ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>[insert humble (or otherwise) brag]
Fuck off.

>Why is there no new thread?
Just make one. You can use these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2

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Girls, how an hypersensitive boy (feeling/reading emotions, getting tired when overwhelmed, sensitive to subtle arts) can make this personality trait attractive to you?

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You just need to find a woman who attaches a lot of importance to emotional sensitivity. Speaking as one, men like that are not very easy to find when young and I'd put up with a lot of shit for it because it's so rare.

If you want to broaden your dating pool your best bet is to strengthen/add to your other qualities, not to rebrand your sensitivity. People are ultimately always going for a package deal so even if they are neutral on that part they can still like you for other reasons. But honestly I would only go for this with a fling, if you're looking for that in the first place. Even if you manage to land a girl who likes you despite not relating to your sensitivity, do you really think you'd feel compatible with her on an intimate level? I don't doubt it's possible but it seems less likely than with someone who has a similar nature.

Few dates in
If I sleep with grill for the first time, but it's still pretty early in the evening.
Should I stay the night? Stay x amount of time after so she knows it wasn't a one off? It's going to blizzard tonight so I don't think I'll stay super late.

I only had sex with people I had a pretty established relationship with, but they always stayed over for the night after the first time. I'd feel really sad if they left.

Thank you for your strengthening advice!
I have another question: should I not completely rebrand myself as hypersensitive? I've come to realize this is an important, if not the most important factor in my behavior.

Unless she mentioned being a difficult sleeper and liking to sleep alone, definitely arrange it so you can stay over. You might even have a round two before bed, but disregarding, falling asleep together is another level of intimacy that usually goes hand in hand with sex. If you want to have a shot for a potential relationship definitely stay over.

Thx.
Was sort of worried I might be overstaying my welcome or whatever by sticking around too long.

You're welcome!
Not sure if I understand you correctly but what I meant with rebranding your hypersensitivity is trying to give a spin to it that will make it more appealing to a girl not actually finding sensitivity in a man attractive. I wouldn't waste energy on that. You are what you are and as mentioned, a girl not into this aspect can still find you desirable in other ways.

I wouldn't actively label yourself hypersensitive, though. If you feel like there's irritation or misunderstanding because people don't realize you are more sensitive than average, stick to a simple explanation that makes sense for the specific situation. E.g. if someone notices and obviously doesn't understand that you feel overwhelmed in a crowded place, just say "oh I have this thing where I can't shut out background noise, it's really draining". Hypersensitivity is a label that can really rub people the wrong way, either because they feel it implies you feel more than them/your emotions are more important than theirs, or because they think you just thought of a term to be high maintenance. If people understand they will understand without the label, if people don't understand they are more likely to accept it if you are casual about it.

I need birthday gift ideas for a lady friend of mine, she's going to be 21.
She's into Korean makeup (and makeup in general), the fancy creams girls buy in dedicated shops, cutesy stuff and other things I couldn't possibly get right if I tried buying.
Obviously things like jewellery are out of the question because the decent ones are expensive, it's yet another thing that falls under "I couldn't possibly get right" and it seems inappropriate for someone who's just a friend (not to mention her boyfriend is the jealous kind, he was incredibly suspicious of me until we met up a few times and got along well, but it still doesn't make buying these sort of things okay)
Last birthday I got her an assortment of small things from Japan since I've went there (like me she's a sort of former weeaboo, where we don't care much for anime anymore but Japan is still a bit of a promised land) and the birthday before that I got her a nice backpack for her laptop.
She recently moved in with her boyfriend so I'm trying to think of something that would be useful, neat or both for a new house.

All ideas are welcome.

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