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My thick long arm hair that goes all the way up to my hands and its very dark. I hate it so much I tried trimming it down but it just becomes stubble and sticks straight up and looks worse. I really wish I had lighter or thinner arm hair I would like my looks 100times better
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Get it lasered or smited (electrolysis).
My insecurity is my lack of any music taste.
I'm going bald at 19. Feels like No amount of nice clothes or body building will compensate.
Never once in my life have I ever noticed the amount of arm hair another human being has, Male or female. I've never even heard it talked about. Relax.
Like, you dont listen to music at all? Unless you constantly try to push your taste on other people like a sperg, what's there to be insecure about?
Keep it shaved. Grow some light stubble if you can.
I'm told I'm social at work, but I feel like I'm not social enough. It kills me because I see how other people talk to each other and there's a clear difference in how they talk to me. ASD as well, but I'm not insecure about that.
My insecurity is that I can't really get over the fact that stupid people drag literally everything down. Everything.
I'm insecure about the fact that citizenry have been all but castrated of their power against government. If govts instated armed takeovers, we'd be helpless. If any rebellion occurred it would be snuffed.
I'm insecure because the world sucks ass, but nobody seems interested in improving that lot. It's just, "it sucks, then you die."
I'm just insecure in being alive. It's not fun, regarding or interesting. It's tedious, fruitless and grating.
I expect no help, but it's nice to voice it.
How do they talk to you? Are they condescending, or just not as friendly?
This post reeks of angst teenager who thinks they understand the way the world works. My only suggestion is to practice realizing that we as individuals are much less knowledgeable then we might believe. The most brilliant people are aware of how little they know in the grand scheme of things.
It's the view that's much easier to dismiss than to have the ugly truth to discuss. And that's what bothers me about it, it's much easier to just dismiss than talk about, because it's easier to say it's angst than a response to what the world is. It's ugly. Individuals are meant to dull themselves to that and muddle through life. It's expected that they eschew these wide-reaching ideas because it's impossible for individuals to influence things on that scale. But, without that scale, nothing changes and it's just a constant shitshow.
I'm aware your response to this is probably "yup angst" but I'm not terribly invested in changing views either.
So seriously consider waxing. It's not pleasant, and you'll need to do it for a while, but it will actually make your hair thinner after a while. Shaving just takes the hair down to the skin, so it will just grow back as thick as it previously was. Waxing pulls the follicle out, meaning that specific hair won't grow back. It won't eliminate all your hair completely, but it will thin it out after a few waxings.
I don't want to ever harass or bother people but I am really tired of being alone.
Male here. No matter how much diet and exercise I do, I can't get rid of even slight love handles. I want to die every time someone walks past me and their elbow or whatever even slightly brushes the side of my abdomen.
I blush easily, it's very noticeable, and I can feel it every time it happens.
I'm not good looking. I'm not a 2/10 hillbilly burn victim, but I'm not good looking. I compensate by keeping a good hygiene, at least decent dress code and lifestyle, but I'm not good looking. It took me years to learn to make eye contact with people.
I have a loud and obnoxious laugh. I don't like the sound of my voice. I smoked for 7-8 years (I quit about 3 years ago) and I think I breathe too loudly, but I'm not sure.
I'm a very boring person, all things considered. I'm very focused on work, even after work hours, and don't have exciting hobbies.
I never talk about these things to anyone, though. I don't burden other people with my own shit. They're just always in the back of my head.
the entire right side of my body is bigger/more muscular than my left. its really embarassing and pathetic since because it shows that I masterbated too much. I cant walk around with my chest out because everyone will notcie and i avoid pictures because my face looks all fucked up and disoriented. Ive been going to the gym for a year and it hasnt been working
My advice is to leave your house more, unless you live in the middle of nowhere. In which case, think about moving.
I think they're condescending. Around everyone else, they joke, tease and banter like one would expect good friends to do. They talk like this even to new hires. Around me it's like they're talking with kid gloves.
Do they know about your Autism? If so, they may never have been around someone with a social disorder, and may not understand how it affects you. I've found that people will usually "match your energy", so it might be on you to banter/joke around with them. They may even see your reserved nature as you not wanting to hang around them. From personal experience, you might just be over thinking things.
>my wrists are extremely small from my perspective (6.25 inches circumference, 2 inches wide)
>every time i talk to a girl i feel like there's no chance she likes me back
>i feel like im boring because i can never get more than 2 dates from girls (only ever had 1 gf, and she was fat)
I've come to feel so ashamed of liking both anime and anime girls that I'm starting to loathe it and myself to the point where I now pretend I'm not into it and treat the people who are into it like the degenerate scum they are. Should I just continue until I eventually abandon it completely? Will this just happen again with something else? Why am I so weak? I just want nothing to feel ashamed of. Nothing to hide.
A few do know I'm sure, but the rest may have just inferred something was off about me. Otherwise I think you may be right.
>you might just be over thinking things.
This shit again. I've been told this for my entire adult life. How do I stop doing this, knowing it happens automatically?
What kind of anime are you into? You could try getting into shows that don't focus on anime girls. Haven't watched anime since Excel Saga, so I couldn't name any.
As long as it's an anime I will lewd the female characters, and even if I don't I'll feel ashamed for even being loosely associated with it even if it's just in my mind. I feel guilty, like I've done something wrong. Maybe I have. I also feel like a god damned loser. What kind of fag enjoys this shit? But then I watch it anyway.
my voice makes me sound like either a 12 year old pre pubescent boy or your stereotypical egirl;; a femanon really out here just trying to play vidya
No one but beta cucks want you around in their vidya. Women ruin literally any and all forms of fun.
I have some pretty thick thighs despite me being normal weight. Always had them. I've tried losing 20 pounds (to the point where if I had lost 5 more pounds, I would have been underweight), but I just become a slightly smaller version of myself with the same proportions. I've tried working out in the past but don't have the discipline to keep it up, don't really know if that would help, and I've tried running and lifting. I have a slew of physical insecurities that don't help, although they're more straightforward to fix.
My insecurity is like the worst one because literally nothing can be done. But I'm a woman with wide manly shoulders. Many styles are off limits to me because I manage to make feminine clothes look like a guy is wearing them. The rest of my body is nice so I just have to dress to my advantages.
Gyno. Never taken my shirt off in public, nor with a girl. Has ruined my sex life completely because of it. Wont even bother trying to go out with a girl.
Male here, I’m insecure about my weak jaw. I also have puffy cheeks which make it look even more weak and idk what to do. I don’t have an overbite (currently have braces where they fixed my bite, previously was overbite but is fine now, and my teeth are currently being aligned and stuff). But yeah my weak jaw, the chin reaches behind the lips and whenever I talk to people I am always self conscious about it.
>I'm just insecure in being alive
>>GIVE ME ATTENTION MY DADDY DOESNT LIKE ME
5'6 60kg
>Poor
>No car
>Big cheeks round face
>No jawline no strong jas
>Atleast fit
If i ever get a gf/wife and get Cheated on, i will murder and suicide.
I started taking ritalin again. I grew up taking ritalin medication, and after many years of not being on it, I haven't had the ability to focus.
I got too fed up with it a few weeks ago, accomplishing nothing and spinning in my heals, maybe wanting to try to something new, so trying ritalin again. 20 mg x3 a day.
I started taking it. 1 two days ago, 2 yesterday, and 3 today, it's kinda given me a bit of a headache, now at midnight (I took dose 3 at 10 pm for some stupid reason) Headache is slowly going away, but I'm at real unease about side effects.
I'm 27 and I have tiny hands. Miniscule. I'm a 5'9 male and I have smaller hands than my 5'4 mother. I hate shaking other men's hands, I can't grip large things as well, it probably affects my weak as shit grip when I'm lifting, and the one and only fight I've ever been in I broke my hand on someone's head. I know women judge hand size, too, they find big hands attractive.
I'm not a virgin and have an average sized penis.
Its ok guys chinlets are cute
I don't have enough friends and it can be awkward when people realise that. Because of this I spend to much time hanging around with my old-friends-but-not-really-friends who I don't overall like very much. When making new friends I have two problems 1. I'm shy and 2. I don't like most people
On an unrelated note, how the fuck do you choose a username for things? The idea of having to choose a few words to represent who I am is terrifying. Its like the question 'what do you like to do'
BOY THIS SURE SEEMS LIKE A GOOD IDEA FOR A Jow Forums THREAD
My entire stupid body type devoid of curves. Theres a waist and im not overweight at all, but high hips/inverted triangle shape makes me look beyond undesirable i hate it and i hate all the women around me born with huge hips and asses they didnt have to work for and no matter how much i work out ill never have crazy curves like that just a small square ass with no fat. I hate that my upper body naturally gains fat and muscle and i hate my stupid swimmer shoulders. Thicc is what guys want and its always in my face, i feel like I'm not even a woman with no ass to the point that i fret about looking like a tranny to others (i have a lot of body hair as well but i plan on electrolysis)
>Undesirable
Pffft
You have to be pretty bad to not attract a guy.
If you're not fat, chances are you're good. I've meet a girl with almost no tits or ass that I was attracted to.
We're more concerned about just getting a hole that's nearby and if the hole we get into won't fucking crush us than if the hole looks nice. I mean, yeah, if we're looking up porn that's a little different, but a real girl from real fucking life? That's different.
Honestly even with porn or if you have the misfortune of listening to men having those dumb conversations about women's bodies or whatever - which, by the way, I personally always feel bad about I don't know about other men - its really because they're comparing porn to porn like film reviewers comparing blockbuster films or something.
The reality more often than not is that they'll take almost any of the girls they talk about having no [x thing] or even butterface.
Also if you really care, I think there's implants for that if you can ever save up for that.
Never looked into it I dunno.
But its like really who cares?
Its like Ron White says you can't fix stupid.
There are exercises specifically designed to sculpt your butt
Not that poster, but can women really change the general shape of their butt that way? To me, it kind of just looks like a bone structure thing.
>23y/o virgin
>So yeah im a big time loser
>Can't get any girls cause i'm a big time shy pussy
Maybe I'm just thinking of hips, but I don't know that butts really round out either.
You can improve it by working out and filling in some muscle
god damn i read these and cringe so bad. how many people even know your name? no one cares what you look like or how you act. and those that do care, are people you don't want to affiliate with. try your best to fix things, but you're just human, ok? dudes like girls who just show interest in them, and girls like dudes who show an interest in them. maybe they're narcissists and feed off this. that's out of your control.
just show you care about people and you'll win favor with people regardless of who or what you are. literally if you just start doing that then you'll make friends and find spouses and have a great time in life. and your stupid overthought insecurities will melt away.
Haha wow what a useless post
damn dude do i really need to spell it out for you?
goo goo ga ga, insecurity is social vulnerability, *poops in diaper* oh no i just made a stinky but i love my parents and they love me so i have no insecurity about my doo doo.
You could spell it out and they'd find a way to deny it. That's what they do; that's how they got here.
On the other hand, you're the guy on Jow Forums attacking people for exposing, and coming to terms with, their vulnerabilities. As far as I can tell, you're kinda one of them, dude.
ok it's time for you to go back to plebbit
You don't need all those sentences to say "just be yourself bro"
"yourself" is an insecure social reject. where do you think you are? normieville?
Mine would be that I'm not the greatest at life skills, like keeping up with housework or being the best at socializing.
I'm decent, but I wish I were better.
I'm a really big guy (6'3" at nearly 240lbs), and I look like a jackass / typical Chad, but I'm really soft hearted and kind and people walk on me whenever they get the chance. I can't get a girlfriend because I'm too nice and can't show dominance (I think).
I'm not religious but I read the Bible every now and then just because it's literature, and tells good stories.
My grades were astounding, I took concurrent classes, I have a stable job and a lot of friends...
Is it just bad luck, /b/?
>It kills me because I see how other people talk to each other and there's a clear difference in how they talk to me.
AHHHHHHHHH what is wrong with me? Why does this happen?
You're probably just retarded. Good grades don't mean you're clever.
My IQ is 116 - I'm not retarded, I'm just sad lol
I don't have any advice to offer, i'm a girl and on that exact same position so know you're not alone. There are people out there who don't care about whether we're like this and we'll eventually find someone
Male or female?
If you're a woman, large hips/ butt in an overall fit body are attractive features. A lot of men are into curvy woman so maybe you've just been unlucky?
If you're a guy, if you have strong thighs and equally fit body, that's also very attractive
So what? It's not your fault people get their panties in a bunch because your Voice probably reminds them of themselves when they were 12-year-old annoying fucks.
It's not unatural for a grown woman's voice to have a timber similar to that of a pre-pubescent boy. It's the way you talk that could be that of an annoying 12-year-old boy, which case you weather change that up or just live with it.
My advice is that you stop being such a bitter and edgy fuck and the world would be a better place.
I’ve amassed enough wealth so I don’t have to ever work again. But I feel insecure as being a young neet is so unattractive to people. I’m trapped between living the life I want and living life like others want me to.
If you dress in feminine clothes and the rest of your body is nice, you won't look as masculine as I think you do. I would just avoid clothes with shoulder pads.
My insecurity is that I am 24 and never as much as held hands with a guy. The whole kissless virgin show.
Guys just never show any interest in me and every time I've had feelings for a guy it's never been reciprocated, so I've never been in a relationship either.
I'm 5'6 and i believe it's the main reason i'm a 23 year old virgin
I have hemorrhoids and I didn't even know, also fluctunence, it didn't hurt but now after cold I got diaherrea and now it hurts like shit, also I have to fart a lot but in class I have to hold farts for a lot of time and that I kinda fart inside, I didn't mind it that much but now I think its reallly hitting me hard
I'm fucking bald lol
I can't last more than one minute during sex before cumming. Then I immediately go soft
Get that checked
I'm 5'6" as well. Average dick. Skinnyfat. I also have an 8.5/10 gf that loves me more than anything.
If it can happen to me, it can happen to you!
Thanks for the kind words man :)
>mixed race
>short
>hairy
>Dumb
>Poor
>Gyno
>Antisocial
>Born 3 world
>Boring
>Calve
>No skills
>Weak
>tfw just ruined my relationship because of jealousy and insecurity
can i actually die
I've been fucked over and assaulted by some of the people I used to consider my best friends.
My depression and horrible personality (As well as terrible choices I've made) have driven away almost all of the decent people in my life.
As a result I find it very hard to trust people; which coupled with my extreme sense of anxiety has made my life very difficult.
I'm a bit lanky. Even if I worked out, I'd just be a more toned lanky dude.
I keep getting rejected by girls, and I'm starting to think it's because I'm ugly.
What do you eat that you farther so much? Are you fat?
Fart*
As a teenager I had a 4 year period where I didn't brush my teeth.
I also need/ed braces and grind my teeth while sleeping.
All things considered they're actually not as bad as they could be, but they're pretty nasty and I'm extremely self conscious about them so I never smile. Which hurts me socially as you can imagine.
If I'm being honest I'm kind of insecure about being boring. Like most people's idea of "fun" I find extremely obnoxious, and I think things are too fucking loud in general. But at the same time there is a certain "living in the moment" aspect to a lot of that stuff that I'm envious of deep down. It's kind of hard to explain. Like I hate schedules and I'm not rigid or anything like that but I also really hate loud people. Also in conversation with more than one person I usually can't keep up, but I do like one on one. I dunno
I’m a hairy gross skinny fat flabby, pimply, knock kneed man.
>how many people even know your name? no one cares what you look like or how you act.
Not being popular is my insecurity.
>mild love handles
>weak chin
>thinning hair
>soft voice
>skinny arms
I’m boring and struggle in conversation with females. I can generally get by with small talk, but my interests are vastly different than theirs it feels. I like history and current events, so I’ll watch documentaries for fun. I enjoy exercise and do it often and thus I like nutrition. I keep up woth sports somewhat as well. My music tastes differ too in that I like metal, classic rock, southern rock, and some r&b/rap. What peaks a woman’s interest generally as a topic?
One thing that gets me is I don’t watch shows other than if it has an educational purpose. So many people I’m surrounded with in general seem to love super heroes and movies a lot. Not that they’re lesser for it, but it feels childish to me so I fail to keep up.
Having deep-seated anger hidden behind a front of insecurities with the latter being tied to career/education.
Same problem here, i solved it with waxing strips. it's a bit painful but it works fine and skin stays smooth for at least 3 weeks. You should avoid razors and trimmers on arm hair.
I'm just ashamed of all the things I like and harbor the guilt of a religion that isn't mine.
What do you enjoy?
Typical weeb shit. Someone else in this thread has similar problems but I don't hate people for sharing hobbies but I do feel like I'm doing something wrong too.
I have halitophobia so when near social interactions I always have a toothbrush and paste nearby to keep it "fresh". I can not stand being closer than 30 cm from people to prevent smelling their breath and vice versa. If I leave to a social place without a toothbrush I feel like I am fucking naked and anxious. I have no teety cavities and scrape my tongue and floss daily.
I'm insecure for being so physically weak that I have to use wheelchair. I'm too thin and no matter what I do to gain weight, only my stomach gets fat but not the rest of my body. I'm constantly being pitied to the point that I developed inferiority complex. My eyes and nose are fine but my lips and jaw make me so god damn ugly. Only surgery can fix them but that's too expensive.
I'm insecure about the fact that I can't take care of myself and have to rely on my mother all the time. She treats me like shit and sometimes neglectful too. I feel so fucking disgusting. I used to be so hygienic, I'm a clean freak and all but now I have to deal with the fact that I have all these pimples and skin problems. I can't even do anything about it because telling her doesn't do jack shit.
I'm insecure for being so useless that no man would find me desirable even if I tried hard enough to improve my intellectual and emotional capabilities.
I'm insecure for being socially anxious. I used to be an outgoing person and I used to take the role as a leader but now I can't even utter a word without worrying.
I have really fucking bad abandonment and attachment issues, had them since I was young due to certain events both in childhood and adolescence. It earned me an actual diagnosis of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. It's gotten to the point where I refuse to make new friends or join new groups for fear of losing them or eventually being rejected. I've tried powering through it on numerous occasions but the panic attacks cause me to become physically ill and in some cases miss work.
Lost my health insurance so I can't afford to get help anymore.
here. It might be that you come off too serious. Bluntly asked someone this at work and I give off the impression that I'm either very focused or I'm not to be fucked with while working. I also tend to smile about a half second after making eye contact with someone, so they rarely see me smiling.
I'm afraid of people. I have social anxiety, depression and OCD. Somehow I made it through college but finding it impossible to get a job.
cute girls mainly go for white guys, or when they want to be rebels they date blacks or muslims
but no girl dreams of going out with a dark skinned spic
I'm really paranoid that I just can't connect with women (or men to a lesser extent). I don't think I'm unattractive or unlovable or anything I just can't seem to become interested in and connect with people who aren't super similar to me.
>"I can't show dominance" (I think)
Since you don't seem to be inherently bitter, I think you need to reflect on the awful things that happened in the past so you can shift your desires somewhere other than relationships.
It helps to want to be alone most of the time if you're not lucky in the whole dating thing.
It doesn't have to mean solitude and reclusivity, just a general healthy dose of "I can do this shit on my own".
Honestly, you make a fair point. I have been doing that for a while and it works just fine, so maybe it is best that I just hang tight and worry about myself for a while.
Thanks for your opinion user, I really so appreciate it.
Anytime, bud.
Take care
I love my work, but I'm insecure over the fact I draw suggestive and sometimes borderline lewd art for a living, and don't know how many girls would be willing to accept it.
The only real option would be dating an artist girl who's ok with nsfw but those aren't exactly easy to find on the street.
The classic dick insecurity
I've been told repeatedly that 5" is fine or average or whatever but I still beat myself up for it
It's one of those weird situations where logically I know things are ok but some crevice of my mind refuses to acknowledge this and tortures the rest of the brain all day for it
Starting with the obvious.
My dick is 4.5" hard
My teeth are permanently yellow. Not corn of the cob yellow, but they'll never bet white
My hair is very, very thin on top
No matter how Jow Forums I get, my face is fat like it belongs to a 300lbs fat asian kid
Well, it's only 1/4, but I've yet to see anyone that teeth bleaching didn't work on.
I have fetishes that I'm concerned no sane person would ever accept. I can't give them up but I also know that telling the wrong person could figuratively end my life.
just b urself haha
My dad has an amazing full beard but all I can grow is a patchy fucking mess and I'm already 27. I really want a beard just for a while
Hey me too, but I'm only 22.
I wonder what factors into that.