Today I was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks 1 day. How do I help my husband and validate his feelings about the miscarriage?
Today I was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks 1 day...
Logan Peterson
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Joseph Fisher
Wtf lol, focus on yourself. All he did was jizz in you and get his hopes up
Brody Rivera
It’s not that simple. We did IVF. He’s been giving me shots for like 2 months. It took 18 months to get to this point to even be pregnant in the first place.
Nolan Rodriguez
My sister went through one and was devastated. Her husband just took it stoically cause she was so upset and he needed to be there for her.
I'm not sure how to comfort him when it's YOU that got the short end of the stick here.
My sister took up youtubing to get over it. Here's one of her videos.
Also the baby she is pregnant with now is going to be OK and the second pregnancy is FAR more successful in survival rates then the first.
James Lee
Unfortunately this was our second miscarriage in a row.
Jordan White
Dang, sorry
Aiden Torres
One of my cousins had some sort of fertility problem where her and her husband tried for like 2 years, after their first it somehow changed and she ended up with 2 more.
Caleb Brown
No one is answering my question about how to validate my husband’s feelings.
Camden Moore
Because fuck em, that's why.
Luis Cruz
That’s not okay though. My husband has feelings too and society just ignores that.
Cameron Wright
No he doesn't, he didn't even want a kid. No guy does. Only women do.
Andrew Harris
You just gotta remember that it wasn't a kid that you lost, it was the hopes and expectations you had that you lost. No point getting attached to expectations.
Jaxson Johnson
At 9 weeks you got a little lizard bb in you with a heartbeat and everything.
Blake James
This isn't remotely true
Liam Ward
You need to tell your husband that it's not his fault and that sometimes the human body can't carry to term. That's the way life goes. There's always room for trying again if you want kids.
David Long
A little lizard ain't a child.
Andrew Cox
I like you user.
It's kinda hard since you both want kids.
To be honest this is the best course.
You likely are also feeling like shit.
The best I can add on is that you two need to support each other. No blame to be tossed about, it's just sometimes things don't take. It's not easy and it's painful to try but you do have each other. Hug it out, if he needs to cry like a bitch make him feel like he can if he needs to. You don't say it, but you just try to be there for him. Hopefully he will do his best to be there for you as well. You're a team, do your best to keep fighting and being a united front.
Also, we got those things called feelings too. And even though it's not living inside of us, when we want on we tend to feel it as well.
It happened to me, but unlike you my wife wasn't supportive. She made it seem like it was my fault, for months she would keep blaming me as if I had no feelings. Eventually we split because it became impossible to support her when all she did was attack me.
Can't be a team by yourself.
Good luck user, hopefully you two are given the chance to raise a life.
Jackson Martinez
Clear communication. Ask him what he is feeling, accept it, relate to it, and practice compassion.
Joseph Evans
Just soldier on. From four pregnancies we ended up with two children. Losing two hurt but we wouldn’t have had our youngest if we’ve kept the 2nd pregnancy and he is super cute. We were trying for a 3rd but the miscarriages upset us too much.
Adam Butler
You can tell him that a lot of women have a miscarriage the first time they are pregnant. It's dissapointing, but it's normal and now your body is truly ready to give birth to an healthy child.
Cameron Torres
Unfortunately this was actually our second miscarriage in a row.
Jaxon Mitchell
>t. womyn
Michael Lewis
hug a lot
Aiden Wright
Hey KJ, you stupid nigger. Eat shit