Is having sex worth getting out of your comfort zone for?

Is having sex worth getting out of your comfort zone for?

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Not really, but your mileage may vary and you're about to hear a lot of people who know very little about sex saying a lot about sex.

A lot of sex is personalized so if it's already a big anxiety for you, it may be that it's just not something for you. Would suggest masturbation.

I will have you know I have fucked hunderds of men, women and animals, and let me tell you this, sex is like eating pasta, not good on its own but will fill you up, add ketchup if nothing els is available, cheap and almost nutritious, also elbows are superior when it comes to sauce absorption rate

Its not so much about the pleasure but the being accepted, but the steps required to get to the point of having sex plus the absolute anxiety of doing it would really mess with me I think.

What do you mean? Out of comfort zone may mean having to shower and shave, or being with someone that irritates you.
How bad are we talking?

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You should never get in a comfort zone.

Also, you're a pussy.

Not really, no

Try having sex with a prostitute, see how much you like it and what are you willing to give up to get it.

For me it’s worth it. When I’m not in a relationship I get very antsy and will go out of my confort zone to have sex at least once a month.
But it’s all personal, if you feel like it’s not worth it, it probably isn’t.

>Going on a date with a girl (would be first time on a date)
>Moving things forward
>Escalate physically
>Start paying attention to someone who isn't myself, remember birthdays and gift shit
Basically the whole relationship shebang

Is the happiness of the sex worth the crushing anxiety this would imply?

And you're a retard.

Ok, thanks.
This is really not too much to accomplish. You will no doubt learn from mistakes, but the rewards will be worth it, not just the sex.
Most of the worlds population has gone thru this, and most of them made it without running back to their safe space.
The rewards go beyond getting your orgasm, but the girl showing how you made them happy(Wink wink ). Companionship, sharing life’s challenges, and ultimately, having a wingman in your elderly years - these all start with that first dinner and movie.

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I understand but at the same time I'm the kind of person who will obsess over every time he did something wrong and it came out poorly, especially if it implies other people. But I am older now and I'm good at not putting myself in situations that will embarrass me.

But I see no way I can get out of this unscathed. I'm going to have a massive faux pax somewhere and even though I really like this girl and would like to go forward this fear just paralyzes me.

It's really hard to say. It may or may not be because It's a multivariate problem. For me personally, if rather just look at porn. I know porn is bad for you etc. But having sex for me personally produces a lot of anxiety to the point where I'm not really enjoying it. For you it may be different, but I guess I'm trying to say I think sex is overrated.

No, love is

The sex is nice, but the real payoff is getting to know women intimately and sharing memorable life experiences with them.

No, but love is. Sex is also better with love.

Hurr durr but "muh alpha"

Sorry wrong thread. Lol good advice. :)

Well, that sounds like something you have to work on, man. You think things will improve by staying the way you are? Trust me user, although it feels uncomfortable, coming out of your comfort zone is fucking great for you and will widen your horizons in life. Being afraid of something is the worst reason to not do it.

I mean my life is not in a bad spot and knowing I was attractive enough for this girl went a long way to help with self esteem problems. It's just that I'm totally green in intimacy stuff, but then again I've gone my entire life without needing intimacy with anyone.

No, sex is overrated anyway.
I mean, it is fine, but some people claim it is the best thing ever.
There are plenty of better reasons to get out more.

Do it when you ACTUALLY want to. Dont force yourself into it. Dont buy into peer pressure, you will only damage yourself and your psych. If you had a daughter, what advice would you give her, given the same circumstances? easy right? Love yourself the same way you would your imaginary daughter!