ITT: ask the opposite gender anything

I made a thread but I'll post here too

A really cute girl did a little cute awkward smile and a wave to me at uni today and my autistic ass just stood there processing what's happening while she passed.
She ignored me for the whole day afterwards. I'm afraid she lost all interest, can girls lose interest for something like that?

How to fix without initiating verbal contact with her.

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while we wait for a response to let me ask you something long shlong where are you measuring from and to, are you accounting for curve or just a vector from A-B?

>How are you so good at finding out others are lonely virgins even if they blend in decently well with the normies?

1. Emotional intelligence is not an exclusively female trait. Picking up on the social dysfunction of others is a pretty basic skill for most normal, well adjusted people who are normalized to social contact. It can be as little as minimal eye contact, nervous picking or ticks, speech tone, inflection or even clothing but nearly everybody can tell when someone suffers from some kind of social dysfunction or anxiety issue.

2. Virginity is not the problem; its a symptom of the problem. Being a virgin is not something that people pick up on. Having the kind of social dysfunction that has prevented you from developing romantic relationships is what people pick up on.

3. Understand that reality and your perception aren't the same thing. Consider it a more real life version of "the red car phenomenon". If your greatest fear is that people will "discover" that you suffer from social anxiety or any kind of social dysfunction chances are that is what you will most commonly project onto people around you. The flat truth is that for your most basic social interaction, people typically don't care if you aren't a butterfly. However, exuding insecurity and fear and anxiety will not only make it difficult for others to interact in a positive manner with you but it will make it difficult for you to express the parts of yourself that you actually DO want to share with people. Those kinds of projected emotions tend to mask everything else about you. People remember you as the guy who pulled at his shirt and stared at the floor the whole time you talked instead of the guy with green eyes and the nice smile who is really passionate about music or art or literature. It isn't a coincidence that the things we most hate about ourselves are the things we think most people see when they interact with us. Its all about perception.

Ruler on top, gently pressed into my pubic bone, it doesn't curve much but it's straitened out only as much as is comfortable.

Wish that was true, I keep going after "nerdy" seeming guys (short and quiet, glasses, one very serious about the clarinet) but they all turn out to be massive normfags with past/present gfs.
Introverted virgin men:
Where are you? Aside from the NEET shut ins of course, already know where you are.

Girls feel rejected when you don't pick up their retarded between the lines cues and they take rejection even worse than guys.
Talk to her.

When I'm not with my own kind (engineering students) I'm trying to blend in as much as possible. Most people seem to think I've been with lots of girls, but alas, I post on Jow Forums.

I don't want to talk to her yet.
Will just smiling at her raise her interest again?

same as but comp-sci
now answer mine

I'm IDEALLY, you should fuck both of them (not necessarily at the same time). But that's obvious, anyway.
Which one has the biggest tits? If they're about the same, I think I'd fuck the MILF, because she probably has better skills.

>gently pressed into my pubic bone,
CHEATER!

That's how every piece of data on the subject does it. Yes, that means 5.2" is the bone pressed average.

How do I get used to/feel comfortable with the fact that girls want to have sex with me? Girls like me, but it's really only a source of stress for me.

How to help a friend with his premature ejaculation problem?

There's a friend of mine that wants to get over his premature ejaculation problem. He cums too quickly from sex. He's been practicing sex with me and he's been okay with handling handjobs, but when it comes to blow jobs and vaginal penetration he cums too quickly. He lasts longer when I'm on top, but he can't build a healthy sex life with a girl always on top and avoiding basic foreplay such as blowjobs. He can barely manage a minute of missionary position when he's on top of me. We tried limiting visual stimulation by covering my breasts or keeping my clothes on , but he says once the pleasure kicks in he can't stop himself from cumming. He can't physically pull himself out until he orgasms. It's gone to the point where I have to push him off if I suspect he's about to cum. We've had sex multiple of times, but it hasn't even amounted to 1 hour of sex in total.

want to be my friend too

How is an introverted virgin man not an NEET?

I'm 5" without pressing, because I'm not a cheater.

Hmm... Maybe you're pussy is just too good. Let me test you out to see if that's the problem. Just leave your discord.

to be fair pressing isn't going to give you that much of advantage unless you've got a mega banana dick

is something female friends do? Asking for a friend.

Studying, working out, riding my bike, watching football, sometimes drawing or at the bar

either wank before hand or have him insta jizz then get you off then get back to it once he's back in the game.
>introvert
>at a bar
guess again normie

Thanks, I guess. At least I know what buildings to hang around. Is it safe to say it's preferable to be approached by a woman if you're a shy virgin rather than have to take the initiative when she gives "signals" or whatever? Want to know if my strategy of being blunt is on the right track at least.
And I'd answer but I'm a lonely virgin myself so I don't have the experience to say. But from what I know vaginas are also really weird and vary, some women never orgasm from penetration and others can't stand any penetration at all. There's no universal answer.
The problem with NEETs is that I have no access to them irl. I only know one and he's gay.

>Is it safe to say it's preferable to be approached by a woman if you're a shy virgin rather than have to take the initiative when she gives "signals" or whatever
yes, from experiance I can tell you they will not respond to any sort of subtlety, They probably won't even respond to you being unsubtle. And if you're looking for shy virgins comp-sci is by far the best bet, we've got less woman than those chad engineers.

Hey, I like to see live blues every now and then

>Is it safe to say it's preferable to be approached by a woman if you're a shy virgin rather than have to take the initiative when she gives "signals" or whatever?
Yes. I'd love to be approached.
>The problem with NEETs is that I have no access to them irl
Ah, ok. But where do you look for bfs? Are you fat?

Wanna know something funny? I'm and . God these threads are incestuous.

Pressing actually doesn't give you that much no matter how you dick is shaped. It just accounts for the fat pad, so that you get a consistent measurement regardless of your weight.
It's not cheating if that's how the rulebook says to do it. Besides, I've got like 13% body fat, it wouldn't make much of a difference.

Yes, approaching is the way to go. Not only am I largely incapable of picking up on "signals", I'm able to convince myself they weren't there the few times I do pick up on them. Pretty sure my fellow virgineers are the same.

>I'm able to convince myself they weren't there the few times I do pick up on them
that is the true fucking curse. You're so used to nothing that when it does come around your brain is incapable of accepting that it's happening.
>nope you're just being fucking autistic, calm the fuck down,
>this is just how normal friendly people deal with each other
>don't be the "fuck this gay earth guy"
etc

Boyfriend revealed to me that he has a very strange fetish. Not sure what to think desu. Its changed how I think of him. I think he should go to a therapist.

It's pretty awful. I'm sure a lot of the time I actually am imagining it, but you can never tell.

Don't even bother posting this if you won't say what it is.

Are there any girls who can handle a super negative person? or should i just give up on women and pretend to fix myself first while slipping further away?

I'm the guy who made the post.
I'm between home and class because I never get invited to anything.
I'm that guy that's always polite, friendly and trying to socialise and fit in, but never actually fits in so ends up looking at his phone alone in the corner.

tell us what it is
I refuse to doubt myself any longer, I pledge to you brother that if such a situation arises I will without hesitation assume the best and act accordingly.

Thanks for the reference then, guys. Loled at chad engineers. From experience the bluntness has turned off normies who otherwise accepted my advances since they play weird games, so I hoped it would be the way to get through to asocial guys.
I look for bfs at uni since that's the only place I go, although I approached some guy who worked in the food court once too (but he was taken).
>Are you fat?
Weird in-between body that some would consider gross and others would be fine with. Pic-related is close.

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>looks at his phone in the corner
>trying to socialise
you're doing something wrong there buddy. lonely virgins stick out. Your politeness can very well be interpreted as something wrong.

He asked me to hit him in the balls.

>Weird in-between body that some would consider gross and others would be fine with.
So a healthy weight? Bonus points if you have big tiddies.

Not a virgin, but I do fit the loner virgn nerd stereotype.
Protip: if I'm sitting in a common area, even with headphones in working on homework, I want people to talk to me.

>Tfw too ugly online and in real life
And this is why I hate women.

What the fuck user, that's great.
Congrats on sub bf.

Oh.

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STOP JUDGING MEN FOR EVERY LITTLE THING! YOU should go to a therapist, just like the girl from the previous thread who though cum on should is weird as fuck.

go for it
he'll love it
just talk to him about your role because I'm guessing you're a sub aswell
so you'll need to coordinate so you'll both feel satisfied

>talk to an older guy three or four times for completely objective reasons
>still have sappy dreams where we're dating
God! Pull the fucking plug, why am I like this

honestly not a bad body type if you're virgin hunting. They'll be less intimidated by you but not repulsed assuming that is actually close.
Tame as fuck what are you even worried about. Pro tip if you're looking for a shag you can give him a cheeky baw tap in front of people. They'll think you're just being playfull and he'll be cumming buckets.

I'm looking for gf on OkCupid, without success. :(
>Weird in-between body that some would consider gross and others would be fine with
I have high standards and I think your body is acceptable. I'd make you sexcercize, though. :D

Iknowthatfeel

Its not fucking tame or good. I'm not going to hit him in the balls. Thats sick. I love him I don't want to hurt him.

You people need to learn that women can never respect a submissive man. Actually, I don't think men can truly respect a submissive woman, but everyone is just used to that.
If you want your girlfriend to see you as a man, don't ask her to kick you in the balls or tie you up.

If a girl casually tells you that she had a dream about you is that a hint that she likes you sexually?

And what do you want him to do to you?

I do respect him. I just don't want to hurt him. I want to love him and mind him and look after him. Not hurt him :/

Is that not every feminazi's dream?

subs do not want respect. They want to be abused. Its in their nature to desire abuse from someone they trust.
he trusts you to hurt him. that's more love than you'll get from alot of other men.

I'll hit you in the baws if you don't stop this larp, I refuse to believe anyone can be this dense.

Nothing in particular. I just want him to be affectionate and loving which he already is.

I'm not some weird bdsm woman

For now. You'll slowly lose respect for him until you can no longer stand to be around him.

>implying everyone here isn't larping

I'm a guy and I don't get how other guys just hook up with girls. The way I have sex is very intimate with my girlfriend, so is there a certain way that hookups are different? I `d like too fuck more roughly but I'm not really sure how and how to get my girlfriend to act more slutty in bed

at least the other larps are believable this is just a joke.

>subs do not want respect.
In the bedroom, and any normal person can't separate that from daily life, leading to the collapse of their relationship if the girl is the dom.

No man in real life actually likes being hit in the balls. Its just an internet meme fetish

>feminist has opportunity to hit the patriarchy right in the balls
>"I'm not some weird bdsm woman"
:thinking emoji:

This thread was successfully derailed by ball-bashing! Good show, everyone!

I want sex for him he can naturally get into. Not something he has to plan ahead of time and jerk off multiple times beforehand to participate in.

we were all expecting some juicy fucking perversion.
>he wants to suck my tits and call me mummy
>he wants to do furry RP
>he wants me to peg him with one of those dildos that shoot cum
Instead we got fucking ball-bashing. I feel ball-bashed just from the anti climax of it all

So I'm meeting with a girl friend (friend that is a girl) and her friend (someone I don't know) soon. We're probably gonna eat or something. What do I do to make this a successful encounter? Oh she doesn't drink and she's certified smart as a mf, on the flipside I'm a retarded alckie (but not really I just can't hold my liquor). I've got a lot of strikes against me but I've been acting pretty sane lately (relatively speaking).

Be interested in her, ask questions about the things she says. And if she asks you about something be interested in your self, ie no one word answers. And if you can't say anything interesting at least ask her the question back. that's it.
Also try and look like a normal.

Why am I so afraid of girls I like?

I mean, I have a handful of female friends, and because I just think of them as friends, I interact with them normally, but talking to someone I like seems like the most frightening thing I can think of.

Sometimes I'll see a girl alone I could talk to, but I'm always reminded of posts online about girls who complain about guys harassing them, and I just think that it would be rude of me to approach them.

I don't mean attractive girls either. There are girls who are not very conventionally attractive that I would love to talk to, and there are girls I am friends with that are quite attractive that don't bother me, its just the girls who I think are cute that terrify me.

Women, I have received an average of a 6/10 on /soc/ rate threads, with some anons even hitting me with the occasional 8, so I'm not horrendously ugly, is it ever okay to do a cold approach?

Femanons is it ok to lie about being a virgin or an autist on a date? Would the truth matter if he pushed all the right buttons anyway?

What should I talk about? She's clearly bringing her friend because she doesn't feel comfortable meeting with me alone. I'm not trying to hit it off with her but I wouldn't mind if we did. How do I make us better friends? I guess we have to have fun together, I'm not very good at having fun. When I'm funny it's usually because I did something really stupid but i can be witty on the rare occasion. I don't even know what she likes to do for fun. I'm definitely overthinking this because we were pretty good friends last year but I haven't seen her in like a year too.

I was going to ask a similar question, would you rather know before or after you had sex with a virgin that's what you did.

Imagine; you go out a few times, goes well, you've decided sex is happening, you're getting naked. At this point should he bring it up? Earlier? or should he wait and then say "by the way that was my first time".

So you're basically saying that anyone who has social dysfunction is basically doomed to be a loner forever?

Oh, I thought your friend was introducing you to her friend. Did you ask your friend out and she invited her friend along too?

Well she wanted to hang out and then she said her friend is going to tag a long. It was never really a date. Like I said I'm kinda overthinking this but we've never hung out before off-campus and after classes. We used to hang out between classes.

When I leave my house I go to work, sometimes a movie, a D&D group, MTG draft, or drink and smoke with a group of friends. I look for dates on Tinder and have gone to a hookah bar a couple times with the drinking and smoking friends.

>hookah bar
You're a normie. You don't belong in our club anymore.

One of my friends wasn't 21 yet, so we couldn't go to a real bar.

ok you had me worried for a minute there. This is a good thing.
First decide if you have romantic intentions with your friend no "oh I wouldn't mind" just fucking decide. If no, great just do what I said and do it to both of them equally. Ask her what she's been up to for the past year, and drill into any details she brings up. As for her friend, ask her how they know each other, drill for details as needed. If you are desperately stuck ask them what netflix shit they've been watching.

If you've decided you're romantically interested in one of them, focus your questioning on that one, without neglecting the other. Get both their numbers if all goes well and the next day follow up with a phone call "had a great time with you and your friend but why don't just you and me go out X" where X is an exact time and place.

I'm fully aware that it's easy for me to theory craft this from behind a laptop and would fuck it up IRL so don't feel bad if and when it happens nothing like this.

theres a girl in my lectures I have acrush on. we've never talked but Ive seen her look at me sometimes. not really sure if she reciprocates. she seems pretty awkward and Im off the charts autistic so I cant/dont knnow how to just talk to her

I saw her name on a piece of paper she signed. I tried to look her up on social media byt she doesnt seem to have any (tell me if this is creepy stalker shit) I do know here uni email tho. would it be weird to email her. 99% sure its weird and Im too pussy to do it anyway, but what do you think?

Stop what you're doing, and just go up and sit beside her.

Yeah I think I'll just go the friend route. I obviously already have her number, we were actually really good friends now that I think about it. I hope we stay in touch more.

>would it be weird to email her
Yes, extremely. Do nothing before doing that. Sit next to her in a lecture, try and strike up a conversation.

Dude you don't even know each other, how could she possibly "reciprocates"? That's not how it works.
Go chat her up, get to know her and then you'll see if you like her.
What you describe is not a "crush", it's just physical attraction.

Great, I think that is a good choice have fun.

I think you missed the bit where Im autistic... Ive sat next the her before, but I couldnt say anything. probably looked completely retarded because there were tons of free seats lol

No I got it I just had to make sure there was no ambiguity about how much of a terrible idea that was and you should not do it. Having said that, she probably didn't even notice or care. Sit next to her again and start a conversation. If you can't do it this time move on.

Girls, I'm thinking about asking someone out but I'm shy and I think that fact sometimes backfires in my face. Plus I've never managed to do it before. How do I into not creepy?

>>talk to an older guy three or four times for completely objective reasons
>>still have sappy dreams where we're dating
>God! Pull the fucking plug, why am I like this

Loneliness is part of it, but also, it's kind of a natural thing to think about the people that are around us or that we are fond of. Dreams don't mean much. You're probably over thinking it because you just want to hate on something about yourself.

>I mean, I have a handful of female friends, and because I just think of them as friends, I interact with them normally, but talking to someone I like seems like the most frightening thing I can think of.

You're afraid to get hurt/rejected, probably because deep down somewhere you constantly feel like you aren't good enough or that you're always pretending, and you're afraid one day someone will get close enough, see he real you, and then balk, confirming your worst fears.

Basically, you have low self-esteem.

Stop overthinking shit. In the long run, that fear of failing is actually way more toxic and painful than failure ever is.

>How do I get used to/feel comfortable with the fact that girls want to have sex with me? Girls like me, but it's really only a source of stress for me.

See response above this one. It more or less applies, and is probably part of what's at the root of why it stresses you.

I know its really basic and dumb but please just humor me...

I'm made of glass.

Being shy is totally OK and not creepy at all. Creepy is being unable to read general social cues (for anyone, not just girls), and being rude or unapologetic if you do accidentally do something creepy. If you are genuine it shows no matter how shy/autistic/introverted you are.

Guys also overestimate waaay too much how big of a factor they are for a girl- you could be awesome but a girl could still say no because she's not looking for a relationship and if that happens there's no reason to take it as a personal fault. A guy will pretty much consider any girl asking him out but it's not like that for girls.

Good luck and again, DON'T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY, if a no happens! Let it run off like rain.