tl;dr GF is angry I "hid" my wealth from her
>meet girl at uni, lose virginity to each other, fall in love, get engaged etc.
>come from wealthy family, parents died when I was young and money is handled in a trust
>still get a good degree and work, have my own money saved up as well as working on a start-up with a friend
>not saying we're ever going to make it, but it's a unique idea and if we pull it off we're set
>GF on the other hand is not good with money and I've had to pay her rent a few times
>grabbing dinner with her friends, all of them are single because they're waiting for a 10/10 guy with a 6 figure income etc.
>talking about the wedding, not really paying attention as I just want a small wedding in the countryside with family and close friends
>they're convincing her to spend a shitton on a huge wedding because it's her day
>one of them is a "party planner" and quotes £70,000 as a good price
>I say "fuck off" as it's too expensive, leads to an argument that I apparently don't want to have a special day with her
>end up leaving and going home, she follows and the argument continues
>explain I want something cheap as the day is meaningless and we should save the money for something that helps us
>argument leads to her saying "I didn't say anything when you funnel all OUR money into your stupid idea"
>Argument continues and I say that my idea is jsut that and if it falls through I've still got family money to keep us happy
>"what family money?"
>I fucked up and end up telling her about the money I do have and the quarterly cheques
>argument blows up even further, claims I was hiding it form her because I don't trust her
>she ends up leaving to stay with her friend, hasn't answered my texts/calls in 2 days
What do I do?