Is it wrong to maintain an extremely close friendship with a married woman if she has told you that she is in love with...

>I feel like that would a complete betrayal of her trust
The fuck? She betrayed her husband's trust AND put you in a fucked up position because she's a dumb whore.

TELL HER HUSBAND OR ELSE YOU'RE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS MISERY. If he kills himself when he finds out (he will) or kills her, or hurts her in any way it is YOUR fault at this point.

>Religious
No you're fucking not. You talk the talk but you KNOW what you need to do and you won't do it. You're making excuse, excuse, excuse. Let the truth be heard or let the shame weigh on you. Man up.

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>I do love her
>But I won't tell her husband the truth and break off the """"friendship"""" she broke
>But I'm religious so I totally won't do anything
Yeah, you're a fake Christian and you're gonna fuck her. Why did you even bother making this thread when you know what you're gonna do anyway? Don't deny it, I know your type, I can tell because the obvious moral answer is right infront of you but you wanna see if you can find a way to weave around it and keep this little flirt game going as long as you can while saying you're this moral religious guy.
You're not. You wanna get your dick wet.

You have two choices:
1. Tell her husband what she told you and break contact
2. Fuck her in the ass and let her husband figure out what that new dick smell on her is

Pick one or fuck off. There's no third option.

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>fake Christian
Fully this, ain't there a whole bit like "covet not thy neighbour's riches" and shit?

It's shall not covet thy neighbor's wife to be exact, ironically.

She and her husband are in a very strained relationship, she sought someone to tell her it's okay to leave him, I have done nothing but urge her not to and tell her that I believe he loves her and they can resolve their differences. I have not entertained any sexual thoughts.

The reason she started talking to me is he goes through all her social media, into her accounts and messages I mean, and says because as a husband it is his job to keep her safe, he is extremely controlling. He teases her by telling her women they know he finds attractive. She feels extremely nervous with him and I only started talking with her because I am trying to help her cope

You are intelligent enough to know that it is unethical because it can only end badly for her

Then how should I go about ending our friendship?

>The reason she started talking to me is he goes through all her social media, into her accounts and messages I mean, and says because as a husband it is his job to keep her safe, he is extremely controlling. He teases her by telling her women they know he finds attractive.
The fuck kindof reason is that? He clearly has good reason to be doing that if she's saying this shit to men (plural, you are not the only one she's reaching out with "I love you's" with. What you're describing isn't abuse. She's using you to bail out of a sinking ship.

Either way, this doesn't change your two options I mentioned before.

You can do the right thing and tell her husband or you can pussy out and just block her and stop seeing her.

you dont have to end it straight off, just dont make the first move and find reasons to be busy. Dont hang out just the two of you, make sure theres a group

She isn't, he is the sort who would have dumped her by now if that were the case. She does overreact to some things he does, and I have told her some things he does that hurt her, he isn't doing to hurt her, she just misreads his intentions. But some things are sadistic, but not enough for ending their marriage

I never said it was abuse, and I told her so. If he doesn't threaten or hit her habitually, I said it is not a good enough reason to divorce. She asked if I would marry a divorced woman, and I said no, I don't want to go to hell.

I would never hang out with a married woman alone

go away mom, I cant talk to you until you divorce dad.

You have two options if you dont want to get together with her. Either try and get them into couples counseling and get them emotionally back together or to break ties and leave the opportunity for this to happen with someone else.

I've met exactly two Christians I considered to meet the bill for Christianity and one of them committed suicide two years past.

I usually find religion is a convenient cover excuse for people like OP who are, in reality, the kind of people who chase taken booty because they have no standard and no dignity.

No, but its inadvisable. She'll be tempted to move onto you, and if you're attracted to her you'll be tempted to accept.

Obviously. Cut her off and give her marriage a chance.

No

Morals are arbitrary

Marriage is a construct designed to keep families in a mold that suits the status quo of capitalism, therefore flawed

Cum inside OP

Okay.

Lefty nihilist detected who say that morals are arbitrary but would want to hung you if you told him you are a fascist, because "all fascists are ebil".

If all morals are arbitrary than why is capitalism bad cunt?
If you are hiding this from the husband, yes.

I am not hiding it, I just don't know him

If she is hiding it ask yourself 2 questions :
1)What would happen if every woman acted like this.
2)Would I consider this bad if I was the husband?
And you will get your answer.

If you do not know if she is hiding it ask yourself:

Why didn΄t I ask her. This is a really important thing to ask to someone who "loves you".

Capitalism is starving people of their ability to decide what's best for themselves, you ignorant tool.

>Capitalism is starving people of their ability to decide what's best for themselves, you ignorant tool.
So why is this bad if morals are arbitrary?

Jesus Christ. It took me a good minute to decide if I should even bother trying to point out the irony of what you just said because I KNOW you'll filter out anything critical of your world view.

Capitalism is the ONLY system besides anarchy that lets you decide what's best for you. Socialism and Communism hinges on world leaders TELLING you what to produce, what you're allowed to earn, what you can do with your money, for Communism you couldn't even choose your religion. Holy fucking shit, you're actually a kid or retarded.

I know she is hiding it

I don't think she would herself normally act like this. He has emotionally starved her for over a year now. My belief is that she is looking for emotional release and someone to validate her and say kind things to her, I don't think she is looking for sexual fulfillment. I am trying to help her rebuild that with him

>Capitalism is the ONLY system besides anarchy
>Anarchy is a system
O K although you seem smarter then the commie you have a really long way to go
I am

I was/am friends with an older woman.

Knew her for months and I caught some hints that she had a boyfriend she was unhappy with. Didn't find out for more than a year that she's actually unhappily married to this dude.

Didn't really matter to me because we got along and I wasn't tryna smash. We flirted a bit but I'm a natural flirt and she's one of those bubbly types who always seems like they're flirting.

Eventually she invited me over to her house to watch a movie we'd been talking about. I fully expected the husband to be there and that I'd get to meet him and stuff but he wasn't. Didn't ask. At the end of the night she kissed me and I've been dodging her ever since because it wasn't cool of her to put me in that position. In reality I knew it might go that direction so I put myself in that position.

What I'm saying is that where you relationship stands with someone is more than just their responsibility most of the time. She loves you and you are now temptation. Religious morals and convictions won't stop either of you from putting a foot over the line if you tempt each other too often.

She is a cheater , hiding things from your husband and lying is bad.
>He has emotionally starved her for over a year now.
That is what SHE told you. She has proven to you that she can hide and lie about very important things. What makes you think she is not lying to you?

Also what you are saying makes me think that you are trying to find and excuse.

I am not trying to excuse her, sin is sin.

I don't think she is lying to me because sometimes what she says is obviously minor and she is over reacting. If she were lying she would make him out to be a monster, but despite her being strongly upset, he seems like a good enough husband just extremely controlling, unconsciously sadistic, and not emotionally there for her at all (although he doesn't seem to see it). He is, according to her, a wonderful person generally speaking. He is just dropping the ball here. She said he actually did start being very loving emotionally for a month after she pleaded and begged, but after a month he said he did enough and doesn't want to let her twist his heartstrings

>justifying her case
Fuck, at least we know she's covered in need of a lawyer. You'd cover her ass from its own shit.

What's even better yet is you're both shitty for having this little emotional backstab-- marriage is forever, and it's forever as a pair-- and yet you're the one waxing that all's well and good and you're totally both in the clear because you haven't fucked yet.

Talk about 'in it for the benefits.'

When it comes to situations like these, morals are foolish

If you have feelings for her, and her you, then act on it. The whole "waah she has a boyfriend/husband it would be wrong! What if it was ME?" is childish

When you're on your deathbed whats going to matter more? The fact that you decided not to pursue something real, something you might truly enjoy, just so you could say "ha, I'm a GOOD person!"? Or you actually doing what you wanted and having a great time at the expense of another mans feelings?

Don't limit yourself, whether you were morally good or bad in this life will not mean shit once it's all over.

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Did you decide what you're gonna do?

I mean, I dunno what he's on about with the capitalism schlock, but morals are a completely arbitrary thing we constructed as part of an extremely complex adaptive trait and marriage is just an extension of that

>She is a cheater ,
Stop watering down the definition of this word you fucking clown. Jesus, you're as bad as those college chicks who call everyone a Nazi.

If you're just lying to your partner or hiding things from them, you're just lying or hiding things. Still wrong, but not cheating. It's cheating if you start feeling each other up. This "emotional cheating" nonsense is childish.

If you start watering down the meaning of a word, then it begins to lose its meaning. People started flinging "Nazi" around, and now anyone who disagrees with goofy-ass left extremists is a "Nazi" and what makes that bad is that now nobody cares about being a "Nazi."

would it be morally good or bad for me to ask for sauce?