GUIDELINES:

If you can trust it, 7 is generally the rating you give when you find someone physically attractive but not stunning. 8 is for moderate stun, 9 is stunning. Dimes are always subjective. Personality makes whole points of difference. I've met 7s who could pull 9 with personality. A ten with a ten personality is cranking the amp to eleven.

Meant to reply to you instead of myself.

If I write my dating site profile like an SJW article, will I get more success?
>You should date (and why this is a good thing)

Asking anyone. I'm into femdom, but still kind of a dominant person. My girlfriend often refers to me as a conservative macho. Self esteem is high. We usually have normal sex, but sometimes I let her jerk me off, spanking my butt a bit and pinching my nipples.

Recently it seems like she started to get into it a bit more, tells me that I'm a pig chan, bites my nipple during sex, etc. I guess she wants me to feel good.

I often read, that men who are into femdom lose their girlfriend to a normal/dominant male. That's my biggest concern if I dig a bit deeper.

Now I have a plan. She often complains that i'm too lazy and I could do more in the house or help her. I wanna suggest a fun little game where she is the princess and I'm her slave. 2 or 3 days as a start. During that time I have to do anything she asks for. Clean kitchen, dishes, scratch her back, give a massage, bring her breakfast in the morning, etc. She can give me rules such as no watching porn, not touching my dick, etc. Whatever she wants.

If I disbehave she can give me a punishment (if she wants). Such as spanking, whipping, humiliation, etc.

Do you think this may be a good idea or is it to much for her and she would cuck me out?

For me it sounds great: I have fun by being a slave finally; She has fun giving me tasks and not to do any house cleaning or so anymore.

Attached: 4.gif (271x378, 21K)

What do I say to seal the deal?

Attached: convo.png (913x193, 10K)

Don't text her

We can't look into her head.
But I would assume no. If you go in assuming that, you will make it a self fulfilling prophecy.

Confront him about it, tell him you need to know.
Move on if he is unwilling to commit.

Maybe someone will find it funny if you are able to write it decently.

Don't worry so much about getting "cucked", it's a pathetic mindset and you will unconsciously push her away.
Just focus on having fun, if this game is fun to you then do it.

>Where do you live

"Where and when"

Paydirt! Seconding 'Where and when?'

Girls,
When you hug the opposite sex for longer than 5 seconds, does that mean anything or does it vary? Can provide context if necessary

The love of my life left me 2 months ago for another guy because the last 4 years had been nothing but miserable for her she said. How do I move the fuck on and start talking to women again.

4 years is a long time. Don't rush yourself into getting back out there. Take this time to focus on yourself. Get involved in a hobby

where do I meet girls after college?
are girls even interested in meeting guys?

What would you think of a guy who's using women's deodorants?
I don't have any gender issues, am straight, don't even have any effeminate or queer behaviours or mannerism, and just dress normal but just prefer the smell of women's deodorants over the male ones... Smells nicer and there's more choices while all the men's ones feel like they are all the same sort of odour.
Asking both sexes but mostly curious what women would make of it and what they think of the generic male scents in general

>tfw stayed over at his for the first time and he held my hand while we were sleeping

Is it kinda sad that this makes me feel so fuzzy inside? I love kissing and all but this feels more...intimate, if it makes sense

Attached: VgwIVR7.jpg (213x255, 8K)

I'm so hurt inside, I can't bring myself to find interest in anything. I built my life around her and now it's all shattered.

That's cute, user.
It feels nice because you're connecting emotionally. That's important.
Good luck to you.

D'awwwww... I want a girl like you.

Girls rank the importance of these facial features.

Eyes, Nose, Ears, Mouth, Acne, Acne scars, Eyebrows, Chin

please input

>Don't text her
Why not? I am afraid of missing yet another opportunity

Yeah. I'm a speech therapist so I also feel like maybe I could help a little. Would be neat.

Don't bring the fetish outside of the bedroom.
I'm huge into femdom, but whenever I bring it outside of the bedroom it fucks over the relationship.

How comes?

Because it ruins the balance of the relationship. If it's roleplay during sex, and it starts and ends during sex, it's one thing.
If you allow her to treat her like you're subservant to her in your daily life, she'll end up getting used to it and think it's okay to do so.
The best way to have a great relationship (if you want a normie relationship, obviously) while enjoying BDSM sex is to keep it normal outside of the bedroom, always, and keep it nasty in the bedroom. You can spice it up on a specific date, but agree on it beforehand.
Very few women would be capable of respecting a man who lets them abuse him in their everyday life. And I'm saying this as someone who ties her husband up, makes him eat at her feet and whips him. But it's just during sexy time or in a specific, previously agreed setting that has an ending.

Sorry for the wall of text.

So, I matched with this girl from uni on Tinder a couple months back, and we chatted for a while and eventually met up for lunch. That went well, and she asked me for my number. A week later I asked her if she wanted to get dinner or something, and she said she was getting dinner with friends but if they cancelled she would let me know. Now, being the socially inept dork that I was I asked her the following day if she wanted to get dinner. Then, she said that I was really sweet and all, but that she only got the app to meet new people. I went into my backtracking apology mode, and she said not to worry about it and that she was fine with still talking. Of course, I retreated back into my shell after this and didn’t talk to her for a month or so. Eventually, we started talking over Snapchat again every now and then, and she’s been pretty responsive and seems fine to talk with me. I think she’s really cool, and I at least want to try to be better friends or something. I was thinking of asking her to a causal lunch or something once we get back from break. Is that kinda weird after so long? Did I screw it up too bad and should I just move on?

For context, here are the symptoms. It's basically clinically poor coordination.
>Poor posture and fatigue.
>Trouble completing normal chores.
>Less close control - writing and drawing are difficult.
>Difficulty coordinating both sides of the body.
>Unclear speech, often word order can be jumbled.
>Clumsy movement and tendency to trip over.
>Poor hand-eye coordination.
>Difficulty planning and organizing thoughts and tasks.
>Low self-esteem.
>Difficulty sleeping.
>Difficulty distinguishing sounds from background noise.
>Notable lack of rhythm when dancing or exercising.
>Less sensitive to non-verbal signals.
Worth noting, I'm not an autist. I can usually compensate by picking up on the subtext of what people say, their tone of voice, facial expression, etc. It's really """just""" body language that I struggle with.
Apparently it's caused by a problem with the development of motor neurons that prevents them from forming connections properly, which for some reason makes it slower for the brain to process information.
Also, this obviously doesn't consume my entire existence. It's not debilitating like palsy, it just makes certain things really awkward.

Nah, I mean until she either does not say you should not talk to her, OR does not go completely quiet after the 2nd such question, it's completely fine. Might be easier to ask for a coffee meetup speficially, which you can then turn into lunch or dinner depending on how well it goes.

What explains the fact that women I find unattractive don't flirt with me, but women I find attractive do? Is it because I'm more playful or open with the latter, or because the former don't think they have a chance with me? I think I'm friendly to everyone, but perhaps extra friendly with girls I like.

This girl I work with and am friends with set up a gofundme for her sisters newborn son. He has a condition that needs an intricate surgery and they need some help paying for it. They’re only a few thousand dollars away from their goal so I was thinking I’d anonymously pay it off. Only problem is my wife won’t let me. We’re fine on money (50k saved up). what do I do? I feel like it would mean a lot to their family if their medical debt just disappeared. I just don’t know how to get my wife on board.

Not OP but mind elaborating?

Ah that makes sense. Thanks a lot. Then maybe I keep it in the bedroom. Or at least I wanna suggest the idea of doing it for 2 days max. Maybe she likes it.

It should be a once a month kind of thing, if you want an otherwise normal relationship.
Don't bring it outside of the bedroom, and surely not go from "bites my nipples" to "I'm her slave for days" all in a row. Be patient.

This, obviously, if you want to keep dynamics normal in everyday life.

I'm currently dating a girl that's had a double mastectomy and it really affects her self esteem. How do I tell her she's still attractive to me without coming seeming to just be saying it to make her feel better?

Just treat her normally, and don't act like it's a big deal.
Will she be getting reconstructive surgery? I heard that helps with the self esteem.

Acting like it's not a big deal isn't really an option. It's shattered the way she sees herself and how she acts. She doesn't like being the little spoon any more because I used to put an arm around her chest and she's uncomfortable being topless with the lights on. She could get reconstructive surgery but it would be a lot for her to go through with again.

Girls, would you want an affectionate bf? Then why don't you date me? ;_;

>it would be a lot for her to go through with again.
It sounds like not having tits is a lot for her to go through. Obviously don't bring it up out of the blue, but float the idea next time she's upset about it.

Whether or not something like that matters is highly dependent on your gender.

I am a guy.

Girls rank the importance of these facial features.

Eyes, Nose, Ears, Mouth, Acne, Acne scars, Eyebrows, Chin

I need to build up a lot of trust with a woman before I can open up romantically/sexually. However, whenever I try to talk to a woman one of three things usually happens: I panic and sabotage something going well, because I'm not ready to go further yet, she gets mad and refuses to talk to me anymore when I don't try to fuck her, or we have a tacit agreement to keep it platonic. What should I do about this?

Is it possible for a guy to remain friends with a girl if he wants to date but she isn't interested? Asking for a friend.

It's possible, but it's not healthy.

no, I've seen many fail.

Possible but it wont be a good friendship.
You can't just turn feelings off, and he will be in a constant state of getting is hopes up and let down.
As a guy, I don't let that sort of thing happen.
I make a clear distinction between people I wanna date an people I wanna be friends with.
If someone I wanna date doesn't wanna date me, I will not accept offers of friendship, we can be aquaintances at best, for my own sake and for yours.

Around 3 weeks ago me and my best friend drunk fucked, I could barely keep it up then, but this hasn’t been a problem with other women, I believed it was probably alcohols doing. Fast forward 3 weeks, I still can’t get fully hard or stay hard, tried no fap for a few days and nothing, wtf is wrong with me and what should I do.

Attached: 764EDB17-AD01-41AF-B0B4-76A800B707AF.jpg (708x480, 37K)

fucking cunt stole your mojo

Is it normal that my boyfriend humps me in his sleep? He has no memory of it when he wakes up in the morning. Is this a common thing with guys?

This is why you deny women your essence.

youtube.com/watch?v=N1KvgtEnABY

>catch up with some old friends
>we've all known each other for like 10 years
>meet up at some party
>female friend (there with her bf) gets kinda frisky
>grabs my arms, rubs my chest, back, shoulders, and abs
>this makes me very uncomfortable, but I wasn't sure what to do about it
>seems like she's asking for more when I hug her goodnight before bed
Why? I know she was drunk, but what the hell?

How do I deal with this then considering we've become pretty close friends and usually talk or see each other every day?

I'd probably be fine with it if she just said a straight no but she was hot and cold for a while and seemed interested in the idea and now she's started seeing someone else.

I fucking hate the fact you have to learn these lessons the hard way.

I have no idea. I'm not awake when I'm asleep, so how would I know? If you fell alseep spooning, I don't think it's something to worry about.

How does one get there mojo back, baby.

How many times is it safe to have sex in one night? Boyfriend had sex with me 4 times last night. He's complaining that his dick hurts today.

I had sex 13-14 times in a day and beside being a little sore the day after, his dick didn't get necrosis.

As many as you both like. 4 times seems a little much though.

Stop hanging out as much, would you hang out with a male friend that much? no. From now on act as if she's got a dick, ask yourself would I do this with a male friend. Otherwise you're just going to be a perma orbiter. She's probably not actively trying to string you along but is likely unaware of your side of it. If you can't naturally roll back the contact just tell her straight out why you need some separation.

We all know looks do matter
But what is enough? Is average looks enough for a girl too see past it and start looking at the guys personality?
We know a 8/10 probably won't care about how the 2/10 is nice and all but what if a guy is average?

1. Yes
2. Normie tier fetish, not really a problem

If it were me and you had stopped messaging after those events/the talk about them, I'd have assumed you were only interested in sex

So his dick should be ok again in a day or 2?

Doesn't really work like that for me, it's the whole package which is attractive or not, I'm not gonna be with someone because they have nice ears

Honestly, I think women don't necessary want a partner that is super attractive or super tall, just not LESS attractive or SHORTER than themselves.

Ass eating is also normie tier you prude

Attached: lj39ksnah0qe4csxhsri.jpg (320x180, 11K)

>but perhaps extra friendly with girls I like
This is most likely the reason. You're like that with them so they mirror you and do the same back. The women you're not into probably don't find you as welcoming/charming because you're not trying to be

Women have a warped sense of attraction though. A 5/10 woman thinks a 7/10 man is less attractive than she is

And? Doesn't mean I'm interested in it. Ask an opinion and receive an answer, shit eater.

Inb4 accusations of dirty ass. I keep mine clean, but I don't trust that most people do.

>How many times is it safe to have sex in one night?

I mean... My gf and I once had sex for basically 4 days straight...

Literally would just fuck, sleep, wake up, fuck, sleep, eat, grab water, fuck rinse and repeat.

We would also do similar things whenever we'd go on vacation.

No real problems ever (except she'd be really sore, and occasionally I would too).

Duration isn't really the problem so much. I mean, friction burns can be a thing after a while, but what is a larger contributing factor to "soreness" is often more how "sharp" some of your positions are.

Anyway, you should be fine though.

Most I ever had to wait was like a week because I wanted to be safe, and that was because we went too extreme an position once and something kinda audibly popped. Didn't break anything, but definitely pushed it a bit too hard haha. Way more likely to delay you for long periods is friction or razor burns/cuts.

What can a guy do to make his face look better?

Get a hairstyle that suits him, get teeth corrected if they're horrible, have good head/neck/tongue posture, lose weight if fat, work on getting rid of acne if you have it, get glasses that compliment your face if you wear them

Just because I want to eat your shit doesn't give you the right to call me a shit eater.

Also how do you feel about BRAPing?

Attached: 1536030775413.gif (400x225, 1.88M)

Can someone give examples of what is considered kinky, what's vanilla and what's in the middle?

It's so fucking shifty these days that the words no longer have any meaning. At this point choking is vanilla and kissing is a super niche kink.

>not into anal sex
>still would love to force girl down on the floor and take a big whiff from her fat sweaty ass
am i only one?

What can you do if you have a big nose? Not point just like wide. It's from an accident when I was younger but it's not so severe to the point where I should get a surgery.

guy here but
>get thicker neck

look it up

Attached: 2yziikw.jpg (922x578, 214K)

Honestly? You probably shouldn't worry about it too much. I don't think men having bigger/wider noses is as much of a negative as it is for women. A wide nose can be pretty masculine. Perhaps it suits your face better than you realise (although of course optimising the other bits of your face like I mentioned in the previous post will do you big favours. If your other controllable features are attractive, then even if your nose is pretty bad your other features will more than make up for it)

Yeah, unless something is seriously wrong.

It'll be completely fine. When I was a kid I jerked off so much my dick got swollen lol. Not recommended but it heals.

I hope you're right user...
But the thing is I'm not masculine at all, I'm /fa/ over Jow Forums even though I don't visit either.
I know about it but it didn't trouble me until recently when a kid ( maybe 6,7 ) said I have a big nose in a mocking kind of way.

I literally got bullied by a kid user

Attached: werfy.gif (220x165, 33K)

Kids bully over anything, really

I hate the guys that constantly beg for replies, but can I get some more input?

What would be a good way to text her?
Should I just ask her to hang out without mentioning anything?

Different anonn but yes, dont ask to come over, or have her come to your place. Ask her out for a bite to eat or a coffee, not a full on meal, keep it light to show that you still want to hang out with her even if no sex

So whats my opener for speaking with a girl. Obviously a lot is context dependent, but i cant just envision going up to a stranger and saying "Hello, how are you today" or something like that

>but i cant just envision going up to a stranger and saying "Hello, how are you today" or something like that

Great! You shouldn't do that. Meet people in social gatherings and while having fun, don't harrass strangers.

But they are also the most honest ones

Lovely, i get the unenviable taks of expanding my social circles

If you wanna date, that's how it's done. No point in getting mad at basic stuff like this. No social life equals no dating life.

Im mostly mad at myself, but i suppose thats motivation to improve

can be answered by anyone

Girl I am dating (agreed to be exclusive) I found out was using tinder, when asked her about it she said she was just using it as a joke with her friends. I ended things but somehow ended up talking with her like a week later and everything went back to normal (although I never said we were back together). In this period of talking normally after it all happened I slept with another girl. Is this cheating?