I have a fuckbuddy who I mostly only see on weekends, but when we do meet up we end up having a lot of sex. Talking like 4-6 fuck sessions over the weekend, even more if it's a long weekend. She honestly is very nice in terms of buying me dinner and bringing her own food to my house, but she makes fun of me a lot. She has even said that she "hates me" many times and has insisted that if I didn't have a big dick she wouldn't be seeing me at all. Even in the middle of sex she yelled that she hates me, but is in love with my cock. She'll start yelling things like "I love your dick, I love that dick, god that dick feels so damn good!" when we have sex and then basically after all the sex is done, she turns into a bitch again. She's fun to hang out with sometimes, but other times I feel bad that I'm doing this with someone who thinks I'm so worthless besides one part of my body. Thing is, I've been seeing her for 7 months now and am really used to that regular sex. Even considered cheating on her at times but never did it.
Is this fucked up? Should I end it and try to find someone new or just enjoy the ride until something better comes along?
If you're black you should just kill yourself. Otherwise chances are the police or your cousin will.
Just saying.
Thomas Moore
>Even considered cheating on her You're fuck buddies, how can you cheat on her?
Mason Walker
>thinks I'm worthless >worships my dick >consistently >despite hating me
Now look, OP, I've taken the key points but look at them as such. Now think of this in the frame of, "Is this her projected self-loathing?"
Eli Taylor
lmao this
Christian Gonzalez
This is accurate.
Also you are not cheating if FWB. If you like the sex and you both understand it’s nothing more than keep on going for it
Carson Ramirez
Otto Weininger was right
Austin Morales
Bruh look at this dude.
Tyler Sanchez
A fuckbuddy is someone you fuck. Not a person who's girlfriend/boyfriend material. Just a hole. That you stick your peepee in. Once peepee is satisfied, you throw that bitch her clothes and say thank you, see you next week.
If you're developing feels for this person, you need to be open and honest about it so that ya'll are on the same page. Let them know that their words hurt your feelings and makes your dick shrink. If this evolves into a full blown crush, you especially need to tell them this because you're setting yourself up for pain and failure if you don't.
Aaron Baker
Why does she “hate” you? I mean, is she serious, and if so, is it something you’d want to work on for your own good?
Jonathan Bennett
Elaborate?
Ian Nguyen
Maybe she's into hatesex, dummy.
Austin Rogers
Maybe this.
I should have mentioned we pretty much only have unprotected sex and she's on birth control. Given that I'll cum inside her 5 or so times over a weekend, it's pretty much necessary that she's on the pill. So we only have sex with each other for safety/security's sake.
It's weird man. She says I'm a loser because I smoke weed, watch anime and play a lot of video games (she partakes in the weed and anime sometimes) but when we have sex it's really intense and she has multiple yelping orgasms while rambling incoherently about how great my dick feels. We just have little romantic compatibility: I find her annoying and crazy, she thinks I'm some loser stoner. It's weird but she doesn't "hate me", more like she hates that I'm the guy getting her off all the time.
You might as well keep fucking her until you find a girl that you actually want to be with romantically. I see no real downsides to this. Also just out of curiosity how big is your dick? My girl says similar things in bed and I never thought I was that big.
Jose Turner
you can’t cheat on a fuckbuddy? there is zero commitment implied. if you’re fucking regularly and not seeing anyone else, she’s your girlfriend.
Ethan Brown
She probably hopes ud be a proper future husband but instead u r a stoner and under achiever with a good dik
James Richardson
Right, but my answer still stands. Doesn't matter how many times you cum into your fuckbuddy - it's still just a fuckbuddy. A hole to pour your cum into. That's basically it. If you want more than a hole, you need to get on the same page with her so that you two aren't on different mentalities about this.
Jacob Cox
>she hates that I'm the guy getting her off all the time.
She likes to talk shit, but she's the one screaming for more from the "loser who smokes weed, plays video games and watches anime". Is the successful business man getting her pussy that wet? How about the gangbanger? How about the wealthy serious dude who took her out to that fancy dinner?
Yeah, that's right, they aren't the ones making her see stars. Next time she runs her mouth, stuff your dick into it and make her gag on her own words.
Gabriel Long
I’d have fun talking shit back to her in the middle of sex, although it’d piss her off and you probably wouldn’t be able to see her again.
Call me a loser?
In the middle of fucking her.
“Yeah that’s right bitch. I love fucking that big loose pussy. I just love it so much. I’d swear just by the fee of it id guess your 60 years old. Damn look at that saggy titties bouncing all around as I fuck that loose pussy. Damn I got to wrap my hand around my dick while I’m inside you so I can feel the pressure on my dick and make myself cum.”
Like I said this would ruin it. I’m not in your shoes and not sure if you got feelings for this chick. Talks shit to me and tell me I’m a loser and you hate me though? Go fuck yourself slut.
Cameron Taylor
this. she claims to hate it, but apparently you're doing something right for her to be coming back into your bed of her own free will. i second the idea of feeding her your dick the next time she complains. you got time to bitch, you got time to drink.
Ryan Allen
>>considered cheating on her >>cheating >>fuckbuddy
How the fuck do you cheat on a fuck buddy? There are just there for sex and the bitch you got is just that: A bitch.
Do you really think she will care if you go fuck another bitch or get in a relationship.
She seems rich since she pays for your shit. That is all you will be really l losing if you stop seeing her. Pussy is everywhere, it aint special but a bitch who pays for your shit.
Personally I think you had enough dealing with her since you made a thread about it. Move on bro.
>>Kek you think you will be cheating
Austin Turner
Have some respect for yourself.
Josiah Thomas
>fuck buddy >cheating >mfw I have a big dick too. Don't date size queens, theyre shitty.
Health concerns are legit, but if you don't like her and how she treats you, and you want an actual relationship with someone that you not only fuck but want to be around when NOT fucking, you should really find someone else.
You are way better off looking for a "real" relationship when you aren't fucking someone else.
I think the suggestions to act like a dick to her are ridiculous. If you have to be an asshole to someone in order to feel good about yourself, you really should take a good hard look at yourself and how you live.
Luke Parker
Hurr durr but muh alpha, bro!
Anthony Gray
the thing is we do have good times together a lot. Sometimes she cooks for me, buys me dinner and stuff like that. We've had nights where we have fantastic sex and snuggle together naked watching a movie or something, and other nights where we just smash it out and then i'll resume playing video games and she just watches tv and we barely talk. and then she'll yell at me for moving the remote or some stupid shit while im on the computer with headphones.
It's a really mixed bag. And I mean, I'll occasionally be rough, face fuck her, smack or choke her, but I don't really want to truly humiliate her like that. It's just for excitement. And her tits are quite perky and her vagina is astonishinglt tight considering how often I drill her into submission.
Also my dick is big but not huge. A bit over 8" and about 6" thick, she claims most of the reason she stays around me is cause I'm not just hung, but apparently I fuck like a machine.
And it would be pretty fucked I think if we fucked other people, even with protection, and then fucked each other with no condom. That's how STDs get formed.
She has a fucked sense of humour too. She calls me a manslut (not gonna lie, we met on pof and I basically had one of those douchey mirror selfies in my boxers as my display pic, plus the conversation really started rolling when i sent her dick pics) and jokes that ive probably fucked so many girls on my sofa that it probably is filled with stds now. She views me as alpha, but trashy. And yet she still loves sleeping and being fucked on the so called "STD Couch".
It's messed up. I really like having sex with her and we have good times but man... she can be a bitch sometimes.
>Also my dick is big but not huge. A bit over 8" and about 6" thick nice larp retard
Jonathan Parker
user, like a few others said, it does sound like she has some self-loathing that she's projecting onto you, especially if she believes you're a "manslut" and is still fucking you. That can't be good for anybody's self-esteem to believe such a thing. If I were you, and I enjoyed the sex and company, I would probably laugh it off and not take it to heart, and continue as you are. Just don't catch feels and you'll be fine. As soon as the bad times start outweighing the good, end it. You're not obliged to stay with her or have a big 'breakup' if you're FWB. Godspeed.
Blake Peterson
If she partakes in the weed, that is a bit hard to stop completely, but you can stop that plus the games on your own time. She is not going to be the one, so stop seeing her as if she will come around to love you. But don't think the fact that you aren't perfect means you aren't worth improving. Take the criticism and see if there is any truth to it and see what it would be like if that changed in your life. Go for a walk instead of playing a game, clean your home instead of getting high etc.
Jayden Price
>larping
i literally had to look this up to figure out what it means.
Dunno why you'd think I'm lying. Im hung enough to brazenly send dick pics and get laid because of it, but even guys like me feel a twinge of insecurity when we see those 10", 12" monsters in porn.
honestly man, I'd rather just find someone who was into the lifestyle. I do exercise, lift weights and keep my house clean, I just also smoke weed and play video games.
Another thing that annoys me is how she treats me like im her lesser somehow. Despite the fact that she cant drive and im the one picking her up, hosting her in mt apartment, letting her smoke my weed and watch my tv. And she lives in an empty ass apartment and barely goes to the gym. What right does she have to look down? I do just laugh it off but occasionally her words bother me.
I guess this is sound advice. We're going through on of our "good patches". Still, it's just weird when someone constantly talks shit to you and then cums 5 times in a row riding your dick
>dating someone for 7 months and calling each other fuckbuddies >having sex with someone who hates you >being a fucking pussy >dating crazy bitch >cumming inside woman you won't even admit you're dating
I live the big dick life, too. Had my hssh string me along because she liked the sex for a few months at the end. Felt like shit and I left. Grow some balls.
Josiah Adams
>Still, it's just weird when someone constantly talks shit to you and then cums 5 times in a row riding your dick Not really. Why would someone hating your behaviour and mentality mean that they can't use you as a meat dildo?
>What right does she have to look down? She can look down on you for whatever reason she wants to, her standards are just that, her standards. You clearly care what she thinks, whether you're aware of it or not. You can talk to her about it (this is called communication) if it actually bothers you (it does, you made a thread and are pissing your time away in it, despite getting your question answered pretty early on) and try to find a resolution. If she isn't willing to work with you, kick her to the curb.
I was in a committed relationship for 4.5 years with a girl. The last year and a half, we had good and bad patches. She'd pick fights when I said absolutely innocent shit, and it'd either ruin the day, or we'd work past it. Something might come up later, or it might not. It was kinda nerve-wracking, and made me not want to spend time with her.
I know generally how you're feeling with the being bothered by this shit, and it's not worth it for your mental well-being to be around it even if your dick likes it.
Jace Carter
8x6 is literally the definition of huge, besides you have literally everything else to insecure about and to top it all off you're a super braindead normoid literally nothing else for you to live for than humblebragging anonymously. you ARE a fucking loser
Brandon Carter
You clearly love her and you should become a better person for her.
Aaron Miller
7x5.3 here
Can give cervical orgasms. Shit's cash. Can make women cum a dozen times during sex and have done so many, many more times that I can remember.
Feels gud.
Parker Cooper
the true GOAT of this thread
Caleb Lee
Just shit on her chest to show dominance
Juan Long
>cervical orgasms Ya played yaself
Parker Rogers
>Even considered cheating it's not really cheating in this situation, you're not exclusive emotionally only kinda physically. But I wouldn't fuck multiple people either way, that's how STDs spread.
She probably kinda likes you and is catching feelings and just does that to assure herself she doesn't.
Chase Morales
>but she makes fun of me a lot sounds like a slutty version of Nagatoro
Jackson Perry
I can relate to this feel so well. My only problem is it sucks when you've made the girl cum a ton of times in a row and she's literally physically shaking and panting from cumming so many times, and you still haven't bust your nut and you know you've got at least a mile of dick left in you to fuck with.
That or another problem is when you fuck a woman so hard she squirts multiple times all over your bedsheets and you literally have to do laundry before you go to bed because it's impossible to sleep in.
Or you end up in fucked up relationships like this where your dick is literally holding the whole thing together. It really is a gift and a curse.
enjoy it while you got it. just be thankful its just a fuck buddy not a wife.
Jaxon Sanchez
How big is your dick for research purposes
Evan Campbell
see tldr 8"x6"
Noah Rodriguez
Cool, also what is your age and height?
To answer your problem, you’re just dealing with an nympho. If you don’t like it just cut her off, but you’ll even up regretting it and calling her back because we are guys and we are retarded.
Luke Jackson
Same user id a lot like the age of the girl. This is all going a spreadsheet so honest and accurate answers will be appreciated
Dominic Bailey
yeah, i get the feeling I could dump her for a while but eventually we'd want to hook up and fuck again. human nature and all that. also I'm 27 and 5'9", hope it helps this mysterious research of yours.
Benjamin Smith
So basically I need your age and height, and the age of the girl.
David Edwards
she's 27 too. she's like 5'4"
Jayden Miller
The purpose of this is to find a cure for hypergamy. You’re a common outlier that I find interesting in these topics “the big dicked loser”. Not to insult you, but your kind are fun to observe and study. It also gives hope to successful guys with above average dicks.
Nolan Ward
Thank you for your cooperation. Your contribution has been logged. Hopefully with this research I’ll be one step closer to saving western society. I doubt it though.
Ethan Martin
Ohh one more, on a scale of 1 to 10 how attractive is she objectively. Be honest, if she’s a 4 nobody (I won’t) judge you, but don’t inflate her to like a 9 or 10 if she’s only a 7 do to your personal bias from fucking her.
No man, shes definitely in love with you. She's most likely had very bad relationship experiences in the past, where something really good turns to shit. She's just protecting herself, shielding her true feelings from you. She makes fun of you to tell herself youre a loser, and that shes on top of you. But really, the ball is in your court, sir! Play fair and be nice! Women in general are EXTREMELY manipulative by nature. If you had a the god given gift to make men turn into raging boner dogs with a bit of body movement and flirting, you'd know the game is yours too. Good luck! Dont fall in love with this one! Shes obviously drowning, and may proceed to drown you while you try to help!
Charles Lee
Yeah I’d just get the pussy and keep her at a distance. My ex was like this and she shit ended badly, like her cheating was the least of it bad.
Oliver Stewart
>she treats me like im her lesser somehow You sound like an aimless drug user. Why shouldn't she feel like you are beneath you? Because you pretend to have a big dick on Jow Forums? Nobody cares about that. Nothing about you seem redeemable. So go improve your life if you want someone better than your current you. If you are fine in your own bubble, then find a girl who is the same kind of loser like you.
Brandon Carter
She's a 7. Like most girls she thinks of herself as very sexy but she's gotten a bit chubbier since we started smashing constantly. She got lazy going to the gym after she started getting regular dick and likes to engage in eating sweets blaming it on me for giving her weed.
Honestly I don't know if any of this helps your "cause" but also we're both Guyanese of South Asian background. She told me she pretty much exclusively fucked white dudes before she met me, and I'm like the only brown guy she's fucked because I was confident and hung. Personally I've fucked girls of every race, but I like how much she loves to get fucked constantly, also it's really convenient that she lives down the road from me.
I mean I'm slightly curious as to what exactly a "big dicked loser" is. Despite all that she's said to me I don't view myself as a loser, I work and live on my own and hold my own shit together. I just happen to really enjoy marijuana and video games.
Honestly I find there's just a group of women who straight up react positively to you randomly sending pictures of your dick if you're hung. Plenty of women freak out and block me or something. But when women react with anything other than outright negativity/blocking, they basically want to fuck you. I think it's just one of those cases of life not being fair: some guys have really big dicks and also I apparently just instinctively know how to fuck really well and make women have multiple orgasms. Sometimes whenever I feel down, I just send strangers I'm not even really interested in pictures of my dick on dating apps or whatever. When women start sending heart emojis and tell me they're masturbating while watching and stuff like that to a whatsapp video of me jerking off in the bathroom or something, it could probably boost my self esteem out of anything. Even if I just got fired from my job the same day. It's like I know no matter how much I fuck up in life, at least I have a big dick.
Elijah Hall
Well I got some bad news for you pal, 8x6 ain’t even big. She’s been leading you on.
I like your story and you sound like a cool guy. Be careful with this girl though man, she will ruin you.
Dominic Robinson
She’s more than likely trying to keep your self esteem low so that your confidence will drop and you won’t go off and give that meat stick to any other bitches. She’s manipluating you, I’ve seen this happen before. She nuts and will ruin your life.
it's definitely big compared to the average man. but i've even stated in this thread I don't feel like I'm huge because I know 10"+ guys exist. she's stated to me many times it's the way I fuck her really hard and deep that she also enjoys a lot.
Kayden Moore
>That picture
For fuck sake man, why did I have to get genetically cucked?
This, even if it’s based on what women have actually said, you think they have any idea how big a dude’s cock actually is? They either go by what the man says (he probably lied), got drunk and fucked some dude and it felt good so they just say he had a big dick (innacurate), or they guessed (women have bad spatial intelligence).
Ryan Diaz
>Cope
Andrew Bell
cringe
John Robinson
Women only love the sexual side of men
Zachary White
OP, where did you find your fuck buddy?
Hudson Gomez
Yeah this sounds like she hates herself and gets the boost from putting you down
Grayson Stewart
The only based Jew in the history of the world, and he even converted to Christianity
Cameron Mitchell
>Should I end it did you have sex (i.e. meetups not sessions) more than ten times? if so, yes. you're not going to remember more than ten sexes so it doesn't matter wrt the future. fun fact: marijuana correlates with weight loss. yes, loss. you read that correctly. i'm not kidding: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4204468/ so she's just getting fat because she's lazy. you're not helping you or her by continuing.
Henry Price
Sounds like she just has a humiliation fetish to me. Being that up. It’s possible she just likes feeling superior and doesn’t actually mean what she says. Try doing it back to her while you guys have sex and see if she gets wetter.
Brody Jenkins
you saying your dick is "big but not huge" if you really have an 8 inch dick is the cruelest most asshole statement you could ever make. I seriously want to fucking kill you.
Carter Mitchell
dude if your dick is like 4 inches im sorry bro, but even i know there are dudes with bigger dicks than me.
POF
size does matter but even i think that chart is probably skewed somehow.
we've honestly had sex like 200 times now.
we fucked 6 times just this weekend. also i tried explaining that weed thing to her but she just gets high and eats like a fucking tub of ice cream after a long fuck session
Bentley Turner
my dick is 6 inches. You have a huge dick. FUCK OFF
Easton Stewart
ok man whatever, im hung like a horse.
Joshua Torres
You again? Stop being a bitch and break it up with her you pathetic piece of shit. It has been months and you don't want to fix it.
Christian Sanchez
>Another thing that annoys me is how she treats me like im her lesser somehow You are lesser. It's evident to anyone here.
That pic is fake garbage from an unscientific site from 2004. And that's not even the original fake pic. Here's the ""real"" version, which is still just a troll pic. Kys you faggot.
