mild autist here
how do I initiate a kiss / body contact on a date?
Mild autist here
Better to ask forgiveness than permission. Do it and if she doesn't like it, it means you're not doings it right. Keep touching her in different ways until she orgasms
This
Last time i did one it was awkward as fuck because i missed her lips but THANK GOD she was receptive and said it was cute.
Just say you think she’s really pretty or some shit. Compliment her, that will get her to look directly at you and make her blush, and it’ll show you’re interested. Wait for the lul and lean in.
Get close, look her in the eyes, lean in.
If she seems comfortable continue, if she backs away or turns her head when you lean in don't. Head turn makes it a cheek kiss.
Go from small to big.
Always gauge her reactions.
If she is comfortable with being touched on the shoulder, touch her arm next, then go for a hug while resting your hands on the small of her back.
As for kiss, you just have to do the same thing pretty much. Get closer, hold her gaze and tension will build. Just say "fuck it" and go in for a kiss.
A thing you can do is, when you hug her, you can make her cheek contact yours. When you pull back, you can slightly turn, so the corner of your mouth almost touches hers.
Very often (if she is receptive at all) a kiss will happen then. It's almost spooky how well this works.
If at any point she seems uncomfortable or pulls back, just go back one step and slow down a bit.
in what situation would it be natural to touch someone on the shoulder?
I don't normally touch people
When you laugh about something together.
Or when you playfully "console" them or tease them or shit like that.
Not OP but how the fuck do you adapt this stuff for when the woman is substantially shorter than you?
Be sitting down
There are several muscle groups in your hips and back that allow to perform a sort of "bending" motion, which allows you to change your heads elevation.
Jokes aside, kissing a shorter girl is the nicest thing ever.
Imagine her having to kiss downwards, how fucking emasculating would that be lmao
explain in detail please
>Better to ask forgiveness than permission.
i am a cop and do not do this unless you want a charge
im a man, last time i tried that, i grabbed her boobs and she said she didnt want to. I said, ok, see you later! not gonna waste my time here! she said stop and agreed.
But im 33yo and was dating a 38yo girl, so fuck it man, nothing to lose.
>nothing to lose
>33 years old
>on 4channel for """genuine advice"""
checks out
kid, ive been here since you were a dip of piss in your dad 1 cent sized ovaries
>bragging about being on four channel
y i k e s
just talk to guys and not girls, bub. you might even find a guy who likes you for you!
This is super helpful to me. Got any other tips?
What do you want to know?
More tips like the hug-cheek-kiss trick. Anything you think works 'spooky' well. Please respond.
Dude, you are on the wrong track here.
Don't try to rely on "tricks".
That will not work.
Just slowly make a girl comfortable with being touched by you, gauge her reactions and escalate accordingly.
Go with the flow and do what feels right for you.
Be sitting down. hold her gaze and tension will build. Just say "fuck it" and go in for a kiss.
A thing you can do is, when you hug her, you can make her cheek contact yours. When you pull back, you can slightly turn, so the corner of your mouth almost touches hers.