 years
>don't live together because of insane parents
>and no long-distance issues
>never cheated on her or treated her like an asshole
>but also never gave the same commitment she did
>issues start building up because of this
>feel like she is storing them somewhere deep since she doesn't know how to resolve
>don't know how to resolve them either so generally ignoring
>eventually faggot from another country gets a crush on her
>starts sniffing for our relationship issues because of his own self interest
>and of course there were tons of issues since we basically pretend to be in a relationship
>she starts confessing to him
>he begins to understand what she is lacking from me so that he can give it to her
>starts to influence her against me
>see what's going on so try to stop it
>werejustfriends.exe
>sure I guess that's why your phone is locked with 12 passwords
>nothing sexual from her, ever since they started their innocent friendship
>he begins to unlock all that built up shit in her and making her release it onto me
>he distorts her perception of me to only percieve my negative traits
>he amplifies her dissapointment of me
>dissapointment turns into resentment
>anger & violence follows
>she becomes a complete unstable bitchy cunt towards me
>while on the other side is sweet,caring and supportive with him
>never seen anything like this from her throughout the entire 6 years of dating
>eventually I drop all the shit and expose them
>unfortunately she is already and completely emotionally seduced by him
>he takes it as an opportunity to make her break up with me
>huge tension starts to build up
>she suddenly gets the courage to speak horrendous things about me and our relationship
>she is simply not the same person anymore
>doesn't even want to listen to reason
>never felt so powerless and unable to fix things
>never thought she was capable but she dumped me

This may not work for all the women in the world but basically just withdraw your intimacy and affections.
Try to be indifferent and emotionless towards her, whatever she says or do never show any interest just nod and say something in acknowledgement.
Never be hostile or aggressive if you can, just be passive.
Eventually she'll start to feel bored and resentful towards you.
But you don't care because you're indifferent to her, you show no emotions even if you're boiling inside.
She'll be bitchy and start petty arguments but always maintain indifference, soon she'll threaten to leave you, and you just tell her to do what she feels is right.
That's what I did, it took two months but she eventually dumped me.
I loved her but I was at a weird moment in my life where I just couldn't give a damn about anything.

Perhaps you're right but I really cannot force myself to go through with it. There's some mental block I can't seem to break.

The moment you find some random slut, you'll be forgetting about her in no time. What you don't realize now is that your gf is a woman. This means she already has the upper-hand. All it needs to happen is her to respond to some of her orbiters. It may seem prepostorous now, but I'm sure it will happen eventually. There will be someone who is crushing on her and by chance she will also be attracted to him. This is when she dumps you to jump over to someone, she feels is better than you. Just don't accept her back, when she gets dissapointed of him as well.

Finding a random slut b4 breaking up or after? I'm assuming after here but not sure.

You can actually do both. However, if you do it before, I think this will make you feel guilty and for any future reference you will continue to bear this guilt. If you do it after, your conscience will be pure and you wouldn't have to live with anything bothering you at the back of your mind.

I honestly think you should start showing signs/hints that you dont want to be in a relationship with her anymore... I was in your shoes once where my gf was too obsessed with me and i couldn't break her heart until now I still think of her but being with her will only bring me more pain than love. I don't want to discuss about the history not because its too long but its because its painfully to remember. When i started to show signs that i just didn't wanted to continue in that relationship she slowly knew and one day she broke up with me.

Cowardice:The Thread

It is cowardice though calling it out doesn't solve the problem anymore than calling out a drug addict on his addiction.

Just do it. I bet that she'll recover from it sooner than you think, especially if she has has male friends, they're basically backups for her. Women don't have consciousness nor soul, there's nothing you can damage.

Why don't you just break up with her in a cowardly way like e-mail or text message lol

Shit lads I’m also in the same boat ,it’s sucking the life out of me but I feel sorry for her

It's not necessarily about the method it's actually the very act of being the one who breaks it. It's like the game of chicken I don't wanna be the one who flinches first.

Women have nearly all the power in dating. Why feel bad when she can (and likely will) hop on her choice of dick right after you do the deed? Trust me, she'll be just fine.

The longer you wait, the harder the crash.

Grow up or stuff your troubles up your ass and waddle your way to a nasty break up down the line. Either way, it's going to fail so you might as well take the initiative.

did you post this before? I feel like I read some similar stuff more than a year ago

Nah, bro. This is the first time I post my story here. But TBO stories likes this happen all the time, no wonder people start getting deja vu's at this point.

i say you want to break already you fag. atop being a pussy

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steal some small shit from her

it does because cowardice is lethal, you will never have a good relationship if you remain a coward
You need to break up yourself

What does that mean? Is she abusive?

Just break up with her stop being a pussy and just do it

There's no easy way to do it. You have to be the one to break up with her. My last relationship lasted almost 3 years, but I knew even before we started dating that I didn't want to be with her. I only got with her because I was scared of being alone. I am so glad that I ended things with her, and I wish I had the courage to do it sooner. Don't be trapped the way I was OP. You'll feel so much better and so much more free once you do. (After a mourning period but that goes without say.)

That's nothing. I got fucked over in a similar way by my ex several times, got physically abused and attacked, but she put me in trouble with the police before dumping me.

Cut the shit. You don’t get time back and neither does she. Breaking up after a LTR will not be easy, you don’t just get to manipulate people so you can get off with a clear conscience.

Write out your reasons so you know where you stand. Talk her through them and have accomodations prepared (ie to move out if you live together). Be honest, you care about her, but you need to go on by yourself for whatever reasons.

Well, I understand your situation very well, I was in the same boat.
DESU, if you can bear the guilt of manipulating her to break up with you, I suppose you should also visualize you are not less guilt of just breaking up with her.
I know OP, there is no easy way out of this, it just hurts in so many ways, but... Hey! That proves you may not be such a bad person.

Stop being a spineless coward. Just do it, that way maybe you can start to respect yourself. She probably knows on some level that it’s coming. Have some balls.

Idk the gravity of the relationship or at least how she treats you in it or what your part is in the relationship but the best way to find out if she is or isn't worth torturing yourself for is to literally go on vacation without her literally take time away from her. Depending on the experience you get while she istnt around (also limit your contact with her via cell) and by the end when you comeback make the decision of ending it or staying. She doesn't choose to leave on her own theres only 2 things that keep her around. 1.) The woman truly loves you or 2.) Your status in society is worth keeping you around for her personal gain. Good luck and God speed brother

Have you talked to her about your issues and tried to work things out? If so, then just tell her that you’re not happy. She probably wouldn’t want you to stay if you truly don’t want to. Let her move on and find someone she’s a better match with and you do the same.

What are the kinds of things your girl doesn't like?
Incorporate these in your life and personality. Then slowly limit your time together, either limit the number of days you spend together every week
or the number of hours you spend together each day by 30 minutes.
You'll start to grow apart and breaking up is just an eventuality.
How you'll break up is another matter, she might be the one to do it or you might be the one to do it,
there'll be fights and arguments, this will be your chance to break up in the heat of the moment.
If your girl is normal she will definitely break up with you even if you wait but that's a waste of time so it's your choice ultimately.

Be disrespectful to her constantly on the low. Watch a lot of porn, like tons of girls shit on social media. The sluttier and prettier the girls shit the better. Withhold compliments, don’t be flat out mean. Just keep up and up and up, it won’t happen overnight or even a week or a month. If you keep at it though she will break. Though forewarning it’s a pretty shitty way to go about it, you will be the bad guy and will feel like shit.

>you will be the bad guy and will feel like shit.
people like OP are already shit, they'll feel shit whether they break it off or their partner breaks it off.